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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i have been looking for single men only on here and seem to have very little luck.
has any of u straight ladies tried a ffm? im totally straight and wondered if this would be a good option for me or would it be out of the question because of my sexuality.
if i make the leap and decide to.go for it.of course I will change my profile text. |
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I cannot understand how you could not find single guys on here, they are everywhere in every shape size and type you could imagine.
Straight FFM's work just fine you just need to set the ground rules before hand (ie no FF play) and away you go.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You've only been on here 6 weeks, give it time.....oh hang on....sorry your a single fem, I read it and assumed it was a fella, my bad!!! 
Seriously though, straight women can have fmf fun, although most of us blokes want ffm because we'd love to see 2 girls getting it on right there in front of us and join in.
Good luck in finding what you're looking for, even if the men of Boston are quite obviously mental |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I cannot understand how you could not find single guys on here, they are everywhere in every shape size and type you could imagine.
Straight FFM's work just fine you just need to set the ground rules before hand (ie no FF play) and away you go.
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they dont read my profile |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've been a part of a ffm and I'm totally straight. Worked fine, like others have said, just sort out the boundaries before hand. Good luck!! "
thank you. I do not oooze connfidence like some probably do on here. so will try |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You've only been on here 6 weeks, give it time.....oh hang on....sorry your a single fem, I read it and assumed it was a fella, my bad!!!
Seriously though, straight women can have fmf fun, although most of us blokes want ffm because we'd love to see 2 girls getting it on right there in front of us and join in.
Good luck in finding what you're looking for, even if the men of Boston are quite obviously mental "
well thank you. and to be fair I had a profile before and have been on here nearly 2 years. left before because of timewasters but I could not resist and came back  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You've only been on here 6 weeks, give it time.....oh hang on....sorry your a single fem, I read it and assumed it was a fella, my bad!!!
Seriously though, straight women can have fmf fun, although most of us blokes want ffm because we'd love to see 2 girls getting it on right there in front of us and join in.
Good luck in finding what you're looking for, even if the men of Boston are quite obviously mental
well thank you. and to be fair I had a profile before and have been on here nearly 2 years. left before because of timewasters but I could not resist and came back "
Yea fab gets you like that, once you're in, you're a lifer lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You've only been on here 6 weeks, give it time.....oh hang on....sorry your a single fem, I read it and assumed it was a fella, my bad!!!
Seriously though, straight women can have fmf fun, although most of us blokes want ffm because we'd love to see 2 girls getting it on right there in front of us and join in.
Good luck in finding what you're looking for, even if the men of Boston are quite obviously mental
well thank you. and to be fair I had a profile before and have been on here nearly 2 years. left before because of timewasters but I could not resist and came back
Yea fab gets you like that, once you're in, you're a lifer lol"
yeah your right there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have been looking for single men only on here and seem to have very little luck.
has any of u straight ladies tried a ffm? im totally straight and wondered if this would be a good option for me or would it be out of the question because of my sexuality.
if i make the leap and decide to.go for it.of course I will change my profile text."
I've recently started to delve into my hete exible side... And before that played happily straight with couples etc...
Cali |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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I've had ffm and not played with the other female and I've had ffm where I've had a lot of fem fun.
It's fun and if you're a little bit curious just chat to the other female. We all started out curious and now I'm happily bi. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've had ffm and not played with the other female and I've had ffm where I've had a lot of fem fun.
It's fun and if you're a little bit curious just chat to the other female. We all started out curious and now I'm happily bi."
would try kissing a lady but that is as far as it would go for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fmf or ffm we have done both and they were just as good as each other. It just means the man gets all of both ladies attention the whole time which you would of thought men would prefer x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have you been to a club?
In a club environment you can chat to couples, see what their expectations would be if they wanted to play, that type of thing. If nothing else you have a great social evening finding out why couples do what they do on this scene.
I've played with couples and I'm not bi. I'd say I was bi friendly though in that I don't mind going with the flow until my boundaries are reached.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We'd meet a lady who only wanted straight sex, I'd be fine just seeing Snappo enjoy himself. I can't understand how you can't meet single guys though, it's not like there is a shortage here."
guys who message really dont read my profile. there either miles away.cannot accommodate. or not free when I am. the list goes on. lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a bi lady, and whilst I appreciate your predicament, I have to be honest and say I'm not sure why you'd want to meet with a lady and a man if you're not planning on doing anything with the lady...what would be the point? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm a bi lady, and whilst I appreciate your predicament, I have to be honest and say I'm not sure why you'd want to meet with a lady and a man if you're not planning on doing anything with the lady...what would be the point?"
guys meet with mf couples and are straight and dont touch the other guy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You could try adding a few pics to your profile and just making it a little more positive. Also as another poster mentions, the bit about the corset isn't needed, however if that is something you would like eBay is great for really cheap ones. Clubs are also great but can be a little intimidating at 1st. If you're no sure about couples I would think really carefully about it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Have you been to a club?
In a club environment you can chat to couples, see what their expectations would be if they wanted to play, that type of thing. If nothing else you have a great social evening finding out why couples do what they do on this scene.
I've played with couples and I'm not bi. I'd say I was bi friendly though in that I don't mind going with the flow until my boundaries are reached.
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I have been to parties not been to clubs as yet. I have spoke with couples but never got asked what my preferences were |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You could try adding a few pics to your profile and just making it a little more positive. Also as another poster mentions, the bit about the corset isn't needed, however if that is something you would like eBay is great for really cheap ones. Clubs are also great but can be a little intimidating at 1st. If you're no sure about couples I would think really carefully about it."
i do have 7 or 8 pictures on my profile i also have a few private pictures and the bit about corsets has been removed |
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"I'm a bi lady, and whilst I appreciate your predicament, I have to be honest and say I'm not sure why you'd want to meet with a lady and a man if you're not planning on doing anything with the lady...what would be the point?
guys meet with mf couples and are straight and dont touch the other guy. "
Just out of curiosity what would be the attraction for you in being with a couple rather than a single man? Usually it's because the lady wants a bit of both but for you it would be different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a bi lady, and whilst I appreciate your predicament, I have to be honest and say I'm not sure why you'd want to meet with a lady and a man if you're not planning on doing anything with the lady...what would be the point?
guys meet with mf couples and are straight and dont touch the other guy. "
Yes you're right. I would imagine that most couples who invite another lady to join them would be hoping for g/g action. It's not as straight forward as you think. You also need to be mindful of who the driving force is. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Its a shame that the OP struggles to find single men as I don't believe finding a couple would be any easier. Not only will there be the same problems as with single men (distance, availability etc), but there is the additional problem of finding a couple where both parties fancy you. I tried to meet couples when I joined this site but they were just so unreliable, or it was so obviously just the guy chatting to me, I gave up.
However, if the OP wishes to try a FFM while being straight, I highly recommend making sure the boundaries are discussed in advance to prevent miscommunication and distress. Most couples meeting single women are meeting them for the female half to try a bi experience, and might not be happy if the male half is the only one getting the fun bit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a bi lady, and whilst I appreciate your predicament, I have to be honest and say I'm not sure why you'd want to meet with a lady and a man if you're not planning on doing anything with the lady...what would be the point?
guys meet with mf couples and are straight and dont touch the other guy.
Just out of curiosity what would be the attraction for you in being with a couple rather than a single man? Usually it's because the lady wants a bit of both but for you it would be different."
Good question, I'm also curious. |
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I couldn't say I am straight because I do like the girls but I'm definitely more biased towards men, probably 80/20 or something like that, so I'd have no problem with a woman that wanted to join myself and my boyfriend but didn't want to get sexy with me, and I expect there are lots of women that feel the same way. Why don't you try chatting with a couple that take you fancy and meeting them socially first, just to take it slowly. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I couldn't say I am straight because I do like the girls but I'm definitely more biased towards men, probably 80/20 or something like that, so I'd have no problem with a woman that wanted to join myself and my boyfriend but didn't want to get sexy with me, and I expect there are lots of women that feel the same way. Why don't you try chatting with a couple that take you fancy and meeting them socially first, just to take it slowly."
i may do that, thank you |
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"We'd meet a lady who only wanted straight sex, I'd be fine just seeing Snappo enjoy himself. I can't understand how you can't meet single guys though, it's not like there is a shortage here.
guys who message really dont read my profile. there either miles away.cannot accommodate. or not free when I am. the list goes on. lol"
I may be wrong... but it sounds from your posts that you are waiting for single men to contact you, then the ones who do are not what you're looking for.
Why not just search yourself and contact those that are what you're looking for?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We'd meet a lady who only wanted straight sex, I'd be fine just seeing Snappo enjoy himself. I can't understand how you can't meet single guys though, it's not like there is a shortage here.
guys who message really dont read my profile. there either miles away.cannot accommodate. or not free when I am. the list goes on. lol
I may be wrong... but it sounds from your posts that you are waiting for single men to contact you, then the ones who do are not what you're looking for.
Why not just search yourself and contact those that are what you're looking for??"
I do that too. but everyone has there own types of lady and I can not be everyones cup of tea and vice versa. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Think about the wording on your profile.
"I don't have sex with anyone" may not be the most attractive phrase on a swingers profile "
thank you have added the word just in that sentance. never noticed that thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think about the wording on your profile.
"I don't have sex with anyone" may not be the most attractive phrase on a swingers profile
thank you have added the word just in that sentance. never noticed that thank you"
Lol good catch
I think you might find a lot of couples that have straight wives. I know i would be happy to have fmf with my hubby or just sit back and watch the fun. As long as the other woman respects our relationship and doesn't act funny around me. it irritates me when a women can be chatty cathy with my husband but then acts awkward with me. |
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"Think about the wording on your profile.
"I don't have sex with anyone" may not be the most attractive phrase on a swingers profile
thank you have added the word just in that sentance. never noticed that thank you"
One word makes all the difference |
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I might be missing the obvious here...but why would you want a FFM? I assume that you will only be playing with your male partner and not the F....Is that FFM for your male partner's enjoyment rather than for your own pleasure?
Please dont bite my head off...I am just asking a question! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I might be missing the obvious here...but why would you want a FFM? I assume that you will only be playing with your male partner and not the F....Is that FFM for your male partner's enjoyment rather than for your own pleasure?
Please dont bite my head off...I am just asking a question!"
im considering meeting a mf couple. not sure if i will as yet as im still considering |
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