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Can you do vanilla ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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After being on fab for over a year and meeting some great people and having lots of fun at parties ,clubs ,gb,s and 121 can you go back into the vanilla dating game or will you always crave the desires of fab ? Your thoughts please Lee  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I couldn't go vanilla in a million years... It was why everything failed for me in previous relationships.
I can be faithful.. but to me their is a huge difference..
to be honest I can't ever see anyone wanting to date me in vanilla sense.
In to wild... To much me.. and to jaded from my past. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After being on fab for over a year and meeting some great people and having lots of fun at parties ,clubs ,gb,s and 121 can you go back into the vanilla dating game or will you always crave the desires of fab ? Your thoughts please Lee "
After joining fab for a couple of months last year (used other sites for years), I unexpectedly got into a relationship that came out of the blue, all very vanilla.
It didn't bother me in the slightest to revert back to a vanilla lifestyle. For me it was just a case of what was right at the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. In fact, I'm here (in Fsb) less and less these days because it doesn't have what I'm looking for these days and I'm finding that the 'Muggle' world does...
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"I couldn't go vanilla in a million years... It was why everything failed for me in previous relationships.
I can be faithful.. but to me their is a huge difference..
to be honest I can't ever see anyone wanting to date me in vanilla sense.
In to wild... To much me.. and to jaded from my past. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get this whole vanilla business
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confused????  "
I agree what is it, I'm from Devon and we got lovely vanilla ice cream but I don't think you mean that do you?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think i would struggle to be vanilla,, love all the variety on here,, but if i found someone very special i could make the exception! And that nearly happened recently x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, I think so.
I may discuss swinging and the likes with any future girlfriend as it's been a part of my life for a long time, if she has no interest then vanilla it is.
I've said before and I'll say again, sex to me is everything and yet nothing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get this whole vanilla business
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confused????
I agree what is it, I'm from Devon and we got lovely vanilla ice cream but I don't think you mean that do you? "
It means plain eg a no swinger and a one on one relationship only. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get this whole vanilla business
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confused????
I agree what is it, I'm from Devon and we got lovely vanilla ice cream but I don't think you mean that do you? "
Yep I think it all boils down to vanilla ice cream before a wider choice became available, hence vanilla being the regular and norm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get this whole vanilla business
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confused????
I agree what is it, I'm from Devon and we got lovely vanilla ice cream but I don't think you mean that do you?
It means plain eg a no swinger and a one on one relationship only."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I to be honest have had it mob or twice where no matter how much I have sex with others only one person satisfies me..
however I like adventures and would need someone similar to me...Although I will confess to craving romance from time to time.. |
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"I don't get this whole vanilla business
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confused????
I agree what is it, I'm from Devon and we got lovely vanilla ice cream but I don't think you mean that do you?
It means plain eg a no swinger and a one on one relationship only."
sooooo its just normal life then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get this whole vanilla business
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confused????
I agree what is it, I'm from Devon and we got lovely vanilla ice cream but I don't think you mean that do you?
It means plain eg a no swinger and a one on one relationship only.
sooooo its just normal life then"
Yes indeed but to some their normal life isn't enough so they come on here, not the reason for me personally. |
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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago
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Right now i'm having far too much fun to go back to my life before fab. As for the future? Who knows what it may hold.
If i'm really lucky hubby will regain his sex drive and join me on this great adventure. At the other end of the spectrum he may decide that he is no longer happy for me to play.
Whatever happens I will embrace it and make the best of everything that life offers to me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get this whole vanilla business
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confused????
I agree what is it, I'm from Devon and we got lovely vanilla ice cream but I don't think you mean that do you?
It means plain eg a no swinger and a one on one relationship only.
sooooo its just normal life then
Yes indeed but to some their normal life isn't enough so they come on here, not the reason for me personally."
but what if like me doing this is your normal life? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get this whole vanilla business
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confused????
I agree what is it, I'm from Devon and we got lovely vanilla ice cream but I don't think you mean that do you?
It means plain eg a no swinger and a one on one relationship only.
sooooo its just normal life then
Yes indeed but to some their normal life isn't enough so they come on here, not the reason for me personally.
but what if like me doing this is your normal life? X"
Well yes for you it is lol I mean more married people "not" getting it at home or perhaps couples exploring sexually.
I think it is a completely different ball game for true singletons. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get this whole vanilla business
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confused????
I agree what is it, I'm from Devon and we got lovely vanilla ice cream but I don't think you mean that do you?
It means plain eg a no swinger and a one on one relationship only.
sooooo its just normal life then"
Vanilla = regular, the norm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes we could easily do it!
Like someone else said a few posts up, we are using the site less and less!
Only really popping in and out the forums now and then.
Our vanilla lives are very busy too so finding time to meet is difficult!
But we could leave all this behind at the drop of a hat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get this whole vanilla business
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confused????
I agree what is it, I'm from Devon and we got lovely vanilla ice cream but I don't think you mean that do you?
It means plain eg a no swinger and a one on one relationship only.
sooooo its just normal life then
Yes indeed but to some their normal life isn't enough so they come on here, not the reason for me personally.
but what if like me doing this is your normal life? X
Well yes for you it is lol I mean more married people "not" getting it at home or perhaps couples exploring sexually.
I think it is a completely different ball game for true singletons. Xx"
but it was the norm for me when married too. I have only swung as a single since last year..and before I swung having multiple partners was still my norm. |
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I had a vanilla date on Friday. It was with someone I met via an expats forum: we're both considering retiring to the Dordogne.
Drink, dinner just chatting away, no sex talk it was lovely. He arrived with flowers and chocolates which took me aback as men usually bring me lube and condoms. 
If I meet "the (next) one" we'd have to have a serious talk about my toy box! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get this whole vanilla business
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confused????
I agree what is it, I'm from Devon and we got lovely vanilla ice cream but I don't think you mean that do you?
It means plain eg a no swinger and a one on one relationship only.
sooooo its just normal life then
Yes indeed but to some their normal life isn't enough so they come on here, not the reason for me personally.
but what if like me doing this is your normal life? X
Well yes for you it is lol I mean more married people "not" getting it at home or perhaps couples exploring sexually.
I think it is a completely different ball game for true singletons. Xx
but it was the norm for me when married too. I have only swung as a single since last year..and before I swung having multiple partners was still my norm. "
Me too, spent much of my life in this game, as a single and part of a couple. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"After being on fab for over a year and meeting some great people and having lots of fun at parties ,clubs ,gb,s and 121 can you go back into the vanilla dating game or will you always crave the desires of fab ? Your thoughts please Lee "
At the moment I'm not in the position to consider a relationship but fab being so fab, its a bloody good question I hadn't thought about! |
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"After being on fab for over a year and meeting some great people and having lots of fun at parties ,clubs ,gb,s and 121 can you go back into the vanilla dating game or will you always crave the desires of fab ? Your thoughts please Lee "
Thoughtful question. It is difficult for me to enjoy vanilla only after eating so much chocolate for years. Vanilla has safety and emotional meaning, but chocolate has a freedom and self-awareness that is addictive. It is not easy to mix the two, or even to admit to vanilla peeps that you even know what chocolate is. Some things are better kept either to yourself. |
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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago
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I am here as a single person! And yes can easily go back to vanilla. I came out of a relationship earlier this year. A guy I met on here, although he was still active on here, I wasn't, he was enough for me and found I wasn't interested in sex with anyone else. |
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I think attend moment I'm kind of raspberry ripple. For the majority of time I plausibly with letsbe, we enjoy each other's company and if either one of us wanted to stop going to clubs etc and stop meeting other couples we would but we do enjoy the odd club night out and have a bit of fun with women and couples.
We also like our own brand of kink to which is where the raspberry ripple comes in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I could, but I don't think I want to!
What about you Lee? dont think so curls as its so boring now as i love the excitement of it all xx "
sometimes the excitement goes, I find it very hard to find new things to try to stop this becoming the norm, i'm always on the look out for something new, im running out of ideas lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is just like me iv been in and out of vanilla relationships for years. Im always drawn back into chocolate. I must be addicted too. The vanilla people iv talked to in the past struggle with the whole lifestyle concept. Why should it be so hard to understand. I dont know if i could truly go back to permanent vanilla it would need to be a special "one" to make me decide on it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think attend moment I'm kind of raspberry ripple. For the majority of time I plausibly with letsbe, we enjoy each other's company and if either one of us wanted to stop going to clubs etc and stop meeting other couples we would but we do enjoy the odd club night out and have a bit of fun with women and couples.
We also like our own brand of kink to which is where the raspberry ripple comes in "
I second this but without spelling mistakes  |
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"I think attend moment I'm kind of raspberry ripple. For the majority of time I plausibly with letsbe, we enjoy each other's company and if either one of us wanted to stop going to clubs etc and stop meeting other couples we would but we do enjoy the odd club night out and have a bit of fun with women and couples.
We also like our own brand of kink to which is where the raspberry ripple comes in
I second this but without spelling mistakes "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Could never go back to straight vanilla life now .. For one I wouldn't be able to be monogamous and never ever want to live with anyone but myself and kids ...
Once bitten , twice shy  |
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