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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Morning guys.
I was at a girly last night and the conversation was flowing and I was shocked to learn that a few of the girls there would love to have a dildo, even play with it with their partners but their partners have said no, at times it has actually caused an argument between them.
My friend last night said she would always orgasm with her vibe but not always orgasm with her partner so maybe her partner felt threatened by the vibe?
So, my question is, guys why would you not like your partner using a dildo or vibe either on her own or during play? Girls, how would you handle it if your partner had a big problem with you using toys ?
Have a great day you fab people x
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"Morning guys.
I was at a girly last night and the conversation was flowing and I was shocked to learn that a few of the girls there would love to have a dildo, even play with it with their partners but their partners have said no, at times it has actually caused an argument between them.
My friend last night said she would always orgasm with her vibe but not always orgasm with her partner so maybe her partner felt threatened by the vibe?
So, my question is, guys why would you not like your partner using a dildo or vibe either on her own or during play? Girls, how would you handle it if your partner had a big problem with you using toys ?
Have a great day you fab people x
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Hell yes re using a toy on a partner or even just watching, Either way its win win and until they make one that mows the lawn and does odd jobs then I for one wont feel threatened  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ex husband was threatened by toys (although he bought me my first one!!) in a fit of jealous rage he snapped my rabbit!! Ok granted that made me cum n he couldn't but bloody hell I was finding the beads inside for Weeks after!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can understand guys feeling threatend by a partner using a vibe.The guys must be insecure and feeling the vibe is better than them.I think vibes are great as long as they are used by both partners rather than instead of real sex. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I thought all guys liked to use toys on women or even just watch...."
So did I, couldnt believe my ears last night and even from the posts here, like a guy destroying her rabbit, seems we may have been lucky, finding guys quite chilled out xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love using toys with women,but that's me... To me anything that can make a woman cum is a great thing and nothing more turns me on than seeing a woman cum no matter what it is I'm doing or using x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't see many men on here feeling threatened by toys.. but it's a common thing outside this lifestyle..
The guys don't want toys that are bigger or better in their eyes.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i think the idea is to please your partner in anyway possible a toy is a toy a woman will always want the real thing in the end "
How about the real thing and a toy at the same time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love playing with toys both equally, as others have said adds excitement and spice.
However saying this Ian did recently buy me a body wand one word Addictive.
Although handy when he's away for 7 weeks.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i think the idea is to please your partner in anyway possible a toy is a toy a woman will always want the real thing in the end
How about the real thing and a toy at the same time "
Done this, fantastic when I come. |
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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago
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I by my wife all her toys and the bigger the better. I love using them on her and just sit back and watching her use them sends me in xtc. Any man who feels intimadated by toys really needs to give their head a shake. They are wonderfull things to add to your sex life. |
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The only guy that doesn't like his partner using toys either together or alone is insecure in his own abilities. Personally idon't see the issue, I'd like to see her toy buy her the next pair of designer shoes |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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Read the title and had a mental picture of a group of dildoes hanging around on the streets like a pack of feral teenagers giving lip and nasty looks to poor innocent passers-by...perhaps all wearing hoodies and Burberry baseball caps, smoking Silk Cut and swigging White Lightning from 3 litre bottles
(Other stereotypes are available) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Morning guys.
I was at a girly last night and the conversation was flowing and I was shocked to learn that a few of the girls there would love to have a dildo, even play with it with their partners but their partners have said no, at times it has actually caused an argument between them.
My friend last night said she would always orgasm with her vibe but not always orgasm with her partner so maybe her partner felt threatened by the vibe?
So, my question is, guys why would you not like your partner using a dildo or vibe either on her own or during play? Girls, how would you handle it if your partner had a big problem with you using toys ?
Have a great day you fab people x
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Embrace the Dildo, love playing with toys. Like to use a bullet vibe and my tongue at the same time. The combination of the two does seem to work wonders!  |
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This is very probably untrue, but a friend of mine had a reputation for getting up to all sorts of things with women he hit on in nightclubs. On one occasion he returned from the walk of shame the next morning and told us how he'd been round to a girl's house only to find out she was a single mum. He told us that they started getting down to some fun and she got really horny and asked him to put something up her bum. My friend claims to have used his finger for a bit and then at her request looked around for something bigger, eventually picking up and inserting her son's Buzz Lightyear toy, with the comment "to infinity and beyond!" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well i must say i love using toys on a lady its such a turn on for me to knowing im driving them wild to the point that they are so worked up and are going crazy and i alway end up having a great nite to |
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