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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I had my first sober mmf on Saturday.. I was overcame by nerves and too me a while to 'rise to the occasion' so to speak, has anyone else had this happen, it must be common.. These guys were a very hot couple and didnt put me under pressure.. Ive Never had it happen when I've been doing 1on 1 |
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yes it can happen and as difficult as it is you should try and put it out of your mind. I imagine that being a single man joining a couple must be nerve wracking and most of us understand that and think nothing of it  . Next time will be fine. |
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Notice no other guys have replied lol.
Its normal mate .
Few years ago I was good friends with a couple and very at ease with them untill we had a drink one night an was suggested we all play 
Once play was just starting I too had same problem and took a little time to " rise "
Didn't help when you could hear my knees knocking. Either |
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over a year ago
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well i have to be honest and its nothing i have ever experienced before -- it just goes to show that we are all different and things happen to us all that are not always the same -- lets hope that the next time you find all is OK from the start |
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The nerves are all part of the fun for me, they never leave altogether but they do become more manageable.
You say it was your first sober mmf, I presume you've had d*unken encounters without the same issue rearing its head?
I for one think that swinging sober is much more fun but maybe a couple of social drinks with the couple first could work for you.
Seems obvious from the response on here that your "problem" isn't a problem at all and let's face it you rose to the occasion in the end.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I confess to having it happen once or twice & always when its a first meet.
It tends to happen to me when I don't know the others involved very well ie either no chat or social meet beforehand.
Its a mental thing.
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