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They may well of been on here for years!
Lots of club meets and social meets mean veri's from people you haven't necessarily played with.
I went to a house party last year and had everyone I met verified me I would of had 14 veri's from that one night but only one would of been a play veri! Soon adds up! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You gotta laugh. This is a swinger site that is all about meeting people and now someones complaining. What next complaints about people eating in restaurants lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest if you went to clubs on a regular basis you could have that many in a very short time and it's a swinging site so no I don't think that's nasty at all. |
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"I've just noticed a couple with 150 verifications from 130 different people, just me that thinks that's a bit nasty? "
Don't be so judgmental as long as they play safe best luck to them
So if you were on here 3years and went to clubs once a month think about the People you would meet
This is a swingers site and variety is the spice of life |
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"Did you check to see how many we're just social meets or at clubs ?
Most of them were play meets, hey ho, each to their own"
The Irony. Sure there are loads of people with that many that may choose to show 4 or 5 maybe
If they were stunners who invited you round for some fun then with your rationale you'd be engaging in sexual acts with nasty people! Plus you'd be none the wiser! Go figure
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"I've just noticed a couple with 150 verifications from 130 different people, just me that thinks that's a bit nasty? "
So WHY are you on this site? Its for swingers. Thats what they do, why is it too much?.
If your really looking for "the girlfriend experience" then try Fling or Christian dates. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't be so judgmental as long as they play safe best luck to them
So if you were on here 3years and went to clubs once a month think about the People you would meet
This is a swingers site and variety is the spice of life "
Not judging them, just the most veris I've seen and it surprised me so was curious as to what others thoughts were.
If they're playing safe and enjoying themselves then fair play to them!
I've not been to a club yet so guess quite a few could be racked up quickly like that x |
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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago
Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;) |
"PS OP I have more veris than that. Is that OK or should I start self scourging to make up for the horror I cause?"
Hahaha, you must flog your self for being a bad bad lady.. Need a hand  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"PS OP I have more veris than that. Is that OK or should I start self scourging to make up for the horror I cause?
Hahaha, you must flog your self for being a bad bad lady.. Need a hand "
I'm far too naughty for this site.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't be so judgmental as long as they play safe best luck to them
So if you were on here 3years and went to clubs once a month think about the People you would meet
This is a swingers site and variety is the spice of life
Not judging them, just the most veris I've seen and it surprised me so was curious as to what others thoughts were.
If they're playing safe and enjoying themselves then fair play to them!
I've not been to a club yet so guess quite a few could be racked up quickly like that x"
To quote you "I just think that's a bit nasty" ... Not judging them? |
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"PS OP I have more veris than that. Is that OK or should I start self scourging to make up for the horror I cause?
Hahaha, you must flog your self for being a bad bad lady.. Need a hand
I'm far too naughty for this site. "
how about I flog you and you flog me.. ? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"PS OP I have more veris than that. Is that OK or should I start self scourging to make up for the horror I cause?
Hahaha, you must flog your self for being a bad bad lady.. Need a hand
I'm far too naughty for this site.
how about I flog you and you flog me.. ? "
What, sex AND flogging on Fabswingers? The OPs head might explode from indignation! |
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This is yet another example of the rampant hypocrisy on here.
Yes you can have and enjoy sex with strangers, but not too much of it lest ye be judged.
Where is the limit is 90 ok but 95+ not ? or is it lower, 10 is ok but 15+ not ? do we need to set up a committee ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What, sex AND flogging on Fabswingers? The OPs head might explode from indignation!"
oh sorry what was I thinking.. we should both go worship on our knees and beg for for for... Oh nope.. I will just suck some more cock...
Btw no one even leaves me verifications anymore lol |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"I've just noticed a couple with 150 verifications from 130 different people, just me that thinks that's a bit nasty? "
To the OP, yes, I completely agree with you - that is down right nasty and uncalled for. I suggest when you get to 149 veris from about 129 people or there abouts you stop meeting people, delete your profile and retire from swinging immediately.
That way you can at least have the moral high ground on not being as nasty as that couple  |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
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What, sex AND flogging on Fabswingers? The OPs head might explode from indignation!
oh sorry what was I thinking.. we should both go worship on our knees and beg for for for... Oh nope.. I will just suck some more cock...
Btw no one even leaves me verifications anymore lol "
What next? Girls on swing sites thinking guys that own porn are perverts? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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What, sex AND flogging on Fabswingers? The OPs head might explode from indignation!
oh sorry what was I thinking.. we should both go worship on our knees and beg for for for... Oh nope.. I will just suck some more cock...
Btw no one even leaves me verifications anymore lol "
Are you sure you just haven't hit the upper limit? |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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What next? Girls on swing sites thinking guys that own porn are perverts?
you mean there are perverts on here too? X  "
Apparently... Got told off for by a girl when I suggested sex - something to the effects "What do you think I am? I am proper and nothing like that" ... in a swing club on a play party night. Made me look a right knob! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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What next? Girls on swing sites thinking guys that own porn are perverts?
you mean there are perverts on here too? X
Apparently... Got told off for by a girl when I suggested sex - something to the effects "What do you think I am? I am proper and nothing like that" ... in a swing club on a play party night. Made me look a right knob!"
You're asking the wrong women sweety. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Are you sure you just haven't hit the upper limit?
nope.. I came across someone that made mine look frugal lol.. "
I'm always so jealous of that. I wish I could meet as much as I want, and get to the clubs I want to get to. One day, one day.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't be so judgmental as long as they play safe best luck to them
So if you were on here 3years and went to clubs once a month think about the People you would meet
This is a swingers site and variety is the spice of life
Not judging them, just the most veris I've seen and it surprised me so was curious as to what others thoughts were.
If they're playing safe and enjoying themselves then fair play to them!
I've not been to a club yet so guess quite a few could be racked up quickly like that x"
I'm afraid you ARE judging them or you wouldn't be on here asking the question. And what does it matter if they are 'playing safe' either? If they wish to play 'unsafe' (if that's how you wish to view it) then they are adults and are able to make decisions for themselves - and so are YOU.
And it is YOU that this thread is really about, isn't it....
This is why I am becoming more and more anti the veri system. People are judging others based on their veris and not for who they are - and that's wrong on so many levels in my view (not that that counts for anything of course...)
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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What next? Girls on swing sites thinking guys that own porn are perverts?
you mean there are perverts on here too? X
Apparently... Got told off for by a girl when I suggested sex - something to the effects "What do you think I am? I am proper and nothing like that" ... in a swing club on a play party night. Made me look a right knob!
You're asking the wrong women sweety. "
I must be - my railcard is gathering dust in London |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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What next? Girls on swing sites thinking guys that own porn are perverts?
you mean there are perverts on here too? X
Apparently... Got told off for by a girl when I suggested sex - something to the effects "What do you think I am? I am proper and nothing like that" ... in a swing club on a play party night. Made me look a right knob!
You're asking the wrong women sweety.
I must be - my railcard is gathering dust in London "
I'll be back down there one day. Then my veris will go up again and who knows what might happen! |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"I've just noticed a couple with 150 verifications from 130 different people, just me that thinks that's a bit nasty? "
I know a lot of guys on here may say 9 verifications in 4 months is nasty..... after all it does take a lot of guys months to get their first meet...
what would you say???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are you sure you just haven't hit the upper limit?
nope.. I came across someone that made mine look frugal lol..
I'm always so jealous of that. I wish I could meet as much as I want, and get to the clubs I want to get to. One day, one day...."
I counted my meets once and I would never get a meet if all had verified me.
I on average get one verification for every 10 meets lol |
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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago
Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;) |
"PS OP I have more veris than that. Is that OK or should I start self scourging to make up for the horror I cause?
Hahaha, you must flog your self for being a bad bad lady.. Need a hand
I'm far too naughty for this site. "
All the more reason to repent at your leisure then haha |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Are you sure you just haven't hit the upper limit?
nope.. I came across someone that made mine look frugal lol..
I'm always so jealous of that. I wish I could meet as much as I want, and get to the clubs I want to get to. One day, one day....
I counted my meets once and I would never get a meet if all had verified me.
I on average get one verification for every 10 meets lol "
Indeed. I was sexually active for a fair few years before I joined this site.  |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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"I've just noticed a couple with 150 verifications from 130 different people, just me that thinks that's a bit nasty?
I know a lot of guys on here may say 9 verifications in 4 months is nasty..... after all it does take a lot of guys months to get their first meet...
what would you say???? "
I'll be surprised if you get an answer Fabio - did you see his "backtrack" from "I think its nasty" to "each to their own" later on.
Personally, yes, each to their own - which is why I feel trying to "out" this couple as being "nasty" (for clarity, whether they play safe or not is not the issue here) in itself is in bad taste.
It smacks of "Everyone, come see these filthy perverts who were minding their own business until I came along".. while trying to say "Each to their own". Two completely different schools of thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've just noticed a couple with 150 verifications from 130 different people, just me that thinks that's a bit nasty? "
Well if it was all the one night we would probably be put off |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I've just noticed a couple with 150 verifications from 130 different people, just me that thinks that's a bit nasty?
Well if it was all the one night we would probably be put off "
Chance would be a fine thing! |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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"I've just noticed a couple with 150 verifications from 130 different people, just me that thinks that's a bit nasty?
Well if it was all the one night we would probably be put off "
Depends when the night started.. say things started at 2pm, and lasted till midnight - that's roughly 5 mins per person Sounds like a gangbang to me. |
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"Depends when the night started.. say things started at 2pm, and lasted till midnight - that's roughly 5 mins per person Sounds like a gangbang to me."
Think they need to start at mid day, you forgot to factor in the tea breaks |
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By *ts artMan
over a year ago
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"Don't be so judgmental as long as they play safe best luck to them
So if you were on here 3years and went to clubs once a month think about the People you would meet
This is a swingers site and variety is the spice of life
Not judging them, just the most veris I've seen and it surprised me so was curious as to what others thoughts were.
If they're playing safe and enjoying themselves then fair play to them!
I've not been to a club yet so guess quite a few could be racked up quickly like that x"
in your op you said
''I've just noticed a couple with 150 verifications from 130 different people, just me that thinks that's a bit nasty?''
Is that not juding them |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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"Depends when the night started.. say things started at 2pm, and lasted till midnight - that's roughly 5 mins per person Sounds like a gangbang to me.
Think they need to start at mid day, you forgot to factor in the tea breaks "
They don't need tea breaks! Lazy sods.. even if they double up that's 10 mins per person.. while the other 118 are "on a break" in the queue.. or being fluffed.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've just noticed a couple with 150 verifications from 130 different people, just me that thinks that's a bit nasty?
I know a lot of guys on here may say 9 verifications in 4 months is nasty..... after all it does take a lot of guys months to get their first meet...
what would you say???? "
That's actually been mentioned a couple of times to me and I've had people turn me down because I've had a few meets. So I wondered if there was a general concensus on here about meeting too much or showing too many veris. |
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"I've just noticed a couple with 150 verifications from 130 different people, just me that thinks that's a bit nasty?
I know a lot of guys on here may say 9 verifications in 4 months is nasty..... after all it does take a lot of guys months to get their first meet...
what would you say????
I'll be surprised if you get an answer Fabio - did you see his "backtrack" from "I think its nasty" to "each to their own" later on.
Personally, yes, each to their own - which is why I feel trying to "out" this couple as being "nasty" (for clarity, whether they play safe or not is not the issue here) in itself is in bad taste.
It smacks of "Everyone, come see these filthy perverts who were minding their own business until I came along".. while trying to say "Each to their own". Two completely different schools of thought."
No ones outing anyone, no names were mentioned, maybe how i wrote my initial post was a bit crass.
I certainly dont see anything wrong with changing your opinion in light of a discussion with more experienced people either |
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By *ts artMan
over a year ago
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"I've just noticed a couple with 150 verifications from 130 different people, just me that thinks that's a bit nasty?
I know a lot of guys on here may say 9 verifications in 4 months is nasty..... after all it does take a lot of guys months to get their first meet...
what would you say????
I'll be surprised if you get an answer Fabio - did you see his "backtrack" from "I think its nasty" to "each to their own" later on.
Personally, yes, each to their own - which is why I feel trying to "out" this couple as being "nasty" (for clarity, whether they play safe or not is not the issue here) in itself is in bad taste.
It smacks of "Everyone, come see these filthy perverts who were minding their own business until I came along".. while trying to say "Each to their own". Two completely different schools of thought.
No ones outing anyone, no names were mentioned, maybe how i wrote my initial post was a bit crass.
I certainly dont see anything wrong with changing your opinion in light of a discussion with more experienced people either "
I think the answers above speak to that.
Now if you had asked your op in those terms that would have been different wouldnt it.........
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That's actually been mentioned a couple of times to me and I've had people turn me down because I've had a few meets. So I wondered if there was a general concensus on here about meeting too much or showing too many veris."
I guess it depends what your looking for. To me anyone that is bothered about how much someone meets isn't someone I would be bothered about meeting..
some think it's bad.. others don't.. and it certainly doesn't do my play partner any harm Having lots of verifications. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've just noticed a couple with 150 verifications from 130 different people, just me that thinks that's a bit nasty?
I know a lot of guys on here may say 9 verifications in 4 months is nasty..... after all it does take a lot of guys months to get their first meet...
what would you say????
I'll be surprised if you get an answer Fabio - did you see his "backtrack" from "I think its nasty" to "each to their own" later on.
Personally, yes, each to their own - which is why I feel trying to "out" this couple as being "nasty" (for clarity, whether they play safe or not is not the issue here) in itself is in bad taste.
It smacks of "Everyone, come see these filthy perverts who were minding their own business until I came along".. while trying to say "Each to their own". Two completely different schools of thought.
No ones outing anyone, no names were mentioned, maybe how i wrote my initial post was a bit crass.
I certainly dont see anything wrong with changing your opinion in light of a discussion with more experienced people either
I think the answers above speak to that.
Now if you had asked your op in those terms that would have been different wouldnt it.........
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Don't they just, note to self - engage brain next time lol |
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"I've just noticed a couple with 150 verifications from 130 different people, just me that thinks that's a bit nasty? "
dont really care what u think OP...regarding other peoples verifications
maybe take note as to how others view u? |
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"I've just noticed a couple with 150 verifications from 130 different people, just me that thinks that's a bit nasty? "
just actually looked..fair do's u are decently verified as a straight male who meets TV's
I could go on...but wont |
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"I must be nasty then lol x a single woman who gets lots veri's cuz i escape to a club once a week tut tut x. Wot a naughty gal i am shocking x"
You are a naughty girl though lol
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"I've just noticed a couple with 150 verifications from 130 different people, just me that thinks that's a bit nasty?
just actually looked..fair do's u are decently verified as a straight male who meets TV's
I could go on...but wont"
Read the rest of the discussion, apparently I've met too many times so people are starting to knock me back for it, so I wondered what the general consensus was but worded it like a douche!! Hands up, soz!!
I've not met tv's but I have met 2 transsexual women, big difference!
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"I've just noticed a couple with 150 verifications from 130 different people, just me that thinks that's a bit nasty?
just actually looked..fair do's u are decently verified as a straight male who meets TV's
I could go on...but wont"
...wat happened to the other 20 verifications? How did you have the time to count it? Wish i had that much free time 
Numbers can add up easily..it doesnt mean anything. Your all swingers on here..its bound to happen.. |
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"I must be nasty then lol x a single woman who gets lots veri's cuz i escape to a club once a week tut tut x. Wot a naughty gal i am shocking x
You are a naughty girl though lol
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Shhhh dont wanna get a reputation now Do i hehe im a gd gal till next wed butter wouldnt melt |
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"I've just noticed a couple with 150 verifications from 130 different people, just me that thinks that's a bit nasty?
just actually looked..fair do's u are decently verified as a straight male who meets TV's
I could go on...but wont
Read the rest of the discussion, apparently I've met too many times so people are starting to knock me back for it, so I wondered what the general consensus was but worded it like a douche!! Hands up, soz!!
I've not met tv's but I have met 2 transsexual women, big difference!
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cant be arsed reading much of it really...but maybe an idea to actually reflect on a proposed post..basically all I could see was "some people are filthy sluts on this site"
anyway...I couldnt be arsed with anoyone pulling apart my verifications, they can fuck off for all intensity, continously |
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"I've just noticed a couple with 150 verifications from 130 different people, just me that thinks that's a bit nasty?
just actually looked..fair do's u are decently verified as a straight male who meets TV's
I could go on...but wont
Read the rest of the discussion, apparently I've met too many times so people are starting to knock me back for it, so I wondered what the general consensus was but worded it like a douche!! Hands up, soz!!
I've not met tv's but I have met 2 transsexual women, big difference!
cant be arsed reading much of it really...but maybe an idea to actually reflect on a proposed post..basically all I could see was "some people are filthy sluts on this site"
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Yep me too.
Thank the gods they are. I love filthy sluts and a love nasty filthy sluts even more and really really nasty dirty totally filthy sluts even more than that
To the op: for someone who's not been on here that long and not done any clubs you've done damn well in the meet dept, whats your secret? |
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"I must be nasty then lol x a single woman who gets lots veri's cuz i escape to a club once a week tut tut x. Wot a naughty gal i am shocking x
You are a naughty girl though lol
Shhhh dont wanna get a reputation now Do i hehe im a gd gal till next wed butter wouldnt melt"
Don't forget we know you lol |
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