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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi hope someone can help some really close friends of ours have just joined the site well yesterday lol how do I verify them so people know that they really are genuine thanks kel n bob |
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"I don't think you can until you have verifications yourself."
I think the OP will just have to meet me...just so that I can verify them and then they can verify their friends... I'm nice like that  |
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On another note I'm inclined to discount verifications from people who are sometimes friend, what I want to know is basically will they turn up when they say they will and turning up on time for a drink with friends is a lot different to turning up to meet potential sexual partners. Call me an old cynic too and I don't suggest that this is the case for you but I'm pretty wary of friends verifying each other. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wanted to verify them so people know it is them who their messaging and not people pretending to be someone else lol we've had a few of them and their a really nice honest couple and I'm pretty sure they wouldn't arrange to meet if they wasn't going to like us. Its all about being honest  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Honesty doesn't cost anything but some people really don't know the meaning of the word and its quite frustrating sometimes but hey I know there's honest people like us out there to because were not yet verified were more than willing to send a picture of us with something with the date and time on to proof were for real some people don't seem to be willing to do the same  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey I understand I have the same issue. Its perplexing how this works. Theoretically if I hookup with some people and theyre not verified and Im not it will be in the eyes of the site at least like it didnt happen. Then say it keeps going that way you continue hooking up but if you or they arent verified it wont matter. Now in my case I use the site from my cell ( mobile for you UK users ) so I cant use the chat room. And thats the thing the verification doesnt mean you will actually follow through with anything necessarilly people can cam all day long that doesnt mean theyll follow through with a meet :/. Its just so people can know youre real and not some asshole pretending to be a couple or people posting pics off google and saying its them. Its a flawed system but what isnt right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok thanks for the help looks like we need to arrange our 1st meet off this site then x"
Other options, as well as cam-verification, would be to attend one of the organised socials or parties. That way, you're not asking someone to commit their time specifically to you. You can just put your name on the list, turn up at the social/party, chat to several people on the same night, and at least one of them should be willing to verify you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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thanks guys looks like we have a few options there to get verified hopefully soon lol I also use my mobile so can't do cam chat but we'll sort it some how x |
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