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men do improve with age in many respects. Every age has its compensations though and men and women of all ages should be appreciated for what they are rather than compared to older or younger people  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"do older men improve with age"
Yes mine man definitely does improve with age. Long term partnership helps and remembering all the best ways to stimulate each other is the key. Not a mans (or womans) age its whether he's simply a good lover wanting to improve.  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"men do improve with age in many respects. Every age has its compensations though and men and women of all ages should be appreciated for what they are rather than compared to older or younger people "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My opinion is yes we do, we go from young guys wanting to look good and perform and pleasure ourselves only, to wanting to pleasure the lady more and have a long sweaty enjoyable time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Old men seldom repeat.... "
I have had one who came 10 times in one session, each session we met, and I have met others who could come more than once, think you are just meeting the wrong ones  |
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"Old men seldom repeat....
I have had one who came 10 times in one session, each session we met, and I have met others who could come more than once, think you are just meeting the wrong ones "
Not just about the right or wrong guys it equally can be the chemistry and the atmosphere of the occasion and how much effort is put in by all concerned |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Old men seldom repeat....
I have had one who came 10 times in one session, each session we met, and I have met others who could come more than once, think you are just meeting the wrong ones
Not just about the right or wrong guys it equally can be the chemistry and the atmosphere of the occasion and how much effort is put in by all concerned"
In that case I am the hottest gran I know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Old men seldom repeat....
I have had one who came 10 times in one session, each session we met, and I have met others who could come more than once, think you are just meeting the wrong ones "
Repeat??? that would eat into our warm milk and jigsaw time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Old men seldom repeat....
I have had one who came 10 times in one session, each session we met, and I have met others who could come more than once, think you are just meeting the wrong ones
Not just about the right or wrong guys it equally can be the chemistry and the atmosphere of the occasion and how much effort is put in by all concerned
In that case I am the hottest gran I know "
You get my vote
I SAID YOU GET MY VOTE |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Old men seldom repeat....
I have had one who came 10 times in one session, each session we met, and I have met others who could come more than once, think you are just meeting the wrong ones
Not just about the right or wrong guys it equally can be the chemistry and the atmosphere of the occasion and how much effort is put in by all concerned
In that case I am the hottest gran I know
You get my vote
I SAID YOU GET MY VOTE "
Poke? Poke what |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love young, handsome, fit, sexy, guys. An older guy would have to be pretty special. Then again, i love a good personality too and someone that can make me laugh can win me over. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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in my experience I have found older guys are much better at oral, most young guys don't bother giving oral or arnt much good at it and only bob their head down for 1 min so they can say they have made the effort
Tho younger guys tend to have more stamina
so a 3sum with one older and one young suits me fine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find older guys are less selfish and know what buttons to press "
you cant teach experience. Like anything in life you get better the more you do it and with the older you get 
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Very true when you are older you have so much experience and enjoy someone else's pleasure as much if not more than your own you will find with an older guy its not a sprint it's a jog and a very long and pleasurable one too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think older men are sexier but don't tend to repeat quite as much as a younger bloke.. Still prefer older though. I just make do with a couple of decent times rather than 10 pish ones.. Just my opinion you understand xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't generalise people on their age.. The only difference between ages is physical.. A 20 year old is physically different from a 60 year old, anything else is stereotyping.
I like the physical form of younger men myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course it's a huge generalisation bit then most discussions are. From personal experience I've found that men my age and in their 50s have been more skillful than younger guys. But then guys in their 30s have also been rather talented.
It depends what you're after I guess. I cannot stand rough sex, I cant stand banging away for ages and I don't like repeaters. Give me 10 minutes of sensual, skilful sex than 2 hours of constant hard banging away with the noise of slapping bodies together.
In my experience there are more younger men who do the hard banging away than older guys. Fit lean 6 pack bodies aren't as important to me as skillful sex is.
I am a lover of oral sex, receiving that is. I don't like guys who lick like their having an ice lolly, stopping and starting and constantly changing speed and motion when licking really annoys me and I find younger guys do this more. Older guys seem to have better skills.
But mainly I've found that guys who watch porn and imitate porn actors moves are not very good in the sack. A man who is in tune with a womans body, and that's the one he's with and not keep to the same technique with every woman, a man who can translate whether an oo and ahh is one of pleasure and not discomfort, a man who can tell when a woman hits that zone of being totally immersed in pleasure and not quiet through boredom, a man who can interpret how her body is moving and not that she's moving away because she wants him to stop what he's doing, a man who doesn't need to be told what to do, who can just understand, then I want those men, regardless of age. (but I've never found these men in the 20s age bracket yet) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course it's a huge generalisation bit then most discussions are. From personal experience I've found that men my age and in their 50s have been more skillful than younger guys. But then guys in their 30s have also been rather talented.
It depends what you're after I guess. I cannot stand rough sex, I cant stand banging away for ages and I don't like repeaters. Give me 10 minutes of sensual, skilful sex than 2 hours of constant hard banging away with the noise of slapping bodies together.
In my experience there are more younger men who do the hard banging away than older guys. Fit lean 6 pack bodies aren't as important to me as skillful sex is.
I am a lover of oral sex, receiving that is. I don't like guys who lick like their having an ice lolly, stopping and starting and constantly changing speed and motion when licking really annoys me and I find younger guys do this more. Older guys seem to have better skills.
But mainly I've found that guys who watch porn and imitate porn actors moves are not very good in the sack. A man who is in tune with a womans body, and that's the one he's with and not keep to the same technique with every woman, a man who can translate whether an oo and ahh is one of pleasure and not discomfort, a man who can tell when a woman hits that zone of being totally immersed in pleasure and not quiet through boredom, a man who can interpret how her body is moving and not that she's moving away because she wants him to stop what he's doing, a man who doesn't need to be told what to do, who can just understand, then I want those men, regardless of age. (but I've never found these men in the 20s age bracket yet) "
Absolutely spot on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its true us guys in our 20s are rude have no manners, no skill in bed, just bang away for ages, nothing sensual just hard shagging and most of all were immature
now where did i leave my colouring book..................... |
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"its true us guys in our 20s are rude have no manners, no skill in bed, just bang away for ages, nothing sensual just hard shagging and most of all were immature
now where did i leave my colouring book..................... "
lol!
You make a very good point. You could be describing SOME men of any age there.
The age debate rages on in the fora and teh conclusion is always the same......some people go for older and some don't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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us "older men "have nothing to prove most have been there and got the t shirt and now we can enjoy love making at a slower pace or as fast as the person or persons you are with  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its true us guys in our 20s are rude have no manners, no skill in bed, just bang away for ages, nothing sensual just hard shagging and most of all were immature
now where did i leave my colouring book..................... "
Haha don't worry.. The best guys I've ever had have been in their early 20's!
In my experience this whole skillful experienced thing has never worked for me.. Older guys I found thought they knew it all, but us woman are all different. Younger guys are eager and keen and listen to what I want and aren't offended if I make suggestions.. |
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"After avoiding the older man on here i now have a wonderful FB who is 10 years my senior. Hes polite, genuine, unselfish, and a damn fine fuck "
On behalf of the older gentlemen on this site I thank you MWAH xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I suppose it has got a lot to do with Maturity too. I do like older guys and always have done. My ex was 11 years older than I .. That was until my FWB and he's 10 years younger than me xx |
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I feel my grandfather was correct
This applies to all situations
A good younger man is better than a good older man , however finding a good younger man is difficult
Based upon this I strived to be that good younger man and sadly although I am confident I'm better than the average younger man I know I'm not as good as I was 3 years ago thus I can only keep up with 26 to 30 year old ladies and not the insatiable over 30s |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the main thing is that older people have less to prove and are prepared to take their time. I had an encounter with an otherwise sensitive, pleasant younger lover recently, but this person was so pressured and eager in the bedroom I felt I was in some porno flick. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is a thread titled "older woman" and everyone on there has got at the op for refering to ladies as older..
What a different reaction on this thread! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think men improve with age and experience. As the years go by men should learn how a women like's to be satisfied.
Usually we can last a lot longer than the younger guy who just wants to satisfy his own needs.
But i would say this because i'm an older guy lol  |
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"There is a thread titled "older woman" and everyone on there has got at the op for refering to ladies as older..
What a different reaction on this thread!"
I think that probably shows that men are less sensitive about age when it comes to sex. |
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"People are individuals. The only ones who improve with age are the ones who were good to start with.
I have met plenty of older men who are convinced that if they just keep doing whatever technique they have developed that eventually I will get it and cum loads. All the while totally ignoring that not only is their technique not getting me wet but it is also really annoying me and their shushing of my every attempt to tell them (god forbid I should interrupt a master at work) is leading towards a kick in the goolies 
And I have met young men who are not only good at what they are doing but also receptive to my bodies signals and open to suggestions.
The ones who are like this are the ones who improve with age. It is rare for a crap shagfest to get better unless taken in hand by a very patient and forthright woman - and who occasionally us can be arsed when we can simply move on to the next...  "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my fella is older than me only by 6yrs but by far the best lover ive had. i used to go for younger guys but i seem to have been missing out on the experience an older guy has. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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what the fuck is all this repeat bollox about ? look at the facts a old tom cat that has shagged it self silly is no good for the younger pussy at all so your better off with a geezer who holds the fuck back and shoots once yet can shag all night if he's feeling like it.
I know when i have been shagging to long as my cock gets friction burns hahah |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what the fuck is all this repeat bollox about ? look at the facts a old tom cat that has shagged it self silly is no good for the younger pussy at all so your better off with a geezer who holds the fuck back and shoots once yet can shag all night if he's feeling like it.
I know when i have been shagging to long as my cock gets friction burns hahah "
Its exactly that attitude that would put me off lol, kitten |
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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago
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I went to a club at the weekend and I noticed a lot of younger guys wanking but struggling to get it up. Whereas the few silver haired gents there appeared to have no trouble ... whenever I saw them they were fucking someone or walking around with a stiffie! just an observation! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"as my name says i have no problem getting hard lol and can last much longer now and know what a sexy lady likes xx "
That's exactly what puts me off.. How can you know what I like as we are all different :/
Atleast young guys are eager and listen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"as my name says i have no problem getting hard lol and can last much longer now and know what a sexy lady likes xx
That's exactly what puts me off.. How can you know what I like as we are all different :/
Atleast young guys are eager and listen "
Yeah, but us 'older' guys just need to turn the hearing aid up and we can hear you even when your thighs are wrapped around our head! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"as my name says i have no problem getting hard lol and can last much longer now and know what a sexy lady likes xx
That's exactly what puts me off.. How can you know what I like as we are all different :/
Atleast young guys are eager and listen "
I have to be honest I agree with you on this one
when I have met younger guys and they havnt really hit the spot they have been happy to listen and have had no problem with me asking them to try it different ways, I think a lot of young guys like meeting older women to teach them so are happy to take constructive criticism
Where as some older guys I have met have been out right insulted at me suggesting them may want to try it a different way and i've had a few say things like....well i've never had any complaints before |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"do older men improve with age"
Nope
We tire more quickly
We are usually not as stiff of cock as a 40 year old
It takes us longer to recover
We'd rather play during day n we don't do overnights
N we get irritated by silly nonsenseness
Well maybe it's JUST ME of course!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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mmmmmm Phil is older and oh hell yes, he has definatley taught me a thing or two
was with a younger guy for 7 years and it was good dont get me wrong but with Phil its mind blowing whether thats because he allows me to be greedy and i him or not i dont know  |
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By *1ckeyMan
over a year ago
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"men do improve with age in many respects. Every age has its compensations though and men and women of all ages should be appreciated for what they are rather than compared to older or younger people "
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By *ogetitMan
over a year ago
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If at least six of you nice ladies fancies doing a test survey (no not together I am not superman) I will be pleased for you to comment at the end of the period. Oh yes I will be 61 next month and need a birthday bash. Seriously though its all a matter of ones own outlook and I personally keeping on practicing as that usually make perfect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love my older men.......
xxxx
Experience, confidence & an extra something that young guys just don't seem to understand.... Manners
here here "
totally agree
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"do older men improve with age
Nope
We tire more quickly
We are usually not as stiff of cock as a 40 year old
It takes us longer to recover
We'd rather play during day n we don't do overnights
N we get irritated by silly nonsenseness
Well maybe it's JUST ME of course!! "
And we have an irritating habit of repeating ourselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i wouldnt of thought so."
what makes you say that?
I think that some men do, some men don't but.. I have no real interest sexually in older men.. or much younger either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had older and younger, I find in general older men have more stamina (this is only my opinion) "
That's true. Endurance gets better with age but then starts to deplete sadly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"do older men improve with age
Nope
We tire more quickly
We are usually not as stiff of cock as a 40 year old
It takes us longer to recover
We'd rather play during day n we don't do overnights
N we get irritated by silly nonsenseness
Well maybe it's JUST ME of course!!
And we have an irritating habit of repeating ourselves "
Over and over again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Older men improve with age?
I can say that men improve with age if you want a man to be interested in you rather than him.
Younger men often cum quickly, want to get there rocks off. Older men are more into the shared experience.
For instance, I love a really wet pussy. I love making the lady cum lots and hard. I have often run out of time and not cum myself. When I do cum its in skip loads.
If you like a guy with stamina, staying power, focussed on your enjoyment rather than his, try an older guy.
Dave
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"nice saggy ball bags that hit the deck when the pants come off so thats an improvement with age "
How true! But regrettably the penis decreases in size. No doubt acting as compensation for the extra gravity of the ball bag lol |
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Think decrease in penis with age is an urban myth. It's a bit like saying that a building shrinks the older it gets. What may happen is that the erectile tissue loses some of its elasticity, but that could mean that the erect size isn't quite as rigid. The flaccid state would be unaltered. Biggest challenge older men face is erectile dysfunction. Getting hard and staying hard. Less of an issue if the partner is young and nubile. Oh and there are chemical stimulants that help.
Key difference between the genders is that men can remain fertile till their 80's,women lose it by the time they are 55 on average. |
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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago
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I would love to think so.
Experience has to count for something.
I feel I'm certainly more confident. I don't think lack of repeats is such an issue - if you can give the lady plenty of orgasms through other means.
I don't think I know it all - ladies are all different and react in different ways - you have to be aware of this fact. I'm always open to direction.
Guess I'm saying, if you do it right you don't have to keep doing it again and again. A session can still last ages and ages. with the parties involved collapsing in a spent heap and not wanting more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree that older men make better lovers and show women more respect.
We are more confident too.
I still have bags of stamina in the tank, will think about retiring in my 80`s, if anybody wants to try me.
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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"do older men improve with age"
No not necessarily. Age doesn't always bring maturity, confidence or manners just as youth doesn't guarantee stamina or repetitiveness it just means you've been on the planet for differing amounts of time.
What age is older or even younger for that matter, isn't it just down to ones perspective on age |
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"do older men improve with age"
Oh yes. I find them more considerate lovers. They are not just in it for their needs. They are less hurried and take their time to pleasure you. They also tend to be able to hold a good conversation that does not resolve around sex. |
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