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Receiving the first message
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do any women actually send the first message or is it just that my profile is quite bad?
I have been on and off her for 2 and a half years and I have never received a message first so basically I was wondering about my question above. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do any women actually send the first message or is it just that my profile is quite bad?
I have been on and off her for 2 and a half years and I have never received a message first so basically I was wondering about my question above."
Take a look at your profile and put yourself in the womens place, would you send yourself a message after reading your profile? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I send first messages if I see someone I'm interested in 
She sends lots of first messages 
Cheeky fecker!!..... Although very true! "
You're only jealous coz I haven't sent you one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I send first messages if I see someone I'm interested in
She sends lots of first messages
Cheeky fecker!!..... Although very true!
You're only jealous coz I haven't sent you one "
Yep 
But there again you did say you only sent them to people that you were interested in, so no real surprise there lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've changed my profile around a bit any tips on how to make it any better would be appreciated  "
I'd start bu changing the bit that says 'any look' to any luck' lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I send first messages if I see someone I'm interested in
She sends lots of first messages
Cheeky fecker!!..... Although very true!
You're only jealous coz I haven't sent you one
Yep
But there again you did say you only sent them to people that you were interested in, so no real surprise there lol. "
Plus if I remember correctly it was you that first messaged me.... Many moons ago!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I send first messages if I see someone I'm interested in
She sends lots of first messages
Cheeky fecker!!..... Although very true!
You're only jealous coz I haven't sent you one
Yep
But there again you did say you only sent them to people that you were interested in, so no real surprise there lol.
Plus if I remember correctly it was you that first messaged me.... Many moons ago!! "
On another site far far away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do any women actually send the first message or is it just that my profile is quite bad?
I have been on and off her for 2 and a half years and I have never received a message first so basically I was wondering about my question above.
Take a look at your profile and put yourself in the womens place, would you send yourself a
message after reading your profile? "
His profile seems ok to me, no better or worse than mine or yours  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do any women actually send the first message or is it just that my profile is quite bad?
I have been on and off her for 2 and a half years and I have never received a message first so basically I was wondering about my question above.
Take a look at your profile and put yourself in the womens place, would you send yourself a
message after reading your profile?
His profile seems ok to me, no better or worse than mine or yours "
But he's rewritten it since I posted that though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do any women actually send the first message or is it just that my profile is quite bad?
I have been on and off her for 2 and a half years and I have never received a message first so basically I was wondering about my question above.
Take a look at your profile and put yourself in the womens place, would you send yourself a
message after reading your profile?
His profile seems ok to me, no better or worse than mine or yours
But he's rewritten it since I posted that though! "
Ahhh, so he has, was it particularly shite before  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The bigger question is, is the new one any better?"
Certainly a lot better than it was that's for sure. Wether or not it will get you any more messages is anyones guess, but at least you've listened to people and put some effort in which is always a good start |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Do any women actually send the first message or is it just that my profile is quite bad?
I have been on and off her for 2 and a half years and I have never received a message first so basically I was wondering about my question above."
I get a few first messages and the odd wink, as with most things the more effort ;you put in the more rewards you receive,,, |
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"The bigger question is, is the new one any better?"
Bambi...errm brownie points for taking notice of advice given by people and acting on it
I block single men and couples so if I want to chat with someone who interests me, I have to send the first message! Sometimes I get a nice 'no thank you', sometimes I experience the 'delete and block' and sometimes if I am lucky and appeal to the person we will chat and hopefully meet.
Good luck OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I send messages. I prefer that to being inundated with receiving the dozens that I seem to get from some dubious looking characters. Humour is a big thing to me, if they make me lol in their profile than ill say hi, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would imagine most women get swamped with messages the moment they join. I still have almost a dozen that I have sent but they have not been read in as long as 5 weeks. Now I only send them if a particular individual catches my attention for some reason.. |
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