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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Pretty sure this has been discussed before but just had someone I played with a while back refuse to meet me again because my 2 displayed verifications are from curvy ladies. Was told that "I'm not your type you obviously prefer fat girls". WTF???
Do people really judge you on your meets? |
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"Pretty sure this has been discussed before but just had someone I played with a while back refuse to meet me again because my 2 displayed verifications are from curvy ladies. Was told that "I'm not your type you obviously prefer fat girls". WTF???
Do people really judge you on your meets?"
Some do some dont |
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"Pretty sure this has been discussed before but just had someone I played with a while back refuse to meet me again because my 2 displayed verifications are from curvy ladies. Was told that "I'm not your type you obviously prefer fat girls". WTF???
Do people really judge you on your meets?"
Sounds like an excuse. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Pretty sure this has been discussed before but just had someone I played with a while back refuse to meet me again because my 2 displayed verifications are from curvy ladies. Was told that "I'm not your type you obviously prefer fat girls". WTF???
Do people really judge you on your meets?
Sounds like an excuse. "
Do you think she was being kind? Maybe she wanted to say "your cocks too small and your breath stinks" lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That seems very unfair to judge. I list curvy but I'm not fat!!! 
Don't personally see how meeting others reflects on you meeting them. Can you not find more than one body kind attractive, or maybe you see past size and have other attractions to a meet. |
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Yes some do judge you on posted meets - for a variety of reasons, my issue would be it is no one else's business.
As it was someone you previously played with, maybe take that is thanks but no to thanks to meet again, for what ever reason,..I would and have said same to others, if they were, IMHO, foolish enough to display friends or verifications, I wouldn't meet them, meets and verifications are private, I regard meets I have as private...worth considering?
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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago
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I do look at the profiles of people who left veris just to see what kind of people they meet. Body type isn't a thing I pay any attention to as a lot of people are attracted to all different shapes and sizes in a lady. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never heard of people judging someone because they have met someone larger ...
Usually because they have met someone who didn't use protection but not that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do look at the profiles of people who left veris just to see what kind of people they meet. Body type isn't a thing I pay any attention to as a lot of people are attracted to all different shapes and sizes in a lady."
Totally agree  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pretty sure this has been discussed before but just had someone I played with a while back refuse to meet me again because my 2 displayed verifications are from curvy ladies. Was told that "I'm not your type you obviously prefer fat girls". WTF???
Do people really judge you on your meets?"
oh i do that all the time lol
if a guy mails me and all his verifications are from thin women i wont meet him
don't mean in judging them tho does it? |
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"Pretty sure this has been discussed before but just had someone I played with a while back refuse to meet me again because my 2 displayed verifications are from curvy ladies. Was told that "I'm not your type you obviously prefer fat girls". WTF???
Do people really judge you on your meets?"
Some do. Just makes it all the easier to block them if they are going to display such behaviour. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pretty sure this has been discussed before but just had someone I played with a while back refuse to meet me again because my 2 displayed verifications are from curvy ladies. Was told that "I'm not your type you obviously prefer fat girls". WTF???
Do people really judge you on your meets?
Sounds like an excuse. "
have to be honest on this occasion i agree other wise why didn't she say that before the first meet? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Pretty sure this has been discussed before but just had someone I played with a while back refuse to meet me again because my 2 displayed verifications are from curvy ladies. Was told that "I'm not your type you obviously prefer fat girls". WTF???
Do people really judge you on your meets?
oh i do that all the time lol
if a guy mails me and all his verifications are from thin women i wont meet him
don't mean in judging them tho does it?"
Just means you're insecure about your size and worried a guy that has previously played with thin women may find you unattractive. But I'm not judging either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have varifications and I choose not to share them with all and sundry, that's MY choice.
I have been varified as genuine so deal with it. That's my view. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pretty sure this has been discussed before but just had someone I played with a while back refuse to meet me again because my 2 displayed verifications are from curvy ladies. Was told that "I'm not your type you obviously prefer fat girls". WTF???
Do people really judge you on your meets?
oh i do that all the time lol
if a guy mails me and all his verifications are from thin women i wont meet him
don't mean in judging them tho does it?
Just means you're insecure about your size and worried a guy that has previously played with thin women may find you unattractive. But I'm not judging either "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have not shown my friends list and verifications from Day 1, and it does not appear to have done me any harm.
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Ahh but that's because your a single woman.
You could have met Old Nick and all of his demons and still have guys queuing up to meet you. 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pretty sure this has been discussed before but just had someone I played with a while back refuse to meet me again because my 2 displayed verifications are from curvy ladies. Was told that "I'm not your type you obviously prefer fat girls". WTF???
Do people really judge you on your meets?"
A friend of mine had a similar thing because he'd met me. She would meet him as I was a "fat minger", which I may be, but why that should have any bearing on meeting him still baffles me.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pretty sure this has been discussed before but just had someone I played with a while back refuse to meet me again because my 2 displayed verifications are from curvy ladies. Was told that "I'm not your type you obviously prefer fat girls". WTF???
Do people really judge you on your meets?
A friend of mine had a similar thing because he'd met me. She would meet him as I was a "fat minger", which I may be, but why that should have any bearing on meeting him still baffles me.
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im guessing because in her head because he had met someone she didn't consider attractive she felt he wasn't fussy abut who he met
Im baffled why he would tell you this, if someone said such a rude thing about one of my meets id keep it to myself not tell them some women on here called them a fat minger  |
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