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Is it just me or....,
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One lady I spoke to briefly like 4 months ago (never met her) randomly sent me a msg asking me if I'm able to give her a lift to a 'bbc meet' .... I replied just to clarify, that is she being serious and actually asking me to pick her up and drive her to another guys house .... She replied basically ... 'Yes ,,,you could have got to play too'
to which I replied, no offence but I'm not that desperate ...
I'm not sure, did I overreact ....???? I mean I'd understand if me and her had some sort of friendship ... But I found her request kinda rude and degrading ...lol or am I the one being rude here.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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take some impulsive fun..honestly..whats the issue?
unless u just want 1on1 fun?
If i liked her, I would have went...and of course, had a great time meeting the other guy if he was a decent laugh
degraded? nahh...uve just missed out on some sexual fun, if she wasnt ur thing fair enough.
this IS a swinging environment, it normally includes group sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ur totally right. Friend of mine in fab said got similar request from a female expecting him to be her taxi. Personally I couldn't even consider typing such a request let alone seriously expect a tea reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That is unbelievable! Fab taxi service? Maybe you could think about it as a business idea. Also, I know a lot of people use it and are ok with it, but I personally can't stand the term BBC."
he was asked if wanted to also play..what IS the issue??????
I still dont see where the desperation part comes in
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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read the OP's interests, that gives me a clue, u might have enjoyed the meet.I'm stating again , she invited u to play.
Ive had several guy pals ive ended up messaging for lifts to gangbangs..I think only one guy actually asked what was in it for him....DuHHHHHHHH!
I'm really surprised at the response to a gangbang meetup, just cos she asked for a lift?????- to another guys house!!!?!
shocking |
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Mate, each to their own . Some pple have pride . Some don't . I've given lifts to party's etc ... Especially if its someone ive met or at least talk to quite regularly,....But u gotta realise the last contact I had from this lady was 4 months ago ...which made it random, we are all different tho, like I said some has pride, some don't ... Even though I probably would have had the opportunity to play I still don't feel like I must run taxi duties before I get lucky ... It ain't that serious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mate, each to their own . Some pple have pride . Some don't . I've given lifts to party's etc ... Especially if its someone ive met or at least talk to quite regularly,....But u gotta realise the last contact I had from this lady was 4 months ago ...which made it random, we are all different tho, like I said some has pride, some don't ... Even though I probably would have had the opportunity to play I still don't feel like I must run taxi duties before I get lucky ... It ain't that serious. "
fair enough, but I dont chat to people for months on end, especially on a consistent basis.so to me, if I felt like it I would have just went and had some fun.I dont take it that serious either, but hey...some people might just come across as cheeky, but urself and her must have had some connection at the start.IMO are u doing anything better tonite?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol, mate, I'm having an American dad new season marathon ..... This shit is funny lol. "
fuck that geez a lift to this gangbang,u can wait outside till I come out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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she was taking piss! if had wanted to meet u she would of done..yet happy to meet you basically for a lift to go get fucked by someone else.... personaly if guy did that to me and wanted me drive em fuck another Tgirl id tell em f**k off as its an insult! especialy if chatted months before hand yet never met! |
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"she was taking piss! if had wanted to meet u she would of done..yet happy to meet you basically for a lift to go get fucked by someone else.... personaly if guy did that to me and wanted me drive em fuck another Tgirl id tell em f**k off as its an insult! especialy if chatted months before hand yet never met!"
spot on !!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would depend on how she approached the subject.
If it was "hi there, know we've not chatted for a while but wondered if you'd fancy a 3sum with me and another black guy? If so could you pick me up" etc...then I'd be ok with that.
If it was "hi there, I'm meeting another black guy but need a lift, can you help" then definitely not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Notice its just the men saying you should of done it. But I'm with you, you done the right thing in my opinion. Nice to see a guy with standards. X"
so I dont have standards because I dont take opportunities, or have an impulsive drive..aye ok lol |
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"Notice its just the men saying you should of done it. But I'm with you, you done the right thing in my opinion. Nice to see a guy with standards. X
so I dont have standards because I dont take opportunities, or have an impulsive drive..aye ok lol "
Ffs paddy! We all know you have standards.
It's just that they're not the same as anyone else's...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Notice its just the men saying you should of done it. But I'm with you, you done the right thing in my opinion. Nice to see a guy with standards. X
so I dont have standards because I dont take opportunities, or have an impulsive drive..aye ok lol
Ffs paddy! We all know you have standards.
It's just that they're not the same as anyone else's... "
shhh am just teasing lol  |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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I think you did right, she was being cheeky. Perhaps if she'd approached it in another way, then maybe it might have been different.
On the same topic, I had a guy message me last month saying he was really looking forwards to seeing me at the Paradise Club, which was great. On the next message he then let me know he couldn't get there and would I mind picking him up and taking him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"she was taking piss! if had wanted to meet u she would of done..yet happy to meet you basically for a lift to go get fucked by someone else.... personaly if guy did that to me and wanted me drive em fuck another Tgirl id tell em f**k off as its an insult! especialy if chatted months before hand yet never met!"
^^^ this! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think you did right, she was being cheeky. Perhaps if she'd approached it in another way, then maybe it might have been different.
On the same topic, I had a guy message me last month saying he was really looking forwards to seeing me at the Paradise Club, which was great. On the next message he then let me know he couldn't get there and would I mind picking him up and taking him. "
Hi Tina, let us know when you're on the taxi run again to paradise please and you can sling by Newark on the way and pick us up too so we can both have a beer or two.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only as bad as a guy i met....had met him a couple of times at a club....and not actually had a full on one on one meet,just a little bit of contact.
He mailed ne asking if i fancied spending a night with him and having some fun so i agreed....after making the arrangements he then said oh and there will be another couple with us!!!
Erm i choose who i arrange to play with i dont need it arranged for me thank you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She maybe think all men are hard up on fab and will do what ever for a shag ....... your right in feeling like you do ... Your not here to be a mug and to run around for others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people have no shame. What a cheek and to insult you by offering you to play after you questioned her, well says more about her then you!
You were perfectly right in saying NO. |
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