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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

ive always wondered why so many single fems joined a swinging site when there are so many dating sites about.

please in now way are we complaining, its great that so many single fems are on here.

so why did you join a swinging site if you are a single fem??

thanks for any replies xxx

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By *mallteaserWoman over a year ago

Central

Don't want to go through all the hassle of a dating site, lets face it were all here just for sex x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I didn't find what I was looking for on the dating site and didn't want to miss out on sex any more.

Best thing I ever did!

But I am still free and single, so if any guys fancy something more meaningful, let me know.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I started on POF with the intention of dating about a year ago, changed to "intimate encounter" when I realised I actually don't want to date. But that's problematic. However, there's a much better scope of experience to be had on Fab. I like it a lot

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like sex, I want and need sex.

I've zero interest in going to a nightclub and hooking up with some unknown for sex in what... an alley way?

I like my sex in comfort, so will use the facilities of swinging clubs.

Swinging is my mindset, I introduced my ex husband to it and many friends over the years.

I'm not interested in a relationship, fb, fwb, bf, gf,or husband. Been there, got the t-shirts and what not. I just need some sex in my life. So I meet with men for nsa, suits me and my life

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By *mallteaserWoman over a year ago

Central

More and more of us coming out the woodwork, lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

thanks for the honest answers so far ladies.

we always thought swinging was mostly cpls but over the years we have been pleasantly surprised by the amount of sexy ladies on here.

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By *ustcutieWoman over a year ago

edinburgh

I started swinging as a couple and after we split I realised that " normal" dating wasn't doing it for me.... Not easy to ask for 3 somes with someone who's not a swinger

It suits me because I really don't want another man in my life full time... I like my life as it is now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dating sites are rubbish. Was told about this site by a mate. The forums are good and I've met some nice people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A friend of mine was on here and talked me into joining.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

queen what was your reaction when your friend said swinging site?? did it bother you?

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By *uited staffs guyMan over a year ago

staffordshire

Surely because 'dating' with a view to a serious relationship and swinging are entirely different

The women in here generally in their profiles say they aren't interested in a relationship hence why they're probably not on eharmony!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"queen what was your reaction when your friend said swinging site?? did it bother you?"

Well to be honest the word 'swinging' never entered the conversation at the onset. I used Fab for the first few months as a tool to chat, and to get to know people. Than when I was ready, I started to meet x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

nice one queen

have to say i think we were the same when we first discussed swinging. Always spoke about people joining us but never thought it would happen. Joined a few swinging sites a for a few years it was still a fantasy. Made some nice friends on here too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am bi sexual and I dont want a relationship, this is a good way for me too chat and meet couples and singles of course, I get the best of both this way.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

I don't want to date. I am a single mum and have no intention of bringing a new man into my sons life at the moment so NSA is perfect for me.

I did join POF a while back and it's bloody awful!! Right slime balls! Lol.

A friend suggested fab to me and I thought I could use it to broaden my experiances a bit not just with single guys but couples etc too!! X

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By *edangel_2013Woman over a year ago

southend

I tried dating. Hard to explain on a dating site that you are bi-sexual and aren't really keen on the idea of monogamy. For most men, it's a great idea for a temporary thing, but many won't entertain the idea of a long term relationship with that criteria.

So I swing as a single fem, I get what I want, when I want it (mostly) and I don't have to answer to anyone who wants to know why I'm not answering my phone, or why dinner isn't on the table.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I joined fab because I am a horny fucker...I would never dismiss a relationship though if it happened..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

again thank you ladies for your replies, we might start a cpls and single male thread too....interesting to find out why people joined a swinging site.

_isshottiebottie we had to fab that wee duck pic..wonderful

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

found dating sites had more tmewasters than on here anyway lol

i love sex and was fortunate enoug to meet my fella on here so best of both. we still swing but with the intimacy of a relationship aswell.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I joined after becoming single again a few years ago. Didn't want to date back then and missed the company/contact. I wouldn't say no if I was asked on a date now though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

See I never even gave dating sites a try.

I did try an alternative lifestyle thing but I got bored of that too.

Guess I just get bored and like the new and exciting when it comes to my sex life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't want to go through all the hassle of a dating site, lets face it were all here just for sex x"

Well said, im here for exactly the same reasons as single guys. To get laid

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dating sites and fab ate two completely different things and gender doesn't come into it. I'm here because I line the swinging lifestyle, if I met a great guy and want something more, great but I'm not here looking for that. By the tone of the OP it seems he thinks all the women here are using fab as a dating site!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Try explaining you like to have multiple sexual partners as you do not like having sex with just one person for the rest of your life to the majority of single gents seeking love and romance on vanilla dating sites!

Never again I'd say, been there, done there, and I could not get out of those vanilla dating sites quick enough.

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By *ohohoWoman over a year ago

Up North

I joined after breaking up with my most recent boyfriend.

I like sex but was not looking for a relationship. But now I have discovered the sex I have from meeting guys on here is so much better than a d*unken fumble.

Without fab I would have never discovered my wand and that I can gush.

I like sex and lots of it, having it with a few partners is a bonus as no boyfriend has ever been able to match my sex drive. Having more than one means that at least one is horny when I am - bonus!!!

. Also the guys tend not to become emotionally attached, which I found is not the case with guys I meet out!

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By *eareenaCouple over a year ago

Rockford

"Don't want to go through all the hassle of a dating site, lets face it were all here just for sex x"
yep exactly spot on

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

I wasn't looking for a partner per se, I initially joined an adult dating site. However I found it no different to match.com, men were looking for exclusive relationships and doing lovey dovey stuff.

Here, people generally recognise there's no exclusivity. That said some do get a little territorial...but easily dealt with.

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"ive always wondered why so many single fems joined a swinging site when there are so many dating sites about.

please in now way are we complaining, its great that so many single fems are on here.

so why did you join a swinging site if you are a single fem??

thanks for any replies xxx"

This is a site where people hook up for sex without any attachments. A dating site is where people are looking for a relationship. So, that's the answer.

How about asking the question - this is a swinging site so why are there so many single men on here when there are so many dating sites about?

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

Because like you women I want the sex with out the emotional stuff at the moment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Multiple sexual partners aside, I cannot live with another person, or have the time and energy to invest in a full blown relationship.

Hence FAB is an ideal place for me, a place where I can find like-minded gents to satisfy my sexual needs without any strings attached.

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By *attykitWoman over a year ago

leeds

I don't feel the need to be someone's emotional crutch as I have often found in traditional relationships.

I have few fwb that I have met on here. We can hang out have a laugh fuck like bunnies. But no emotional baggage or expectations of a long term future. Enjoy today with whoever you are with today! !

I'm also hoping to use the site to start exploring my own sexuality and fantasies. And that's difficult in a traditional relationship! Xx

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By *yson38GWoman over a year ago

Tyne and Wear

I used to be on a dating site when a guy I had a meet with suggested this site as I was looking for the friendship side as well as the sex which I wasn't getting from the dating site. I joined and have never looked back. I've made some fab friends, had great 'friendly' sex and now engaged to my soul mate, swinging itself has taken a back burner but I wouldn't even think of leaving fab.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Multiple sexual partners aside, I cannot live with another person, or have the time and energy to invest in a full blown relationship.

Hence FAB is an ideal place for me, a place where I can find like-minded gents to satisfy my sexual needs without any strings attached.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because like you women I want the sex with out the emotional stuff at the moment "

Happy Birthday.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

naughty, we dont think the woman are using this site as a dating site.

we just wondered why they choose fabs instead of a dating site - we think its great they choose fabs

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"naughty, we dont think the woman are using this site as a dating site.

we just wondered why they choose fabs instead of a dating site - we think its great they choose fabs"

Because dating is dating and swinging is swinging.

Why do people have cats instead of dogs? Because they prefer cats.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because i like sex and dont want a boyfriend

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because can be honest about fantasies and mauve fulfil some easier than going through dating process. I'm also on several dating sites with intention of finding boyfriend but so far no luck. Women have sexual needs too. I know myself if gets longer than certain time I'm ready to put it on a plate for someone below standard

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't lower my standards because I am looking for casual sex via FAB!

Better to have solo play than to play with just anyone!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't lower my standards because I am looking for casual sex via FAB!

Better to have solo play than to play with just anyone!

Didn't say I do lower standards but if its longer than a few months between sex I need it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Probably same reason as blokes to get fucked pure and simple

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" I know myself if gets longer than certain time I'm ready to put it on a plate for someone below standard "

That reads lowering one's standard to me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As I always say - all sites are sexy sites - just different logo's and banners !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" I know myself if gets longer than certain time I'm ready to put it on a plate for someone below standard

That reads lowering one's standard to me!

Everyone lowers their standards for different reasons. If we didn't hardly anyone would be married or even just having sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've not dated for a long time and not really looking but I still need sex I just can't walk into pubs pick up a bloke have sex then go home.I like to talk to blokes on here get to know them a bit then when the times right hopefully have amazing sex......worked so far xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" I know myself if gets longer than certain time I'm ready to put it on a plate for someone below standard

That reads lowering one's standard to me!

Everyone lowers their standards for different reasons. If we didn't hardly anyone would be married or even just having sex "

So you admit to lowering your standards when in your earlier post, you said you do not?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" I know myself if gets longer than certain time I'm ready to put it on a plate for someone below standard

That reads lowering one's standard to me!

Everyone lowers their standards for different reasons. If we didn't hardly anyone would be married or even just having sex

So you admit to lowering your standards when in your earlier post, you said you do not?

There's a difference between lowering standards to realistic terms or lowering standards to someone u font even like which is what I meant originally. If I only had sex with my perfect type I'd never have sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I originally joined as a single f as I wanted to meet other bi women to have fun with. It was a side of me that I had suppressed for some time due to ex's and decided to take the plunge for me when I became single. The best decision I made as I have fully embraced that side of me and also met someone who accepts me for who I am.

MissD

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" I know myself if gets longer than certain time I'm ready to put it on a plate for someone below standard

That reads lowering one's standard to me!

Everyone lowers their standards for different reasons. If we didn't hardly anyone would be married or even just having sex "

Everyone??!!

Speak for yourself! I don't lower my standards on here or in real life!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone??!!

Speak for yourself! I don't lower my standards on here or in real life! "

So every person u sleep with I'd 100% ur perfect type?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I originally joined a dating site and put that I wasn't looking for anything serious just fun. I was open and honest about what I was looking for. Unfortunately a high percentage of people bullshit to get what they want. Not saying that fab is bullshitter free but more people are honest about what they want.

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By *exycleanerWoman over a year ago

pontefract

i joined another site last yr to have sex

without a relationship .then came on here

at times i struggle with my life as it is now but then cos of they way i was treated

not sure i can ever be with a man .

cos i'm like others not wanting to ave to answer to anyone .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

not single but play on my own, i found the type of men you get on dating sites arent usualy as broad minded and such good fun as they are on Fab swingers.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

" I know myself if gets longer than certain time I'm ready to put it on a plate for someone below standard "

Wow! Now you see I couldn't do that. It's little wonder some men get uppity when you say no as they assume women on site aren't fussy!

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think each single lady on here should get 3 of her single lady friends to join as well....

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

" I know myself if gets longer than certain time I'm ready to put it on a plate for someone below standard

That reads lowering one's standard to me!

Me too!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My handful of female friends are all happily attached.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

" I know myself if gets longer than certain time I'm ready to put it on a plate for someone below standard

That reads lowering one's standard to me!

Everyone lowers their standards for different reasons. If we didn't hardly anyone would be married or even just having sex "

Speak for yourself!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love my life I have now I have the best sex ever still in charge of my own remote control for the tv and no one to tell me what to do I think sometimes it would be nice to have someone to wake upto on a regular basis bt then I think no its just me and my son lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" I know myself if gets longer than certain time I'm ready to put it on a plate for someone below standard

That reads lowering one's standard to me!

Everyone lowers their standards for different reasons. If we didn't hardly anyone would be married or even just having sex "

i agree with you there, nobody you meet is ever going to be perfect, i have certainly lowered my standards a few time by meeting men i didnt like much, only now i am starting to think about who i meet a bit more, is it realy worth it or should i just use my rabbit vibrator instead.

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By *ouplefunukCouple over a year ago

North Bristol

"ive always wondered why so many single fems joined a swinging site when there are so many dating sites about.

You are aware that dating & swinging are in no way the same thing? Also, women like sex too (shocker)

*Her*

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

"ive always wondered why so many single fems joined a swinging site when there are so many dating sites about.

You are aware that dating & swinging are in no way the same thing? Also, women like sex too (shocker)

*Her*"

do you her i am shocked at that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" I know myself if gets longer than certain time I'm ready to put it on a plate for someone below standard

That reads lowering one's standard to me!

Everyone lowers their standards for different reasons. If we didn't hardly anyone would be married or even just having sex

Thank u!! It's not that lowering standards means shag any male with a pulse just means being realistic choosing someone u like and find attractive as themselves but isn't ur perfect image

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No one can tick all the boxes for me, hence I do not believe I can settle down with just one person for the rest of my life.

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By *livia_KWoman over a year ago

South London

I can easily tell you why I'm on fab and not a vanilla dating site.

Vanilla dating sites are for those who are looking for a partner - a boyfriend or girlfriend.

Fab is for people who don't want that but still want and enjoy sex but don't want the relationship with it.

I am single because I want to be. I am not looking for a relationship as I simply don't want one - I am not good at them anyway. I prefer being single - I don't even think I could live with anyone. I like my own space and don't like sharing it. I don't even like sharing my bed (regularly that is).

But I like sex, I have a high sex drive and just because I don't want a boyfriend or husband doesn't mean I should live like a nun.

Simples.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"ive always wondered why so many single fems joined a swinging site when there are so many dating sites about.

please in now way are we complaining, its great that so many single fems are on here.

so why did you join a swinging site if you are a single fem??

thanks for any replies xxx"

why shouldn't single women want to shag and go too?

I don't want a relationship so there's no point going on a dating site

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By *exycleanerWoman over a year ago

pontefract

agree with this an what oli said too

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"I joined fab because I am a horny fucker...I would never dismiss a relationship though if it happened..

I was trying to think of the words to write but you did it for me. Ta.

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I joined simply because I wasn't looking for a relationship, but I still want to have fun every now and then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm on here cos I love the sex and don't want the shit that comes with a relationship.I also enjoy the social side.love meeting couples single men and single women.

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