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Is there something wrong with me?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lol I know what your going to say n outnumbered n I'm well aware of that but don't seem to be having a lot of luck
I know I'm not the best out there but fuck me I'm not the worst lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your not meet verified so that may be a stumbling block.
If you go to Atlantis regularly, then get verified by some of the regulars there or even Cat.
Meet and play with others at clubs you get verified, and you'll get more attention that way.
Profile looks ok tbh. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your not meet verified so that may be a stumbling block.
If you go to Atlantis regularly, then get verified by some of the regulars there or even Cat.
Meet and play with others at clubs you get verified, and you'll get more attention that way.
Profile looks ok tbh."
Thank you yeh I've been to Atlantis a few tikes n had fun n yeh I know Cat nice lady is she on here maybe she could verify me x n thank you x |
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By *iss__KittyWoman
over a year ago
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The profile is quite well written but (and its only a personal preference), some of your pics make you look like a prison convict. I like to see people smiling but as I say, that is only my personal preference and others may well like them.
Good luck though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The profile is quite well written but (and its only a personal preference), some of your pics make you look like a prison convict. I like to see people smiling but as I say, that is only my personal preference and others may well like them.
Good luck though"
Hahaha a lot of people say that n they say I got a nice cheeky smile but I don't think I have lol x thank you tho x but looks wise I'm not as bad or as good as some surely I take care of my physique n am clean shaven n always dress smart x |
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By *iss__KittyWoman
over a year ago
somewhere in Cornwall |
"The profile is quite well written but (and its only a personal preference), some of your pics make you look like a prison convict. I like to see people smiling but as I say, that is only my personal preference and others may well like them.
Good luck though
Hahaha a lot of people say that n they say I got a nice cheeky smile but I don't think I have lol x thank you tho x but looks wise I'm not as bad or as good as some surely I take care of my physique n am clean shaven n always dress smart x"
The picc of you smiling are fine, but people judge first on looks and profile because they wont have spoken to you to know if you are cheeky or not.
A sense of humour is something very personal to each of us and we don't all find the same things funny.
You are putting yourself in the shop window. You are going to be judged (as are we all). But if I see someone smiling, I think they are happy, if I see them not smiling, I think, do I want to spend time with someone who doesn't look happy.
You have about 10-15 seconds to make a first impression.
I can only give you my opinion and others may well disagree. We all like different things after all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The profile is quite well written but (and its only a personal preference), some of your pics make you look like a prison convict. I like to see people smiling but as I say, that is only my personal preference and others may well like them.
Good luck though
Hahaha a lot of people say that n they say I got a nice cheeky smile but I don't think I have lol x thank you tho x but looks wise I'm not as bad or as good as some surely I take care of my physique n am clean shaven n always dress smart x
The picc of you smiling are fine, but people judge first on looks and profile because they wont have spoken to you to know if you are cheeky or not.
A sense of humour is something very personal to each of us and we don't all find the same things funny.
You are putting yourself in the shop window. You are going to be judged (as are we all). But if I see someone smiling, I think they are happy, if I see them not smiling, I think, do I want to spend time with someone who doesn't look happy.
You have about 10-15 seconds to make a first impression.
I can only give you my opinion and others may well disagree. We all like different things after all. "
True but I am honestly prob one of the funniest guys you'll meet lol but yeh thank you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The profile is quite well written but (and its only a personal preference), some of your pics make you look like a prison convict. I like to see people smiling but as I say, that is only my personal preference and others may well like them.
Good luck though
Hahaha a lot of people say that n they say I got a nice cheeky smile but I don't think I have lol x thank you tho x but looks wise I'm not as bad or as good as some surely I take care of my physique n am clean shaven n always dress smart x
The picc of you smiling are fine, but people judge first on looks and profile because they wont have spoken to you to know if you are cheeky or not.
A sense of humour is something very personal to each of us and we don't all find the same things funny.
You are putting yourself in the shop window. You are going to be judged (as are we all). But if I see someone smiling, I think they are happy, if I see them not smiling, I think, do I want to spend time with someone who doesn't look happy.
You have about 10-15 seconds to make a first impression.
I can only give you my opinion and others may well disagree. We all like different things after all.
True but I am honestly prob one of the funniest guys you'll meet lol but yeh thank you x "
Humour is a very personal thing. For example some people find Michael McIntyre funny, I find him as funny as rotten fish under the floorboards, yet I find Peter Kay hilarious. So in your opinion you are funny, in someone else's you might not be.
Your profile looks good, your pics are okay but they are all a bit samey and there are too many cock pics for me, again that's just my opinion but try a few diff pics they are all face shots or cock. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with the poster who mentioned your pics.
Your profile is great but some of the pics, especially the avatar, make you look like a really hard violent type of bloke. That's not going to do you any favours in meeting single women alone.
It's not necessarily the smiling for me, your sepia face pic is your best pic in my opinion, but it's the whole image thing and on the first instant impression two women have now said a similar thing.
Of course you can't appeal to everyone and if you like your pics then don't change them to suit others  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As others have said, lose the pics that look like they are taken in a prison cell. So any with a white brick wall behind you where you appear to be scowling.
The profile text is ok but there's too much "I like, I am, I can". Almost every sentence starts with I. It's good you've got your likes on there but try and rewrite them a bit. |
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"Lol I know what your going to say n outnumbered n I'm well aware of that but don't seem to be having a lot of luck
I know I'm not the best out there but fuck me I'm not the worst lol "
Your profile reads ok. Personally I thought there were too many cock pics and some of your pics looked "menacing". The smiling ones are lush though: good luck! |
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Agree with all the above, I do have to say your profile is well written, which I enjoyed reading.
The first pic I saw was you not smiling which put me off, but then the one of you smiling changes you completely.
Also agree with the number of cock pictures, one is enough in my opinion, but then others like them.
As for humor, what the other's have said, what you think is funny someone else may not like.
Peter Kay does nothing for me, but then I like Michael Mcintyre.
If you have a dry sense of humor then that is not for everyone.
Your never going to please everyone, as we are all different.
When at Atlantis next, talk about fab to the people there, you do not have to play with them for them to verify you.
It is about showing that you attend clubs and what your like as a person.
Will say more and more people are meeting just in clubs and not as singles off here.
Hope you find what you are looking for. xxx |
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