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By *ixma OP Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
I'm intrigued with couples where just the wife plays. If one day the other half says enough I don't want us to swing anymore could the wife just stop just like that or would it be to hard to resist still playing after all the fun she's been having over the years? |
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over a year ago
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"I'm intrigued with couples where just the wife plays. If one day the other half says enough I don't want us to swing anymore could the wife just stop just like that or would it be to hard to resist still playing after all the fun she's been having over the years?"
I Lyn play while my OH watches, he loves watching me being naughty, and while I really enjoy it by no means do we need to swing all the time. Its his mind that turns me on. Swinging is just an extension its not everything. So to answer your question yes I could stop and yes I could resist. |
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I think what a lot of people don't understand about couples who are in this totally together is the level of trust and understanding that exists and the reason that they swing is for each others pleasure, once one of them no longer finds it as pleasurable they can both stop with no qualms. There are couples where one of them is only doing it to please the other, that's when issues like this arise |
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"I think what a lot of people don't understand about couples who are in this totally together is the level of trust and understanding that exists and the reason that they swing is for each others pleasure, once one of them no longer finds it as pleasurable they can both stop with no qualms. There are couples where one of them is only doing it to please the other, that's when issues like this arise "
Great reply
We both love to see each other having fun and being pleasured
The trust we have is second to none
Infact the sex we have after is often mind blowing
Can we stop ? Perhaps
But why would we want to
It's fun , it's erotic , it's sexy and we live it ! |
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"I think what a lot of people don't understand about couples who are in this totally together is the level of trust and understanding that exists and the reason that they swing is for each others pleasure, once one of them no longer finds it as pleasurable they can both stop with no qualms. There are couples where one of them is only doing it to please the other, that's when issues like this arise
Great reply
We both love to see each other having fun and being pleasured
The trust we have is second to none
Infact the sex we have after is often mind blowing
Can we stop ? Perhaps
But why would we want to
It's fun , it's erotic , it's sexy and we live it ! "
well said |
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By *andWCouple
over a year ago
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We always play together but if either if us wanted to stop for ANY reason then we would.
Our relationship comes before any thing, and I would think that most couples, people who play together, couples where one doesn't take part etc would think the same x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, could easily stop, like explained before, swinging is an extension, the real fun is had leading upto and after the meet, and if either of us decided that we didnt want to do it, then we would stop.
Personally in our opinion, we think if you couldnt give it up then your swinging for the wrong reasons. |
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By *ixma OP Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"Yes, could easily stop, like explained before, swinging is an extension, the real fun is had leading upto and after the meet, and if either of us decided that we didnt want to do it, then we would stop.
Personally in our opinion, we think if you couldnt give it up then your swinging for the wrong reasons."
Good replies but this one sums it up the best I think |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm intrigued with couples where just the wife plays. If one day the other half says enough I don't want us to swing anymore could the wife just stop just like that or would it be to hard to resist still playing after all the fun she's been having over the years?"
I play with my OH, not on my own and if either of us were not happy to continue swinging we would stop instantly.
My relationship and future happiness is worth a million times more than 5 mins of fun. |
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By *andWCouple
over a year ago
Pontypridd |
"I'm intrigued with couples where just the wife plays. If one day the other half says enough I don't want us to swing anymore could the wife just stop just like that or would it be to hard to resist still playing after all the fun she's been having over the years?
I play with my OH, not on my own and if either of us were not happy to continue swinging we would stop instantly.
My relationship and future happiness is worth a million times more than 5 mins of fun."
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