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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm going to a party at the weekend and I'm not entirely sure of the etiquette in these situations. Any single guys (or couples for that matter) who are party regulars have any advice for me..?? |
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I wouldn't call us regulars but the same rules apply as in private or club meets be honest, respectful and enjoy yourself. Tell your hosts that you're first timers and all will be well. Also if you find it's not for you don't be afraid to say so and discreetly and politely take your leave.
Hope you have a good time |
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Hi, as a club I have just read your verifications and so far you come out well lol. The people that have verified you have said what a nice guy you are. There are a few things not to do. Don't get d*unk, don't pester anyone and wait till you are asked to join in. Be yourself and be fun and treat the ladies as if it were your first date, but don't forget to chat to the guy too. You will need his approval. Make sure your clean and smart. I hope this helps you out a bit. x  |
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By *ungle-FeverCouple (FF)
over a year ago
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"Hi, as a club I have just read your verifications and so far you come out well lol. The people that have verified you have said what a nice guy you are. There are a few things not to do. Don't get d*unk, don't pester anyone and wait till you are asked to join in. Be yourself and be fun and treat the ladies as if it were your first date, but don't forget to chat to the guy too. You will need his approval. Make sure your clean and smart. I hope this helps you out a bit. x "
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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago
Rockford |
"Do not drink to much if there is booze there......dangerous mix, lol.
This. Seriously."
the party is in my town so I will be driving home so good excuse not to drink... I am very nervous though... im great one on one but this is out of my comfort zone and going on my own |
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"Do not drink to much if there is booze there......dangerous mix, lol.
This. Seriously.
the party is in my town so I will be driving home so good excuse not to drink... I am very nervous though... im great one on one but this is out of my comfort zone and going on my own"
You'll do great. I'm sure a few other people will probably be in the same boat. And there's usually that one person who will go out of their way to make conversation with other people  |
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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago
Rockford |
"Do not drink to much if there is booze there......dangerous mix, lol.
This. Seriously.
the party is in my town so I will be driving home so good excuse not to drink... I am very nervous though... im great one on one but this is out of my comfort zone and going on my own
You'll do great. I'm sure a few other people will probably be in the same boat. And there's usually that one person who will go out of their way to make conversation with other people "
the hosts have been very supportive... im gonna be brave and I can always leave if I feel like a third nipple right? |
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"Do not drink to much if there is booze there......dangerous mix, lol.
This. Seriously.
the party is in my town so I will be driving home so good excuse not to drink... I am very nervous though... im great one on one but this is out of my comfort zone and going on my own
You'll do great. I'm sure a few other people will probably be in the same boat. And there's usually that one person who will go out of their way to make conversation with other people
the hosts have been very supportive... im gonna be brave and I can always leave if I feel like a third nipple right? "
Exactly. You'll probably have a handsome gentleman introduce himself to you though  |
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"Do not drink to much if there is booze there......dangerous mix, lol.
This. Seriously.
the party is in my town so I will be driving home so good excuse not to drink... I am very nervous though... im great one on one but this is out of my comfort zone and going on my own
You'll do great. I'm sure a few other people will probably be in the same boat. And there's usually that one person who will go out of their way to make conversation with other people
the hosts have been very supportive... im gonna be brave and I can always leave if I feel like a third nipple right? "
You will be fine Seareena. It was only a year ago I was in your position as a single female with the same party hosts. Everyone is very friendly there and its very social so just like a vanilla party really (except with upstairs playroom!). We will be sure to say hi
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"Do not drink to much if there is booze there......dangerous mix, lol.
This. Seriously.
the party is in my town so I will be driving home so good excuse not to drink... I am very nervous though... im great one on one but this is out of my comfort zone and going on my own
You'll do great. I'm sure a few other people will probably be in the same boat. And there's usually that one person who will go out of their way to make conversation with other people
the hosts have been very supportive... im gonna be brave and I can always leave if I feel like a third nipple right? "
Blimey we're all in at the deep end this weekend, our 1st party/club night too.
Met the hosts who have been AMAZING. SUPER excited combined with super nervous.
Thanks for all the great advice as ever.
To anyone in the same boat then stick to you're clearly defined boundaries and we're going with the mindset that just because it's our first we can always discreetly voyeur although not really our style  
Above all have a great time and LOTS of fun |
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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago
Rockford |
"Do not drink to much if there is booze there......dangerous mix, lol.
This. Seriously.
the party is in my town so I will be driving home so good excuse not to drink... I am very nervous though... im great one on one but this is out of my comfort zone and going on my own
You'll do great. I'm sure a few other people will probably be in the same boat. And there's usually that one person who will go out of their way to make conversation with other people
the hosts have been very supportive... im gonna be brave and I can always leave if I feel like a third nipple right?
You will be fine Seareena. It was only a year ago I was in your position as a single female with the same party hosts. Everyone is very friendly there and its very social so just like a vanilla party really (except with upstairs playroom!). We will be sure to say hi
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Yay! Look for me... super nice people going... I do feel better now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do not drink to much if there is booze there......dangerous mix, lol.
This. Seriously.
the party is in my town so I will be driving home so good excuse not to drink... I am very nervous though... im great one on one but this is out of my comfort zone and going on my own"
The first one I went to , I was bricking it. I already knew the hosts well, and I was introduced to the guests as they arrived. Luckily they were a very sociable lot and we all got chatting fine. As soon as a couple of people started playing every one else did, luckily an even match of m to f. Just glad I had my red bull first |
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over a year ago
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Mingle to tingle is my motto!!
Don't get too tipsy or as I do stick to soft drinks...
Be polite and engage in chat as you would do in a family & friends party...
Don't shirk away in the corner if your single especially...
Everyone appreciates some people maybe nervous... if you are, open up to people and you will win people over for your honesty and before you know it you will be chatting away...
Regards to play... It may come in discussion... if your not attracted to the person or persons then just say so... Most party regulars will have experienced knockbacks and will not take offence to being declined..
Or if play taking place in rooms... go and investigate and watch if the room door is left open... If the playful people want you to join in they will tell you... or give you encouraging signs to join them...
Hope the above advice is helpful...
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"Mingle to tingle is my motto!!
Don't get too tipsy or as I do stick to soft drinks...
Be polite and engage in chat as you would do in a family & friends party...
Don't shirk away in the corner if your single especially...
Everyone appreciates some people maybe nervous... if you are, open up to people and you will win people over for your honesty and before you know it you will be chatting away...
Regards to play... It may come in discussion... if your not attracted to the person or persons then just say so... Most party regulars will have experienced knockbacks and will not take offence to being declined..
Or if play taking place in rooms... go and investigate and watch if the room door is left open... If the playful people want you to join in they will tell you... or give you encouraging signs to join them...
Hope the above advice is helpful...
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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago
Rockford |
"Mingle to tingle is my motto!!
Don't get too tipsy or as I do stick to soft drinks...
Be polite and engage in chat as you would do in a family & friends party...
Don't shirk away in the corner if your single especially...
Everyone appreciates some people maybe nervous... if you are, open up to people and you will win people over for your honesty and before you know it you will be chatting away...
Regards to play... It may come in discussion... if your not attracted to the person or persons then just say so... Most party regulars will have experienced knockbacks and will not take offence to being declined..
Or if play taking place in rooms... go and investigate and watch if the room door is left open... If the playful people want you to join in they will tell you... or give you encouraging signs to join them...
Hope the above advice is helpful...
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brilliant. .. thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mingle and don't be shy.donr feel you have to play with everyone .if someone doesn't do it for you its best to be honest .however you may find some people are more attractive in the leash particularly if they are engaging and ave a good personality and ome times its hard to portray sexiness in a pic but those tat don't can often ooze it in the flesh .ohhhhh take lots of condoms and lube incase none are provided or run out and a drink or two for you both.poppyxxenjoyxx  |
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