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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do people say they have sent you a text when they havnt, or say they cant see you because they are going on holiday, or say they will call you the next day then send text message saying they cant because their son is there.
then the day after you see on their status updates that they have met someone.
why dont they just say they are meeting someone else?
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"Why do people say they have sent you a text when they havnt, or say they cant see you because they are going on holiday, or say they will call you the next day then send text message saying they cant because their son is there.
then the day after you see on their status updates that they have met someone.
why dont they just say they are meeting someone else?
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The problem here is that there are too may fish...some people (fem and male) would not hesitate to blow you out if a better offer came along...
we just have to make sure they only ever get one opportunity....block and move on..xx |
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1. Don't want to hurt your feelings.
2. Cowards
3. Keeping options open.
4. Easy way out.
Some people are honest, some aren't. I'd have more respect for someone if they were honest even if it was something like,;
Sorry your not my type. What comes around goes around. Move on, forget it and be happy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I sometimes worry about letting people down, i think maybe i should be more like them and lie, when i change my mind and want to see someone else instead, if you cant beat em join em, as they say.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would worry about this if I was looking to have a relationship with that person, otherwise I don't see the problem and certainly wouldn't be checking up on them to see if they are telling Me the truth or not. I don't have time for that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would worry about this if I was looking to have a relationship with that person, otherwise I don't see the problem and certainly wouldn't be checking up on them to see if they are telling Me the truth or not. I don't have time for that."
i didnt say i was checking up on them though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Told a woman she has nice foot. But she had nail fungus.
Did she get it sorted  "
No, because the nasty man lied to her and she still doesn't know she had a problem  |
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"Told a woman she has nice foot. But she had nail fungus.
Did she get it sorted
No, because the nasty man lied to her and she still doesn't know she had a problem "
Lol he could have said, potentially you could have nice feet, but nip down to boots and ask them to recommend some cream for the mushrooms growing out of your toes 
Sorry couldn't resist. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everybody lies.
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I have lied like everyone else, but don't really see the point anymore, I'm not as insecure as I used to be, so I always try to speak and think as honestly as possible!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everybody lies at some time or other... We are all no different!
Just some are more blatant at it than others!!"
Some are very different, I won't Lie to save other people's feelings for instance, that's silly, and it does not help anyone! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everybody lies at some time or other... We are all no different!
Just some are more blatant at it than others!!
Some are very different, I won't Lie to save other people's feelings for instance, that's silly, and it does not help anyone! "
That's what I'm saying, whether it be one said to spare feelings or one said to gain something. It's still lying!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"waiting for a meet to turn up and them not arriving but they met someone else is actually quite hurtful  "
maybe the same thing will happen to them one day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol I'm glad In not the only one who that happens to I was starting to think I'm strange or something lol
I don't do lying its pointless no point being on here if your just needing people around
I HATE LYERS !!!
Right gotta go I'm having lunch with the queen |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everybody lies at some time or other... We are all no different!
Just some are more blatant at it than others!!
Some are very different, I won't Lie to save other people's feelings for instance, that's silly, and it does not help anyone!
That's what I'm saying, whether it be one said to spare feelings or one said to gain something. It's still lying! "
So if I refuse to lie in this way, there must be others,;-) and I will find them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do people say they have sent you a text when they havnt, or say they cant see you because they are going on holiday, or say they will call you the next day then send text message saying they cant because their son is there.
then the day after you see on their status updates that they have met someone.
why dont they just say they are meeting someone else?
The problem here is that there are too may fish...some people (fem and male) would not hesitate to blow you out if a
better offer came along...
we just have to make sure they only ever get one opportunity....block and move on..xx"
Yep, agree  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"'A truth that's told with bad intent beats all the lies you can invent.'
Sometimes a white lie is the kindest thing to do."
I met a couple and didn't in my opinion have the greatest of times, I wouldn't meet them again.
They mailed and asked me to verify them... So yes a white lie is sometimes the best thing to do. However I would not write anything on my status that would contradict that. That is really stupid and potentially hurtful. |
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"Everybody lies.
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Everybody except me  I make it a point to be honest at all times, The shame is others don't.
Perhaps and i could be wrong but just perhaps the person in question had been lied to by other females and couples in the past and thats why they did it.
Maybe we should ALL be a little more honest in future. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I told a woman that she is the most beautiful woman I ever seen. So I can get some."
 I take it she wasn't? Shame you feel you need to do that to get laid |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do people say they have sent you a text when they havnt, or say they cant see you because they are going on holiday, or say they will call you the next day then send text message saying they cant because their son is there.
then the day after you see on their status updates that they have met someone.
why dont they just say they are meeting someone else?
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It's a situation ongoing since time immemorial and is probably linked to people not wanting to hurt your feelings coupled with a hefty dose of 'leaving the door open ' in case other options fail to materialise!
I am relatively forgiving of many of the human race's individual foibles - BUT I HATE people lying to me. I'd rather be told the truth cos I wanna know where I stand wiv folk  |
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"I would worry about this if I was looking to have a relationship with that person, otherwise I don't see the problem and certainly wouldn't be checking up on them to see if they are telling Me the truth or not. I don't have time for that."
This!
This is supposed to be NSA uncomplicated sex. If someone cancels/changes their mind it's their prerogative, just as it's mine not to give them a second chance. I certainly wouldn't be stalking their profile!
If people do that BEFORE they've met can you imagine the arse ache you're stacking up for yourself if you fuck em?!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would worry about this if I was looking to have a relationship with that person, otherwise I don't see the problem and certainly wouldn't be checking up on them to see if they are telling Me the truth or not. I don't have time for that.
This!
This is supposed to be NSA uncomplicated sex. If someone cancels/changes their mind it's their prerogative, just as it's mine not to give them a second chance. I certainly wouldn't be stalking their profile!
If people do that BEFORE they've met can you imagine the arse ache you're stacking up for yourself if you fuck em?!! "
stalking their profile i just noticed it on friends updates.
i thought you said you were fussy about who you met? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everybody lies. In a life and death situation I lies my ass off. Plus lies something to get what I want too. But for most part I'm very honest. "
Getting a shag was hardly life or death!
Not everyone lies, maybe liars tell themselves that in order to justify their own weaknesses! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Everybody lies. In a life and death situation I lies my ass off. Plus lies something to get what I want too. But for most part I'm very honest.
Getting a shag was hardly life or death!
Not everyone lies, maybe liars tell themselves that in order to justify their own weaknesses! "
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"Everybody lies. In a life and death situation I lies my ass off. Plus lies something to get what I want too. But for most part I'm very honest.
Getting a shag was hardly life or death!
Not everyone lies, maybe liars tell themselves that in order to justify their own weaknesses! "
As i said i'm Honest, and before anyone else even hints i'm not just take a look at yourself.
I pride myself on my honesty in all things and my verifications prove what my meets are like, Don't like it tough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everybody lies. In a life and death situation I lies my ass off. Plus lies something to get what I want too. But for most part I'm very honest.
Getting a shag was hardly life or death!
Not everyone lies, maybe liars tell themselves that in order to justify their own weaknesses!
As i said i'm Honest, and before anyone else even hints i'm not just take a look at yourself.
I pride myself on my honesty in all things and my verifications prove what my meets are like, Don't like it tough. "
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Whats been annoying me recently (Mr) is guys contacting us who have straight down on their profile but
a) send us several pictures of them engaging in bi or gay sexual activities
b) Have several verifications from men describing having sex with said "straight" man
We are not anti anything, but this is a pure "liar" thing it just baffles the mind why people are doing this.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That I won't lie about that I'm not gay or bi curious or bi part time. Lol"
How do we know you're not lying again?
its just easier to move on to someone who tells the truth!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Making excuses is an easier way out for some than to tell it as it is, such as sorry, I don't fancy you because you are too needy/ugly/fat/hairy/whatever, possibly because they do not want to hurt the other person's feelings, or they do not want to face the consequences of rejecting someone with bunny boiler tendencies etc...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Making excuses is an easier way out for some than to tell it as it is, such as sorry, I don't fancy you because you are too needy/ugly/fat/hairy/whatever, possibly because they do not want to hurt the other person's feelings, or they do not want to face the consequences of rejecting someone with bunny boiler tendencies etc...
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oh damn, must be because i was too hairy then. |
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"Why do people say they have sent you a text when they havnt, or say they cant see you because they are going on holiday, or say they will call you the next day then send text message saying they cant because their son is there.
then the day after you see on their status updates that they have met someone.
why dont they just say they are meeting someone else?
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We aren't seeing anyone this next couple of weeks becuase we are off on holiday.... does that make us liars? |
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"Why do people say they have sent you a text when they havnt, or say they cant see you because they are going on holiday, or say they will call you the next day then send text message saying they cant because their son is there.
then the day after you see on their status updates that they have met someone.
why dont they just say they are meeting someone else?
We aren't seeing anyone this next couple of weeks becuase we are off on holiday.... does that make us liars?"
Going on holiday, yes you must be liars. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do people say they have sent you a text when they havnt, or say they cant see you because they are going on holiday, or say they will call you the next day then send text message saying they cant because their son is there.
then the day after you see on their status updates that they have met someone.
why dont they just say they are meeting someone else?
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Because they are arseholes.Just block them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do people say they have sent you a text when they havnt, or say they cant see you because they are going on holiday, or say they will call you the next day then send text message saying they cant because their son is there.
then the day after you see on their status updates that they have met someone.
why dont they just say they are meeting someone else?
Because they are arseholes.Just block them! "
They get blocked, their loss |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do people say they have sent you a text when they havnt, or say they cant see you because they are going on holiday, or say they will call you the next day then send text message saying they cant because their son is there.
then the day after you see on their status updates that they have met someone.
why dont they just say they are meeting someone else?
Because they are arseholes.Just block them! They get blocked, their loss "
Never happened yet but if ot did they would be blocked |
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