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Why do people who don't want a "single male" look at my profile?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you post in the forum...I don't want single males but will often check out the profiles of posters because it helps put some of their comments in context... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do I message them? Do I not? Do I call them out for being pervs?
Do I ask too many questions?"
I get that - and I used to get even before posting on the forums.
Its frustrating when there is a number of different times they view as well |
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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago
Bridgwater - Somerset |
Many profiles say no messages from single men, some say - we will find you.
If I get a number of views from local-ish people I check out their profile. If there's a reasonable match I sometimes message them to break the ice.
This may leads to adding a friend or eventually a meet.
Sometimes it's just deleted.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Many profiles say no messages from single men, some say - we will find you.
If I get a number of views from local-ish people I check out their profile. If there's a reasonable match I sometimes message them to break the ice.
This may leads to adding a friend or eventually a meet.
Sometimes it's just deleted. "
and this is why I do not show on looked at me. 
If someone doesn't want to answer endless messages from single men, they set their filters and put on the profile not looking for single men.
It doesn't mean they dont want single men, they dont want single men contacting them.
Huge difference.
So if they've looked, they've possibly considered you; however if they didn't contact you, I wouldn't contact them. |
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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago
Bridgwater - Somerset |
"Many profiles say no messages from single men, some say - we will find you.
If I get a number of views from local-ish people I check out their profile. If there's a reasonable match I sometimes message them to break the ice.
This may leads to adding a friend or eventually a meet.
Sometimes it's just deleted.
and this is why I do not show on looked at me.
If someone doesn't want to answer endless messages from single men, they set their filters and put on the profile not looking for single men.
It doesn't mean they dont want single men, they dont want single men contacting them.
Huge difference.
So if they've looked, they've possibly considered you; however if they didn't contact you, I wouldn't contact them. "
Would only message them after repeated looks over a fairly short period. (3 or 4)and not if I get the message that I'm outside their preferences.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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id wait till they message you mate, every girl ive fount attractive ive messaged first and have been blocked..
fab a few of there photos or view there profile more often so they know your interested, could take some time but if you get a meet it'll be worth it in the end |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe it's the female half having a look around when the male ain't in"
Maybe its the male peeking while the female isnt around
For me I wouldnt appreciate a message off anyone single or a couple just because id looked at their profile. |
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Who cares who looks at it, its my profile and its there to tell people who and what I am.
If anyone looks and is interested I hope they will instigate an exchange of messages to see if we click enough to go further.
Would be so nice to have a few messages from sexy people for a change, but i certainly wouldn't message someone who had just looked at my profile.
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Our profiles says no single males because we don't want single straight males messaging us (they still do, frequently...) However, we will often take a look at guys' profiles in the hope of finding bi guys. When will Fab have sexual persuasion included on the search criteria? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you get lots of single straight men look at your profile as if you have veris on women/couples profiles they click on the ppl who have meet them to she what they are like and if they are similar so they know if they will like you more or your nothing like the ppl they meet
does this make sense?? |
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"I think you get lots of single straight men look at your profile as if you have veris on women/couples profiles they click on the ppl who have meet them to she what they are like and if they are similar so they know if they will like you more or your nothing like the ppl they meet
does this make sense?? "
Yes perfect sense ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We stealth perv for this reason, also just because they have not looking for single males doesn't mean they are not its just a way of helping stem the tide of messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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erm may have been said but its probably because its a buyers market and they wish to decide who they approach from profile content and perhaps forum input to decide if they are interested
as opposed to getting messaged by every swinging dick in here  |
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