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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What is the best way to start a chat over mail on here. I think mine are pretty lame to be honest. What do you peeps recommend and what would you like to hear from a guy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like a message that shows a man has bothered reading my profile. Say something nice about their pics [assuming they have some] and mention something about their profile. I'm not a fan of the Hi, how's you' messages. Make a bit of an effort. Good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im more likely to respond to something completely random,rather than the bland how are you,what are you doing tonight messages
I always look at the profile before I read the message too so if I think the profile and the pics are good then thats a bonus
Had a very nice chat on the back of a message last week that just said mushroom  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like a message that shows a man has bothered reading my profile. Say something nice about their pics [assuming they have some] and mention something about their profile. I'm not a fan of the Hi, how's you' messages. Make a bit of an effort. Good luck "
That just about sums it up.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i just think its mainly common sense really as how peeps message each other.
if out and about in a swingers club..peeps dont just go hi and then have sex.. swinging also about socialising..which many online seem to forget.
just be yourself and show interest, but like said above..read profiles and say good things but not over the top.
all anyone can do is try there best if they genuine about meeting peeps..good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just looked at a mans profile, His veri's very cearly stated that he had played bareback.
I declined him stating I don't play with those doing Bareback. He came back with he never does bareback so I pointed him in the direction of his own veri's 
Be honest, be yourself, or you will soon find yourself caught out. Relax and be friendly. You'll do better than lots of the muppets on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep random works for me too. It shows that when/if you meet in person you can have random conversations, laughs ect I find that much more enticing than no conversation and just 'wanna fuck' 'how are you' messages
Her x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One man's pepper is another man's salt ...horses for courses mate ...and another twenty million cliches - just relax, be yourself and prepare to be rejected a lot ...if you can do the above you'll get on fine here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Cheers and thanks for the info. I'm really confident in work and out socialising etc but when it comes down to mailing I'm a bit crap. Will take the comments and try it out |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I tend to ask if they like Adam & The Ants
I used to have a secret guilty crush on Adam - I can't believe I've just admitted that!!!  "
My brother once went to a fancy dress party as Adam and looked the spitting image |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"I tend to ask if they like Adam & The Ants
I used to have a secret guilty crush on Adam - I can't believe I've just admitted that!!! "
See look if the op had used that. There would be a massive private conversation happening now  |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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"I tend to ask if they like Adam & The Ants
I used to have a secret guilty crush on Adam - I can't believe I've just admitted that!!!
My brother once went to a fancy dress party as Adam and looked the spitting image"
Is he on here? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I tend to ask if they like Adam & The Ants
I used to have a secret guilty crush on Adam - I can't believe I've just admitted that!!!
My brother once went to a fancy dress party as Adam and looked the spitting image
Is he on here? "
Haha no sorry but I am haha |
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