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would any single female or couple be interested in meeting first timers
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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we have been on and off this site for the past 9 months and have only done webcam fun however now looking for more than over the screen would any female or couple be interested in us. we are really nervous and would like people who understand what it was like there first time thanks all who post.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We played on cam for 6 months before we decided to take the plunge, can't imagine anyone as nervous as shar was on our first meet, had to stop her running out the back door when he knockedon our door, but it was well worth it and haven't looked back since  |
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Why wouldn't they be?!?
Take your time, do only what you are comfortable with and go for it.
We'd suggest going to a club that has a seperate social area. You get to meet people face to face, with no pressure to play. Be brave and you'll wider what you were worried about . |
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"Why wouldn't they be?!?
Take your time, do only what you are comfortable with and go for it.
We'd suggest going to a club that has a seperate social area. You get to meet people face to face, with no pressure to play. Be brave and you'll wider what you were worried about."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i guess what we worry about is that people may see our pics and think wow but then meet face to face and regret they wanted to meet if that makes sense |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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and the fact that me and my Mrs know how to please each other but when it comes to others well that's slightly different know this sounds bad as we on a sex site but least we being honest |
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Go to a club then and there will be loads of people. Don't have to worry about a pre-arranged meet.
If you do get let down then you'll be better off not playing with someone like that anyway. Just make sure you have alternative entertainment lined up so the nights not wasted.
Don't take it seriously its just fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always think clubs are much like this site, you can sit and watch in the corner, have a bit of conversation and drinks as well as meeting new people. You can always leave if you want as well,
But once you relax and see one or two things that take your fancy then it's only little steps 
Plus once you get to know people face to face then it's so much easier! |
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Or arrange to meet for coffee first. That's what I always do - the big brand coffee shops are best cos the staff don't care who the customers are!
Then if anyone has been fibbing about themselves or even if they're as advertised and perfectly pleasant but you simply don't fancy them you can say a polite no thanks. That way noone has paid for a hotel or needs to worry about strangers from the internet knowing their address.
But if it all goes well you can gulp your coffee down and find somewhere private...  |
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