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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi been on the site a bit now and have found a few couples where the male is not allowed to go near a female.

Any views on this do you think the female of the couple are the dominant half

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing to do with being dominant as I have met a few couples where the male either doesn't play at all or only plays with his wife, just how it is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

personally I think its a bit unfair but different people like different things and if that's someone's rule so be it.

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By *it of fun cplCouple over a year ago

village between York and Hull

I am the male half and do not play, main reason is I enjoy MrsH being pleasured and in the past when we have played in a 4 some I spend more time trying to watch MrsH than paying attention to the lady I was playing with so I felt it was disrespectful to the lady so ended up just watching and that is how we developed to me being a voyuer. Nothing to do with domination, its just what floats our boat.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

its whatever turns u on ,everyones fantasy is different,we pref mmf not in to the ladies that much but if we were all the same it would be boring

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am not aloud to touch a fem or fem touch me mrs hedo dont want me too,

but im ok as I love to see mrs hedo having fun in whatever form that may take

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

some will, some wont..

as long as its up front it gives other the choice to contact said..

horses for courses etc..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nothing to do with domination, its just what floats our boat."

This and people play the way that they are comfortable with and that is predetermined down to each individual couple.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You do see this a lot but as long as they are happy to do so good on them although wouldn't be for us.

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By *othingbetterthansexCouple over a year ago

Accrington

We enjoy playing as a straight couple with straight male company so Mrs gets spoilt. I have no complaints as I am only interested in Mrs and Mrs's pleasure. Not into being a spectator either, I'm a hands on kind of guy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was in one relationship once where my lover had had very little sexual experience before me, and we wanted her to have more. So in swing clubs she would have sex with the men and women and I would escort her and soft play. As long as everyone knew the rules that worked well, and she managed to develop her confidence.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If its down to the guy being voyeuristic or a fantasy the couple have then fair enough.

If, on the other hand, its just because the woman of the couple doesn't want her man to play with other women, but she wants to play with other men, we'd say that was either selfishness, insecurity or domination.

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By *livia_KWoman over a year ago

South London

"personally I think its a bit unfair but different people like different things and if that's someone's rule so be it."

Why would someone's personal preferences or turn ons be unfair? As long as you're open about it from the get go I don't see a problem. If that's not your thing don't go there. Simples.

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