We live in the north esat side of Brighton we would like make friends with people that live round here that we can be open with so is there anyone here ? We can see the stadium from the back garden
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"We live in the north esat side of Brighton we would like make friends with people that live round here that we can be open with so is there anyone here ? We can see the stadium from the back garden
Come say hello "
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"I would start with the Brighton clubs if I were you. 
Good luck.
Thanks we are not newbie s and it is hit and miss at bghs last time we went everyone we talked to came from miles away lol
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Sorry, made an assumption there, and you know what they say about assumptions....LOL
I can understand what you meen about people visiting from distances, especially with a destination like Brighton. We have a visit on our to do list
If you are looking to create a local swinger social circle, perhaps a place to start is your local updates /status info on the front page here; put up what you are looking for regularly and contact those who are putting up local statuses.
It still may be difficult as many here are nervous of local contact in case there is local exposure etc, but I wish you luck. |
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The biggest problem is that even if your listed as Brighton you could still live no where near us Brighton is so spread out we have the same post code as someone near hove we know what you mean about beings to close but we cant be the only swingers that use the loacl post office, asda or even school (it is a big school) |
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"We live in the north esat side of Brighton we would like make friends with people that live round here that we can be open with so is there anyone here ? We can see the stadium from the back garden
Come say hello
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Where in Brighton are you not asking the street just the rough area |
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"We live in the north esat side of Brighton we would like make friends with people that live round here that we can be open with so is there anyone here ? We can see the stadium from the back garden
Come say hello
Hello.
Where in Brighton are you not asking
the street just the rough area"
Patcham. I think we should all meet up. Anyone interested? |
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"I would start with the Brighton clubs if I were you.
Good luck.
Thanks we are not newbie s and it is hit and miss at bghs last time we went everyone we talked to came from miles away lol "
OP - do you not use the Advanced Search facility? It lets you find people within x miles of your postcode, or another postcode if you're travelling around the country.
Surely you must be able to find the kind of people you're looking for near to you?
The thing to bear in mind, though, is that not everyone wants to make their swinging friends anymore than that - I would think the majority actually want to keep their swinging and vanilla friends quite separate.
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OP - do you not use the Advanced Search facility? It lets you find people within x miles of your postcode, or another postcode if you're travelling around the country.
Surely you must be able to find the kind of people you're looking for near to you?
The thing to bear in mind, though, is that not everyone wants to make their swinging friends anymore than that - I would think the majority actually want to keep their swinging and vanilla friends quite separate.
We do that we bn1 the same as the whole of Brightonn
And your right about the separare side but maybe not everyone wants that |
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"I use the sane Asda and have made a few friends in the area but maybe a Brighton social meet would be good ?
How about a Thursday at Bghs ? "
Or 20th July if I can find a single lady to accompany me! |
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"we'd attend a Brighton social on a Friday or Saturday evening if we were free, it would be nice to meet people in a non pressured environment "
And we would love to meet you x x
But our point was we were looking for very local people
And now I feel bad for saying that  |
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So to re-word my question can you see the stadium from your house or can you walk there in under 10min
(Or do you live in our street) are you local ?
Ps what about an east Sussex social once a month (worthing to Eastbourne) ? I different pub each time along the coast-line (angie's idea) |
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Can't see the stadium from my house but would like to attend brighton socials if/when they occur. I seem to spend half my life in Brighton anyway so . . .
Maybe someone could pm me if there's any progress ? I'm thinking of you A&L.
OP - I'm curious to know why you're so keen to find people who are so close ? You referred to sharing a postcode with Hove as if it's half way to Borneo whereas it's only a good walk away - not trying to be rude but are you maybe being a little overly area-specific ? Or have I missed something ? |
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"we'd attend a Brighton social on a Friday or Saturday evening if we were free, it would be nice to meet people in a non pressured environment
And we would love to meet you x x
But our point was we were looking for very local people
And now I feel bad for saying that "
Don't feel bad, you were very clear in what you wanted and that's fine you have also come up with an alternative suggestion which I think is a really good one. We were only laying naked on Birling Gap beach yesterday afternoon talking about the same thing  |
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Ps what about an east Sussex social once a month (worthing to Eastbourne) ? I different pub each time along the coast-line (angie's idea)"
An excellent idea, would we wear badges and a special swingers hat  .
Seriously I think it's a great idea and shouldn't be too hard to organise |
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"Can't see the stadium from my house but would like to attend brighton socials if/when they occur. I seem to spend half my life in Brighton anyway so . . .
Maybe someone could pm me if there's any progress ? I'm thinking of you A&L.
OP - I'm curious to know why you're so keen to find people who are so close ? You referred to sharing a postcode with Hove as if it's half way to Borneo whereas it's only a good walk away - not trying to be rude but are you maybe being a little overly area-specific ? Or have I missed something ?"
Would be great to meet you to but
My house to hove according to Google maps is a 26 drive or 1hour and 23 min walk not realy local 40 min plus on the over priced Brighton bus |
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"Can't see the stadium from my house but would like to attend brighton socials if/when they occur. I seem to spend half my life in Brighton anyway so . . .
Maybe someone could pm me if there's any progress ? I'm thinking of you A&L.
OP - I'm curious to know why you're so keen to find people who are so close ? You referred to sharing a postcode with Hove as if it's half way to Borneo whereas it's only a good walk away - not trying to be rude but are you maybe being a little overly area-specific ? Or have I missed something ?
Would be great to meet you to but
My house to hove according to Google maps is a 26 drive or 1hour and 23 min walk not realy local 40 min plus on the over priced Brighton bus"
you're patcham? that's not a 26 minute drive - more like 15 minutes. do you really not call that local. i call a mere 30 minute drive extremely local, but each to his/her/their own. see you at a social hopefully ? |
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"Can't see the stadium from my house but would like to attend brighton socials if/when they occur. I seem to spend half my life in Brighton anyway so . . .
Maybe someone could pm me if there's any progress ? I'm thinking of you A&L.
OP - I'm curious to know why you're so keen to find people who are so close ? You referred to sharing a postcode with Hove as if it's half way to Borneo whereas it's only a good walk away - not trying to be rude but are you maybe being a little overly area-specific ? Or have I missed something ?
Would be great to meet you to but
My house to hove according to Google maps is a 26 drive or 1hour and 23 min walk not realy local 40 min plus on the over priced Brighton bus
you're patcham? that's not a 26 minute drive - more like 15 minutes. do you really not call that local. i call a mere 30 minute drive extremely local, but each to his/her/their own. see you at a social hopefully ?"
Who said we were in patcham ? And you said 10 min walk I can drive to Dartford in 40min does that make then local ? |
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"Can't see the stadium from my house but would like to attend brighton socials if/when they occur. I seem to spend half my life in Brighton anyway so . . .
Maybe someone could pm me if there's any progress ? I'm thinking of you A&L.
OP - I'm curious to know why you're so keen to find people who are so close ? You referred to sharing a postcode with Hove as if it's half way to Borneo whereas it's only a good walk away - not trying to be rude but are you maybe being a little overly area-specific ? Or have I missed something ?
Would be great to meet you to but
My house to hove according to Google maps is a 26 drive or 1hour and 23 min walk not realy local 40 min plus on the over priced Brighton bus
you're patcham? that's not a 26 minute drive - more like 15 minutes. do you really not call that local. i call a mere 30 minute drive extremely local, but each to his/her/their own. see you at a social hopefully ?
Who said we were in patcham ? And you said 10 min walk I can drive to Dartford in 40min does that make then local ?"
Don't have time to find it but fairly sure that someone suggested that you were in Patcham, and you didn't say otherwise, so supposed that they were fairly accurate. Not that it's important. Brighton to Dartford in 40 minutes ? Google suggests Brighton-Dartford is 60 miles and takes between 1hr 16min and 1hr 30min so I guess that either you live in Brighton in the same way that I live in Manchester, or you are a rather quick driver, because your average speed for 60 miles in 40 minutes would need to be 90 mph - which I think is rather unlikely. Nonetheless, if you do drive that quickly, a short hop to Hove surely takes no time at all. Unsure where you think I mentioned a 10 minute walk, and I wouldn't say Dartford is local to you. |
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"The biggest problem is that even if your listed as Brighton you could still live no where near us Brighton is so spread out we have the same post code as someone near hove we know what you mean about beings to close but we cant be the only swingers that use the loacl post office, asda or even school (it is a big school) "
You think that's a problem? on Fabs the East Midlands is anywhere from Essex to half way up yorkshire including the whole of East Anglia. |
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I used to go to the Brighton bi group, which used to meet in a pub. A blue fish was on the table so everyone knew they were the right people. So we need to meet with a signal... |
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