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genuine or timewasters?
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Totally agree they might not be showing their verifications, but on a site like this I why wouldn't they. Unless there bad.
Would you even entertain a guy who'd been on that long with no verification? |
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over a year ago
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We do use verifications. but in a club we chat and play without really knowing much about the other persons previous playmates. I certainly dont print our veris off to take to a club to prove we play. So I can understand why some people dont see them as important. |
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"I don't get why some people have been on here over 6 months, constantly have the meet sign on, statuses like I want a meet now and come fuck me, but have no verifications.
Genuine or timewasters?"
unless you're thinking of meeting them, why would it matter? |
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over a year ago
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"Perhaps they choose to not show their verifications. "
I don't show my verifications by request from the couples I have met ....as single guys swamp and pester them hence.
I also have friends away from this site so although verifications might not be as many on here as people like I have many contact and don't need their verifications.
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"Totally agree they might not be showing their verifications, but on a site like this I why wouldn't they. Unless there bad.
Would you even entertain a guy who'd been on that long with no verification?"
Hmmm... think you're missing something along the way here... There are two versions of what you have 'highlighted' - those who have veris and choose not to display them, which is THEIR right (not everyone is obsessed with telling everyone else what went on at their last 327 meets....) and there are those who have none.
If someone doesn't have any, they won't have the green tick and it won't say 'verified genuine user' at the bottom of their profile. If they DO have veris but don't choose to display them, then they WILL have a green tick and it will say that at the bottom of their profile.
In either event, why does the lack of visible veris after any time period make them 'bad'..???? 
As for what period you'd allow before you start to question someones 'validity' on here (which is what I think you're getting at) there are so many factors which come into play, you could write a small book on that alone! Where someone lives can have an influence on how quickly they get their first veri by meeting, their age, the kind of person they are looking to meet, and so on, and so on.
You have to learn to judge each one on it's own merits... sweeping generalisations 'could' deprive you of some very pleasurable experiences.....
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"I don't show my verifications by request from the couples I have met ....as single guys swamp and pester them hence."
You could, of course, display the new verification summary which would show that you have and do meet couples, but you wouldn't need to display the actual veris, thus maintaining their anonymity... to which, they are quite entitled if that's what they want.
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From experience most un veri'd old accounts are people who get off on the thrill of messaging strangers and sexting etc but they arent ever going to meet.
And after some bad experiences last time i was on here i no longer show my veri's, but some guys dont like that i wont show them, not sure why. |
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"I don't get why some people have been on here over 6 months, constantly have the meet sign on, statuses like I want a meet now and come fuck me, but have no verifications.
Genuine or timewasters?"
I know the ones you mean. I see them on my update page all the time. Same few men putting up meets nearly every day with desperate 'come fuck me now' or worse 'I need a bj now' status.
It's not a case of not showing their veris, most of them don't have any. I've blocked a few as I got fed up of reading them. Some men seem to think this is instantshag.com 
The worst ones are those that then insult women on their statuses when they don't get a meet. I've read some pretty rude ones last couple of days which really does put me off! |
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We had our first meet last week with someone who isn't verified like us got home and went to verify him but couldn't as we're not verified so next time we will make sure we meet with someone who is already verified so this could be the problem for others too |
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The site is used by all manner of people for all manner of reasons.
I think contrary to popular belief, women and couples aren't constantly meeting and many are happy to sit back, indulge in the forums and let what's going to happen, happen. This doesn't make them fakes or time wasters. You're only one of those if you physically waste time or lie about why you're here on your profile.
I don't show my veri, its personal and I don't care to advertise.
The vast majority of us will have no contact with eachother on here, so stop worrying about others, and concentrate on how you conduct yourself ?
I've had the deleted no reply messages, the no thank you ones etc etc etc and yes the unexpected ones from couples or ladies who you may call time wasters. If I don't like it I can leave, as I have before.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well its mostly timewasters on here so..
tbh i think lotsa guys cant be bothered to leave them which is a shame as i always like to receive them . guys dont like people to know theyve been with a tranny as they feel it'll effect their success with women |
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"They are genuine and far from being timewasters.....
They are simply too feckin ugly and they not having much luck  "
and then slag us all off for being too picky!! |
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Is there anyone on here who isn't genuine?
I mean I doubt very much if there's any imaginary friends setting up profiles?
If you think someone is just yanking your chain - then avoid, block and move on. There's more than enough people on here with well written profiles, plenty of clear pics and visible veri's to keep everybody happy!  |
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"We had our first meet last week with someone who isn't verified like us got home and went to verify him but couldn't as we're not verified so next time we will make sure we meet with someone who is already verified so this could be the problem for others too"
If you pop into the chatroom on cam as a couple I am sure someone will verify you, then you can verify your meet  |
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"They are genuine and far from being timewasters.....
They are simply too feckin ugly and they not having much luck "
Mmm checks mirror and takes the be honest approach |
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"They are genuine and far from being timewasters.....
They are simply too feckin ugly and they not having much luck
Mmm checks mirror and takes the be honest approach "
lol you're not included in that. I've seen your pic! |
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"Is there anyone on here who isn't genuine?
I mean I doubt very much if there's any imaginary friends setting up profiles?
If you think someone is just yanking your chain - then avoid, block and move on. There's more than enough people on here with well written profiles, plenty of clear pics and visible veri's to keep everybody happy! "
spot on |
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"We had our first meet last week with someone who isn't verified like us got home and went to verify him but couldn't as we're not verified so next time we will make sure we meet with someone who is already verified so this could be the problem for others too
If you pop into the chatroom on cam as a couple I am sure someone will verify you, then you can verify your meet "
thanks tat a good idea still new to this will for that |
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"I don't get why some people have been on here over 6 months, constantly have the meet sign on, statuses like I want a meet now and come fuck me, but have no verifications.
Genuine or timewasters?"
Some will be and some wont same with people who are verified. A verification doesn't mean someone isn't a timewaster at all. Talk to them on the phone if possible and make your own decision on that. |
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"Simple they are time wasters and blaggers. Had a guy suppose to turn up last night, he didn't even have the decency to inform us he couldn't make it.  "
Same here.  |
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