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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I mean whats the verdict on peops who charge for it, or the likes of me who give it for free whether it be by cam or flesh. personal choice and all that. but whats the general opinion. I have mine but would love to hear others views |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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do lots charge then.....? personally could never do that , just wouldnt feel right, for me it would make me feel cheap........ i find it even stranger that guys pay as well. but then again, i suppose we are all different xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i dont judge what so ever. Am just curious to other peoples opinions. I just sit back and watch people who do, being very judgemental about other aspects of peoples lives and think wtf. Each to their own I say. Anyhow Fatprick sez the amount of time i show my tits on chat rooms i should charge, but i reckon the audience would dry up then lol |
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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago
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I don't judge anyone
I have opinions some might not agree with
and asking about what someone does for work is like asking
should accountants use a swinging site
We cant all agree and I dont think we should try too quite frankly
If a person charges for work then gives it here from free its no ones business |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to there own i say.
Like as been said we all have opinions, not everyone will agree with your own, but i think what tells people apart are those that can listen to others opinions and those that just shout about there own and ignore others.
kat
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't judge anyone
I have opinions some might not agree with
and asking about what someone does for work is like asking
should accountants use a swinging site
We cant all agree and I dont think we should try too quite frankly
If a person charges for work then gives it here from free its no ones business"
I missed the bit where the OP asked what anyone did for work? or made reference to whether they were paid for it and gave it free here. She only asked what opinions were on pay or free.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well i get paid for work in the hospital but would never discount making money other ways. But i also do volunteer work at times. You do as you feel and if your at peace with yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Each to there own i say.
Like as been said we all have opinions, not everyone will agree with your own, but i think what tells people apart are those that can listen to others opinions and those that just shout about there own and ignore others.
kat
Totally agree,everyone is entitled to have thier own opinion and not get slated for it..
Each to their own if someone wants to pay someone for sex ot give it away for free we dont judge.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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have to be honest i do paid webcamming when im short of other work being a single self employed lady i have to support myself ..but i would never cross that with my swinging life.its just another way of earning a living .and i get far more pleasure from "giving it away " but i dont see it like that.theres a lot in it for me when i meet FAB guys .... its work whether im accounting designing modelling or camming...makes no odds to me really ? |
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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago
a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5 |
"I don't judge anyone
I have opinions some might not agree with
and asking about what someone does for work is like asking
should accountants use a swinging site
We cant all agree and I dont think we should try too quite frankly
If a person charges for work then gives it here from free its no ones business
I missed the bit where the OP asked what anyone did for work? or made reference to whether they were paid for it and gave it free here. She only asked what opinions were on pay or free. "
If you get paid for it
then surely that is a job
or am I way off base
I dont think I am
If you get paid for it, its a job
and if you give it away or for free or both it still is no ones business unless you are the person on the receiveing end of either arrangement
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"never pay for it
as you wont no who is watching
ya dont know who's watching if your giving it away for free either 
exactly....doh!!!!"
lets get the perspective on this ?..
i happily go on cam in the chat rooms and love to show off . im an exhibitionist and love to be watched ...but a few years ago a little voice inside me said "i bet there are people out there who would pay to watch ??" and there are and they might as well pay me !!.its not something i do evry day evey week or every month but I can and i will when the fancy takes me . never gone down the escorting road tho...thats not for me ...each to their own tho.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"never pay for it
as you wont no who is watching
ya dont know who's watching if your giving it away for free either
exactly....doh!!!!
lets get the perspective on this ?..
i happily go on cam in the chat rooms and love to show off . im an exhibitionist and love to be watched ...but a few years ago a little voice inside me said "i bet there are people out there who would pay to watch ??" and there are and they might as well pay me !!.its not something i do evry day evey week or every month but I can and i will when the fancy takes me . never gone down the escorting road tho...thats not for me ...each to their own tho...."
And why not get paid for doing something you enjoy,you are not hurting anyone and no one is hurting you..
Why cant people be allowed to voice what they want on here anymore without being shot down by others? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"never pay for it
as you wont no who is watching
ya dont know who's watching if your giving it away for free either
exactly....doh!!!!
lets get the perspective on this ?..
i happily go on cam in the chat rooms and love to show off . im an exhibitionist and love to be watched ...but a few years ago a little voice inside me said "i bet there are people out there who would pay to watch ??" and there are and they might as well pay me !!.its not something i do evry day evey week or every month but I can and i will when the fancy takes me . never gone down the escorting road tho...thats not for me ...each to their own tho....
And why not get paid for doing something you enjoy,you are not hurting anyone and no one is hurting you..
Why cant people be allowed to voice what they want on here anymore without being shot down by others?"
no one is shooting are they ??? just opinions being voiced ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't judge anyone
I have opinions some might not agree with
and asking about what someone does for work is like asking
should accountants use a swinging site
We cant all agree and I dont think we should try too quite frankly
If a person charges for work then gives it here from free its no ones business"
opinion's are like arseholes every 1 has 1 kev |
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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago
a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5 |
"I don't judge anyone
I have opinions some might not agree with
and asking about what someone does for work is like asking
should accountants use a swinging site
We cant all agree and I dont think we should try too quite frankly
If a person charges for work then gives it here from free its no ones business
opinion's are like arseholes every 1 has 1 kev"
how clever of you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i need an electrician and a plumber and if they doin it free even bloody better!!!!
i dont care what anyone does its none of my business really!!
as long as they not using the site to promote their "business" or rippin members off who really gives a shit?? xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what u done now???? x
One of the laptops has died  "
I am not an expert but I have had several PC's which have had probs, whats it doing that it shouldn't or whats it not doing that it should ??
If I can help I will |
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"what u done now???? x
One of the laptops has died
I suggest you put a meet today up
TECHY REQUIRED FOR SHAG AND ASSISTANCE
WITH DEAD LAPTOP
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It's me that needs the Kiss of Life the laptop can wait!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you know how to start it in safe mode?? ( assuming its a PC not a Mac )
If you start it as usual but as soon as any display appears on the screen repeatedly keep pressing the F8 key until the instruction screen comes on.
Then try following the options, one might be ~~~~ Last good configuration, if this works prob sorted, if not get back to me.
HTH, good luck |
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Hi plums
"Then try following the options, one might be ~~~~ Last good configuration, if this works prob sorted, if not get back to me"
I tried those options but the machine crashes just as those options come up, when I insert the mains lead, the charger light constantly flickers but it's not charging, if I take the battery out, and replace the mains, the charger light doesn't come on at all, the charger light only comes on when the battery is inserted.
I just called someone and explained the problem, they said the motherboard in *****  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi plums
Then try following the options, one might be ~~~~ Last good configuration, if this works prob sorted, if not get back to me
I tried those options but the machine crashes just as those options come up, when I insert the mains lead, the charger light constantly flickers but it's not charging, if I take the battery out, and replace the mains, the charger light doesn't come on at all, the charger light only comes on when the battery is inserted.
I just called someone and explained the problem, they said the motherboard in ***** "
awwwww, not good |
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"Hi plums
Then try following the options, one might be ~~~~ Last good configuration, if this works prob sorted, if not get back to me
I tried those options but the machine crashes just as those options come up, when I insert the mains lead, the charger light constantly flickers but it's not charging, if I take the battery out, and replace the mains, the charger light doesn't come on at all, the charger light only comes on when the battery is inserted.
I just called someone and explained the problem, they said the motherboard in *****
awwwww, not good "
Nah Apparently the machine can't be revived |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally would not pay cause I'm a tight ass anyway
But if someone wanted ta pay me(yeah ok so its a long shot)then why not lol
At the end of the day who am i ta judge others when i aint perfect myself xx |
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I with the exception of the crack-ho and pimps, I wouldn’t and don’t judge anyone for working in the sex industry, who does it through choice and aren’t claiming all sorts of benefit whilst doing their’job’…. though I think they should pay tax
When it comes to sex workers on swinging sites… hey why not, though you’d think most wouldn’t have that much recreational time left the hours many of them have to work…. But I can see the difference between doing a punter and choosing a playmate... and why should they not be allowed to enjoy recreational sex. There are some provisions to this thought though.
As long as they don’t use a recreational site to promote their ‘work’ either directly on their profile or via forums and chatrooms.
They don’t try using verifications from punters.
They don’t give out links to their ‘work’ profiles on another site to people on here.
They don’t refer to this site on their ‘working’ web page/site.
But then if they are taking the attitude that what they do for work is nothing to do with the people on a recreational site… then none of that should happen should it.
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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago
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"I personally would not pay cause I'm a tight ass anyway
But if someone wanted ta pay me(yeah ok so its a long shot)then why not lol
At the end of the day who am i ta judge others when i aint perfect myself xx "
I'll pay ya
I think your well cute |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll pay ya
I think your well cute
You aint met me yet lol xx 
so you would say no to this crisp 50 pound note then "
Make it two twenties and a ten (its a bugger changing fifties) and ya on lol xx |
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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago
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I'll pay ya
I think your well cute
You aint met me yet lol xx
so you would say no to this crisp 50 pound note then
Make it two twenties and a ten (its a bugger changing fifties) and ya on lol xx "
HAHAHA ok its a deal
see its so easy to get paid for it hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I mean whats the verdict on peops who charge for it, or the likes of me who give it for free whether it be by cam or flesh. personal choice and all that. but whats the general opinion. I have mine but would love to hear others views"
You don't charge? Damn - I better bet amov eon then before you change your mind as these "moments" don't come along often xxx
Ahabs. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I with the exception of the crack-ho and pimps, I wouldn’t and don’t judge anyone for working in the sex industry, who does it through choice and aren’t claiming all sorts of benefit whilst doing their’job’…. though I think they should pay tax
When it comes to sex workers on swinging sites… hey why not, though you’d think most wouldn’t have that much recreational time left the hours many of them have to work…. But I can see the difference between doing a punter and choosing a playmate... and why should they not be allowed to enjoy recreational sex. There are some provisions to this thought though.
As long as they don’t use a recreational site to promote their ‘work’ either directly on their profile or via forums and chatrooms.
They don’t try using verifications from punters.
They don’t give out links to their ‘work’ profiles on another site to people on here.
They don’t refer to this site on their ‘working’ web page/site.
But then if they are taking the attitude that what they do for work is nothing to do with the people on a recreational site… then none of that should happen should it.
actually if I was going to actually put my own opinion on it all then I would have put exactly what polo said, hence the quote. I couldnt have put it any better myself. people who know me, know am live and let live to what others do and am not judgemental.
the point of the thread was really just to see what others thought of it. to see how liberated swingers actually thought on this aspect.
i have sat back and watched the posts with interest. its just good to see differnt views as i said.
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personally i think it should be a case of live and let live, as long as they are not hurting anybody else by then let them get on with it, a few years ago i might have considered doing paid cam work but for the fact i might have ended up owing money cos i dont think people would pay to watch me, but as i said each to their own, cos i dont think someone's job defines them as a person, at the end of the day it is just that, a job  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I mean whats the verdict on peops who charge for it, or the likes of me who give it for free whether it be by cam or flesh. personal choice and all that. but whats the general opinion. I have mine but would love to hear others views"
each to their own in my opinion . personally i wouldnt mind one way or the other what people want to do , who am i to judge anyone ? my only thing would be as long as everyone knows the script and its not some dark secret then fair enough . wouldnt go in for it myself mind you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi, Im new here and dont really want to get shot down but, paying, does that mean your into prostitution. Swinging on the otherhand, I thought was a lifestyle thing. Confused. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just had a message from a fairly new profile for a similar thing .. he wants to pay me £60 an hour for some nude pics after a message saying he was too far away for me he raised this to £80 an hour now i may not be the ugliest person on the planet im pretty sure a normal model type and a lot of years younger than me are around on the net for this type of thing ?
Mind you if this was for real then i could buy those new boots ive been asking hubby for in about 3hrs of laying on my back letting some guy take a few pics of me in various positions? ermmmm or maybe he wants more than a few pics of me ???
Dont think i could actually charge someone it would go against everything i thought swinging was about xxx Lois xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There's lots to agree with on this thread and hardly anything to disagree with. Agree totally with Polo,ImaLady, CameraGuy70 and Lois.
I wouldn't judge or moralise with those that do sell services but I do see it as prostitution and can't think how anyone could argue their way out of that label.
Like someone above and I guess very many women on here. I have been contacted from the angle that the messenger thought I was a 'hooker' ( his words ) It was a mixup as my first name and a 'hooker's' name on site are the same.
It did piss me off. It did make me wonder who I am mixing with on here. So many women here complain that male users treat them like an item in a mail order catalogue. I'm not aware how many women here are working from meets but if it's sufficient that's enough to form male attitudes about the rest of us.
Like some have said. Taking money for it goes totally against what everyone here screams that swinging is about.
Do you think that if someone is paid for it they get the same kick as when they do it for free. Or is that totally dependent on the person? Flashing impulsively is a laugh. Sexually teasing someone you fancy is a real turn on. Getting them out for money occassionally could be exhilarating and horny as hell but I think that's because it's in the knowledge that you don't depend on the punter 24/7/365. I guess getting any part of you out and sharing it with someone you find pretty repugnant because you desparately need the money is not such a buzz. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have just got another message saying £100 per hour ........... how can anyone resist that amount of money ??
Easy really he has blocked me from replying lol xxx Lois xxx |
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"Hi plums
Then try following the options, one might be ~~~~ Last good configuration, if this works prob sorted, if not get back to me
I tried those options but the machine crashes just as those options come up, when I insert the mains lead, the charger light constantly flickers but it's not charging, if I take the battery out, and replace the mains, the charger light doesn't come on at all, the charger light only comes on when the battery is inserted.
I just called someone and explained the problem, they said the motherboard in *****
awwwww, not good
Nah Apparently the machine can't be revived "
Gonna send you a pvt mail as i think you might be on the wrong tack with your computer
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