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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree OP, I don't like the idea.
Can't help thinking of there being a baby and I think a woman should protect herself whilst pregnant and just be intimate with her partner |
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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago
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Physiologically there is no way that intercourse - with anyone - can damage a baby in utero.
That said, the chance of catching an STI is always there, even when "playing safe" and that could in some circumstances affect the baby.
Just a thought.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to their own. Personally I wouldn't play with anyone but partner if I was pregnant.
What I'm amazed at is she never told you before you met her!! I think that's wrong of her to assume all guys will want to play with pregnant women. Bit rude and silly of her really, especially considering if she put an ad on stating she was pregnant she would be inundated with guys who do enjoy this. |
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over a year ago
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I agree she should have mentioned it, but 4 - 5 months is not heavy pregnant, and you had the option to walk away.
When I was preggers I was so horny, all the time I went to clubs (with him) and fucked him senseless
Let the pregnant woman decide for herself |
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over a year ago
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For me (not because I am a parent) but find this totally irresponsible on all levels. Your unborn should always come first and should never be put in harms way. Guys, an unborn shouldn't really be part of any kink.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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FFS get of ya righteous horses with ya sti comments. So I suppose if u wasnt pregnant like you then ya couldn't catch shit. When was last time u hot tested dirties. Look at ya own life's before ripping your two faced crap on others.
Pregnant women have as much right to getting a seeing to as everyone else.
Given the chance id love to. Wearing protection and taking into consideration all boundaries.
Grrr some of these posts
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Being pregnant was a special time for me and my husband. It was a time I inspected everything that went in my body. My husband even gave away our cat as he heard there was something in cat faeces that could harm me.
OTT? Maybe. The point is we just wanted to protect our baby, that's why I struggle to understand how a woman would want to have sex with strangers whilst pregnant. |
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"Being pregnant was a special time for me and my husband. It was a time I inspected everything that went in my body. My husband even gave away our cat as he heard there was something in cat faeces that could harm me.
OTT? Maybe. The point is we just wanted to protect our baby, that's why I struggle to understand how a woman would want to have sex with strangers whilst pregnant."
Sex with a stranger period. Makes you no safer if ya pregnant or not. |
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"FFS get of ya righteous horses with ya sti comments. So I suppose if u wasnt pregnant like you then ya couldn't catch shit. When was last time u hot tested dirties. Look at ya own life's before ripping your two faced crap on others.
Pregnant women have as much right to getting a seeing to as everyone else.
Given the chance id love to. Wearing protection and taking into consideration all boundaries.
Grrr some of these posts
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Catching an SRI when not pregnant only affects one person's life (assuming they don'tfVick anyone else before it gets treated.
Catching an SIT while pregnant can cause long term damage to the baby, affecting its development and even causing death in some cases so I'd say those horses were rather necessary wouldn't you?
Of course you would hope that the majority of people that partake of this little hobby get tested regularly but as the only persons sexual health you can be sure of is your own it's always best yo be careful, ans be extra careful when you are carrying a child. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"FFS get of ya righteous horses with ya sti comments. So I suppose if u wasnt pregnant like you then ya couldn't catch shit. When was last time u hot tested dirties. Look at ya own life's before ripping your two faced crap on others.
Pregnant women have as much right to getting a seeing to as everyone else.
Given the chance id love to. Wearing protection and taking into consideration all boundaries.
Grrr some of these posts
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Are you for real. Having an Sri while pregnant can cause so many problems for the child including the child dying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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to the OP... she was wrong not to have told you... but wow.. what a lucky offer..
I didnt swing while pregnant but did have a few partners...
Sex during pregnancy is safe.. and as long as you take precautions you should be okay... and I wish I had played on somewhere like this when I was pregnant.. as I have a few things I would love to do that I never will now.
Pregnant and playing seems to divide the forums.. but I think its wrong to slate the people that choose to do so. |
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"Being pregnant was a special time for me and my husband. It was a time I inspected everything that went in my body. My husband even gave away our cat as he heard there was something in cat faeces that could harm me.
OTT? Maybe. The point is we just wanted to protect our baby, that's why I struggle to understand how a woman would want to have sex with strangers whilst pregnant.
Sex with a stranger period. Makes you no safer if ya pregnant or not."
You miss my point. If I want to take that risk, fine. I wouldn't wish to risk it when pregnant with my child. What others do with their bodies is down to them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me (not because I am a parent) but find this totally irresponsible on all levels. Your unborn should always come first and should never be put in harms way. Guys, an unborn shouldn't really be part of any kink.
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The biggest risk to a babies life is the mother coming to harm, catching an STI from protected sex, that then causes harm, is a risk yes, but in % terms it is a very low risk
Driving whilst pregnant is also a risk, many, many, more people die every year in cars than from STIs
Smoking is a massively more dangerous activity for the baby than protected sex as well
Now of course some people may say but I can't not drive, I can't stop smoking etc and that's fine
But this needs to put in the context of choices, virtually no woman doesn't take a risk with their unborn child, they just take very small risks, on the basis of their lifestyle and choices, in the knowledge they'll probably be ok |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think its SICK!!...thats our opinon!!
I get it that your horny yes but only with my husband!...
Its a special time for both
When I saw a lady on here pregnant, it shocked us! She contacted us...I told her ( politely)...no
Why the hell would you want to!
I dont care who slates me its fucking sick!! They should ban you on here when your pregnant!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont care who slates me its fucking sick!! They should ban you on here when your pregnant!!
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Why should they ban pregnant women on here? you're entitled to your opinion of course but that last statement has got my back up, it's personal preference not to your taste but still a preference.
I am 8 months pregnant, I'm no longer playing but I now lurk on the site for the forums and to chat to friends I have made on here, why should I be stopped from doing something I enjoy just because you think it's "Sick"?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think its SICK!!...thats our opinon!!
I get it that your horny yes but only with my husband!...
Its a special time for both
When I saw a lady on here pregnant, it shocked us! She contacted us...I told her ( politely)...no
Why the hell would you want to!
I dont care who slates me its fucking sick!! They should ban you on here when your pregnant!!
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it's not sick.. just not to your liking. I had multiple partners throughout my pregnancies... I enjoy sex. It's part of who I am...
Sure there are many people that think what we all do on here is "sick".. I mean imagine having sex with someone else and watching your partner do the same...utterly shocking...
You see what I am getting at?...
I wish the back lash wasn't so bad towards the sexy ladies still playing as I love it. Pregnant porn is my favourite to be honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont care who slates me its fucking sick!! They should ban you on here when your pregnant!!
Why should they ban pregnant women on here? you're entitled to your opinion of course but that last statement has got my back up, it's personal preference not to your taste but still a preference.
I am 8 months pregnant, I'm no longer playing but I now lurk on the site for the forums and to chat to friends I have made on here, why should I be stopped from doing something I enjoy just because you think it's "Sick"?? " nothing wrong with looking On here..like I said playing is wrong its
SICK!..as I stated..the guy asked for an opinon...I just gave him ours!..as for being baned on here while pregnant maybe thats harsh..but regarding playing its just not right... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry but it does wind me up when people use the word sick for something that is perfectly natural..
even more so on a so called liberated place.
As long as everyone is careful then no harm done...My biggest fantasy ever has come from a porn film where the lady was heavily pregnant and did a bukkake session. |
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By *acciWoman
over a year ago
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Not for me BUT YES it is the ladies choice to play or not while pregnant i agree SO why is not the guys choice as to if he wishes to play with a pregnant lady to so he he should have been told.
We all have our reasons and needs regarding why were on here,who are we to say what choices other should make |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry but it does wind me up when people use the word sick for something that is perfectly natural..
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but isnt it natural for a parent to try and protect there child as much as possible and having sex with strangers isnt protecting your child to your upmost capabilities |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree she should have mentioned it, but 4 - 5 months is not heavy pregnant, and you had the option to walk away.
When I was preggers I was so horny, all the time I went to clubs (with him) and fucked him senseless
Let the pregnant woman decide for herself "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry but it does wind me up when people use the word sick for something that is perfectly natural..
but isnt it natural for a parent to try and protect there child as much as possible and having sex with strangers isnt protecting your child to your upmost capabilities "
as someone that had lots of sex with people while I was pregnant I didn't feel I was doing anything wrong..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont care who slates me its fucking sick!! They should ban you on here when your pregnant!!
Why should they ban pregnant women on here? you're entitled to your opinion of course but that last statement has got my back up, it's personal preference not to your taste but still a preference.
I am 8 months pregnant, I'm no longer playing but I now lurk on the site for the forums and to chat to friends I have made on here, why should I be stopped from doing something I enjoy just because you think it's "Sick"?? "
Rock on girl xx |
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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago
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I dont care who slates me its fucking sick!! They should ban you on here when your pregnant!!
Why should they ban pregnant women on here? you're entitled to your opinion of course but that last statement has got my back up, it's personal preference not to your taste but still a preference.
I am 8 months pregnant, I'm no longer playing but I now lurk on the site for the forums and to chat to friends I have made on here, why should I be stopped from doing something I enjoy just because you think it's "Sick"??
Rock on girl xx"
Any person who is into double penetration sitting on a swinging forum calling people "sick" needs their head examined |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont care who slates me its fucking sick!! They should ban you on here when your pregnant!!
Why should they ban pregnant women on here? you're entitled to your opinion of course but that last statement has got my back up, it's personal preference not to your taste but still a preference.
I am 8 months pregnant, I'm no longer playing but I now lurk on the site for the forums and to chat to friends I have made on here, why should I be stopped from doing something I enjoy just because you think it's "Sick"??
Rock on girl xx
Any person who is into double penetration sitting on a swinging forum calling people "sick" needs their head examined"
True dat!!! |
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Your treating pregnant women like they are lepers pregnant ladies are beautiful and glowing and if they choose to carry on with swinging fair play I say until they themselves don't feel comfy with it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I dont care who slates me its fucking sick!! They should ban you on here when your pregnant!!
Why should they ban pregnant women on here? you're entitled to your opinion of course but that last statement has got my back up, it's personal preference not to your taste but still a preference.
I am 8 months pregnant, I'm no longer playing but I now lurk on the site for the forums and to chat to friends I have made on here, why should I be stopped from doing something I enjoy just because you think it's "Sick"??
Rock on girl xx
Any person who is into double penetration sitting on a swinging forum calling people "sick" needs their head examined"
The same could be said about people who enjoy watersports needing there head examined. dp or watersports while not pregnant isn't putting a child at serious risk. A child is meant to be the most precious thing in your life and to take an unnesasery risk seems to me to be wrong. It's only 9 months and if you can't withhold from swinging for that length of time to protect your child I think you need to reevaluate aspects of your life and get your priorities in order. It is a selfish act were you are putting your sexual pleasure before the welfare of your child |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I dont care who slates me its fucking sick!! They should ban you on here when your pregnant!!
Why should they ban pregnant women on here? you're entitled to your opinion of course but that last statement has got my back up, it's personal preference not to your taste but still a preference.
I am 8 months pregnant, I'm no longer playing but I now lurk on the site for the forums and to chat to friends I have made on here, why should I be stopped from doing something I enjoy just because you think it's "Sick"??
Rock on girl xx
Any person who is into double penetration sitting on a swinging forum calling people "sick" needs their head examined
The same could be said about people who enjoy watersports needing there head examined. dp or watersports while not pregnant isn't putting a child at serious risk. A child is meant to be the most precious thing in your life and to take an unnesasery risk seems to me to be wrong. It's only 9 months and if you can't withhold from swinging for that length of time to protect your child I think you need to reevaluate aspects of your life and get your priorities in order. It is a selfish act were you are putting your sexual pleasure before the welfare of your child" ..im with you on this one!..seems as though we are the normal ones! (Smiles)...say it like it is! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I dont care who slates me its fucking sick!! They should ban you on here when your pregnant!!
Why should they ban pregnant women on here? you're entitled to your opinion of course but that last statement has got my back up, it's personal preference not to your taste but still a preference.
I am 8 months pregnant, I'm no longer playing but I now lurk on the site for the forums and to chat to friends I have made on here, why should I be stopped from doing something I enjoy just because you think it's "Sick"??
Rock on girl xx
Any person who is into double penetration sitting on a swinging forum calling people "sick" needs their head examined
The same could be said about people who enjoy watersports needing there head examined. dp or watersports while not pregnant isn't putting a child at serious risk. A child is meant to be the most precious thing in your life and to take an unnesasery risk seems to me to be wrong. It's only 9 months and if you can't withhold from swinging for that length of time to protect your child I think you need to reevaluate aspects of your life and get your priorities in order. It is a selfish act were you are putting your sexual pleasure before the welfare of your child..im with you on this one!..seems as though we are the normal ones! (Smiles)...say it like it is! "
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"Let's put it this way, would you have liked to be born knowing your mum had 50-60 BBC/strangers cocks in her before your birth
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Even Marvel the memory man wid struggle te mind e bein in the womb ..... lol ... |
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"Let's put it this way, would you have liked to be born knowing your mum had 50-60 BBC/strangers cocks in her before your birth
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what does that actually matter.. and maybe they just wanted one guy to share it with them. I'm sure my kids would hate to know I fucked so many guys full stop.. so it's not something I share with them..
I think last pregnancy was only about 6 guys.. but one of them was well into double figures.. no shortage of men wanting to play as I got more obviously pregnant..
I was not about to stop being me just because I was pregnant.. I hate all this you need putting into a bubble Crap. I still did track days till I was about 7 months.. and my bike too.. didn't give up which ever fad food they were saying to avoid.. but did eat well and keep happy in myself...
Don't think it's being selfish... it's just about what's right for you. Same as some seem to think that if your a parent kids should think your a born again virgin.
Choice... That's what it is... But everyone should know what's what on a meet. X |
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"Being pregnant was a special time for me and my husband. It was a time I inspected everything that went in my body. My husband even gave away our cat as he heard there was something in cat faeces that could harm me.
OTT? Maybe. The point is we just wanted to protect our baby, that's why I struggle to understand how a woman would want to have sex with strangers whilst pregnant."
and I think anyone can dress this up how they want BUT it's up to you if you want sex with strangers but your baby has no choice whatsoever |
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"Sorry but it does wind me up when people use the word sick for something that is perfectly natural..
but isnt it natural for a parent to try and protect there child as much as possible and having sex with strangers isnt protecting your child to your upmost capabilities " if it was me as the farther of the child if hate for some one to have sex with my pregnant partner I'd flip |
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"Sorry but it does wind me up when people use the word sick for something that is perfectly natural..
but isnt it natural for a parent to try and protect there child as much as possible and having sex with strangers isnt protecting your child to your upmost capabilities if it was me as the farther of the child if hate for some one to have sex with my pregnant partner I'd flip"
would you be okay if she wasn't pregnant though..? And that's you.. not everyone likes the same things. |
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"Sorry but it does wind me up when people use the word sick for something that is perfectly natural..
but isnt it natural for a parent to try and protect there child as much as possible and having sex with strangers isnt protecting your child to your upmost capabilities if it was me as the farther of the child if hate for some one to have sex with my pregnant partner I'd flip
would you be okay if she wasn't pregnant though..? And that's you.. not everyone likes the same things. " I think the farther should have a say a swell! My opinion an il stick to it I want the best possible start for my child an nothing compares to the protectiveness over your own children why on earth would I take the risk an put my child in danger. Not for me an il be honest I would not let my partner have sex with another man at all child safety an well being comes first every time no matter how tight it may sound not letting partner play. But I don't care |
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"Sorry but it does wind me up when people use the word sick for something that is perfectly natural..
but isnt it natural for a parent to try and protect there child as much as possible and having sex with strangers isnt protecting your child to your upmost capabilities if it was me as the farther of the child if hate for some one to have sex with my pregnant partner I'd flip
would you be okay if she wasn't pregnant though..? And that's you.. not everyone likes the same things. I think the farther should have a say a swell! My opinion an il stick to it I want the best possible start for my child an nothing compares to the protectiveness over your own children why on earth would I take the risk an put my child in danger. Not for me an il be honest I would not let my partner have sex with another man at all child safety an well being comes first every time no matter how tight it may sound not letting partner play. But I don't care" |
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"I'm not saying you can't choose not to. I just don't see any issues with playing safely while pregnant if you want to..
" nothing's safe. The fact u can't take 9 months of your life for your child to be born safest as possible says a lot. |
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"I'm not saying you can't choose not to. I just don't see any issues with playing safely while pregnant if you want to..
nothing's safe. The fact u can't take 9 months of your life for your child to be born safest as possible says a lot. "
I've had six kids.. and no incidents.. so it is down to personal choice. I've never swung while pregnant.. just had multiple partners.. which was my choice... To some this is a casual thing.. for me it's part of my lifestyle. I'm sure many follow guidelines to the letter while pregnant.. I chose to ask advice.. then make my own decisions.
many wouldn't understand sharing a loved one at all... so remember that before judging. |
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"I'm not saying you can't choose not to. I just don't see any issues with playing safely while pregnant if you want to..
nothing's safe. The fact u can't take 9 months of your life for your child to be born safest as possible says a lot.
I've had six kids.. and no incidents.. so it is down to personal choice. I've never swung while pregnant.. just had multiple partners.. which was my choice... To some this is a casual thing.. for me it's part of my lifestyle. I'm sure many follow guidelines to the letter while pregnant.. I chose to ask advice.. then make my own decisions.
many wouldn't understand sharing a loved one at all... so remember that before judging. " blah blah it's my opinion so stop getting arsy over it just cz I don't agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh so righteous about the welfare of the child. If a condom is boundaries are respected it is simply not harmful to the fetus. "
Condoms don't protect you from every sti plus they can always split. |
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"I'm not saying you can't choose not to. I just don't see any issues with playing safely while pregnant if you want to..
nothing's safe. The fact u can't take 9 months of your life for your child to be born safest as possible says a lot.
I've had six kids.. and no incidents.. so it is down to personal choice. I've never swung while pregnant.. just had multiple partners.. which was my choice... To some this is a casual thing.. for me it's part of my lifestyle. I'm sure many follow guidelines to the letter while pregnant.. I chose to ask advice.. then make my own decisions.
many wouldn't understand sharing a loved one at all... so remember that before judging. "
The thing is if something had of happened then they would have to live with that fact the rest of there life and what an awful situation to be in. It may be part of people's lives but when you have children your life changes.
Sharing a partner is totally different to swinging while pregnant. Everyone has a choice except the unborn child |
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"I'm not saying you can't choose not to. I just don't see any issues with playing safely while pregnant if you want to..
nothing's safe. The fact u can't take 9 months of your life for your child to be born safest as possible says a lot.
I've had six kids.. and no incidents.. so it is down to personal choice. I've never swung while pregnant.. just had multiple partners.. which was my choice... To some this is a casual thing.. for me it's part of my lifestyle. I'm sure many follow guidelines to the letter while pregnant.. I chose to ask advice.. then make my own decisions.
many wouldn't understand sharing a loved one at all... so remember that before judging. blah blah it's my opinion so stop getting arsy over it just cz I don't agree"
not getting arsey.. I'm just saying that some judge so quick on here but forget their own actions may be judged by those outside the lifestyle.
I still maintain it should be up to those that are pregnant to decide. If they want to fine no one is forcing anyone to do it. If it's not for you.. that's fine... Just don't judge them for wanting to.
Fact is it's unlikely I'll have the chance to swing while pregnant as not intending to have anymore kids.. but I do still think it's sexy to see a pregnant woman playing. |
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Taken on bored what all u guys have said....
And I still cant get my head round to the fact that some of you on here think it's ok to play while pregnant!..
I still think the same...yes its SICK as you keep reminding us!!....as for the men that think its ok....your oviously twisted!!...I dont hold back im telling you how it is...shoot me down for it...I dont care its morally wrong on so many levels!!......nuff said!!....bambi |
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"Taken on bored what all u guys have said....
And I still cant get my head round to the fact that some of you on here think it's ok to play while pregnant!..
I still think the same...yes its SICK as you keep reminding us!!....as for the men that think its ok....your oviously twisted!!...I dont hold back im telling you how it is...shoot me down for it...I dont care its morally wrong on so many levels!!......nuff said!!....bambi"
it's not sick, just in your opinion.. as I said to some having your loved one fucked by someone else would be sick. It's all subjective.
It's not morally wrong to me, nor do I find those guys that fancy pregnant women twisted. But that is just my personal view on it. One I am unlikely to ever change..
do I think I am a bad parent for fucking people other than my babies dad while pregnant... Nope.... Nor do I think that swinging while being a parent is wrong. One in the same to me.
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Rach is pregnant and not keen to play but happy to go to Eurekas to sunbath by the pool naked and go to the evening party but not interested in playing.....one guy was a twat and thought she shouldnt be there but to sit n people watch have some fun oh and drive me home, whats the harm. Plenty there wanted to touch the bump!! |
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"Rach is pregnant and not keen to play but happy to go to Eurekas to sunbath by the pool naked and go to the evening party but not interested in playing.....one guy was a twat and thought she shouldnt be there but to sit n people watch have some fun oh and drive me home, whats the harm. Plenty there wanted to touch the bump!! "
I think that man was rude you have every right to go to a club and enjoy the facilities and views if that's what you enjoy why not.
Some people are so quick to judge and point fingers in the swinging world but very rarely do they question their own actions.
Hope he did not ruin your evening and congratulations.
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Pregnant lady is for life not just Christmas and in my view is she will do what ever she chooses and I would let her my wife when pregnant felt horny all the time and if she was into three sums then I would of let her as its her body |
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Clearly quite an emotive thread this. Not sure I agree with some of the language which is clearly very passionate and although I find the concept sexy, not sure I'd be totally comfortable with my partner playing at that time, as I'd be worried (justifiable or not) about her. Having said that, people make choices in life and sometimes they're not brilliant or to everyone's taste but they are their choices not ours.
Posting about morality on a swingers forum sort of makes me laugh though. To the greater population many of them would think we are "sick and twisted" as well |
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You are so right, i live in middle England, work on an office where all of the people there would think we are sick, twisted etc.... We go to a club, in particular Eurekas, its very Liberal, everything, anything goes and so we can sunbath nude, go to the party 8 till 3 am where allsorts goes on and Rach is safe to sit, watch it all go, we dont have yo play to enjoy but some do have a problem with it..... Pregnant women shouldnt be there some i know think |
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"Taken on bored what all u guys have said....
And I still cant get my head round to the fact that some of you on here think it's ok to play while pregnant!..
I still think the same...yes its SICK as you keep reminding us!!....as for the men that think its ok....your oviously twisted!!...I dont hold back im telling you how it is...shoot me down for it...I dont care its morally wrong on so many levels!!......nuff said!!....bambi"
Your opinion and so vociferously made !
So we are sick and twisted ?
Oh well - never mind we will cope |
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We certainly dont think we are, its just the comments one hears can be hilarious, to us, going to a club and see 300 people loving the night or meeting a couple and loving their company for the night... Well there is nothing better but as said non players have no idea and so no understanding..... |
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"Taken on bored what all u guys have said....
And I still cant get my head round to the fact that some of you on here think it's ok to play while pregnant!..
I still think the same...yes its SICK as you keep reminding us!!....as for the men that think its ok....your oviously twisted!!...I dont hold back im telling you how it is...shoot me down for it...I dont care its morally wrong on so many levels!!......nuff said!!....bambi
Your opinion and so vociferously made !
So we are sick and twisted ?
Oh well - never mind we will cope " ...ahh playing on your mind what my oppions are!..maybe that tells you then about your conscience...OUCH.. |
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"And to add, for us, pregnant means we dont play, no harm in watching and enjoying the evening at a club" absolutly not no harm at all in just watching thats not my issue. .
As I said its when pregnant women play with others while been pregnant thats what im saying is wrong... |
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OMG and your all so prim and proper FFS who the hell are you hypocrites to condemn any one for their sexual preferences, if she wants to fuck when pregnant let her what the hell as it to do with you. And as for the OP ( haZeh ) shame on you get a life, sort your wig out there is no doubt people in her will find some of your sexual habits un-health as well your too quick to jump the gun and have no right to slander this women it was meant to be a private matter between yourselves, you’re not allowing her to give her side of events. Close the thread is outrageous |
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"OMG and your all so prim and proper FFS who the hell are you hypocrites to condemn any one for their sexual preferences, if she wants to fuck when pregnant let her what the hell as it to do with you. And as for the OP ( haZeh ) shame on you get a life, sort your wig out there is no doubt people in her will find some of your sexual habits un-health as well your too quick to jump the gun and have no right to slander this women it was meant to be a private matter between yourselves, you?re not allowing her to give her side of events. Close the thread is outrageous "
when someone is potentially putting a child in damger of permanent damage or even death i think its a totally different sublect to wether you like to have threesomes or more somes that isnt potentially damaging an innocent child. how is anyone jumping the gun someone wanted to play while pregnant that is all we need to know to discuss the matter. |
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"OMG and your all so prim and proper FFS who the hell are you hypocrites to condemn any one for their sexual preferences, if she wants to fuck when pregnant let her what the hell as it to do with you. And as for the OP ( haZeh ) shame on you get a life, sort your wig out there is no doubt people in her will find some of your sexual habits un-health as well your too quick to jump the gun and have no right to slander this women it was meant to be a private matter between yourselves, you?re not allowing her to give her side of events. Close the thread is outrageous
when someone is potentially putting a child in damger of permanent damage or even death i think its a totally different sublect to wether you like to have threesomes or more somes that isnt potentially damaging an innocent child. how is anyone jumping the gun someone wanted to play while pregnant that is all we need to know to discuss the matter."
Blimey, it's always the one's without kids that seem fit to lecture those with. For a supposedly liberal bunch I don't think I've seen so much narrow mindedness.. |
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"OMG and your all so prim and proper FFS who the hell are you hypocrites to condemn any one for their sexual preferences, if she wants to fuck when pregnant let her what the hell as it to do with you. And as for the OP ( haZeh ) shame on you get a life, sort your wig out there is no doubt people in her will find some of your sexual habits un-health as well your too quick to jump the gun and have no right to slander this women it was meant to be a private matter between yourselves, you?re not allowing her to give her side of events. Close the thread is outrageous
when someone is potentially putting a child in damger of permanent damage or even death i think its a totally different sublect to wether you like to have threesomes or more somes that isnt potentially damaging an innocent child. how is anyone jumping the gun someone wanted to play while pregnant that is all we need to know to discuss the matter.
Blimey, it's always the one's without kids that seem fit to lecture those with. For a supposedly liberal bunch I don't think I've seen so much narrow mindedness.. "
well i think youll find i am in a position to make a judgment on it and i do have kids not that its any of your business. i am not lecturing i am discussing it unlike you that comes in with soome wildly inaccurate statment and makes yourself look a bit of an idiot |
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"OMG and your all so prim and proper FFS who the hell are you hypocrites to condemn any one for their sexual preferences, if she wants to fuck when pregnant let her what the hell as it to do with you. And as for the OP ( haZeh ) shame on you get a life, sort your wig out there is no doubt people in her will find some of your sexual habits un-health as well your too quick to jump the gun and have no right to slander this women it was meant to be a private matter between yourselves, you?re not allowing her to give her side of events. Close the thread is outrageous
when someone is potentially putting a child in damger of permanent damage or even death i think its a totally different sublect to wether you like to have threesomes or more somes that isnt potentially damaging an innocent child. how is anyone jumping the gun someone wanted to play while pregnant that is all we need to know to discuss the matter.
Blimey, it's always the one's without kids that seem fit to lecture those with. For a supposedly liberal bunch I don't think I've seen so much narrow mindedness..
well i think youll find i am in a position to make a judgment on it and i do have kids not that its any of your business. i am not lecturing i am discussing it unlike you that comes in with soome wildly inaccurate statment and makes yourself look a bit of an idiot" |
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Wowwie that went crazy for a min haha. Being a mum I know what it was like although I was swinging through the first 6 mknths (due to nkt knowing I was pregnant) once I found out I deleted my profile so I could concentrate on baby and getting ready for what was coming. I think I rejoined once baby was about 3 months. Personally I think pregnant women are something to be cherished! They are doing a wonderful (or potentially terrible) thing! My best friends preg and she is with the babies dad but sometimes he just cant satisfy her so when I have a spare night she'll come down to mine and get treat like a princess and she'll get what shes missing at home - obv with toys theres a far minor risk of infection and her lad does know so happy on both sides I guess but never would I say it was sick, surely people here would be called sick for wanting to swap partners, have multiple partners in a go, want to do watersports/toilet play/pain etc. Before judging others think what would my parents or kids say if they found out and just remember everyone here is here for the same reason, pregnant or not, it could well be someone close to home and you just dont know it. |
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I dont care who slates me its fucking sick!! They should ban you on here when your pregnant!!
Why should they ban pregnant women on here? you're entitled to your opinion of course but that last statement has got my back up, it's personal preference not to your taste but still a preference.
I am 8 months pregnant, I'm no longer playing but I now lurk on the site for the forums and to chat to friends I have made on here, why should I be stopped from doing something I enjoy just because you think it's "Sick"??
Rock on girl xx
Any person who is into double penetration sitting on a swinging forum calling people "sick" needs their head examined
The same could be said about people who enjoy watersports needing there head examined. dp or watersports while not pregnant isn't putting a child at serious risk. A child is meant to be the most precious thing in your life and to take an unnesasery risk seems to me to be wrong. It's only 9 months and if you can't withhold from swinging for that length of time to protect your child I think you need to reevaluate aspects of your life and get your priorities in order. It is a selfish act were you are putting your sexual pleasure before the welfare of your child"
Pretty much sums up my view.
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"Oh so righteous about the welfare of the child. If a condom is boundaries are respected it is simply not harmful to the fetus. "
If that's how you feel would I be correct in assuming you use a condom so don't get checked. If you do get checked why?
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Blimey, it's always the one's without kids that seem fit to lecture those with. For a supposedly liberal bunch I don't think I've seen so much narrow mindedness..
sad women for the recorded ill educated fool I do have children and never assume people on here do not, same again jumping the gun |
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well i think youll find i am in a position to make a judgment on it and i do have kids not that its any of your business. i am not lecturing i am discussing it unlike you that comes in with soome wildly inaccurate statment and makes yourself look a bit of an idiot
Maybe I should slander your and your place of employment in the public domain and make yourself look a bit of an idiot
we are all entitled to our options |
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"well i think youll find i am in a position to make a judgment on it and i do have kids not that its any of your business. i am not lecturing i am discussing it unlike you that comes in with soome wildly inaccurate statment and makes yourself look a bit of an idiot
Maybe I should slander your and your place of employment in the public domain and make yourself look a bit of an idiot
we are all entitled to our options "
I haven't got a clue what you are on about as your post has no relevance to what I have put. |
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"OMG and your all so prim and proper FFS who the hell are you hypocrites to condemn any one for their sexual preferences, if she wants to fuck when pregnant let her what the hell as it to do with you. And as for the OP ( haZeh ) shame on you get a life, sort your wig out there is no doubt people in her will find some of your sexual habits un-health as well your too quick to jump the gun and have no right to slander this women it was meant to be a private matter between yourselves, you?re not allowing her to give her side of events. Close the thread is outrageous
when someone is potentially putting a child in damger of permanent damage or even death i think its a totally different sublect to wether you like to have threesomes or more somes that isnt potentially damaging an innocent child. how is anyone jumping the gun someone wanted to play while pregnant that is all we need to know to discuss the matter.
Blimey, it's always the one's without kids that seem fit to lecture those with. For a supposedly liberal bunch I don't think I've seen so much narrow mindedness.. "
What is equally "funny" most of the single men leave the site the moment they get a girlfriend as they don't want to share her. Yet they're jumping up and down knob in hand saying they want to fuck pregnant women, we're being judgemental blah blah.
Talk about hypocrisy! |
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Judging by some of the posts on here no one is allowed an opinion anymore huh?? I've never been pregnant but I suspect that if I was the only person I'd want sex with is my partner. Does that make me wrong and small minded?
I would be more worried about STI's if I were pregnant as its not just my life at stake if I was pregnant.
All these shouty abusive people on here need to chill out a bit I think. All people are doing is expressing opinions not attacking the person the OP met with. The only negative comments about the meet we're that she should have told him she was pregnant and I agree with that. |
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"Judging by some of the posts on here no one is allowed an opinion anymore huh?? I've never been pregnant but I suspect that if I was the only person I'd want sex with is my partner. Does that make me wrong and small minded?
I would be more worried about STI's if I were pregnant as its not just my life at stake if I was pregnant.
All these shouty abusive people on here need to chill out a bit I think. All people are doing is expressing opinions not attacking the person the OP met with. The only negative comments about the meet we're that she should have told him she was pregnant and I agree with that. "
Exactly what people are saying! |
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"Who is this Pregnant lady? Would love to meet and explore"
I was surprised it had taken this long to ask.. I would so enjoy being invited to share in such an amazing time x |
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"Blah blah blah
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IM RIGHT....."
there is no wrong or right.. just personal opinion... Stamping your feet and trying to make yours the only View that counts isn't going to change views.
If a pregnant lady wants to play it's her choice and shouldn't be slated for it |
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Well Rach is 25. Weeks and looking good xx no way is she interested in playing but we will still go to Eurekas, sit by the pool and sunbath naked and go to the party in the evening on 27th, no harm done to anyone |
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