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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"What are people's views on meeting larger guys?
Being one myself am just curious on what women's thoughts are. "
I am with a guy who is on the larger side and I love every bit of him. Would not want him any smaller and that is the truth.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i genuinely find the larger man more attractive.. its fine having the larger frame but ultimatly attraction lies within the facial features for me with a shit hot personality to go with that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are people's views on meeting larger guys?
Being one myself am just curious on what women's thoughts are. "
My husband is on the larger side, I'm a curvy girl and we go perfect together. Love big men, beards hmmmm. Don't do skinny |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"What are people's views on meeting larger guys?
Being one myself am just curious on what women's thoughts are.
My husband is on the larger side, I'm a curvy girl and we go perfect together. Love big men, beards hmmmm. Don't do skinny "
Well put - there is something quite manly about a larger guy with a goatie  xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like big built men but not fat men, I played with a large guy in a club once and it was very hard, when I tried to get on top I couldn't get my legs over him as he was wider than my knees would open and when he got on top he was seriously crushing me, it was quite awkward |
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"What are people's views on meeting larger guys?
Being one myself am just curious on what women's thoughts are.
My husband is on the larger side, I'm a curvy girl and we go perfect together. Love big men, beards hmmmm. Don't do skinny Well put - there is something quite manly about a larger guy with a goatie xx"
Can I direct you towards my boyfriend lol |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"tend to go for the more athletic look but have met a few larger guys  "
Do you think - and this is a genuine question - that athletic people tend to go for athletic people? I am just curious |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"What are people's views on meeting larger guys?
Being one myself am just curious on what women's thoughts are.
My husband is on the larger side, I'm a curvy girl and we go perfect together. Love big men, beards hmmmm. Don't do skinny Well put - there is something quite manly about a larger guy with a goatie xx
Can I direct you towards my boyfriend lol"
Can I see a picture please? xx |
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"What are people's views on meeting larger guys?
Being one myself am just curious on what women's thoughts are.
My husband is on the larger side, I'm a curvy girl and we go perfect together. Love big men, beards hmmmm. Don't do skinny Well put - there is something quite manly about a larger guy with a goatie xx
Can I direct you towards my boyfriend lolCan I see a picture please? xx"
Sorry I forgot I had his on private, I've changed it for a bit |
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"tend to go for the more athletic look but have met a few larger guys Do you think - and this is a genuine question - that athletic people tend to go for athletic people? I am just curious "
never thought about it previously but now you ask I think that possibly they do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like big built men but not fat men, I played with a large guy in a club once and it was very hard, when I tried to get on top I couldn't get my legs over him as he was wider than my knees would open and when he got on top he was seriously crushing me, it was quite awkward "
Can you imagine if a guy posted something similar about a women. "I played with a large lady once and I could only shag her from behind up the bum as there was too much fat round the front".
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Eh!
There's isn't nearly as much in the way of simping from females towards men on here, primarily because of the number discrepancy. As such, you won't get a chorus of women who do like larger men voicing their tastes on here. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Guess can safely say not a lot of shallow people on here then?"
I don't think preferences automatically translate to 'shallow'.
To answer the original question, I like my men skinny. |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"tend to go for the more athletic look but have met a few larger guys Do you think - and this is a genuine question - that athletic people tend to go for athletic people? I am just curious "
I'm not athletic in the least but I tend to go for athletic. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"What are people's views on meeting larger guys?
Being one myself am just curious on what women's thoughts are. "
i think it is a two way thing.....
some of it is to do with opinions of the women, but a lot of it has to do with the confidence of men... and to be honest some men are so defeatist before they start I dont see how that would be sexy to anyone....
I just try to be the best person i am... if people find my whole persona attractive whilst talking to me.... that gives anyone a chance.... |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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I just try to be the best person i am... if people find my whole persona attractive whilst talking to me.... that gives anyone a chance...."
And that is why you are so on my list of people I want to meet ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well om really not into the look at me type of guy! So I guess a little bit of a tummy on a guy is fine with me!..
Im deffinatly not into the muscly kinda guys!..im into the unique looking guys, goth/ emo / long haired..I guess there all quite skinny.. just my preference. .some would say the total opposite. .
Hell, just give me a marliyn manson id be happy lol x ( f)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like big built men but not fat men, I played with a large guy in a club once and it was very hard, when I tried to get on top I couldn't get my legs over him as he was wider than my knees would open and when he got on top he was seriously crushing me, it was quite awkward
Can you imagine if a guy posted something similar about a women. "I played with a large lady once and I could only shag her from behind up the bum as there was too much fat round the front".
Jeez "
do you not read the same forums as me, ive seen far worse than that posted on some of the BBW threads |
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"I like big built men but not fat men, I played with a large guy in a club once and it was very hard, when I tried to get on top I couldn't get my legs over him as he was wider than my knees would open and when he got on top he was seriously crushing me, it was quite awkward
Can you imagine if a guy posted something similar about a women. "I played with a large lady once and I could only shag her from behind up the bum as there was too much fat round the front".
Jeez "
think the point is that she was actualy playing with the guy in the first place so it shows she wasnt anti large guys
not her fault it made it awkward |
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"tend to go for the more athletic look but have met a few larger guys Do you think - and this is a genuine question - that athletic people tend to go for athletic people? I am just curious
I'm not athletic in the least but I tend to go for athletic."
I'm a chunkster and I like my men muscly.
Fortunately there are enough gym bunnies who like bigger women to suit.  |
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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago
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I have lumps and bumps and in general have tended to meet average guys! Too skinny and I feel like I would break them, I do like a well built man. But I did recently meet a bigger man than usual, and I wasn't turned off at all when we got naked but, but like one of the the other posters said, it did make it rather difficult when I tried to ride him, as I just couldn't get my legs across comfortably, and I did feel quite suffocated when I was underneath! So in all honesty I probably wouldn't meet a larger man again as it did feel restrictive! Sorry x |
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"Just out of curiosity what do women see as 'skinny'? What is considered the ideal height and weight for a man, from a womans perspective?"
crikey .. very tricky question as i'm not very good at guessing peoples weight but my fella is 5 foot 8 and 12 stone and I would describe him as athletic if that helps .. probably doesn't though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just out of curiosity what do women see as 'skinny'? What is considered the ideal height and weight for a man, from a womans perspective?
crikey .. very tricky question as i'm not very good at guessing peoples weight but my fella is 5 foot 8 and 12 stone and I would describe him as athletic if that helps .. probably doesn't though "
I like to lift, so think I have a good eye for weights. 5'8 12 stone sounds about average to me, is his waist 34' -35' too? |
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Thankfully this isn't nearly as dangerous or as sensitive territory as determining female size categories (just from personal forum experience, don't mob me please)
I'd class myself as average to larger. Am 5ft10 and just over 16 stone. I used to play rugby, so still have some muscle definition. But i don't kid myself as to my size however.
Ultimately, if there are women that like my physique, they'll say. Some genuinely do, so i'm not worried. |
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nope ,tried that last year as my ex
doesnt like fat people i thought mm
try it ,so dated a guy who was
overweight diabetic spoke with a lisp .
thought hey ho get to know the guy as he not like my controlling ex ,but as soon as he was dumped him and ran for the hills.
so guess my answer is NO
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My preference, so don't shoot me down for it is a slim guy, but if its a lady I love a bigger woman, something very sexy about a snog and cuddle ( and the rest,) with a larger lady |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to go for that old school rugby prob type guy. Well over 6 foot and weighing Error on electronics scales. I haven't had to be admitted to A&E with crushed lungs or broken bones as yet |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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the point i was making is that a lot of larger guys use it as a built in excuse before they start...
the defeatist gene....
give people a reason to want to meet, as opposed to not to.. if you know what I mean...
Confidence is one of those thing that can be sexy regardless of what size you are....
the fu attitude.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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End of the day the size if the person you like is not defined by your size its by your personal preferance.. if you dont like bigger guys and you say it on your profile then if they dont read it they should not be offended by lack of reply. . I used to be 24 stone.. im now nearly 17.. im very broad and chunky and im losing weight for me not to impress any one. Wont lie the loss has really uped my confidence but long way to go... but seeing muscles pop up I never knew I had haha
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"End of the day the size if the person you like is not defined by your size its by your personal preferance.. if you dont like bigger guys and you say it on your profile then if they dont read it they should not be offended by lack of reply. . I used to be 24 stone.. im now nearly 17.. im very broad and chunky and im losing weight for me not to impress any one. Wont lie the loss has really uped my confidence but long way to go... but seeing muscles pop up I never knew I had haha
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well done to you as that is quite an achievement and pleased your feeling so good about yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are people's views on meeting larger guys?
Being one myself am just curious on what women's thoughts are.
i think it is a two way thing.....
some of it is to do with opinions of the women, but a lot of it has to do with the confidence of men... and to be honest some men are so defeatist before they start I dont see how that would be sexy to anyone....
I just try to be the best person i am... if people find my whole persona attractive whilst talking to me.... that gives anyone a chance...."
and we can vouch for that |
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Whilst i completely understand why these threads are started (no offence OP) it's so subjective it's untrue.
What's large to one person isn't necessarily to another, people's perceptions of themselves vary to how they are seen by others. Height, build, shape etc are all different on an individual - a waist or dress size alone doesn't define someone.
For me, it's not just lip service but a sexy guy with a cheeky smile, good banter, nice arms and a good kisser is the best starter for me...then we make the main course even spicier.
An extra inch on the belly isn't going to be a deal breaker for me!
Ruby x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to lift, so think I have a good eye for weights. 5'8 12 stone sounds about average to me, is his waist 34' -35' too?
32 waist he does a lot of cycling so is very fit "
Ah I wasn't far off, I had a 40' waist when I was 15 stone! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"the point i was making is that a lot of larger guys use it as a built in excuse before they start...
the defeatist gene....
give people a reason to want to meet, as opposed to not to.. if you know what I mean...
Confidence is one of those thing that can be sexy regardless of what size you are....
the fu attitude...."
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"End of the day the size if the person you like is not defined by your size its by your personal preferance.. if you dont like bigger guys and you say it on your profile then if they dont read it they should not be offended by lack of reply. . I used to be 24 stone.. im now nearly 17.. im very broad and chunky and im losing weight for me not to impress any one. Wont lie the loss has really uped my confidence but long way to go... but seeing muscles pop up I never knew I had haha
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Well done you ! |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Whilst i completely understand why these threads are started (no offence OP) it's so subjective it's untrue.
What's large to one person isn't necessarily to another, people's perceptions of themselves vary to how they are seen by others. Height, build, shape etc are all different on an individual - a waist or dress size alone doesn't define someone.
For me, it's not just lip service but a sexy guy with a cheeky smile, good banter, nice arms and a good kisser is the best starter for me...then we make the main course even spicier.
An extra inch on the belly isn't going to be a deal breaker for me!
Ruby x"
Could not agree with you more ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind a guy carrying a bit of extra weight, but can't stand the pregnant belly look. Was with one bloke once and he had trouble finding his cock under his stomach - never again for me I'm afraid  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Do you think - and this is a genuine question - that athletic people tend to go for athletic people? I am just curious "
I'm far from athletic but I prefer younger fit athletic men and lucky for me, some of them seem to like the bigger curvier older woman |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Im 6 ft and my legs are just pure muscle now and my shoulders are huge..
im 17 and a half stone.. I just wanna be fitter not thinner"
You are spot on there. Weight is nothing but a number - what matters is the fitness ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Do you think - and this is a genuine question - that athletic people tend to go for athletic people? I am just curious
I'm far from athletic but I prefer younger fit athletic men and lucky for me, some of them seem to like the bigger curvier older woman "
with your legs an curves wow x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im 6 ft and my legs are just pure muscle now and my shoulders are huge..
im 17 and a half stone.. I just wanna be fitter not thinnerYou are spot on there. Weight is nothing but a number - what matters is the fitness ! "
The other day I ran 7 miles..
Most blokes my size would struggle im so proud of what I have achived |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"End of the day the size if the person you like is not defined by your size its by your personal preferance.. if you dont like bigger guys and you say it on your profile then if they dont read it they should not be offended by lack of reply. . I used to be 24 stone.. im now nearly 17.. im very broad and chunky and im losing weight for me not to impress any one. Wont lie the loss has really uped my confidence but long way to go... but seeing muscles pop up I never knew I had haha
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Well done! Having lost four stone [and put some back on again  ] I know how difficult that is. Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If we all displayed a full length body pic of each person on our profiles it would be easier for all to decide for ourselves what shape we are and if you'd like to meet us  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Do you think - and this is a genuine question - that athletic people tend to go for athletic people? I am just curious
I'm far from athletic but I prefer younger fit athletic men and lucky for me, some of them seem to like the bigger curvier older woman with your legs an curves wow x"
thanks! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I must be shallow, but I don't like larger men, I'm tiny and well it just isn't for me, from what I've seen they have smaller cocks as well, don't Luke big muscular men either,, just normal looked after men,, and people should put picks up that show them in a true light, as most put up their best from years ago and it really is not good when you look nothing like the pics you send, refusal often offends |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I must be shallow, but I don't like larger men, I'm tiny and well it just isn't for me, from what I've seen they have smaller cocks as well, "
Would ya like me to come round and prove you wrong....?????
ted. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I must be shallow, but I don't like larger men, I'm tiny and well it just isn't for me, from what I've seen they have smaller cocks as well, don't Luke big muscular men either,, just normal looked after men,, and people should put picks up that show them in a true light, as most put up their best from years ago and it really is not good when you look nothing like the pics you send, refusal often offends "
I totally get you - if you are a tiny frame yourself.At 5ft 7 I guess I am nearer the tall and strong build and I love feeling the weight of a big guy on me. One thing I would say though - big guys do not necessarily have smaller cocks...I do know that one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"tend to go for the more athletic look but have met a few larger guys Do you think - and this is a genuine question - that athletic people tend to go for athletic people? I am just curious "
I tend to yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im 6 foot. And weight 16 stone. So il class myself on the big side just about. I think guys/girls with a 20-25% body fat are fine. Its when it goes above that when it can get unattractive and more importantly unhealthy. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Im 6 foot. And weight 16 stone. So il class myself on the big side just about. I think guys/girls with a 20-25% body fat are fine. Its when it goes above that when it can get unattractive and more importantly unhealthy. "
Trust me, it is not unattractive on a manly guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"tend to go for the more athletic look but have met a few larger guys Do you think - and this is a genuine question - that athletic people tend to go for athletic people? I am just curious
I tend to yes"
On the whole we'd say like attracts like, to many it's probably down to their comfort zone.
As it says on many couples profiles "looking to meet similar".
XXXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just out of curiosity what do women see as 'skinny'? What is considered the ideal height and weight for a man, from a womans perspective?
crikey .. very tricky question as i'm not very good at guessing peoples weight but my fella is 5 foot 8 and 12 stone and I would describe him as athletic if that helps .. probably doesn't though "
British lions rugby player who us very fast - is 6 7 " in height and 17 stone is most definitely Athletic - athleticism is not always obvious to someone's build  |
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"I like big built men but not fat men, I played with a large guy in a club once and it was very hard, when I tried to get on top I couldn't get my legs over him as he was wider than my knees would open and when he got on top he was seriously crushing me, it was quite awkward
Can you imagine if a guy posted something similar about a women. "I played with a large lady once and I could only shag her from behind up the bum as there was too much fat round the front".
Jeez "
Class mate!! |
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British lions rugby player who us very fast - is 6 7 " in height and 17 stone is most definitely Athletic - athleticism is not always obvious to someone's build "
correct I understand what you are saying there and certain athletes body shapes that differ from others .. personally .. and this is a personal opinion .. when I talk about 'athletic' body shape I tend to refer to track athletes rather than shot putters but you are absolutely correct in pointing out that it is a broad spectrum |
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" British lions rugby player who us very fast - is 6 7 " in height and 17 stone is most definitely Athletic - athleticism is not always obvious to someone's build "
I agree. To me an athletic man doesn't have to be slim but one who is fit and healthy and has muscles. Not sure if you're referring to George North or not but he's a classic example of tall and athletic....and handsome....and gorgeous....and fit and.....hmmmm! |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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British lions rugby player who us very fast - is 6 7 " in height and 17 stone is most definitely Athletic - athleticism is not always obvious to someone's build "
for rugby players read american football players as well.... it is quite an interesting conversation when some barnpot with a six pack calls you fat.... which is interesting, so then it gives me great satisfaction when you then beat them in any physical activity they name...
be that a sprint, or push ups, or a longer run...
mess with their heads.......
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just out of curiosity what do women see as 'skinny'? What is considered the ideal height and weight for a man, from a womans perspective?"
about 6ft 4 and 20stone of solid muscle for me please |
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"Guess can safely say not a lot of shallow people on here then?"
Personal preference doesn't equate to shallow! 
A playmate the same size as me ain't...gonna...happen, simply put, never the twain shall meet. We'd be bumping off each each other like dodgems. The memory foam would be fucked, but I wouldn't be.
My playmates are slender and fit because that's what I like and they fit nicely in my nook and crannies.
That said, the guy in Mike and Molly...I would...if I physically could!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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everyone on this site must be shallow. there's not a single person on here who would meet anyone who asked
Why does personal preference make you shallow? I never get that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"tend to go for the more athletic look but have met a few larger guys Do you think - and this is a genuine question - that athletic people tend to go for athletic people? I am just curious "
I'm considered athletic and I love curvy women! |
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" British lions rugby player who us very fast - is 6 7 " in height and 17 stone is most definitely Athletic - athleticism is not always obvious to someone's build
I agree. To me an athletic man doesn't have to be slim but one who is fit and healthy and has muscles. Not sure if you're referring to George North or not but he's a classic example of tall and athletic....and handsome....and gorgeous....and fit and.....hmmmm! "
Yes George North !!! |
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"Just out of curiosity what do women see as 'skinny'? What is considered the ideal height and weight for a man, from a womans perspective?"
Ask 100 women and you'll get 100 different answers. Personally I like my men between 6ft and 6ft 4 and maximum 15 stone.
I've never dated or married anyone under 6ft. My four regular playmates are two at 6ft, 6ft 1 and 6ft 2. |
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