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Why is it so hard to meet a mature lady???
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been trying to meet a nice older lady for fun, im gettin no where lol all i get is messages from tv'z and guys!! Any tips please? X"
Have you tried hanging around a care home  |
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"Been trying to meet a nice older lady for fun, im gettin no where lol all i get is messages from tv'z and guys!! Any tips please? X
Have you tried hanging around a care home "
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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In all honesty your profile is too bare. Has no content. You do not stand out at all.
A lot of young guys think that just because they are young us "mature" ladies will swoon and be overwhelmed by their generosity to actually message us.
I personally prefer to meet men around my age or older. Someone who knows his way around a woman's body.
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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"In all honesty your profile is too bare. Has no content. You do not stand out at all.
A lot of young guys think that just because they are young us "mature" ladies will swoon and be overwhelmed by their generosity to actually message us.
I personally prefer to meet men around my age or older. Someone who knows his way around a woman's body.
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Let me just caveat that though. Some younger men clearly know their way around a woman's body.  |
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"Been trying to meet a nice older lady for fun, im gettin no where lol all i get is messages from tv'z and guys!! Any tips please? X"
if your messages are like your profile you will struggle. Say a bit about yourself, tell people what you can offer and don't use text speak. Good luck there are mature women looking for younger men. |
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"A lot of young guys think that just because they are young us "mature" ladies will swoon and be overwhelmed by their generosity to actually message us."
This, it doesn't mean you don't have to put as much effort in.
I know I'm 24 but personality-wise, I'm about 60 so answering honestly, the turn-off's are:
Your profile is virtually non-existant.
Your username suggests you're some sort of "GhaHANGstah" wanna-be and imagining from a mature lady's point of view, it wouldn't make me want to meet you, the text speak adds to that.
All in all, there is no information about yourself, why you're worth meeting or what you can offer.
You have to look at the way you're selling yourself and think why should anyone choose me over the THOUSANDS of other guys on here who have actually put an effort into their profiles.
That's not meant horribly but thinking that is the best way to get your answer and put it in your profile.
- Amy. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would love to meet a mature woman, a few years older than myself.
They do tend to enjoy themselves more in bed, and, if you do something not quite right, they will tell you what to do.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we have met a few sophisticated classy ladies off of here,they must like a big strong lad to take care of them in the bedroom dept. and i'm only too happy to oblige |
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"A lot of young guys think that just because they are young us "mature" ladies will swoon and be overwhelmed by their generosity to actually message us.
This, it doesn't mean you don't have to put as much effort in.
I know I'm 24 but personality-wise, I'm about 60 so answering honestly, the turn-off's are:
Your profile is virtually non-existant.
Your username suggests you're some sort of "GhaHANGstah" wanna-be and imagining from a mature lady's point of view, it wouldn't make me want to meet you, the text speak adds to that.
All in all, there is no information about yourself, why you're worth meeting or what you can offer.
You have to look at the way you're selling yourself and think why should anyone choose me over the THOUSANDS of other guys on here who have actually put an effort into their profiles.
That's not meant horribly but thinking that is the best way to get your answer and put it in your profile.
- Amy. x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In all honesty your profile is too bare. Has no content. You do not stand out at all.
A lot of young guys think that just because they are young us "mature" ladies will swoon and be overwhelmed by their generosity to actually message us.
I personally prefer to meet men around my age or older. Someone who knows his way around a woman's body.
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we have not found this to be the case, most of the younger guys certainly know what they are doing and their way round a womans body
personally I much prefer the young ones
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"Been trying to meet a nice older lady for fun, im gettin no where lol all i get is messages from tv'z and guys!! Any tips please? X"
You sound like a gangsta wannabe under the delusion us older ladies are going to waste our advancing years messaging you to find out what?!! There are thousands of hot young, intelligent young men with interesting profiles.
Now who do you think the oldies will pick?
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"In all honesty your profile is too bare. Has no content. You do not stand out at all.
A lot of young guys think that just because they are young us "mature" ladies will swoon and be overwhelmed by their generosity to actually message us.
I personally prefer to meet men around my age or older. Someone who knows his way around a woman's body.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been trying to meet a nice older lady for fun, im gettin no where lol all i get is messages from tv'z and guys!! Any tips please? X"
as said set message filters
additionaly your profile is very limited in content, so you want them to make the effort to message you so they get to know more ........ erm pass and move on to any number of mire complete informative profiles.
No pics  don't ask what are best pics the forums are full with that question being asked go have a look.
Cant accommodate erm ok that's rarely perceived by us as anything other than married playing away, that's us so lets not all jump on the band wagon.
Been here 11 months and not verified, photo very not withstanding, try going to a social and meeting people.
good luck
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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"Been trying to meet a nice older lady for fun, im gettin no where lol all i get is messages from tv'z and guys!! Any tips please? X"
Lol
C'mon!!message me if u wanna find out more,that's not a profile,try.
Any old birds fancy a shag,message me if u wanna find out more.
They'll be queuing round the block mate,mark my words. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How would anyone know you are looking for an older lady - your age preference on your profile says 18-99? Your profile is just asking for people to message you, ooops no, msg me, there is no need for people to msg u when there are great guys out there putting a lot of effort into their profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been trying to meet a nice older lady for fun, im gettin no where lol all i get is messages from tv'z and guys!! Any tips please? X"
No profile, no pics = no meets.
It isn't rocket science!
Oh......and block single guys! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In all honesty your profile is too bare. Has no content. You do not stand out at all.
A lot of young guys think that just because they are young us "mature" ladies will swoon and be overwhelmed by their generosity to actually message us
I personally prefer to meet men around my age or older. Someone who knows his way around a woman's body.
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I'm sorry but I need to disagree with this quote . I like many other young guys know our way around a women and much much more . |
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