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Personally I prefer a message, one that shows the individual has taken time to read your profile and preferences.
A wink is ok if followed by a message IMO  |
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If you view taking the time to write a message as a waste - just because it may get deleted - then i think you may struggle on here without a change of attitude!
Nothing in life or on Fab is guaranteed but without taking a chance you're likely to end up nothing other than frustrated and disillusioned! |
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"If you view taking the time to write a message as a waste - just because it may get deleted - then i think you may struggle on here without a change of attitude!
Nothing in life or on Fab is guaranteed but without taking a chance you're likely to end up nothing other than frustrated and disillusioned!"
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We don't mind winks at all.
Yep it breaks the ice and if we are interested we would wink back.
It would be at that point we would expect a decent message which we would always reply to. |
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"Personally I prefer a message, one that shows the individual has taken time to read your profile and preferences.
A wink is ok if followed by a message IMO "
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"If you view taking the time to write a message as a waste - just because it may get deleted - then i think you may struggle on here without a change of attitude!
Nothing in life or on Fab is guaranteed but without taking a chance you're likely to end up nothing other than frustrated and disillusioned!"
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"If you view taking the time to write a message as a waste - just because it may get deleted - then i think you may struggle on here without a change of attitude!
Nothing in life or on Fab is guaranteed but without taking a chance you're likely to end up nothing other than frustrated and disillusioned!"
I don't think there's anything wrong with his attitude. In life, how many of us genuinely have the bottle to start a conversation with someone we'd like to ask out, let alone sex with?
And how are these conversations usually started? A smile or a wink across a room. If you get a smile back, then you approach and then comes the dialogue.
I think it's not a case of either/or when it comes to winks and messages but using them together in a similar way as if trying to meet that person face to face.
I think it's simply a change of style in approach is what the OP needs. Lets face it, seeing what you thought was a "well structured" message deleted seconds after you've sent it for reasons unknown will naturally get to you!  |
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"Personally I prefer a message, one that shows the individual has taken time to read your profile and preferences.
A wink is ok if followed by a message IMO "
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"If you view taking the time to write a message as a waste - just because it may get deleted - then i think you may struggle on here without a change of attitude!
Nothing in life or on Fab is guaranteed but without taking a chance you're likely to end up nothing other than frustrated and disillusioned!
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"I don't look at my winks. I've currently got 180 sat the from the past few weeks. "
I currently have 1297 new ones after clearing mine a fortnight ago.
So sod looking at them! A message for me every time. |
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"I don't look at my winks. I've currently got 180 sat the from the past few weeks.
I currently have 1297 new ones after clearing mine a fortnight ago.
So sod looking at them! A message for me every time."
Ha! I just went through mine. 90% of which clearly haven't bothered looking at my profile preference or have and just chose to ignore it. Ages ranging from 18-74!!! Lol. At least 30 had no pics at all let alone a face pic so wouldn't bother messaging them anyway. A few are old faces/friends. And ONE... Yes one was someone not too far away that I'd consider meeting! |
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my wink point(being serious for a change), I have enough on my profile..even some pics that are face shots
so if I wink someone the idea is if they like me,they wink back
steady on they arent shagging me yet ffs
a winkback, means I can progress to the next stage
thats all..and yes..i think anti winkers are far too anal about the whole thing, thats my opinion. |
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"my wink point(being serious for a change), I have enough on my profile..even some pics that are face shots
so if I wink someone the idea is if they like me,they wink back
steady on they arent shagging me yet ffs
a winkback, means I can progress to the next stage
thats all..and yes..i think anti winkers are far too anal about the whole thing, thats my opinion."
*and if a wink insinuates im lazy in bed etc etc blahhblahhblahh, it only appears to me that they are probably a little too anal for my likings
a wink doesnt mean someone wont communicate, its the simple opener thats all |
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If someone winked me that was within my preferences etc (or at least close) and had a face pic that I could see in public album then id message back.
I do think a married 74 year old from up north (example not actual profile) is pushing their luck a bit tho lol x |
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"If someone winked me that was within my preferences etc (or at least close) and had a face pic that I could see in public album then id message back.
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Very much agreed! |
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