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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I first made the move from Userplane to New Chat, about 3 years ago, I found the same thing. It felt that people already had their own groups of friends in that chatroom, and it felt difficult to be 'accepted'. However, with perseverance, and by putting on my web-cam, I was accepted within a couple of weeks.
The task is harder now, as there are many more chatters, but perseverance will get you there.
And before anyone jumps down my throat and says "It's my right to go in the chat rooms without a cam", yes you're right. But it's also everyone's right to choose who they talk with, and not everyone will talk with people who aren't on cam (although I will). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think its ignorance. It's just a case of you getting yourself known to the regular chatters. Some say its too clique, but what you have to remember is that many of the chatters have met or known each other weeks, months or years even.
Just keep trying, I'm sure you'll begin to get recognised. I did and was welcomed with open arms.
Have to say, out of all the chatrooms, I have found the northern room to be the most chattiest and friendliest..  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't think its ignorance. It's just a case of you getting yourself known to the regular chatters. Some say its too clique, but what you have to remember is that many of the chatters have met or known each other weeks, months or years even.
Just keep trying, I'm sure you'll begin to get recognised. I did and was
welcomed with open arms.
Have to say, out of all the chatrooms, I have found the northern room to be the most chattiest and friendliest.. "
i been on site over 7 years!!!! kik |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its just how it is..same on forums too, as a tgirl i try have laugh and joke yet many(guys) ignore my comments!
yet if i was just a guy or a woman it be different!
just how it is..i wouldnt let it bother you too much really...i dont.
same as in daily life..ya get peeps who ignorant etc  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"is it toooo much to say hi????"
Hi.
I find the chat rooms, over the past 4 years have become very busy and hence littletime to chat. Patience is required, but civil behaviour would be nice too eh?
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You have to remember sometimes in chat there are 180 people. People are arriving and leaving every minute. So although you have 180 people in the room who those people are constantly changes.
I have seen people come into a room with 180 people. Say nothing. Not even a hi everyone. Then 10 minutes later type "Is nobody going to chat to me/us?" |
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I've only just this week gone into chat. I don't think it is ignorance, sometimes I'm a lurker, sometimes I chat. I don't always say hi when I enter the room because its far too fast for me - not being english makes it very hard to keep up with the text speak, acronyms etc... |
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