Sooooo difficult to find genuine people to come to our parties. We end up having to cancel cos couples say they're well up for it and then...not!! Our nxt party 27th July so hoping people are genuine this time!  |
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Yeah shame isnt it cos there are couples who you know are definitely looking to enjoy good party and then there ar others who unfortunately like to gab through message and get their names on the guest list-see the guest list and then oooops, forgot got a wedding to go to lol. Hoping this one goes great |
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"Sooooo difficult to find genuine people to come to our parties. We end up having to cancel cos couples say they're well up for it and then...not!! Our nxt party 27th July so hoping people are genuine this time! "
I know wot u mean, im trying to arrange one in august and no one seems that keen.....its odd |
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Seems to be common on here. Some couples are worse than single guys. We have arranged hotel meets where for over 2 weeks we chat to couples who say they will definately be there and when the evening arrives no show. Either bad excusrs or many times no message to say they are coming. Dont understand what they get from it. We think im many instances its the male of the couple getting off on the horny chat beforehand. |
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"Sooooo difficult to find genuine people to come to our parties. We end up having to cancel cos couples say they're well up for it and then...not!! Our nxt party 27th July so hoping people are genuine this time!
I know wot u mean, im trying to arrange one in august and no one seems that keen.....its odd "
Often its the week running up to the party that people get in touch so good luck with that...hope turns out for you...and us! We sometimes dont put it up on events and browse couples who we would like to invite...thats worked out before! But had a few we have had to cancel cos couples saying they are coming and then on the day or day before cancelling. Fingers, toes, eyes crossed that this one's successful cos want it  |
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"Seems to be common on here. Some couples are worse than single guys. We have arranged hotel meets where for over 2 weeks we chat to couples who say they will definately be there and when the evening arrives no show. Either bad excusrs or many times no message to say they are coming. Dont understand what they get from it. We think im many instances its the male of the couple getting off on the horny chat beforehand."
Know exactly what you mean! And we have often said we think its the male side of the couple who wants it and then has to maybe try talk his lady round to the idea or like u say, just likes the talk through message. Obviously things can go wrong, understand that like but all in all there r too many couples who really were not going to come anyway! I mean at last minute they were not going to have just forgot they had a wedding to go to lmao. |
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"I think same as normal parties allow for approx third of guests not to turn up"
you're dead right so think the best is to over invite lol...so could end up with very full house (fun springs to mind lol) or the amount wanted |
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We've had some great times at our parties but people just dont come when they sa they are and of course that lets down the other couples. Well...will give it another go on 27th and hope all come...wish us luck and of course if you find yourselves up our end...you're more than welcome 
