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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We were on our couples profile watching a couple who say they "love to be watched" we werent harassing them just enjoying the cam and they blocked us! We have chatted a few times and thought things were ok with them. Dont understand people! Did we do wrong by not saying " give it to her " and generally hurling abuse????  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You say we, yet your profile says man. perhaps they only to be watch by one person if you did have another with you..."
he said he was on his couples profile though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people in the chatrooms don't like to be watched by a profile who isn't speaking to them in chat, at the time.
No-one needs to be crude, but an occasional compliment can't do any harm.
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" Why have two? worrying
Some couples play as a couple, and also play separately, hence the need for two profiles. Nothing worrying about this."
I'd say if you were in a couple playing and everyone is fine with that why have a single profile. I'd say that's worrying. That's for male and female profiles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Why have two? worrying
Some couples play as a couple, and also play separately, hence the need for two profiles. Nothing worrying about this.
I'd say if you were in a couple playing and everyone is fine with that why have a single profile. I'd say that's worrying. That's for male and female profiles."
It may just be for the forums, many couples have single profiles too...you're jumping to conclusions  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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" Why have two? worrying
Some couples play as a couple, and also play separately, hence the need for two profiles. Nothing worrying about this.
I'd say if you were in a couple playing and everyone is fine with that why have a single profile. I'd say that's worrying. That's for male and female profiles."
Lots of people play alone too, there is nothing sinister in having profiles for different play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Why have two? worrying
Some couples play as a couple, and also play separately, hence the need for two profiles. Nothing worrying about this.
I'd say if you were in a couple playing and everyone is fine with that why have a single profile. I'd say that's worrying. That's for male and female profiles."
If both want to chat in the chat rooms at the same time they need single profiles as well as you can't log into chat more then once. Nothing underhand at all |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"We were on our couples profile watching a couple who say they "love to be watched" we werent harassing them just enjoying the cam and they blocked us! We have chatted a few times and thought things were ok with them. Dont understand people! Did we do wrong by not saying " give it to her " and generally hurling abuse???? "
Some people like to be acknowledged when being viewed, so if you didn't say anything at all that could be the reason.
Were you both on cam watching? if only the male was they may block you for that too.
Either way, their choice really and they don't need to give a reason why  |
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" Why have two? worrying
Some couples play as a couple, and also play separately, hence the need for two profiles. Nothing worrying about this.
I'd say if you were in a couple playing and everyone is fine with that why have a single profile. I'd say that's worrying. That's for male and female profiles.
Lots of people play alone too, there is nothing sinister in having profiles for different play."
The point I'm trying to make is this.
If you have a couples profile, and both people are fine with it. Then why would you need a single profile to attract people. Cleo and I do and have played separately but we don't need single profiles to arrange this.
To me to have a couples and single profile I seem to think you are hiding something from someone, be it your partner or the people you are arranging to meet separately. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Why have two? worrying
Some couples play as a couple, and also play separately, hence the need for two profiles. Nothing worrying about this.
I'd say if you were in a couple playing and everyone is fine with that why have a single profile. I'd say that's worrying. That's for male and female profiles.
Lots of people play alone too, there is nothing sinister in having profiles for different play."
We have two purely because I (J) had one first. I use mine to watch Tor on cam when I'm away on business. Not sure why you're "worried" by people having two? Especially if they declare that they have two. |
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" Why have two? worrying
Some couples play as a couple, and also play separately, hence the need for two profiles. Nothing worrying about this.
I'd say if you were in a couple playing and everyone is fine with that why have a single profile. I'd say that's worrying. That's for male and female profiles.
Lots of people play alone too, there is nothing sinister in having profiles for different play.
We have two purely because I (J) had one first. I use mine to watch Tor on cam when I'm away on business. Not sure why you're "worried" by people having two? Especially if they declare that they have two. "
Declaring it is fine. I have never come across friends who have said they have two. That's why I find it a bit strange. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" The point I'm trying to make is this.
If you have a couples profile, and both people are fine with it. Then why would you need a single profile to attract people. Cleo and I do and have played separately but we don't need single profiles to arrange this.
To me to have a couples and single profile I seem to think you are hiding something from someone, be it your partner or the people you are arranging to meet separately. "
Sorry, I still disagree, there is nothing sinister in having both a couples profile and a single profile.
People play in different ways. For example, when playing as a couple, people may prefer to meet only couples. When playing solo, people may prefer to meet only people of the same/opposite sex.
If people weren't permitted to have separate profiles for their different styles of play, this would make ONE profile enormously complicated. E.g. "as a couple we do..... blah", "when playing separately she does.... blah", "when playing separately, he does ...... blah". This would lead to one enormously long profile, where readers would struggle to find out the information they need, and where the profile owners would likely be passed over, due to the length of their profile.
I agree that people who are in a relationship should refer to that in their single profile, to enable people to make informed decisions. But there is no reason why a profile can't be split into 3, to allow for clarity on what they are looking for/offering. |
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" The point I'm trying to make is this.
If you have a couples profile, and both people are fine with it. Then why would you need a single profile to attract people. Cleo and I do and have played separately but we don't need single profiles to arrange this.
To me to have a couples and single profile I seem to think you are hiding something from someone, be it your partner or the people you are arranging to meet separately.
Sorry, I still disagree, there is nothing sinister in having both a couples profile and a single profile.
People play in different ways. For example, when playing as a couple, people may prefer to meet only couples. When playing solo, people may prefer to meet only people of the same/opposite sex.
If people weren't permitted to have separate profiles for their different styles of play, this would make ONE profile enormously complicated. E.g. "as a couple we do..... blah", "when playing separately she does.... blah", "when playing separately, he does ...... blah". This would lead to one enormously long profile, where readers would struggle to find out the information they need, and where the profile owners would likely be passed over, due to the length of their profile.
I agree that people who are in a relationship should refer to that in their single profile, to enable people to make informed decisions. But there is no reason why a profile can't be split into 3, to allow for clarity on what they are looking for/offering."
A fair point. Right time to get myself a single profile. Looking only for ladies that support Millwall and are good looking. On second thoughts I better keep the couple profile |
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" The point I'm trying to make is this.
If you have a couples profile, and both people are fine with it. Then why would you need a single profile to attract people. Cleo and I do and have played separately but we don't need single profiles to arrange this.
To me to have a couples and single profile I seem to think you are hiding something from someone, be it your partner or the people you are arranging to meet separately.
Sorry, I still disagree, there is nothing sinister in having both a couples profile and a single profile.
People play in different ways. For example, when playing as a couple, people may prefer to meet only couples. When playing solo, people may prefer to meet only people of the same/opposite sex.
If people weren't permitted to have separate profiles for their different styles of play, this would make ONE profile enormously complicated. E.g. "as a couple we do..... blah", "when playing separately she does.... blah", "when playing separately, he does ...... blah". This would lead to one enormously long profile, where readers would struggle to find out the information they need, and where the profile owners would likely be passed over, due to the length of their profile.
I agree that people who are in a relationship should refer to that in their single profile, to enable people to make informed decisions. But there is no reason why a profile can't be split into 3, to allow for clarity on what they are looking for/offering."
AGREE 100%
The single profiles that get us are the ones that say wont meet alone only with my husband or boyfriend of FB surly that then makes them a couple ?? |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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" Why have two? worrying
Some couples play as a couple, and also play separately, hence the need for two profiles. Nothing worrying about this.
I'd say if you were in a couple playing and everyone is fine with that why have a single profile. I'd say that's worrying. That's for male and female profiles.
Lots of people play alone too, there is nothing sinister in having profiles for different play.
The point I'm trying to make is this.
If you have a couples profile, and both people are fine with it. Then why would you need a single profile to attract people. Cleo and I do and have played separately but we don't need single profiles to arrange this.
To me to have a couples and single profile I seem to think you are hiding something from someone, be it your partner or the people you are arranging to meet separately. "
Most people who do this normally say s on their profile.
Sadly if men say they are playing alone on a couples profile they get accused of being a fake couple, so a seperate profile is normally the best answer |
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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago
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" Why have two? worrying
Some couples play as a couple, and also play separately, hence the need for two profiles. Nothing worrying about this.
I'd say if you were in a couple playing and everyone is fine with that why have a single profile. I'd say that's worrying. That's for male and female profiles.
Lots of people play alone too, there is nothing sinister in having profiles for different play.
The point I'm trying to make is this.
If you have a couples profile, and both people are fine with it. Then why would you need a single profile to attract people. Cleo and I do and have played separately but we don't need single profiles to arrange this.
To me to have a couples and single profile I seem to think you are hiding something from someone, be it your partner or the people you are arranging to meet separately. "
We have this, our couples profile, and I have a single fem profile, stated in this profile. Dave has the password for my account and can read any messages at any time, the only thing he isn't allowed to do is delete or send messages in my name, not that he would 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't really think it matters why they blocked you and only they will ever know They didn't want you watching them, that's all there is to it. If this happens go and find another couple on cam to watch  |
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"You say we, yet your profile says man. perhaps they only to be watch by one person if you did have another with you...
he said he was on his couples profile though
Why have two? worrying"
Why would that ever be 'worrying'? What a bizarre point of view! |
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Is it just me or do people taking blocking too personally. We have filters set but nobody actually blocked and if we were blocked by anyone, unless i considered them good 'friends' i would shrug my shoulders and move on, most of it is not personally and it's allowed! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most people who do this normally say s on their profile.
Sadly if men say they are playing alone on a couples profile they get accused of being a fake couple, so a seperate profile is normally the best answer "
I know its unfair but this what i would automatically think and i would probably dismiss then right away without bothering to find out more. a singles profile that explains will fare a lot better. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We do have two profiles for the simple reason we canchat to each other in the rooms. It can get horny lol! A bit like going on a first date all over again. Some people like "the chase! "
As to the blocking we were chatting its just one of those things and we will have to get used to it but it doesn't make it any easier when you think your getting along! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We were on our couples profile watching a couple who say they "love to be watched" we werent harassing them just enjoying the cam and they blocked us! We have chatted a few times and thought things were ok with them. Dont understand people! Did we do wrong by not saying " give it to her " and generally hurling abuse???? "
u say we but you use this singe profile |
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By *S2013Man
over a year ago
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I cannot speak for the couple who blocked you but there is a lot or clowns on here that seem intent on just acting the fool. This is supposed to be a 'community', for like minded people not a battle royal. Unfortunately it goes with the territory. Don't let it bother you. |
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"We were on our couples profile watching a couple who say they "love to be watched" we werent harassing them just enjoying the cam and they blocked us! We have chatted a few times and thought things were ok with them. Dont understand people! Did we do wrong by not saying " give it to her " and generally hurling abuse???? "
We all get blocked. We all get blocked for no apparent reason. Only the person blocking knows why he, she or they put the block on. I don't know why people get upset for being blocked a random stranger or strangers. I once noticed by clicking on a profile in chat a guy in Glasgow had me blocked. I had never spoken to him, looked at his profile etc. It did not bother me one bit. I am confused why somebody would get upset when something similar happens to them. If a close friend blocks you then yes I understand being upset. A random stranger blocks you then why on earth would you get upset? |
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