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Attitude of some women

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

After a number of email replys, I wanted to ask a question to the forum. Do other people on here think some (not all) women on here have bad attitudes and are just plain rude.

I know I am not the best looking bloke, but im also not the worst, however somw women on this site think they are 'gods gift'. These same women wouldnt get any attention or even a secod glance on a Friday or Saturday night down town, yet because they out number men on this site by between 500-1000 to 1, they think they have the right to be rude.

I understand because of the ratio they can pick and choose,but do it in a polite way and think about the reality of the whole thing.

What do people think?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think you about to get loads of shit any minute mate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Batton down the hatches there is a storm coming

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By *r_TrojanMan over a year ago

In The North

did you wake up on the wrong side of the bed this morning???

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

realise that but bit pissed off with about 4 emails ive just read and I reckon nearly three quarters of the members on this site would agree (just wont say)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think you about to get loads of shit any minute mate"

Like poking a fire with a firework

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They must be catching up on there beauty sleep!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hahahaha I can't wait to read this in about an hours time hahahah

But to say the ratio is 1000 to one is about right.

And there are soooooooooo many nneedy men it makes it easy for the ladies to choose?

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By * n zCouple over a year ago

leamington spa

I think it must be very disheartening for you to get such shitey replies, especially if you've taken the trouble to read profiles and preferences and talor your messages to suit ...........

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think it must be very disheartening for you to get such shitey replies, especially if you've taken the trouble to read profiles and preferences and talor your messages to suit ...........

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if people respond in a polie way thats fine...its the attitude that goes with it, but I will say that many people on here have the right attitude and are nice to each other

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

. These same women wouldnt get any attention or even a secod glance on a Friday or Saturday night down town,

Wowi love this bit. That's going to get you some stick there buddy. But only because its so very true hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it must be very disheartening for you to get such shitey replies, especially if you've taken the trouble to read profiles and preferences and talor your messages to suit ...........

if people respond in a polie way thats fine...its the attitude that goes with it, but I will say that many people on here have the right attitude and are nice to each other

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

is not my fault that I'm on the site, girls compare everyone to me. It's hard being so good looking and having such a fantastic cock. But I can't help it if everyone else has to up their game. Let's be honest, I'm much hotter than you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have met guys that have said the same but I would tend to agree

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"After a number of email replys, I wanted to ask a question to the forum. Do other people on here think some (not all) women on here have bad attitudes and are just plain rude.

I understand because of the ratio they can pick and choose,but do it in a polite way and think about the reality of the whole thing.

What do people think?"

Many women on here could say similar aboutsome of the men. Some people are simply rude. As for attraction, everyone is different.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

goes to grab the pop corn and a brew to watch this post lol

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By *eareenaCouple over a year ago

Rockford

I try not to be rude....sometimes it does happen but I must say I have had quite a lot of rudeness from men on here. I think you just get that everywhere.. It's just the asshole ratio.... Your always near one like rats in the city.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ill play devils advocate

Some women are rude... There are likely some with illusions of grandeur but, that says more about them and not you - well it would have if you hadn't resorted to the typical ' couldn't pull normally ' cliche

I've come across my fair share of very rude men on here. You can send a polite no and an email can come back saying all kinds of vile things

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I completely agree.

I think all girls are vile and you should steer well clear of them from now on, and just play with the boys, leave the girls to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"After a number of email replys, I wanted to ask a question to the forum. Do other people on here think some (not all) women on here have bad attitudes and are just plain rude.

I understand because of the ratio they can pick and choose,but do it in a polite way and think about the reality of the whole thing.

What do people think?

Many women on here could say similar aboutsome of the men. Some people are simply rude. As for attraction, everyone is different. "

completely agree, its a shame manners can't be used by everyone. Politeness costs nothing if the man/woman/couple has done nothing wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I try not to be rude....sometimes it does happen but I must say I have had quite a lot of rudeness from men on here. I think you just get that everywhere.. It's just the asshole ratio.... Your always near one like rats in the city."

If im honest I didnt expect this response so I apologise for my inital thread and maybe I should have just stated people not just women

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ill play devils advocate

I've come across my fair share of very rude men on here. You can send a polite no and an email can come back saying all kinds of vile things

could't agree more

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

It seems that the women are only at fault to the men who seem to struggle on here. Its rare for a guy who is successful to come to the forums to complain, probably because he knows what will happen - the majority of women who read his post deciding never to meet him.

Of course some women are rude on here. So are some men, and some couples. The best way to deal with them is to report any abusive messages, block them, then move on. Posting a moan on here shows not only that you are unsuccessful, therefore less likely to attract attention, but shows a level of investment in a sex site that I, personally, would find unattractive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If im honest I didnt expect this response so I apologise for my inital thread and maybe I should have just stated people not just women"

You make a fair point in your initial post. You're just commenting on the people you have mailed. Yes guys can be rude too but if you haven't mailed them you wouldn't have had an issue with them. Same with rude couples.

It can be very frustrating.

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By *aveandkate35Couple over a year ago

telford

Ok ill try and be objective....

What do you class as bad attitude and rude? You don't have to name and shame just a generalisation.

I love when people say how the women wouldn't get a second chance in the real world.... Think about that statement for a second. It says more about the men on here than it does the women.....

Don't get me wrong, there is no need for someone to be abusive, but even if they are, so what? Delete, block, carry on with your day.

If anything it's better on here, if someone in the real world is abusive you may run into them again. This is the whole point of a website like this, is that you can ignore people who are abusive/ not for you.

Don't let it bother you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have met guys that have said the same but I would tend to agree"

see I told you

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By *aveandkate35Couple over a year ago

telford

"It seems that the women are only at fault to the men who seem to struggle on here. Its rare for a guy who is successful to come to the forums to complain, probably because he knows what will happen - the majority of women who read his post deciding never to meet him.

Well said - perfectly described, what we in strategic planning call the classic "lose / lose" manoeuvre.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ok ill try and be objective....

What do you class as bad attitude and rude? You don't have to name and shame just a generalisation.

I love when people say how the women wouldn't get a second chance in the real world.... Think about that statement for a second. It says more about the men on here than it does the women.....

Don't get me wrong, there is no need for someone to be abusive, but even if they are, so what? Delete, block, carry on with your day.

Don't let it bother you.

Recieved an email simply stating 'dont waste my time'.....same person wasnt exactly the most gorgeous girl id say eyes on ever?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ok ill try and be objective....

What do you class as bad attitude and rude? You don't have to name and shame just a generalisation.

I love when people say how the women wouldn't get a second chance in the real world.... Think about that statement for a second. It says more about the men on here than it does the women.....

Don't get me wrong, there is no need for someone to be abusive, but even if they are, so what? Delete, block, carry on with your day.

Don't let it bother you.

Recieved an email simply stating 'dont waste my time'.....same person wasnt exactly the most gorgeous girl id say eyes on ever?"

id ever set eyes on...sorry little early still

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok ill try and be objective....

What do you class as bad attitude and rude? You don't have to name and shame just a generalisation.

I love when people say how the women wouldn't get a second chance in the real world.... Think about that statement for a second. It says more about the men on here than it does the women.....

Don't get me wrong, there is no need for someone to be abusive, but even if they are, so what? Delete, block, carry on with your day.

Don't let it bother you.

Recieved an email simply stating 'dont waste my time'.....same person wasnt exactly the most gorgeous girl id say eyes on ever?"

So, I suppose the question I would ask is this...if you thought that poorly of her, why did you approasch her for sex? or was she better looking before she turned you down?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Duck!

You're right though and there's no need to be rude, a polite No is all that's needed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok ill try and be objective....

What do you class as bad attitude and rude? You don't have to name and shame just a generalisation.

I love when people say how the women wouldn't get a second chance in the real world.... Think about that statement for a second. It says more about the men on here than it does the women.....

Don't get me wrong, there is no need for someone to be abusive, but even if they are, so what? Delete, block, carry on with your day.

Don't let it bother you.

Recieved an email simply stating 'dont waste my time'.....same person wasnt exactly the most gorgeous girl id say eyes on ever?"

She might not have been gorgeous in your eyes, but to someone else they might think she was stunning x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Of course some women are rude on

here. So are some men, and some couples. The best way to deal with them is to report any abusive messages, block them, then move on. Posting a moan on here shows not only that you

are unsuccessful, therefore less likely to attract attention, but shows a level of investment in a sex site that I, personally, would find unattractive."
couldnt of put it better

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ok ill try and be objective....

What do you class as bad attitude and rude? You don't have to name and shame just a generalisation.

I love when people say how the women wouldn't get a second chance in the real world.... Think about that statement for a second. It says more about the men on here than it does the women.....

Don't get me wrong, there is no need for someone to be abusive, but even if they are, so what? Delete, block, carry on with your day.

Don't let it bother you.

Recieved an email simply stating 'dont waste my time'.....same person wasnt exactly the most gorgeous girl id say eyes on ever?

So, I suppose the question I would ask is this...if you thought that poorly of her, why did you approasch her for sex? or was she better looking before she turned you down?"

she was pretty on the inside..joking before people have a pop.

She wasnt bad looking I just didnt expect the reply I got

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Duck!

You're right though and there's no need to be rude, a polite No is all that's needed."

that is simply the point im trying to state

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ok ill try and be objective....

What do you class as bad attitude and rude? You don't have to name and shame just a generalisation.

I love when people say how the women wouldn't get a second chance in the real world.... Think about that statement for a second. It says more about the men on here than it does the women.....

Don't get me wrong, there is no need for someone to be abusive, but even if they are, so what? Delete, block, carry on with your day.

Don't let it bother you.

Recieved an email simply stating 'dont waste my time'.....same person wasnt exactly the most gorgeous girl id say eyes on ever?

She might not have been gorgeous in your eyes, but to someone else they might think she was stunning x"

I loved her and gave her everything and that is the way she treated me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok ill try and be objective....

What do you class as bad attitude and rude? You don't have to name and shame just a generalisation.

I love when people say how the women wouldn't get a second chance in the real world.... Think about that statement for a second. It says more about the men on here than it does the women.....

Don't get me wrong, there is no need for someone to be abusive, but even if they are, so what? Delete, block, carry on with your day.

Don't let it bother you.

Recieved an email simply stating 'dont waste my time'.....same person wasnt exactly the most gorgeous girl id say eyes on ever?"
obviously attractive enough for you to show an interest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Duck!

You're right though and there's no need to be rude, a polite No is all that's needed.

that is simply the point im trying to state

It's a good point you're making.

However... Read back the whole thread and pay attention to your own posts. See if you think you're being rude...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ok ill try and be objective....

What do you class as bad attitude and rude? You don't have to name and shame just a generalisation.

I love when people say how the women wouldn't get a second chance in the real world.... Think about that statement for a second. It says more about the men on here than it does the women.....

Don't get me wrong, there is no need for someone to be abusive, but even if they are, so what? Delete, block, carry on with your day.

Don't let it bother you.

Recieved an email simply stating 'dont waste my time'.....same person wasnt exactly the most gorgeous girl id say eyes on ever? obviously attractive enough for you to show an interest"

answered this in previous comment on thread???

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By *eareenaCouple over a year ago

Rockford

"Ok ill try and be objective....

What do you class as bad attitude and rude? You don't have to name and shame just a generalisation.

I love when people say how the women wouldn't get a second chance in the real world.... Think about that statement for a second. It says more about the men on here than it does the women.....

Don't get me wrong, there is no need for someone to be abusive, but even if they are, so what? Delete, block, carry on with your day.

Don't let it bother you.

Recieved an email simply stating 'dont waste my time'.....same person wasnt exactly the most gorgeous girl id say eyes on ever?

She might not have been gorgeous in your eyes, but to someone else they might think she was stunning x

I loved her and gave her everything and that is the way she treated me

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it's hard not to lash out when your hurt. Sorry guy

buck up and keep looking for that nice one.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If she wasn't the most attractive thing you'd ever set eyes on why did you bother mailing her in the first place? That's just showing you as completely desperate and would shag a barbers floor.

I agree there are women on here with illusions of grandeur and can come across as rude but as has rightly been pointed out there are men and couples like that swell. The 1 that grates me though is the overweight woman who stated in her profile she won't meet fat men as they repulse her. Seriously couldn't believe what I was reading. Pot n kettle love.

The women tho who you say wouldn't get a 2nd look on a Saturday night are here for a reason tho which could be they are just looking for the attention they may not get in the real world. Attention that may make them feel happier. Maybe they have no intentions of meeting and knowing that folk want them on here is all they need from the site. They or anyone else is under no obligation to shag anyone.

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By *aveandkate35Couple over a year ago

telford

"Ok ill try and be objective....

What do you class as bad attitude and rude? You don't have to name and shame just a generalisation.

I love when people say how the women wouldn't get a second chance in the real world.... Think about that statement for a second. It says more about the men on here than it does the women.....

Don't get me wrong, there is no need for someone to be abusive, but even if they are, so what? Delete, block, carry on with your day.

Don't let it bother you.

Recieved an email simply stating 'dont waste my time'.....same person wasnt exactly the most gorgeous girl id say eyes on ever?"

Ok, you're in a hole, you keep digging, I'd throw you a rope, but then there's a saying about that too.....

Please, just move on.

See my forum counselling is working, I'm trying to be constructive.

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By *eareenaCouple over a year ago

Rockford

"You only have to look on the cams to see some seriously rough women getting told how fantastic they look.it is the men who inflate their egos though "
sorry but maybe the men who say that actually think it... Not everyone has the same standards of beauty or sex appeal.

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By *ruitWoman over a year ago

near kings lynn

I sent a message to a guy going to the same party as mesaying quite simply saying do come say hi if you see me including my face pic.

What came back quite amazed me saying if I couldnt be bothered to say more than that and make the effort to go and say hi direct to him he was dissapointed in me and expected more from me lol.

I had not spoken to the guy before. Was just sending a quick message to the single guys attending. What he does not realise with every day I get more messages with face pics from people and have also looked at many face pics and I know I will forget the faces and names I have briefly said hi to before I get to the party.

He is newish to the site so I expect he will be beating down the ladies at the door!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You only have to look on the cams to see some seriously rough women getting told how fantastic they look.it is the men who inflate their egos though "

I'm at work and couldn't stop laughing at that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You only have to look on the cams to see some seriously rough women getting told how fantastic they look.it is the men who inflate their egos though sorry but maybe the men who say that actually think it... Not everyone has the same standards of beauty or sex appeal. "

You can sit on the fence and be as p.c as you like but some of these are not attractive.its men wanting a responce and thinking with their peckers.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My profile under the heading Common Sense/Decency/Manners says all I need to say on the matter. Fact

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have met guys that have said the same but I would tend to agree

see I told you"

Huh?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

I love it when the beautiful people struggle to accept that people they don't find attractive get attention

OP yes, some women do become very rude nit that's because they can be as picky and demanding as they want. As soon as they've got rid of one guy and other 5 come along lol it's not right and it shouldn't be tolerated really.

As foe your 'wouldn't get a second look in a pub comment' that reflects badly on you I'm afraid. It just screams of lowering standards in desperation.

Having said that it's not just the uggos with inflated egos. Some of the beautiful people's profiles have more hoops to jump through than a hoopla board. Again they do it because they can. Most men think with their docks on here so if they have to bring presents or pay for everything just for a shag they will.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"My profile under the heading Common Sense/Decency/Manners says all I need to say on the matter. Fact"

Hit the nail bang on the head, could'nt agree more...as I keep saying a simple no thank you is all thats needed. Manners cost nothing

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

As foe your 'wouldn't get a second look in a pub comment' that reflects badly on you I'm afraid. It just screams of lowering standards in desperation.

I dont think it does, it's just being truthful?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok ill try and be objective....

What do you class as bad attitude and rude? You don't have to name and shame just a generalisation.

I love when people say how the women wouldn't get a second chance in the real world.... Think about that statement for a second. It says more about the men on here than it does the women.....

Don't get me wrong, there is no need for someone to be abusive, but even if they are, so what? Delete, block, carry on with your day.

Don't let it bother you.

Recieved an email simply stating 'dont waste my time'.....same person wasnt exactly the most gorgeous girl id say eyes on ever?

So, I suppose the question I would ask is this...if you thought that poorly of her, why did you approasch her for sex? or was she better looking before she turned you down?

she was pretty on the inside..joking before people have a pop.

She wasnt bad looking I just didnt expect the reply I got"

I suppose what you're not telling us though, is what message you send to them, whether you check that you fit their preferences and whether you take no for an answer or use their refusal as a way to try and open dialogue, In which case, you would be wastung her time now wouldn't you?

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By *ohohoWoman over a year ago

Up North

Wow

So let me get this straight. You didn't really fancy her, but sent a message anyway? Hmmmmm

She gave you a rude reply. Which you are reacting badly to? In fact even insulting her on a public forum? I would have seen it as a lucky escape seeing her true colours so early on. So no time wasted.

It's not exclusive to women thinking they are gods gift and irresistible. We all find different attributes, features, people attractive. Seems like some have a bit of a school yard attitude to rejection though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Posting a moan on here shows not only that you are unsuccessful, therefore less likely to attract attention, but shows a level of investment in a sex site that I, personally, would find unattractive.

WOW that's a statment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ok ill try and be objective....

What do you class as bad attitude and rude? You don't have to name and shame just a generalisation.

I love when people say how the women wouldn't get a second chance in the real world.... Think about that statement for a second. It says more about the men on here than it does the women.....

Don't get me wrong, there is no need for someone to be abusive, but even if they are, so what? Delete, block, carry on with your day.

Don't let it bother you.

Recieved an email simply stating 'dont waste my time'.....same person wasnt exactly the most gorgeous girl id say eyes on ever?

So, I suppose the question I would ask is this...if you thought that poorly of her, why did you approasch her for sex? or was she better looking before she turned you down?

she was pretty on the inside..joking before people have a pop.

She wasnt bad looking I just didnt expect the reply I got

if somebody says 'no thank you' I send them a polite message back thanking them and wishing them luck. I do read a profile before I message as even if you start a conversation it is unlikely you will meet if you are looking for different things

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I guess you get rude women but you also get very rude men...ive stopped sending a thanks but no thanks as i got sick of the moany replies.

But to say these women wouldn't get a 2nd glance in the real world id expect the back lash

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Wow

So let me get this straight. You didn't really fancy her, but sent a message anyway? Hmmmmm

my post was a reaction to a general attitude I have seen during my time on FAB and as a for having a schoolyard reaction...maybe because im a teacher

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

As foe your 'wouldn't get a second look in a pub comment' that reflects badly on you I'm afraid. It just screams of lowering standards in desperation.

I dont think it does, it's just being truthful? "

It does. Believe me. Why message someone you think is unattractive? Because you are Horny and want to get your end away!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Posting a moan on here shows not only that you are unsuccessful, therefore less likely to attract attention, but shows a level of investment in a sex site that I, personally, would find unattractive.

WOW that's a statment.

And there was me thinking a forum was an opportunity to discuss something, and with your rejection could I have a 'no thank you' please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow

So let me get this straight. You didn't really fancy her, but sent a message anyway? Hmmmmm

my post was a reaction to a general attitude I have seen during my time on FAB and as a for having a schoolyard reaction...maybe because im a teacher

Ha ha sorry this made me laugh you are a teacher and have public face pics on here and naked ones abd are stating you mail people who in your opinion are mingers but any holes a goal its a swinging site...and then don't like they are rude....good luck on noone finding out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I agree,there are some mingers on here who wouldn't get a sniff in a pub.they have a list of rules and demands but a lot of the single men on here will fuck anything for the thrill."

Now there's some truth being told. Nice one

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Wow

So let me get this straight. You didn't really fancy her, but sent a message anyway? Hmmmmm

my post was a reaction to a general attitude I have seen during my time on FAB and as a for having a schoolyard reaction...maybe because im a teacher

I teach abroad but Im not afriad if people know Im on here, they must be into the same thing or else they wouldnt be on here.

I use FAB as it is good way to meet people in the months of the year I am home

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If she wasn't the most attractive thing you'd ever set eyes on why did you bother mailing her in the first place? That's just showing you as completely desperate and would shag a barbers floor.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No one has the 'right' to be rude but some people just are! It's not only women who have bad attitudes by the way, a lot of single men could do with lessons in reading and being polite too.

I used to reply to all messages but having had so much hassle and rude remarks after saying no thanks I now don't bother. It clearly states on my profile what I'm looking for, yet some men won't bother reading and send a message anyway just because they're horny and I'm online!

I don't rate myself as 'gods gift' but I have had the odd second glance and some attention on a weekend in town! It's my choice to be on Fab but that doesn't mean I have to lower my standards and accept an offer from anyone who contacts me, which is the attitude of some single men on here!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I agree,there are some mingers on here who wouldn't get a sniff in a pub.they have a list of rules and demands but a lot of the single men on here will fuck anything for the thrill.

Now there's some truth being told. Nice one "

Bunter you are putting yourself up for some stick mate!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm always polite enough to say thanks but no...

they often then reply with

"well fuck you" or "why not" etc

can't win

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just think, if this was the Wild West, you would be getting measured for a new suit around now

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No one has the 'right' to be rude but some people just are! It's not only women who have bad attitudes by the way, a lot of single men could do with lessons in reading and being polite too.

No one should lower their standards but all I was asking for was a simple 'no thank you' if people are then abusive after being told this they should be reported and kicked of the site...if someone tells me no thank you, I thank them for their politeness and wish them well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You only have to look on the cams to see some seriously rough women getting told how fantastic they look.it is the men who inflate their egos though

I'm at work and couldn't stop laughing at that "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I behave no differently on here than I would on and night out, I certainly wouldn't just pick the first person that came along because I wanted a shag!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just think, if this was the Wild West, you would be getting measured for a new suit around now"

Gone better than I thought..and I'm sure many people are thiinking what I said, I don't understand the males being abusive when being told 'no thank you' that makes it difficult for everybody to be civil

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I behave no differently on here than I would on and night out, I certainly wouldn't just pick the first person that came along because I wanted a shag!!

no one asked for that..just politeness, but after reading some comments from women about how they have been abused after saying 'no thank you' I am starting to see both sides now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just think, if this was the Wild West, you would be getting measured for a new suit around now

I don't think it's rude not to answer ins site like this in fact no answer is an answer in itself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"After a number of email replys, I wanted to ask a question to the forum. Do other people on here think some (not all) women on here have bad attitudes and are just plain rude.

I understand because of the ratio they can pick and choose,but do it in a polite way and think about the reality of the whole thing.

What do people think?"

I actually agree with you

All the attention seems to go to some women's head and they feel they have the rights to be nasty and rude to men just because they can

that seems to be the answer to a lot of questions on here

because they can

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I behave no differently on here than I would on and night out, I certainly wouldn't just pick the first person that came along because I wanted a shag!!

no one asked for that..just politeness, but after reading some comments from women about how they have been abused after saying 'no thank you' I am starting to see both sides now"

Ok my apologise, yeah I've had some nasty replays after a no thanks, also your loss, god you must be a minger blah blah

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I agree,there are some mingers on here who wouldn't get a sniff in a pub.they have a list of rules and demands but a lot of the single men on here will fuck anything for the thrill.

Now there's some truth being told. Nice one

Bunter you are putting yourself up for some stick mate!!

Not me mate I get plenty off this site. That's because I'm good looking and can hold a convo ALL the meets iv had have left with a massive smile.

I just agree with some of the things that have been put up.

If ppl don't like it. As they have said they will just block and move on. That's there choice

So bring it on if they want I really don't mind

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I behave no differently on here than I would on and night out, I certainly wouldn't just pick the first person that came along because I wanted a shag!!

no one asked for that..just politeness, but after reading some comments from women about how they have been abused after saying 'no thank you' I am starting to see both sides now

Ok my apologise, yeah I've had some nasty replays after a no thanks, also your loss, god you must be a minger blah blah "

me too

works both ways

yes there are some rude women on here but ive had some really abusive mail off men for sending a simple no thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ill play devils advocate

I've come across my fair share of very rude men on here. You can send a polite no and an email can come back saying all kinds of vile things

Yes, we have had similar. We have given a polite no thank you and have had a barrel full off the man, we just dont meet single men...and we have to be attracted to the couples qnd they us also. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I behave no differently on here than I would on and night out, I certainly wouldn't just pick the first person that came along because I wanted a shag!!

no one asked for that..just politeness, but after reading some comments from women about how they have been abused after saying 'no thank you' I am starting to see both sides now"

I always try to answer all.. and politely... Sometimes I may be a bit abrupt... I don't think I'm all that. I'm me but I have no issues outside of this site getting attention but prefer to get it via here. Less hassle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

so to conclude the thread, I think its fair to say both women and men, recieve abusive messages for a)an inital message and b)saying no thank you.

We may also conclude that their are nice people on here and some not so nice, in that case I would like to say ........happy swinging and keep smiling

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"so to conclude the thread, I think its fair to say both women and men, recieve abusive messages for a)an inital message and b)saying no thank you.

We may also conclude that their are nice people on here and some not so nice, in that case I would like to say ........happy swinging and keep smiling

I think its fair to say fab is no different than anywhere else, you get nice and rude people in all walks of like

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By *obb2upCouple over a year ago

Bangor

"After a number of email replys, I wanted to ask a question to the forum. Do other people on here think some (not all) women on here have bad attitudes and are just plain rude.

I understand because of the ratio they can pick and choose,but do it in a polite way and think about the reality of the whole thing.

What do people think?"

I for one always reply to mails even if it is a thanks for your mail and interest but sadly your not what i am looking for...only to get a abusive mail in return...so it's not just ladies who can be down right rude!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I completely agree.

I think all girls are vile and you should steer well clear of them from now on, and just play with the boys, leave the girls to me

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

I haven't read all of this, I started but there were so many posts commenting on how other people were likely to reply that I gave up. However I can't comment on womens attitudes as they aren't who we aim to meet but I would say that some people are rude and arrogant and how this is split between the genders depends on the circumstance.

We've had some men and couples behave the way you describe by neither of us would unless provoked.

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By *obb2upCouple over a year ago

Bangor

"so to conclude the thread, I think its fair to say both women and men, recieve abusive messages for a)an inital message and b)saying no thank you.

We may also conclude that their are nice people on here and some not so nice, in that case I would like to say ........happy swinging and keep smiling

I think its fair to say fab is no different than anywhere else, you get nice and rude people in all walks of like"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And some nasty couples i got called a fat ugly munter by a couple id never exchanged a message with lol

Just some idiots all round

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yup some women can be right bitches, but on the flip side some guys are down right arsholes....

Politeness and manners cost nothing,and are severely lacking in todays society... some people take things to heart,brush it off and move on!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We had a message from a man asking to meet.his profile said athletic,his pics were not.

I replied saying ' sorry,only looking for athletic men' he replied getting all snotty.I just blocked him.

Anyone can be rude

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You my friend have just hit it smoothly on the head

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

can see his point, if someone isn't for you, at least be respectul with your reply.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think some people are of the illusion, that because fab is a 'sex' site, it's going to be full of people, 'rolling over' for a quickie for want of a better word, couldn't be further from the truth... That is of course if they are seeking someone they are genuinely compatible with..

And I think some are generally surprised when they receive no thanks... And then after reapeatably messaging.. The member receives a fairly hostile message, if people read profiles, and met the criterior before jumping in feet first, the response, i dare say maybe a tad sweeter..

Having said that there's not really any excuse for rudeness, but sometimes it's difficult to 'keep your cool' when bombarded

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think some people are of the illusion, that because fab is a 'sex' site, it's going to be full of people, 'rolling over' for a quickie for want of a better word, couldn't be further from the truth... That is of course if they are seeking someone they are genuinely compatible with..

Having said that there's not really any excuse for rudeness, but sometimes it's difficult to 'keep your cool' when bombarded

I can understand that for example if a profile states 'not looking for single males' there isnt really an excuse for a message being recived (although is a wink acceptable as being a sign if interest) but im talkking about profiles that would seem compatible but then the response is rude

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"I think it must be very disheartening for you to get such shitey replies, especially if you've taken the trouble to read profiles and preferences and talor your messages to suit ...........

A "

Assuming he did!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well therefore you should assume you are the lucky one, because would you really want to meet someone, who obviously has no manners??...I know I certainly wouldn't!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im a woman and tend to agree with you!

There are also men that think there the same on here ( gods gift) ect..

Why some people cant just say no in a polite way without all the nasty remarks is just plain rude!..

Rise above!...yes I to have woke up out of the wrong side of the bed!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We had a message from a man asking to meet.his profile said athletic,his pics were not.

I replied saying ' sorry,only looking for athletic men' he replied getting all snotty.I just blocked him.

Anyone can be rude "

lmao you gotta laugh at this, why put 'athletic' down when you clearly ain't..i had the same situation,i was very polite and tactful and his reply was 'well good luck with the diet'.... omg i cried and cried for ours.....NOT!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We had a message from a man asking to meet.his profile said athletic,his pics were not.

I replied saying ' sorry,only looking for athletic men' he replied getting all snotty.I just blocked him.

Anyone can be rude

its funny because he couldnt even match his pics to his profile...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"can see his point, if someone isn't for you, at least be respectul with your reply."

Sorry if not to my last response but in our profile it does say only muscular athletic men.

Ikea must be making some special funhouse mirrors that distort spaghetti arms into 17" guns

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Having been on here as a single male and part of a couple I have seen both sides to this.

As for people being rude you will get that in all walks of life it's a human condition.

What you perceive as a polite email that you have sent may not be to the person receiving it add to this the possibility that that person may have had 20 or so other emails that are a total waste of time you can see how this wouldn't put somebody in the best of moods.

As for them replying it does state in site rules that they don't even need to reply. To have a reply saying don't waste my time would lead me to believe that either your profile does not match what they are looking for or something in your male.

Again you replying to a rejection response can be annoying to a person as its a pointless email for both parties.

As always swingers have to have a hard skin as we don't all conform to what others want and will face a lot of rejection it's what makes swinging interesting.

To post a thread in the forums blasting others will only lower your chances I'm afraid.

Best course of action is to MAN UP and move on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If someone doesnt do it for me, I reply with a polite no thank you. I also do the same if I dont receive a face pic, its not much to ask after all. Manners do cost nothing but like he said, women outnumber the men and we are choosy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Having said that there's not really any excuse for rudeness, but sometimes it's difficult to 'keep your cool' when bombarded

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

Beautifully and succinctly put!

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By *eareenaCouple over a year ago

Rockford

You can sit on the fence and be as p.c as you like but some of these are not attractive.its men wanting a responce and thinking with their peckers."
something to be said for ugly attitudes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"After a number of email replys, I wanted to ask a question to the forum. Do other people on here think some (not all) women on here have bad attitudes and are just plain rude.

I understand because of the ratio they can pick and choose,but do it in a polite way and think about the reality of the whole thing.

What do people think?"

I do think that SOME women could actually be a little politer on here to be honest - I've had a few rude uncalled for responses to polite messages. But generally if they're not interested they just ignore you - which is fine. I think the big mistake a lot of us make is to expect a reply. Women get bombarded with mail they're never going to have time - or the need - or the want - to respond to it all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ill play devils advocate

I've come across my fair share of very rude men on here. You can send a polite no and an email can come back saying all kinds of vile things

I agree, ive send back some very polite emails saying no thanks and then had some total abuse lol....but hey thats the name of the game, we have delete, we have block.... and im not afraid to use them lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ideally to stop all of this a simple reply button with a preworded polite reply,

ie:- Thanks for taking the interest in me but afraid you are not for me/us. Wish you all the luck in the future.

This can be tailored to either couple of single account. That way nobody is going to be offended, everybody gets a reply then we can all be happy swingers again, living life to the full....

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Wow

So let me get this straight. You didn't really fancy her, but sent a message anyway? Hmmmmm

my post was a reaction to a general attitude I have seen during my time on FAB and as a for having a schoolyard reaction...maybe because im a teacher

You're a teacher with naked pics showing your face on here?!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ideally to stop all of this a simple reply button with a preworded polite reply,

ie:- Thanks for taking the interest in me but afraid you are not for me/us. Wish you all the luck in the future.

This can be tailored to either couple of single account. That way nobody is going to be offended, everybody gets a reply then we can all be happy swingers again, living life to the full....

I don't agree with you there I'm afraid. I've now taken the attitude if men can't be bothered to read my profile, I can't be bothered to waste my time answering.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow

So let me get this straight. You didn't really fancy her, but sent a message anyway? Hmmmmm

personally, i think she had a lucky escape...if if thought so little of her that she wouldn't get a second look on a night out, i don't imagine he'd have treated her particularly respectfully and if he's indiscreet enough to whine about it on here...

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"After a number of email replys, I wanted to ask a question to the forum. Do other people on here think some (not all) women on here have bad attitudes and are just plain rude.

I understand because of the ratio they can pick and choose,but do it in a polite way and think about the reality of the whole thing.

What do people think?

You have time on your hands.

My profile clearly states what I am and what I'm looking for, allowing people to exclude themselves. I also set all my filters. To further help I state I won't reply to anyone outwith my criteria.

If they get through the filters but don't meet what I'm looking for, I don't reply! If they meet what I'm looking for but I don't like something on their profile I always send a nice message thanking them and wishing them well.

Not had a nasty mail in response: ever!

Some I've had to block because they kept writing asking if I'd reconsider...but nothing rude.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

this place would give any woman an ego

blame lies with the guys as much as the girls. too many saps

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow

So let me get this straight. You didn't really fancy her, but sent a message anyway? Hmmmmm

Omg shall we all go to church after that one.

Were on a forum that let's us talk and debate. The mans just making his point and put it out to offer.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"this place would give any woman an ego

blame lies with the guys as much as the girls. too many saps"

Hear hear

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By *lackshadow7Man over a year ago

Toronto

As has been mentioned already, this isn't exclusive to women in fairness.

Also i don't respond to every message either. especially when its quite clear my profile hasn't been read prior.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"this place would give any woman an ego

blame lies with the guys as much as the girls. too many saps"

yeah I agree with that too

I get loads of mail from me who I know damn well wouldn't give me a second look in the street, yet cause they want a fuck they mail me on here

the difference is keeping you head out the clouds, you can either take a walk down reality street and realise your just a fanny to them or kid yourself they really fancy you

personally I don't meet really good looking guys as id sooner meet someone who I thought did like me rather than feeling like someones make do

the problem is a lot of women don't see this and the more good looking guys who mail them the bigger the woman's ego gets to the point she is demanding only these type of men mail her

its a 2 sided thing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow

So let me get this straight. You didn't really fancy her, but sent a message anyway? Hmmmmm

Omg shall we all go to church after that one.

Were on a forum that let's us talk and debate. The mans just making his point and put it out to offer.

And the same goes for the reply giving an opinion. In all honesty the OP started this thread on the back foot by choosing to state that he wouldn't look twice at the lady in question in normal life. Which to some could be seen as abusive . if you can start a thread about being polite but put something it it like that then maybe your idea of polite might be a little off

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Ideally to stop all of this a simple reply button with a preworded polite reply,

ie:- Thanks for taking the interest in me but afraid you are not for me/us. Wish you all the luck in the future.

This can be tailored to either couple of single account. That way nobody is going to be offended, everybody gets a reply then we can all be happy swingers again, living life to the full....

Still wouldn't stop the moaning, whining, entitled bitches!

I'm on a site that you can tailor a message. If someone winks: I don't like winks, it will send a message saying I don't respond to winks if they want my attention send a message. If they are outside my filters they get another nice message saying thanks for their message but they're not what I'm looking for, all site generated on my behalf. Those that get through the filters I have the option of sending a not interested or send a personalised message: always send a personal message.

What do you think the number one forum bitch is? Automated messages!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"this place would give any woman an ego

blame lies with the guys as much as the girls. too many saps

yeah I agree with that too

I get loads of mail from me who I know damn well wouldn't give me a second look in the street, yet cause they want a fuck they mail me on here

the difference is keeping you head out the clouds, you can either take a walk down reality street and realise your just a fanny to them or kid yourself they really fancy you

personally I don't meet really good looking guys as id sooner meet someone who I thought did like me rather than feeling like someones make do

the problem is a lot of women don't see this and the more good looking guys who mail them the bigger the woman's ego gets to the point she is demanding only these type of men mail her

its a 2 sided thing"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow

So let me get this straight. You didn't really fancy her, but sent a message anyway? Hmmmmm

Omg shall we all go to church after that one.

Were on a forum that let's us talk and debate. The mans just making his point and put it out to offer.

It looked to me like he was stating that some women on here should be in a holding pen for jeremy kyle. But the think there kate moss. As other ppl have stated its the fault of very sad men who boost there egos. I just don't see that as being rude

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

" I just don't see that as being rude "

There ya go! One mans truth is another mans rude!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

to be fair tho if the tables was turned and there was 100 women to every man on here now many men wouldn't be looking for the best they can get

how many men would turn down the type of women they usually get for better

how many old, over weight guys wouldn't be fucking 21 year old dolly birds?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" I just don't see that as being rude

There ya go! One mans truth is another mans rude! "

You only put what you wanyt in and not the hole paragraph??? Then ppl would understand more half quots don't cut it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive only skim read this but left thinking what a kick in the teeth it must feel like when even the women you don't consider attractive turn you down

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

" I just don't see that as being rude

There ya go! One mans truth is another mans rude!

You only put what you wanyt in and not the hole paragraph??? Then ppl would understand more half quots don't cut it

It's not necessary as the point is still valid: some people see not replying is rude, some not: variations on a theme!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive only skim read this but left thinking what a kick in the teeth it must feel like when even the women you don't consider attractive turn you down

Ouch

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Ive only skim read this but left thinking what a kick in the teeth it must feel like when even the women you don't consider attractive turn you down

The reason behind threads like this. The other variation is women they'd take home to their mums turning them down being stuck up!

Entitlement!

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By *iker ladMan over a year ago

Hinckley

If I get a thanks but no thanks!

I just shrug & move on after saying "thanks for your reply"

if I get a rude response, I delete & block!

If I see that the message has been read & then deleted without a response then I block so as to avoid the embarrassment of sending a message to the same lady again!

There's plenty of people out there, they ain't all gonna fancy me! (Weird huh?)

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

"After a number of email replys, I wanted to ask a question to the forum. Do other people on here think some (not all) women on here have bad attitudes and are just plain rude.

I understand because of the ratio they can pick and choose,but do it in a polite way and think about the reality of the whole thing.

What do people think?"

No different to trying to pull on a night out

ive found 90% of girls are friendly when they knock you back as long as your polite and when you ask

not sure about the other 10% as

2% didnt speak english

4% claimed to be lesbians

2% said yes but then sobered up

2% no idea as i was to d*unk

guess what i am saying is lifes to short to worry about rude people as would you want to meet/shag them anyway.

ive never had a rude email to a polite message so wonder what youve wrote to them to get that responce ?

could easily be a bloke replying to you on a wind up though

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"If I get a thanks but no thanks!

I just shrug & move on after saying "thanks for your reply"

if I get a rude response, I delete & block!

If I see that the message has been read & then deleted without a response then I block so as to avoid the embarrassment of sending a message to the same lady again!

There's plenty of people out there, they ain't all gonna fancy me! (Weird huh?)"

Shocker!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What you said is 100 percent true in day to day life I get loads of attention from all sorts of women sometimes it gets a bit too much who doesn't like a bit of attention but a times I can be intimidating the way groups of women stare.... I understand exactly how they feel when they come across a group of lads with there tongues hanging out like a pack of wild dogs on heat lol I'm not one to put people down coz it's not in my nature to but Some of you women would just about get a 4 out of 10 rating but you seem to think your Kate Middleton please wake up & smell the coffee!! Manners don't cost a thing even if a women I didn't find attractive in any sort of way messaged me I would politely say your not my cuppa tea some of you women really need to fix up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

While some women may only score a 4 out of 10 in looks they can pick men that score 10 out of 10 on here

Whos having the most fun?

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By *lackshadow7Man over a year ago

Toronto

And suddenly, i'm reminded of that thread about people being out of other's league.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What you said is 100 percent true in day to day life I get loads of attention from all sorts of women sometimes it gets a bit too much who doesn't like a bit of attention but a times I can be intimidating the way groups of women stare.... I understand exactly how they feel when they come across a group of lads with there tongues hanging out like a pack of wild dogs on heat lol I'm not one to put people down coz it's not in my nature to but Some of you women would just about get a 4 out of 10 rating but you seem to think your Kate Middleton please wake up & smell the coffee!! Manners don't cost a thing even if a women I didn't find attractive in any sort of way messaged me I would politely say your not my cuppa tea some of you women really need to fix up

You don't seem to be doing so well in here 7 months and no verification !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You don't seem to be doing so well in here 7 months and no verification !"

some peeps are only here for tea and cake

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's our fault! - because we have bent over backwards to make use of their precious parts, they realise what power they hold over us blokes, and assume they have the right to dictate (pardon the pun!) the circumstances (pardon the pun!) necessay to gain entry!!

I think you should don NBC kit and a tin hat!

regards

Graham

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's our fault! - because we have bent over backwards to make use of their precious parts, they realise what power they hold over us blokes, and assume they have the right to dictate (pardon the pun!) the circumstances (pardon the pun!) necessay to gain entry!!

I think you should don NBC kit and a tin hat!

regards

Graham"

graham behave and put some clothes on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You don't seem to be doing so well in here 7 months and no verification !

some peeps are only here for tea and cake

I'm off down the cake shop

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You don't seem to be doing so well in here 7 months and no verification !

some peeps are only here for tea and cake

I'm off down the cake shop "

if u go greggs get us a sausage roll..ta

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

You don't seem to be doing so well in here 7 months and no verification !"

I sympathize with the poor bloke, After fighting hoardes of women off all day i am also to exhausted to attempt to gain veris

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By *randmrsminxyCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

ERM

You do have a point to some of what you say, yet if you get lucky on a Saturday night why bother with the site . Saying that we have found that some couples are rather vain yet I thought the site was about having fun with like minded people and not entering mr universe or miss world

Oh and we had to block emails from guys who think a cock shot grab are attention .

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By *estless in batterseaMan over a year ago

Wandsworth

I personally think YES some women should chill out on the ego trip on the other hand it's only natural given the ratio of men to women that it eventually will get to their heads. Having said that most women on Fabs are attractive one way or the other and one should pay less attention to the "rude" ones and more to the cool ones. It's all love baby

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"While some women may only score a 4 out of 10 in looks they can pick men that score 10 out of 10 on here

Whos having the most fun? "

Hahaha. That's gotto be fun. If the guy has standards so low he would fuck road kill if it was still warm!!!! That's got to be a class shag there.

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By *estless in batterseaMan over a year ago

Wandsworth

"While some women may only score a 4 out of 10 in looks they can pick men that score 10 out of 10 on here

Whos having the most fun?

Hahaha. That's gotto be fun. If the guy has standards so low he would fuck road kill if it was still warm!!!! That's got to be a class shag there. Some guys one here really would shag anything... Good Lord!

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

1 out of 10

2 out of ten

10 out of 10

who gives a f..k

If both partners are willing and have fun doing the dirty deed what does it matter

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive only skim read this but left thinking what a kick in the teeth it must feel like when even the women you don't consider attractive turn you down

and that's where the abusive replies come from

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

"Ive only skim read this but left thinking what a kick in the teeth it must feel like when even the women you don't consider attractive turn you down

and that's where the abusive replies come from

case closed judge judy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If she wasn't the most attractive thing you'd ever set eyes on why did you bother mailing her in the first place? That's just showing you as completely desperate and would shag a barbers floor.

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By *imply_SensualMan over a year ago

warrington

" These same women wouldnt get any attention or even a secod glance on a Friday or Saturday night down town, "

I havent read the rest of the thread (too long) so apologies if this has been said. But the OP puts this in his rant.... he has obviously contacted these women to receive a reply, so has he lowered his own (perceived) high standards just to try and get sex on here?

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By *ysteryboatMan over a year ago

Brighton

Speaking strictly as God's Gift, I'll just add that there are a large number of very rude, very beautiful, women on this site who see my polite rejection as being an insult of the highest order . . .

[and then he woke up]

In truth, what's the issue ?

That there are some very rude women with grossly over-inflated egos on here ?

I don't recall reading a word of dissent to that point.

That there are some women to whom the OP would not pay any attention in the real world ?

Also apparently true.

As has been pointed out, there are apparently also many rude males.

So what's the answer ? It's in 6 parts -

1) Don't contact anyone other than those that you're pretty sure you fancy, unless you make it clear in your first message that you wouldn't touch them with a bargepole [although you probably shouldn't expect a reply if you do point out that you aren't actually interested in even the possibility of having sex with them].

2) Accept that women on fab can be more choosy than they possibly could in the real world because of the over-representation of single males.

3) Accept that fab empowers women and that rejecting perfectly decent men may provide the only sense of empowerment in their lives.

4) If your "no thanks" messages regularly elicit abusive replies, stop sending them and block rather than send a "no thanks" reply.

5) Don't send abuse as it won't win anyone over.

6) Don't complain in the forms if you aren't getting what you want. Work out what is wanted by others, and provide it, or go elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" These same women wouldnt get any attention or even a secod glance on a Friday or Saturday night down town,

That's about the jist if it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"While some women may only score a 4 out of 10 in looks they can pick men that score 10 out of 10 on here

Whos having the most fun?

I saw what you did lol lol

And the lord is watching this hahahaahahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ideally to stop all of this a simple reply button with a preworded polite reply,

ie:- Thanks for taking the interest in me but afraid you are not for me/us. Wish you all the luck in the future.

This can be tailored to either couple of single account. That way nobody is going to be offended, everybody gets a reply then we can all be happy swingers again, living life to the full....

I vote for this....brill idea

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"While some women may only score a 4 out of 10 in looks they can pick men that score 10 out of 10 on here

Whos having the most fun?

Hahaha. That's gotto be fun. If the guy has standards so low he would fuck road kill if it was still warm!!!! That's got to be a class shag there.

but is'nt that part of whats being said on this thread? men message women they would'nt look at in real life and then get arsey about the rejection

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

ffs mate you live in oldham not monaco,

i went out in oldham a couple of years ago and the local girls i spoke to were moaning about the local lads being chavs hanging around in fake abidas trainers and not treating them properly

suffice to say one of the girls that you wouldnt look at on a friday/saturday night gave me one of the most fun evenings ive had in years, great soh and f..ked the life out of me.

enjoy your weekend mate but remember the girls your rating in oldham are doing the same to you

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By *hyllyphyllyMan over a year ago

Bradford

it's not just women...

in fact it's anyone with access to the interwebs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"While some women may only score a 4 out of 10 in looks they can pick men that score 10 out of 10 on here

Whos having the most fun?

Hahaha. That's gotto be fun. If the guy has standards so low he would fuck road kill if it was still warm!!!! That's got to be a class shag there.

but is'nt that part of whats being said on this thread? men message women they would'nt look at in real life and then get arsey about the rejection

So who's having all the fun??? The bog rat who has all the choice and men in the palm of her hand or the good looking guy who would hump it???? Both look so very shallow so can't see it being good sex can you????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The bog rat is....shes looking up a sex god with a hard cock that wants to fuck her

Hes looking at a bog rat hahaha

I can't take this seriously anymore

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By *ensualtouch15Man over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Just think, if this was the Wild West, you would be getting measured for a new suit around now

I don't think it's rude not to answer ins site like this in fact no answer is an answer in itself "

It's certainly not rude not to answer but it can be unhelpful , I prefer a block as sadly we can't tell if we are not to taste or the message has not even been seen

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bad attitude and plain rude... You must of met my Mrs then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The bog rat is....shes looking up a sex god with a hard cock that wants to fuck her

Hes looking at a bog rat hahaha

I can't take this seriously anymore

Hahahahahahahaha penny drop there did it hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bog rat??!!

How charming are you

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By *iftygreyshadesMan over a year ago

Aberaeron

You can sit on the fence and be as p.c as you like but some of these are not attractive.its men wanting a responce and thinking with their peckers. something to be said for ugly attitudes. "

Attitudes can be a problem for both males and females alike - lets not ever forget this is all meant to be FUN!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bog rat??!!

How charming are you

You've seen me legs I'm a good looking guy. On par with cloony don't you think??

And what's wrong with bog rat if they look like one???? There are some who do !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bog rat??!!

How charming are you

yes but she would'nt be called that if she said yes to a meet,she'd be a goddess,she turns into a bog rat when she says no

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bog rat??!!

How charming are you

yes but she would'nt be called that if she said yes to a meet,she'd be a goddess,she turns into a bog rat when she says no

Who you think your kidding there with that shite??? I don't do bog rats. Check my profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bog rat??!!

How charming are you

yes but she would'nt be called that if she said yes to a meet,she'd be a goddess,she turns into a bog rat when she says no

Who you think your kidding there with that shite??? I don't do bog rats. Check my profile.

Touchy!

I was speaking in general terms not personal to you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm as fussy in the real world as I am on here...so if a random guy I didn't fancy came up to me in a bar and said 'fancy a fuck?' he'd get ignored too.

My profile is very precise and states what I'm looking for, and my filters are as tight as possible. So if I get a message from someone who hasn't read my profile and isn't my type I don't consider it rude in the least not to reply. If I responded to every message I wouldn't have time to engage with the guys who I am interested in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I found some couples to be plain rude as well! But as long as you true to yourself that's main thing, not gonna beat myself up if someone can't have basic manners and respect!

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

define rude ..... is it a nasty message back or no reply ? we dont reply to every email , if we stick a add up alway in caps we say short crap replys deleted or one liners deleted , we still get crap ,thing is in this scene block delete move on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bog rat??!!

How charming are you

You've seen me legs I'm a good looking guy. On par with cloony don't you think??

And what's wrong with bog rat if they look like one???? There are some who do !!!!!

I take offence to that

I love rats I think they're gorgeous animals can you please not compare them to mingers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bog rat??!!

How charming are you

yes but she would'nt be called that if she said yes to a meet,she'd be a goddess,she turns into a bog rat when she says no

Who you think your kidding there with that shite??? I don't do bog rats. Check my profile.

lol that is true tho

I bet there are loads of women on here, who like me get messages telling them how sexy and gorgeous your are, till you say you don't want to meet them them your a minger who only comes on here cause she cant pull in the real world

the difference between a stunner and a minger on here is simply the world no

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think anyone can be rude, couples, single males and single fems....

We have come across rude people in all genre, but we don't let it get to us

There are plenty of nice people on this site

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

the difference between a stunner and a minger on here is simply the world no

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You can never win an arguement calling someone ugly after they have blown you out.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

some people just don't take rejection very well... be that men, couples and women.......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bog rat to close with

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