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By *lay2018 OP Couple
over a year ago
westmeath & roscommon. |
Wife having second thoughts because of her weight issues. she is craving for another 3sum and also wants to explore her bi side but weve hit a massive stumbling block because of her weight. You see, we have 4 kids and ever since the 4th one came, her weight has got out of control and shes been finding it difficult to get rid of it and its now got to the point that she cant see herself getting naked again infront of anyone other than me 
Ive been trying to reassure her that she aint to bad and anyone meeting wont care either but theres still a massive doubt and its not put a stop to our swinging life. Just curious is there anyone whos had similar issues where its put a stop to their swinging activities |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its all about how she feels, after 3 kids & various surgeries I've got scars, stretchmarks & a lovely wobbly belly but am body confident these days as my body & its flaws are proof to me of a well travelled journey..... Maybe try to help her become more body confident xx |
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Ive been trying to reassure her that she aint to bad and anyone meeting wont care either "
Telling someone they "ain't too bad" and anyone meeting them "won't care either" isn't really reassurance though is it? Maybe concentrate on building her confidence between you two for a while with more than faint praise.
Just a thought but her saying she can't think of anyone but you seeing her naked isn't her way of saying she wants to stop swinging is it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think all women are a little self-conscious, especially on here where you get all range of body types. I (mrs) had put on a couple of stone and lost some confidence, and even though mr P still loved my body, he supported me in losing weight because he knew it made me happy. I lost 2 stone towards the end of last year (not for anyone else, for myself) and can't believe what a confidence boost it has been!! I am still very aware that my body isnt perfect, but I am happy, and my husband finds me attractive, so thats all that matters. One thing I will say is that being self-conscious isnt sexy......confidence (without cockyness) is hugely sexy no matter what body type you have - if you think you are sexy, other people will too.
Mrs P xxx |
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"I think all women are a little self-conscious, especially on here where you get all range of body types. I (mrs) had put on a couple of stone and lost some confidence, and even though mr P still loved my body, he supported me in losing weight because he knew it made me happy. I lost 2 stone towards the end of last year (not for anyone else, for myself) and can't believe what a confidence boost it has been!! I am still very aware that my body isnt perfect, but I am happy, and my husband finds me attractive, so thats all that matters. One thing I will say is that being self-conscious isnt sexy......confidence (without cockyness) is hugely sexy no matter what body type you have - if you think you are sexy, other people will too.
Mrs P xxx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well my mrs was on here last night answering a simlar post on another forum.
had a wee giggle at her response but it was so true
she says shes a tiger who has earned her stripes lol , having kids etc so shes proud of her curvy body......i love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a curvy 18-20. Before fab I'd never have put underwear pics on show and I have here. Also every guy I've met couldn't make me feel sexier. Full of compliments,repeat meets. Hope ur mrs finds what works for her,whether its losing weight,meets duno but self esteem is important esp for women. |
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By *quirrelMan
over a year ago
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Am a regular club goer and my partner and I meet loads of people, and to tell the truth those who are toned and tanned with "perfect" bodies are not in the majority. Clubs I go to have members like your wife who are average and may have confidence issues because they compare themselves against others and come out lacking.
Take your lovely wife to a club and meet others just like you, there will be all body shapes and sizes as you will see. Just be who you are and you will be accepted for it. |
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