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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have had a msg of a young guy (20) who has a pic on profile that is just too good to be true
I have chatted and eventually spoke to him on the fone, but his voice sounded like he was about 40 and he was so confident in what he would do and how he would deff make me squirt n gush (which ive only ever done once)
he wants to meet us
I have asked for more pics, but no answer yet
should my alarm bells be sounding very loud??  |
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No! He sounded like he was 40? Tell me, what does a 40 yo sound like? Could the differences in voice be down to genetics rather than age?
Go with the flow and see how it pans out. Obviously, take all the security measures as you should on every meet though.
Good luck.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is he photo verified?
no and hes a newbie
miss hottie bottie is very kindly currently checking it out for me,
Currently amber on the suspicion meter but I'm pretty sure it's gonna go red x"
Go Miss Marple!!!
Who you gonna call? "Fake busters"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have had a msg of a young guy (20) who has a pic on profile that is just too good to be true
I have chatted and eventually spoke to him on the fone, but his voice sounded like he was about 40 and he was so confident in what he would do and how he would deff make me squirt n gush (which ive only ever done once)
he wants to meet us
I have asked for more pics, but no answer yet
should my alarm bells be sounding very loud?? "
Don't write him off ... my ex has met such a fella over the last couple of weeks, 20 yo personal trainer who has been very confident in voice and in bed so they do exist (bastards ) |
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"Is he photo verified?
no and hes a newbie
miss hottie bottie is very kindly currently checking it out for me,
Currently amber on the suspicion meter but I'm pretty sure it's gonna go red x
Go Miss Marple!!!
Who you gonna call? "Fake busters" "
Well I thought your help might reveal some extra hits but still only the 2. |
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"Is he photo verified?
no and hes a newbie
miss hottie bottie is very kindly currently checking it out for me,
Currently amber on the suspicion meter but I'm pretty sure it's gonna go red x
Go Miss Marple!!!
Who you gonna call? "Fake busters"
Well I thought your help might reveal some extra hits but still only the 2. "
Course it would help if I told you the right name to check!! Pmsl x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is he photo verified?
no and hes a newbie
miss hottie bottie is very kindly currently checking it out for me,
Currently amber on the suspicion meter but I'm pretty sure it's gonna go red x
Go Miss Marple!!!
Who you gonna call? "Fake busters"
Well I thought your help might reveal some extra hits but still only the 2.
Course it would help if I told you the right name to check!! Pmsl x "
And I wasn't on my mobile!!
You have learnt much - but you are not a Jedi yet!!
*but in all honestly you're as good as me at this!!!  |
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"Is he photo verified?
no and hes a newbie
miss hottie bottie is very kindly currently checking it out for me,
Currently amber on the suspicion meter but I'm pretty sure it's gonna go red x
Go Miss Marple!!!
Who you gonna call? "Fake busters"
Well I thought your help might reveal some extra hits but still only the 2.
Course it would help if I told you the right name to check!! Pmsl x
And I wasn't on my mobile!!
You have learnt much - but you are not a Jedi yet!!
*but in all honestly you're as good as me at this!!! "
Yeah but reverse image is more reliable than tineye x. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seen one particular male pic used on here (for someone we did actually meet) that bore no relevance to him in real life.
Then found the same pic, on a friend's dating website, for a guy in a different part of the country/different age.
Def gets alarm bells ringing, if it looks too good to be true it usually is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Still amazes us how many people don't have pics up or won't send any , we like phone verification as well but even then people are wary !! Suppose everyone is different but the fakes make life frustrating for all genuine fabbers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even verified can be fake like a guy I had on my friends list. He was claiming all the pictures were him and the women he'd had sex except I knew he was lying.....
One of the pictures was of me but it certainly wasn't him with me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP: Ask him to meet you in one of Fab's Chatrooms, with his webcam on. Like pictures, webcams can be faked (e.g. by playing a video), but if you ask him to do something (like scratch his right ear with his left hand), you can be more confident that it is him.
If he says "I have no webcam", or "it's broken", or "I don't want everyone seeing my face because of my job", then I would write him off as a fake.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"use google images or tineye and search for the pics on the internet
im shite on computer so tell me how I use thes please? "
Well first it means you need to steal his pictures by downloading them... then you have to pump them around the rest of the net by putting them into one of these search engines ..and if he doesn't turn out to be fake - or even if he does ...what does this make you?  |
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"use google images or tineye and search for the pics on the internet
im shite on computer so tell me how I use thes please?
Well first it means you need to steal his pictures by downloading them... then you have to pump them around the rest of the net by putting them into one of these search engines ..and if he doesn't turn out to be fake - or even if he does ...what does this make you? "
You don't have to steal anything. Just copy and paste the web address of the photo into the search bar. And he was fake. I've checked  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP: Ask him to meet you in one of Fab's Chatrooms, with his webcam on. Like pictures, webcams can be faked (e.g. by playing a video), but if you ask him to do something (like scratch his right ear with his left hand), you can be more confident that it is him.
If he says "I have no webcam", or "it's broken", or "I don't want everyone seeing my face because of my job", then I would write him off as a fake.
" spot on xxx your right its a good way to sort them out xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can you not to get him on camera Skype,Jmeeting.com,face time,Kik whatever?
Ok my bad that's been suggested already "
I'm sure all of those camera apps are good as well ... but for some of them (at least), you need to give a phone number or site address, and she might not want to do that.
Whereas, since they already met through Fab, they can use the Fab chatrooms without disclosing any more personal details. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Well seeing as this particular persons profile pic has just had 126 hits on google reverse image from gay porn sites I think we can safely say its dodgy!! X"
Bet the pic was nice then.  |
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This thread has baffled me Why would you use a fake picture and then want to meet someone? what you gonna say when you meet them, oh sorry i lied but please still fuck me Strange world we live in lol |
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"Well seeing as this particular persons profile pic has just had 126 hits on google reverse image from gay porn sites I think we can safely say its dodgy!! X"
Oh hottie you made me laugh with that one  |
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By *ikkiBWoman
over a year ago
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You wonder why they bother with the fake images when you can reverse check them and its easy to do. What ive been finding is they upload the fake, get caught and have it removed and then 1hr later they have re-uploaded it again
Although I haveto admit its bloody hilarious when they message you and you can wind them up when you find out their fake lol I remember I once messaged a guy who had asked for a meet and I told him whenever he finds out the address of the guy that's actually in the pic and ill meet him... needless to say that message got me blocked, surprise surpise lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well seeing as this particular persons profile pic has just had 126 hits on google reverse image from gay porn sites I think we can safely say its dodgy!! X
Bet the pic was nice then. "
he was fooking gorgeous lol but such is life  |
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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago
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"This thread has baffled me Why would you use a fake picture and then want to meet someone? what you gonna say when you meet them, oh sorry i lied but please still fuck me Strange world we live in lol"
Fake and timewaster - will agree the meet and obviously will not turn up.
Strange way to gey your jollies though. |
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"This thread has baffled me Why would you use a fake picture and then want to meet someone? what you gonna say when you meet them, oh sorry i lied but please still fuck me Strange world we live in lol
Fake and timewaster - will agree the meet and obviously will not turn up.
Strange way to gey your jollies though."
very strange lol it's similar to the guys who pretend to be a woman, to talk to lesbians. Wtf is all that about!? haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP: Ask him to meet you in one of Fab's Chatrooms, with his webcam on. Like pictures, webcams can be faked (e.g. by playing a video), but if you ask him to do something (like scratch his right ear with his left hand), you can be more confident that it is him.
If he says "I have no webcam", or "it's broken", or "I don't want everyone seeing my face because of my job", then I would write him off as a fake.
spot on xxx your right its a good way to sort them out xx"
What about us poor buggers with the sheep iPads , can't get on cam with them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I reported him to admin and he has gone from my list, I had a txt yesterday from his partner of 20 yrs apologising and said he was 67!!!!!!!!!
conclusion: sad old man  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have had a msg of a young guy (20) who has a pic on profile that is just too good to be true
I have chatted and eventually spoke to him on the fone, but his voice sounded like he was about 40 and he was so confident in what he would do and how he would deff make me squirt n gush (which ive only ever done once)
he wants to meet us
I have asked for more pics, but no answer yet
should my alarm bells be sounding very loud?? "
I always say, go with your gut instincts. if you have picked up on something that is not right go with it. However if it is because you think it is to good to be true, meet in a safe public place and see how you get on. there are 1000's of blokes on this site, so there is a high possibility, that you can find exactly what you are looking for. good luck with it all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had a msg of a young guy (20) who has a pic on profile that is just too good to be true
I have chatted and eventually spoke to him on the fone, but his voice sounded like he was about 40 and he was so confident in what he would do and how he would deff make me squirt n gush (which ive only ever done once)
he wants to meet us
I have asked for more pics, but no answer yet
should my alarm bells be sounding very loud??
the fact someone at that MSG you at that age. You should be pleased, but then again I don't real like fuckin people who could be at the age of my son or daughter just my option |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about us poor buggers with the sheep iPads , can't get on cam with them. "
You could always check out potential fakes using one of the other cam programs referred to earlier in the thread, MsmoodymooBSE. Or even better Download the Puffin Browser, so that you can VIEW cams in Chat, and get the potential fake to turn his cam on. If he's genuine but you just don't fancy him, you can say "my cam won't work"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about us poor buggers with the sheep iPads , can't get on cam with them.
You could always check out potential fakes using one of the other cam programs referred to earlier in the thread, MsmoodymooBSE. Or even better Download the Puffin Browser, so that you can VIEW cams in Chat, and get the potential fake to turn his cam on. If he's genuine but you just don't fancy him, you can say "my cam won't work" "
Oh right. So if a guy says his cam isn't working (or he doesn't use one) hes a 'potential' fake! But its ok for a gal to use that excuse? |
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"I have had a msg of a young guy (20) who has a pic on profile that is just too good to be true
I have chatted and eventually spoke to him on the fone, but his voice sounded like he was about 40 and he was so confident in what he would do and how he would deff make me squirt n gush (which ive only ever done once)
he wants to meet us
I have asked for more pics, but no answer yet
should my alarm bells be sounding very loud?? "
Yes. If he sounds about 40 he probably is. The fact he does not want to send a few pics make me think that even more so. |
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"You wonder why they bother with the fake images when you can reverse check them"
I think the people who put fake pics up do not know about reverse image searching and the ones who do know about it hope others don't know about it. |
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"You wonder why they bother with the fake images when you can reverse check them
I think the people who put fake pics up do not know about reverse image searching and the ones who do know about it hope others don't know about it. "
Yeah it's hilarious when I've messaged a guy back saying 'are you aware your pics are being used on a gay porn site'
And then they have to act all surprised x |
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"What about us poor buggers with the sheep iPads , can't get on cam with them.
You could always check out potential fakes using one of the other cam programs referred to earlier in the thread, MsmoodymooBSE. Or even better Download the Puffin Browser, so that you can VIEW cams in Chat, and get the potential fake to turn his cam on. If he's genuine but you just don't fancy him, you can say "my cam won't work"
Oh right. So if a guy says his cam isn't working (or he doesn't use one) hes a 'potential' fake! But its ok for a gal to use that excuse?"
Double standards still alive and kicking my friend! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What about us poor buggers with the sheep iPads , can't get on cam with them.
You could always check out potential fakes using one of the other cam programs referred to earlier in the thread, MsmoodymooBSE. Or even better Download the Puffin Browser, so that you can VIEW cams in Chat, and get the potential fake to turn his cam on. If he's genuine but you just don't fancy him, you can say "my cam won't work"
Oh right. So if a guy says his cam isn't working (or he doesn't use one) hes a 'potential' fake! But its ok for a gal to use that excuse?
Double standards still alive and kicking my friend! "
Yeah, you gotta love it eh! Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Oh right. So if a guy says his cam isn't working (or he doesn't use one) hes a 'potential' fake! But its ok for a gal to use that excuse?
Double standards still alive and kicking my friend!
Yeah, you gotta love it eh! Lol."
Yep! It's nice when the person benefitting from 'double standards' is the lady!
But in all seriousness, men on here far outweigh the women (genuine women, that is!), so the genuine women are able to pick and choose from all the offers they get. But if any man gets an offer from a woman they have doubts about, then yes, of course the man can insist on seeing the lady on cam first.
Happy swinging! |
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Oh right. So if a guy says his cam isn't working (or he doesn't use one) hes a 'potential' fake! But its ok for a gal to use that excuse?
Double standards still alive and kicking my friend!
Yeah, you gotta love it eh! Lol.
Yep! It's nice when the person benefitting from 'double standards' is the lady!
But in all seriousness, men on here far outweigh the women (genuine women, that is!), so the genuine women are able to pick and choose from all the offers they get. But if any man gets an offer from a woman they have doubts about, then yes, of course the man can insist on seeing the lady on cam first.
Happy swinging!"
But, on a side note, you don't get many women pretending to be men. Whereas, there are 'probably' hundreds of profiles where its a guy pretending to be a woman. So when a gal says her cam isn't working, isn't that a BIGGER sign of it maybe being a fake account? |
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But, on a side note, you don't get many women pretending to be men. Whereas, there are 'probably' hundreds of profiles where its a guy pretending to be a woman. So when a gal says her cam isn't working, isn't that a BIGGER sign of it maybe being a fake account?"
Yup, you're definitely right, that most of the fake accounts are (probably)female/couples accounts. If in any doubt, ask to see on cam, first. In fact, use all the tools which you have, to ensure that the person you're in contact with is genuine.
I suppose my point really is .... genuine women/couples get far more offers than single guys do. So they can afford to pass on a 'possibly dodgy' offer, knowing that there are many other alternatives.
In fact, I've talked myself round to your point of view! MEN - if a 'woman' approaches you, ask to see her on cam, to ensure she is a woman!  |
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