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What were your preconceptions about swinging?

By *ampWithABrain OP Woman over a year ago

Glasgow

Were any of them accurate? There's the stereotype 70's key party but I'm sure lots of us had other ideas of how it worked. Eg I didn't know til someone on another site suggested it that you could be single and swing...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I thought all the girls would look like Vegas Play Bunnies and the guys like Abercrombie Fitch models... You can imagine my initial reaction when I went to my first club...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had group sex before I knew what swinging was...

never in my life would I have imagined having sex with another man present

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I thought it would be a lot easier than it is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I thought it would be a lot easier than it is"

Iam

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I thought it would be a lot easier than it is

Iam

bend and spread then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Were any of them accurate? There's the stereotype 70's key party but I'm sure lots of us had other ideas of how it worked. Eg I didn't know til someone on another site suggested it that you could be single and swing..."

It was a bi thing?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

On our first trip to a club, chams, we thought that people would be ripping our clothes off and groping and forcing us to do unspeakable sex acts as soon as we walked through the door.

We were sadly disappointed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I guess we worried about if we were good looking enough for the lifestyle lol. I half expected swingers all had perfect bodies or something lol. also we realized quickly although the 3some/group sex is the ultimate male fantasy the reality is it seems to be the women that run this lifestyle lol. if the women ain't happy nobody's happy lol

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By *exystargirlWoman over a year ago

Warrington

having the fear you'll bump into someone u know at a club, then finding your both then for the same reasons.

my pet hate is talking with couples and all good. then they change what they want once i'm there and it becomes part of their fantasy and i'm not needed afterwards

but learnt them lessons early on and now more selective with socials and how fast my panties come off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"having the fear you'll bump into someone u know at a club, then finding your both then for the same reasons.

oh yeah that was a fear at first but I figured if they are doing the same thing it wouldn't be too embarrassing and now we would have a little secret lol

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By *ngel n tedCouple over a year ago

maidstone

We didnt realise you could be cheating on a partner and still be called a swinger, we thought it was just the domain of liberated couples and singles......yea baby groovy!

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By *lackCherryCouple over a year ago

Bristol

Took us a few years to actually start looking into it let alone clubs especially after watching tv programs..

Clubs were full of 60/70 year olds (we were proved wrong on that one

) and lots of real single bi females our age (and sadly proved wrong on that one so far anyway). Mrs x

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