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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Here's a question... If you found out that your partner had been masturbating over vid's of him and an ex "together"... what would you do and what would you think the reason behind it was ? ...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well the sayin is whats good for goose! Make your own porn vid and let him catch you watchin it.  "
Ha ha !! .... but you havent answered the question lol ? xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Reason behind it? Im sorry to say this but he still finds her hot and given the chance would bang her again.soz. but make him jealous thats what you should do. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Reason behind it? Im sorry to say this but he still finds her hot and given the chance would bang her again.soz. but make him jealous thats what you should do. "
Its pretty much self explanitary lol |
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She's an ex for a reason and only your or him will know what that is. Have you asked him why he did it? Maybe it's as simple as he found that scenario hit so it was the memory of the scenario rather than the players.
Tell him that its made you feel uncomfortable and hear him out, then use your instincts to decide what's right.
Good luck.
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It's a tricky one.....
Is he reminiscing about what was or is it just a way of getting off ie adding to the thrill of it . I suspect it's the latter of the two, although I don't know enough.
If you are both happy, lust is one thing, love is totally different..
I think a lot of peolpe think about past experiences when masturbating and they use this as an erotic experience they choose to get off to. The only difference is its on a video....
I Would put your questions to him and see what comes of it......
End of they day he's now with you and that's her loss ..... Too much looking deep can find yourself coming to all sorts of wrong conclusions, IMHO xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"She's an ex for a reason and only your or him will know what that is. Have you asked him why he did it? Maybe it's as simple as he found that scenario hit so it was the memory of the scenario rather than the players.
Tell him that its made you feel uncomfortable and hear him out, then use your instincts to decide what's right.
Good luck.
Him"
Shes an ex cos she dumped him ..... i got rid of any pics and videos of me and ex's when i got with him. Through respect.
The reason he gave for watching them ( he had a whole collection) was " i like watching myself" fair enough ... but why did all the ones you watched have her in them. When we had made loads of our own and he has load of him playing alone ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's a tricky one.....
Is he reminiscing about what was or is it just a way of getting off ie adding to the thrill of it . I suspect it's the latter of the two, although I don't know enough.
If you are both happy, lust is one thing, love is totally different..
I think a lot of peolpe think about past experiences when masturbating and they use this as an erotic experience they choose to get off to. The only difference is its on a video....
I Would put your questions to him and see what comes of it......
End of they day he's now with you and that's her loss ..... Too much looking deep can find yourself coming to all sorts of wrong conclusions, IMHO xxxx"
I get where your coming from. Thinking is one thing... i would never know what he was thinking. Keeping videos is another thing. Disrespectful in my opinion. More so when i actually see them on a 42" screen fucking each others brains out! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hang on.. you've been on here for 5 months and have cammed with quite a few guys..
I'm struggling to find a difference in his behaviour and yours.
You're both finding relief outside of your relationship.
Is it not disrespectful to cam with strangers? As one verification makes clear, it's not been all platonic chats 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd be livid. If I found Andy doing that there would be tears, screaming, objects thrown and smashed. But then, I can get very jealous in certain situations  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hang on.. you've been on here for 5 months and have cammed with quite a few guys..
I'm struggling to find a difference in his behaviour and yours.
You're both finding relief outside of your relationship.
Is it not disrespectful to cam with strangers? As one verification makes clear, it's not been all platonic chats
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Correct. I found him watching the video a year ago.He said hed got rid of the tapes... and then i found his vid cam in his boot ... with a tape in 5 months ago. Im not justifying me being on here... i was asking what you would think if you had found what i had |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd be livid. If I found Andy doing that there would be tears, screaming, objects thrown and smashed. But then, I can get very jealous in certain situations "
We had had 3somes etc so i wouldnt say im a jealous person. I just found it disrespectful for him to be doing it... in his mind is a different matter as i would never know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hang on.. you've been on here for 5 months and have cammed with quite a few guys..
I'm struggling to find a difference in his behaviour and yours.
You're both finding relief outside of your relationship.
Is it not disrespectful to cam with strangers? As one verification makes clear, it's not been all platonic chats
Correct. I found him watching the video a year ago.He said hed got rid of the tapes... and then i found his vid cam in his boot ... with a tape in 5 months ago. Im not justifying me being on here... i was asking what you would think if you had found what i had "
I'd have dumped him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd be livid. If I found Andy doing that there would be tears, screaming, objects thrown and smashed. But then, I can get very jealous in certain situations
We had had 3somes etc so i wouldnt say im a jealous person. I just found it disrespectful for him to be doing it... in his mind is a different matter as i would never know. "
I'm not jealous when we meet off here coz we're both involved in chatting, arranging etc. And also, we only meet bi people that we can both play with that helps a lot but you are right, it is totally disrespectful. And if he likes watching himself, he really should be watching a vid of you and him.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd be livid. If I found Andy doing that there would be tears, screaming, objects thrown and smashed. But then, I can get very jealous in certain situations
We had had 3somes etc so i wouldnt say im a jealous person. I just found it disrespectful for him to be doing it... in his mind is a different matter as i would never know.
I'm not jealous when we meet off here coz we're both involved in chatting, arranging etc. And also, we only meet bi people that we can both play with that helps a lot but you are right, it is totally disrespectful. And if he likes watching himself, he really should be watching a vid of you and him.
Lauz xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I know for sure if I were caught doing that I would be single very quickly. I watch porn clips sometimes which would never be a problem. It's the content which is simply disrespectful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does he whinge about you fucking other men on here ?
Im on here because of it ... but i havent fucked any men on here "
I think you both need to discuss what each of you want from the relationship,its sounds like you're trying to point score at the moment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does he whinge about you fucking other men on here ?
Im on here because of it ... but i havent fucked any men on here
I think you both need to discuss what each of you want from the relationship,its sounds like you're trying to point score at the moment"
To me you've caught your oh wanking the videos themselves are something done before your time yes it's an ex but if all he is doing is wanking on his own I don't see the harm. I'm not saying its right just not a big issue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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just reading this and im wondering. why are you still together?
you wank over cam with other guys. he wanks over videos of him fucking other chicks.
Do you actually wank together?
or do you just play the he/she hurt me so i'll make them jealous by doing this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does he whinge about you fucking other men on here ?
Im on here because of it ... but i havent fucked any men on here "
You've been on here 5 months! If its still pissing you off after this long then end it......lifes too short |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hang on.. you've been on here for 5 months and have cammed with quite a few guys..
I'm struggling to find a difference in his behaviour and yours.
You're both finding relief outside of your relationship.
Is it not disrespectful to cam with strangers? As one verification makes clear, it's not been all platonic chats
Correct. I found him watching the video a year ago.He said hed got rid of the tapes... and then i found his vid cam in his boot ... with a tape in 5 months ago. Im not justifying me being on here... i was asking what you would think if you had found what i had
I'd have dumped him."
from a great height too!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"just reading this and im wondering. why are you still together?
you wank over cam with other guys. he wanks over videos of him fucking other chicks.
Do you actually wank together?
or do you just play the he/she hurt me so i'll make them jealous by doing this?"
I do NOT wank over others on cam. I don't do cock cams at all actually. You read verifications and put 2 and 2 together and get 5. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well I know for sure if I were caught doing that I would be single very quickly. I watch porn clips sometimes which would never be a problem. It's the content which is simply disrespectful. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Buzzie
By coming in Fab to look for an answer for your problem, both joining Fab and asking advice in a forum, you're running away from the problem.
You need to switch Fab off unless you're prepared to use it together for threesomes as, if only one of you is using it to seek comfort, this is all time you could be paying attention to the other.
But I'd face facts, if you're both looking elsewhere, even mentally, it probably working. If it was, you'd have sorted this immediately.
Advice? Cut your losses, move on. Grab the vid on the way and burn it so he can't keep wanking over it!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite often a guy thinks about his ex as he's fucking his new girl, just saying like 
Why do people type crap like this? "
I'm pretty sure he was piss taking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite often a guy thinks about his ex as he's fucking his new girl, just saying like
Why do people type crap like this? "
Because it's true. Some people fantasise about stuff that make others sick or worried its called fantasy for a reason. Doesn't mean he's actually doing it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It sounds like even though he's not with his ex he enjoyed the sex with her very much. Could be a case of wanting what you can't have anymore but i'd be more worried about the deceitfulness as its akin to being with a liar. And if you don't have trust, you have nothing.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here's a question... If you found out that your partner had been masturbating over vid's of him and an ex "together"... what would you do and what would you think the reason behind it was ? ...
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Its not right, have you confronted him about it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very disrespectful. Your just not for him,sorry. He obviously has a thing for his ex."
Nonsense, he has fond memories of good sex with his ex's, not in any way saying he wants to be back with her / them.
Who on here has not had sexy memories of a past meet partner present or not when having a wank or even when having sex with your partner?
Admittedly once caught and asked to not do it the issue should have been resolved either by destroying the video's OR explaining the viewpoints and reaching a compromise. Five months of point scoring (does he know you are on this site, or is it a secret point scoring system?) is not healthy.
Figure out what's in the relationship not just sex the whole thing, if you want it make it work, if not then end it. But don't spend your life in resentful point scoring. |
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If i came across a video on my hard drive that I forgot about, of me and my Ex, I'm pretty sure I would end up cumming whilst watching it!
But in saying that if he was going looking for it instead of playing with you.... hes a fool!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite often a guy thinks about his ex as he's fucking his new girl, just saying like
BAM!!!! and there you go !"
Yeah, have to fess up to this too. Have jacked off plenty of times with girls, whilst thinking about an ex. Mostly it's just because they're a very different type of girl. Body shape, likes/dislikes, breast size/shape, ass, even hair colour.
No different to any other form of porn though. Only difference is because I've actually fucked them before it's got more depth to it and therefore more satisfying. What I mean by that is remembering what her tits actually felt like, tastes, smells.. textures, sounds etc. Guess you just feel that tiny bit closer to actually doing what you're watching?
Interesting question.. hope the above sheds some light! |
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"Quite often a guy thinks about his ex as he's fucking his new girl, just saying like "
does that mean while he was fucking his ex he was thinking of other ladies? Then when he fucks other ladies he thinks of his ex??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Here's a question... If you found out that your partner had been masturbating over vid's of him and an ex "together"... what would you do and what would you think the reason behind it was ? ...
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...remember. two can play that game. Just make sure yours is hotter lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Buzzie
By coming in Fab to look for an answer for your problem, both joining Fab and asking advice in a forum, you're running away from the problem.
You need to switch Fab off unless you're prepared to use it together for threesomes as, if only one of you is using it to seek comfort, this is all time you could be paying attention to the other.
But I'd face facts, if you're both looking elsewhere, even mentally, it probably working. If it was, you'd have sorted this immediately.
Advice? Cut your losses, move on. Grab the vid on the way and burn it so he can't keep wanking over it! "
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Does he whinge about you fucking other men on here ?
Im on here because of it ... but i havent fucked any men on here "
Think you need to explore and enjoy yourself or quit. Why be on here if you don't want to be or haven't chosen to be on here? |
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By *stmateMan
over a year ago
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It might not mean anything, just needs fuel to fire up his beast. Or he loves himself that much that he's actually watching himself and not the ex and finally. His ex is that good he had to keep a video record of her for the sake of the good old days. Either way it's a bit strange. He probably hasn't let go. |
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Dump him and pop yourself round to my place.
I'm just down the road and we can make our own porn!
Or if ya like, stay with the guy but still pop round, we can make a porn then you go home and leave it in the machine for him to find! Ha ha |
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Talk to him, why is he still turned on by it? If its genuinely watching himself then why isn't he watching videos you have made together? I think it would bother me, not that he was wanking over another girl but if it was someone I was concerned he was still in love with.
Talk it through and good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Talk to him, why is he still turned on by it? If its genuinely watching himself then why isn't he watching videos you have made together? I think it would bother me, not that he was wanking over another girl but if it was someone I was concerned he was still in love with.
Talk it through and good luck x"
Exactly ... thank you xxxx |
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"Are dump him cassie your hot anyway so plenty of fish in the sea for you. "
Ok, that's a bit extreme; this advice.
Surely there must be some amazing qualities he has which should far outweigh this little blip. Guys will be guys, porn is porn. Whether it's his ex or not, porn is porn. The main thing is that he is with YOU and not his ex, and that's what you need to focus on.
Don't throw away your relationship just for something like that. If it bothers you that much, talk to him and make your own videos.. |
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"Very disrespectful. Your just not for him,sorry. He obviously has a thing for his ex.
Nonsense, he has fond memories of good sex with his ex's, not in any way saying he wants to be back with her / them.
Who on here has not had sexy memories of a past meet partner present or not when having a wank or even when having sex with your partner?
Admittedly once caught and asked to not do it the issue should have been resolved either by destroying the video's OR explaining the viewpoints and reaching a compromise. Five months of point scoring (does he know you are on this site, or is it a secret point scoring system?) is not healthy.
Figure out what's in the relationship not just sex the whole thing, if you want it make it work, if not then end it. But don't spend your life in resentful point scoring."
Now there's a smart couple. Couldn't have put it better myself..
There's something fundamentally insecure about this relationship that needs to be put right.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cassies a good girl, I've spoken to her in chat but never actually seen her on cam, just heard her voice.
I have fond memories of all my exs but I wouldn't bring that up around a current partner as I think that would show a lack of respect x |
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"Very disrespectful. Your just not for him,sorry. He obviously has a thing for his ex.
Nonsense, he has fond memories of good sex with his ex's, not in any way saying he wants to be back with her / them.
Who on here has not had sexy memories of a past meet partner present or not when having a wank or even when having sex with your partner?
Admittedly once caught and asked to not do it the issue should have been resolved either by destroying the video's OR explaining the viewpoints and reaching a compromise. Five months of point scoring (does he know you are on this site, or is it a secret point scoring system?) is not healthy.
Figure out what's in the relationship not just sex the whole thing, if you want it make it work, if not then end it. But don't spend your life in resentful point scoring.
Now there's a smart couple. Couldn't have put it better myself..
There's something fundamentally insecure about this relationship that needs to be put right.."
fundamentally insecure ... yup ... I have to agree....xxx |
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"Very disrespectful. Your just not for him,sorry. He obviously has a thing for his ex.
Nonsense, he has fond memories of good sex with his ex's, not in any way saying he wants to be back with her / them.
Who on here has not had sexy memories of a past meet partner present or not when having a wank or even when having sex with your partner?
Admittedly once caught and asked to not do it the issue should have been resolved either by destroying the video's OR explaining the viewpoints and reaching a compromise. Five months of point scoring (does he know you are on this site, or is it a secret point scoring system?) is not healthy.
Figure out what's in the relationship not just sex the whole thing, if you want it make it work, if not then end it. But don't spend your life in resentful point scoring.
Now there's a smart couple. Couldn't have put it better myself..
There's something fundamentally insecure about this relationship that needs to be put right.. fundamentally insecure ... yup ... I have to agree....xxx"
Glad you agree. I hope you are doing something about it. You guys need to talk and iron out the issues. Life is too short to spend time with someone and not be at least content. You look like a sexy woman who can probably get better somewhere..
Sort it out, Ms..lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The pirn thing is borderline, the lying about getting rid of it is the issue"
The porn thing was hurtful,granted. The lying about getting rid of them raises the question "why he needs them so badly" xxx |
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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago
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He doesn't it's porn. The fact an ex is in it to me is irrelevant
The lying inside a relationship about something you felt was important (could have been you hate skoda cars don't buy one the content is irrelevant)
That's the issue |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Once Found My Ex (Boyf at the time) Had Viedos/Pics Of Him & His Ex Fucking/Play On His Old Phone.. For Rest Day I Was Thinking So Many Things.. Then I Thought Well He Has No Pics/vids Of Us..Sent Him Few Tease Pics Well He Was At Work ... By Time I Seen Him In Evening Was Gagging .. Then He Asked If He Could Record Us.. I Agreed No Problem . Spose My Reaction Was Just Do One Better On His Ex .. |
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"Here's a question... If you found out that your partner had been masturbating over vid's of him and an ex "together"... what would you do and what would you think the reason behind it was ? ...
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simply that he was horny and wanted new material for his memory wank bank ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Here's a question... If you found out that your partner had been masturbating over vid's of him and an ex "together"... what would you do and what would you think the reason behind it was ? ...
simply that he was horny and wanted new material for his memory wank bank ?"
New material ? Hardly. Not when he was with her for 5 years.... |
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"Here's a question... If you found out that your partner had been masturbating over vid's of him and an ex "together"... what would you do and what would you think the reason behind it was ? ...
simply that he was horny and wanted new material for his memory wank bank ? New material ? Hardly. Not when he was with her for 5 years.... "
Also ...things in his memory bank are one thing... in my dvd player is a whole different story !
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"Once Found My Ex (Boyf at the time) Had Viedos/Pics Of Him & His Ex Fucking/Play On His Old Phone.. For Rest Day I Was Thinking So Many Things.. Then I Thought Well He Has No Pics/vids Of Us..Sent Him Few Tease Pics Well He Was At Work ... By Time I Seen Him In Evening Was Gagging .. Then He Asked If He Could Record Us.. I Agreed No Problem . Spose My Reaction Was Just Do One Better On His Ex .. "
We had already 1000's of pics and 100's of videos. Doing things i know he has never done before ... so it wasnt that. xxx
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"Here's a question... If you found out that your partner had been masturbating over vid's of him and an ex "together"... what would you do and what would you think the reason behind it was ? ...
simply that he was horny and wanted new material for his memory wank bank ? New material ? Hardly. Not when he was with her for 5 years.... Also ...things in his memory bank are one thing... in my dvd player is a whole different story !
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but he cant take the dvd into the bathroom so he needed to watch it on your dvd to transfer it to his memory, even if he was with her for 5 years memories might have faded and needed refreshing |
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"Here's a question... If you found out that your partner had been masturbating over vid's of him and an ex "together"... what would you do and what would you think the reason behind it was ? ...
simply that he was horny and wanted new material for his memory wank bank ? New material ? Hardly. Not when he was with her for 5 years.... Also ...things in his memory bank are one thing... in my dvd player is a whole different story !
but he cant take the dvd into the bathroom so he needed to watch it on your dvd to transfer it to his memory, even if he was with her for 5 years memories might have faded and needed refreshing"
sorry ... but bollocks. If his memory needs refreshing of him being with an ex ... he shouldnt be with me. As i said.... we watch porn together .... watch that ! |
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doesn't bother me that you put bollocks to my post at all so no need for sorry..he has no personal memories of actually fucking the girl in the porn you watch together so not the same as wanking over an ex, think you'll find I know more about men's minds than you do |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"doesn't bother me that you put bollocks to my post at all so no need for sorry..he has no personal memories of actually fucking the girl in the porn you watch together so not the same as wanking over an ex, think you'll find I know more about men's minds than you do"
No, you're right. You do know more about mens minds than i do. Dont you think i already knew that it was the personal level that got him going ? Dont you think that that was exactly what the problem was ? Perhaps he doesnt understand how most women work ( and perhaps you?) Women, In general, are more emotional that men. Men are more physical. I'm not stupid. I am aware that men may think of others. Men who watch videos etc of them fucking an ex and leaving it for their partner to find are disrespectful and dont care enough about the person they are with to spare them from hurt. Anyway ... I've just answered my own question.... DUMPED
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"doesn't bother me that you put bollocks to my post at all so no need for sorry..he has no personal memories of actually fucking the girl in the porn you watch together so not the same as wanking over an ex, think you'll find I know more about men's minds than you do No, you're right. You do know more about mens minds than i do. Dont you think i already knew that it was the personal level that got him going ? Dont you think that that was exactly what the problem was ? Perhaps he doesnt understand how most women work ( and perhaps you?) Women, In general, are more emotional that men. Men are more physical. I'm not stupid. I am aware that men may think of others. Men who watch videos etc of them fucking an ex and leaving it for their partner to find are disrespectful and dont care enough about the person they are with to spare them from hurt. Anyway ... I've just answered my own question.... DUMPED "
Think his mistake was leaving it to be found.
Guess your right no woman would ever wank over memories of a ex bf
PS Your correct I've no idea how woman's minds work I am still confused as to how the birds and bees do it without the bird being stung
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