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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all, i came on here as a couple..but since he walked away from me after he lied to cover more lies to cover a big lie, i am now on here as a single woman.
So please be gentle x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all, i came on here as a couple..but since he walked away from me after he lied to cover more lies to cover a big lie, i am now on here as a single woman.
So please be gentle x"
Your better off alone, especially from liars they never change. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all, i came on here as a couple..but since he walked away from me after he lied to cover more lies to cover a big lie, i am now on here as a single woman.
So please be gentle x"
I found that when I was in a similar situation last year that the people that came to my support have become my most valued friends.
But.... Be careful as no matter how strong you think you are, your vulnerable currently.. so give yourself time. |
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I avoid like the plague people recently out of long term relationships trying to ease their pain by using casual sex as a panacea.
In my experience they do not make good bedfellows. Take time out to "heal" op, then enjoy the bounty on offer here.
Good luck! |
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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago
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Having fun socially will be a huge lift, becareful of playing if you're a tad vulnerable atm. This is the time to get support from friends and family.
No doubt you have friends off here you can trust that you know would be there to chat, not exploit ?
If you were closer we,d invite you over for a bbq and a laugh. Do everything you can to avoid dwelling over it. Life is too short xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I avoid like the plague people recently out of long term relationships trying to ease their pain by using casual sex as a panacea.
In my experience they do not make good bedfellows. Take time out to "heal" op, then enjoy the bounty on offer here.
Good luck!"
 yeah get your head straight first is good advice |
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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago
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Well, I'm sorry to hear your plight. Your better off out of there.. That's for certain.. You'll always have a mixed review, "you get over the last by climbing on the next, get your head straight first etc"
Personally I'd say don't do anything until your sure. It's not a good place to be when you freak out with a stranger
Either way. Time to start living for you know. Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Having fun socially will be a huge lift, becareful of playing if you're a tad vulnerable atm. This is the time to get support from friends and family.
No doubt you have friends off here you can trust that you know would be there to chat, not exploit ?
If you were closer we,d invite you over for a bbq and a laugh. Do everything you can to avoid dwelling over it. Life is too short xxx"
Thank you, what you have said is so true xx |
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"Hi all, i came on here as a couple..but since he walked away from me after he lied to cover more lies to cover a big lie, i am now on here as a single woman.
So please be gentle x"
What a complete prick. Hope you find lots of fun. x |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"I avoid like the plague people recently out of long term relationships trying to ease their pain by using casual sex as a panacea.
In my experience they do not make good bedfellows. Take time out to "heal" op, then enjoy the bounty on offer here.
Good luck!"
actually i am sure the "white knights" will be along... but I tend to absolutely agree...... nothing wrong with taking a bit of me time
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all, i came on here as a couple..but since he walked away from me after he lied to cover more lies to cover a big lie, i am now on here as a single woman.
So please be gentle x"
welcome and have fun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all, i came on here as a couple..but since he walked away from me after he lied to cover more lies to cover a big lie, i am now on here as a single woman.
So please be gentle x"
Definitely his loss. Silly man - you're hot!! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Welcome. I would definitely say give yourself as much time as you need before jumping into casual sex.
Sounds a similar story to mine, all the lies etc.
I did it too soon and learned the hard way. Thats why im just sticking to existing friends at the moment.
When your ready, get out there and have a damn good time. X
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Welcome. I would definitely say give yourself as much time as you need before jumping into casual sex.
Sounds a similar story to mine, all the lies etc.
I did it too soon and learned the hard way. Thats why im just sticking to existing friends at the moment.
When your ready, get out there and have a damn good time. X
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi all, i came on here as a couple..but since he walked away from me after he lied to cover more lies to cover a big lie, i am now on here as a single woman.
So please be gentle x
Definitely his loss. Silly man - you're hot!! X"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all, i came on here as a couple..but since he walked away from me after he lied to cover more lies to cover a big lie, i am now on here as a single woman.
So please be gentle x"
More fool him, chin up x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all, i came on here as a couple..but since he walked away from me after he lied to cover more lies to cover a big lie, i am now on here as a single woman.
So please be gentle x
I found that when I was in a similar situation last year that the people that came to my support have become my most valued friends.
But.... Be careful as no matter how strong you think you are, your vulnerable currently.. so give yourself time. "
I too have been in a similar situation and what Cali said is very true. Its taken me 6 months, lots of wine, buckets of years and a coucellor to finally find the strength and peace.....just take care and you are way better off than being with a liar xxx big hugs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi all, i came on here as a couple..but since he walked away from me after he lied to cover more lies to cover a big lie, i am now on here as a single woman.
So please be gentle x
I found that when I was in a similar situation last year that the people that came to my support have become my most valued friends.
But.... Be careful as no matter how strong you think you are, your vulnerable currently.. so give yourself time.
I too have been in a similar situation and what Cali said is very true. Its taken me 6 months, lots of wine, buckets of years and a coucellor to finally find the strength and peace.....just take care and you are way better off than being with a liar xxx big hugs "
Thank you chick xx |
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Not to repeat wot others have said but recently in similar situation..found out my partner pues about pretty much everything n was chattin n prob meetin others for sex....ironically thats how i found out about this lovely site so spose not all bad. Its his loss hun n u do wot feels right for you. Xx |
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Onwards and upwards.
A sexy girl like you will no doubt be able to have as much fun as she wants.
Do whatever feels right but I'd agree with the other advice that make sure you're ready.
When you are there is a hell of a banquet to choose from.
Keep smiling and look to the future x |
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