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Aaaaaaaargh. Is it just me?
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I know it is not Thursday but I don't care pmsl.
I know we all get one line messages. I block and delete. What really gets to me is the one line messages with things like
Fancy a fuck?
Want to meet now?
u up for meet now?
Why do these messages get to me? I have NO pics on fab never go on cam. So what these men who send the one line fancy a fuck messages are saying to me is I don't care what you look like. I know you have tits, a fanny and hopefully a pulse so you will do for me. I find it so insulting. For all they know I may be 60 stone, have bad breath and never wash. Also as I never chatted to these men they don't care about my personality either.
Rant over
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every one of us gets those type of messages. Single guys will get them off other guys. It doessinly seem to be men sending these messages, I've never received one from a woman.
It is up to them what messages they send, they obviously like that type of approach whatever the results are. I don't worry about it, I simply do not
answer them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not worth getting stressed over, the chaps are brain dead morons for sure.
I had a friend in the 80's who would go to clubs and stand somewhere near the ladies loos and as a girl walked passed would say "nice dress, wanna dance". He would always end up with a fuck that night from one of the girls that said "really".
I suspect the "wanna fuck" short message works otherwise they would not bother. Personally I think sex is amazing when its in the head rather than the shorts .. But then in those clubs I rarely pulled, tending to chat to the 'nice girls ' ...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP its not just you... basically thats exactly what they are thinking... I consider these TLTW... too lazy to wank.. they just want a hole to fill. Some women get off on that and each to their own... however im with you I want someone to at least appreciate im a 'real girl' behind my lady bits!
Just keep blocking blockity block!!!
Kitty
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Isn't there a thing called filters ? Maybe some people just like being angry. "
Im not sure FAB is clever enough yet to work out a filter for "three word derogatory messaging"  |
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By *earaWoman
over a year ago
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I agree, keep it short simple and interesting. I always reply to a mail that's had a little thought put into it.
I don't block the "wanna fuck tonight" brigade, it'd be a hell of a list...
Live and let live, it's all part of the same game.
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Its an approach that probably works sometimes and we've seen people at a party and a club (men and women) who literally do fuck anything that moved or stays still long enough for that matter.
I wonder if these guys have noticed the same and use the same approach on here. It is what some people want and enjoy and good luck to them I say. |
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I would never send one of those but when polite not tooshort not too long mesages are just ignored i can perhaps understand a bit. Perhaps its a bit like the guy in africa who wants to share his money with you. Send out enough emails and eventually somebody will bite. |
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"it wd be good if we could filter messages of less than say 200 characters "
We sometimes get messages that are one or two words long but aren't rude such as "simply stunning" from people.too far away to have any hope of meeting so no ulterior motive. We wouldn't want to block them and I bet the " wanna fuck" merchants would simply add 190 kisses lol |
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"I would never send one of those but when polite not tooshort not too long mesages are just ignored i can perhaps understand a bit. Perhaps its a bit like the guy in africa who wants to share his money with you. Send out enough emails and eventually somebody will bite. "
Aww bless that nice African man  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Isn't there a thing called filters ? Maybe some people just like being angry.
Im not sure FAB is clever enough yet to work out a filter for "three word derogatory messaging" "
The poster claimed they received messages from singles males even though their profile said otherwise ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would never send one of those but when polite not tooshort not too long mesages are just ignored i can perhaps understand a bit. Perhaps its a bit like the guy in africa who wants to share his money with you. Send out enough emails and eventually somebody will bite.
Aww bless that nice African man "
Is he the same one who tries to purchase mobile phones on EBay ?? |
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"Every one of us gets those type of messages. Single guys will get them off other guys. It doessinly seem to be men sending these messages, I've never received one from a woman.
It is up to them what messages they send, they obviously like that type of approach whatever the results are. I don't worry about it, I simply do not
answer them.
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"I would never send one of those but when polite not tooshort not too long mesages are just ignored i can perhaps understand a bit. Perhaps its a bit like the guy in africa who wants to share his money with you. Send out enough emails and eventually somebody will bite.
Aww bless that nice African man
Is he the same one who tries to purchase mobile phones on EBay ?? "
Hang on... He is speaking to other people too!!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont use the filters because it's still worth a laugh. You're not breaking laws by taking the piss out of people.
I still get fellas sayin 'what u lookin 4 lad?' lol...
'TAKE A WILD GUESS OR READ THE PROFILE, SHERLOCK!' |
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"Every one of us gets those type of messages. Single guys will get them off other guys. It doessinly seem to be men sending these messages, I've never received one from a woman.
It is up to them what messages they send, they obviously like that type of approach whatever the results are. I don't worry about it, I simply do not
answer them.
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Just looked at ur pics and fabed some xx |
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"Isn't there a thing called filters ? Maybe some people just like being angry. "
I don't want to have to use filters on single men. I meet single men. Just not idiots who send one ine messages.
I wish there was a filter to block one line messages. |
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" no excuses for one liners but then again who wants you life story either ? lol keep it simple light hearted and respectful ,,, or is that just me ?? "
You miss my point. It is not because it is a one line message per say. It is because they want to fuck me without knowing what I look like, what my personality is like etc. It says to me they don't care about me and they are only interested in getting a fuck. It is very disrespectful. |
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"I would never send one of those but when polite not tooshort not too long mesages are just ignored i can perhaps understand a bit. Perhaps its a bit like the guy in africa who wants to share his money with you. Send out enough emails and eventually somebody will bite. "
You can understand why somebody would send me a one line message asking to fuck me without seeing what I look like first? Or without knowing what I am like peronality wise? |
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"You have no pics and never cam..tho u list webcams in your interests....
You sure your on the right site ?
The clue is in the title."
I am interested in WATCHING web cams in the chat room not being on one. I am a voyeur not an exhibitionist. Yes I am on the right site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP its not just you... basically thats exactly what they are thinking... I consider these TLTW... too lazy to wank.. they just want a hole to fill. Some women get off on that and each to their own... however im with you I want someone to at least appreciate im a 'real girl' behind my lady bits!
Just keep blocking blockity block!!!
Kitty
Xxxx"
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