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Cant travel cant accomadate
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I live 30 seconds from a swingers club, therefore although I can accommodate and travel I could just as easily say can't do either and still be able to meet more people than most.
Many other people are unable to travel but would be willing to meet at a local hotel or dogging spot.
To put can travel on thier profiles may be misleading.
If you aim to pay for a hotel for your meets it might be misleading to say can accommodate.
Better to say no to both and then discuss what you can do in mails rather than mislead anyone.
If we see people cant accommodate or travel we instantly realise they have some other form of meeting in mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Often when profiles state no acom/no travel, they mean they can't accommodate (or wont) and can't travel too far, staying local is easy enough, and would you consider it travelling staying in your local town/city, of course it is, but if the profile stated they can travel, then people from much further away would then complain that they stated they could travel but they can't.
We initially had no to both, but it didn't stop us getting meets, been to Wigan, Oldham, Ashton, Manchester and we can't travel, we was offered lifts though.
It's easy enough really, problem is it's hard to define what anyone truly means by can't travel can't accommodate. |
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"It's easy enough really, problem is it's hard to define what anyone truly means by can't travel can't accommodate. "
If peeps can't accommodate a little explanation within their profile may assist any potential meets  |
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"It's easy enough really, problem is it's hard to define what anyone truly means by can't travel can't accommodate.
If peeps can't accommodate a little explanation within their profile may assist any potential meets " never get 1
just get who are you fab police statement once
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"It's easy enough really, problem is it's hard to define what anyone truly means by can't travel can't accommodate.
If peeps can't accommodate a little explanation within their profile may assist any potential meets "
Of course, but then who reads profiles anyway?.
Besides, like face pics they may want to keep that info for the select few. |
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I remember once inviting this guy to a small gang bang with a gorgeous Mexican lady at my place.
His reply? 'I don't have a car and I refuse to use public transport'
I think he wanted me to send a taxi for him.lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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For me as i have a son living at home, i can play during the day whilst he's at work tho ive got to book the time off hence its got to be a planned meet. Cant travel, though ive a car, my finances are so bad that even the bus fare home from work is beyond me. I would like to travel very much as there's a couple that have commented on here that id like to see but i just couldnt manage to afford to travel to them. My only option is a hotel but id even struggle to share the cost, are my good manners getting in the way there? Anyway ive met a few nice guys and a couple so it can be done even though id prefer not local, thats only so i dont meet anyone that i either work with or know lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i always read profiles, am i the odd one out?? or was it sarcasm?? "
It's a common complaint that people don't read profiles, so with a little jest was pointing out that whatever the reason on can't travel/accommodate it's possible that it may not be noticed if placed in profile.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I remember once inviting this guy to a small gang bang with a gorgeous Mexican lady at my place.
His reply? 'I don't have a car and I refuse to use public transport'
I think he wanted me to send a taxi for him.lol
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Maybe he had a limp willy problem, and out of the blue stuff, so used it as an excuse.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If in doubt ask the profile owner in question, that usually works "
Exactly, it's easy enough, when writing the initial message simply add you noticed no accom/no travel and ask how they go about arranging meets, if at all interested.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's simple.
YOU go to theirs and 'communicate' through the letterbox !!
I take accommodate to mean using my home for a few hours.
Others I've learned seem to think it means B and B .....
What do you think it means ? |
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