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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well, i havent had a threesome as of yet (MMF) but lucky enough for FFM. Just wondering how was your first threesome of any kind.
What were your expectations and did it meet those expectations?
Think its time to approach couples rather than wait for them to approach me.
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over a year ago
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The dynamics of couples meets need to be very carefully considered as it is their world you are entering. Every couple is different.
You should politely ask what they like and do not like before you start. Listen to what they say and take care not to upset them. If you succeed in helping them fulfil their fantasies, and they are happy and pleased with the meet, then you have achieved something truly worthwhile. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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couldnt get enough,neally all my ex"s been bi so used to it now but every 3sums different and always something new to try.once did a 4 hour mfff "that was hard work but something ill never forget" ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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My first threesome came of a different site, let's call it
Craig's file, I was ushered straight to the bedroom with very little initial chitchat. The only squeeky bum time was when her some came home early, still all in all a good experience. |
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I have found that the best dynamic for MMF is when the lady has already played with both men separately. It is also best if the two guys are comfortable being naked next to another man, whether they are straight or bi. My next MMF will be with two bi-guys I hope! |
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I think you've had the holy grail in terms of single guys with your ffm. Much harder to arrange then a mmf, that just takes a little effort, be polite, respectful and considerate of anyone involved. And a common problem I hear is that, the extra or single can be oblivious to the male half of the couple. So try to strike up a friendship and things should progress from there. Good luck |
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"I think you've had the holy grail in terms of single guys with your ffm. Much harder to arrange then a mmf, that just takes a little effort, be polite, respectful and considerate of anyone involved. And a common problem I hear is that, the extra or single can be oblivious to the male half of the couple. So try to strike up a friendship and things should progress from there. Good luck "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have yet to have a mfm but will do soon.
I have over the years lost count of the ffm ive had.
My first was almost 20 years ago and was great i loved it and still love them i get what i love from guys and from girls at the same time how can you not love it ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"I think you've had the holy grail in terms of single guys with your ffm. Much harder to arrange then a mmf, that just takes a little effort, be polite, respectful and considerate of anyone involved. And a common problem I hear is that, the extra or single can be oblivious to the male half of the couple. So try to strike up a friendship and things should progress from there. Good luck
Oooooh you again! "
Haha, we'll have to stop meeting like this ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also not had a MFM yet either
My first ever MFF was terrible and put me off for a long time "
Ive had a couple of really bad ones and its made me really picky with proper couples now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Despite having been in countless 4sums and moresums it was only last year that I was involved in a 3sum after meeting crystal. Our first was with a bi friend of hers who she'd played with before and was after a night out.
We've had a few more since, all with people that we have met at clubs socials or on the kink scene. There is a lesson there for the couples that claim meeting single bi fem is impossible but limit their options to this site. |
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My first and only threesome was an mmf with my ex and my mate years ago, absolutely loved it
Now with Fi we have only played with couples in foursomes and think I actually prefer it that way
Although never say never to mff or maybe mmf |
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"I think you've had the holy grail in terms of single guys with your ffm. Much harder to arrange then a mmf, that just takes a little effort, be polite, respectful and considerate of anyone involved. And a common problem I hear is that, the extra or single can be oblivious to the male half of the couple. So try to strike up a friendship and things should progress from there. Good luck
Oooooh you again!
Haha, we'll have to stop meeting like this "
Can I stalk you instead? ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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"I think you've had the holy grail in terms of single guys with your ffm. Much harder to arrange then a mmf, that just takes a little effort, be polite, respectful and considerate of anyone involved. And a common problem I hear is that, the extra or single can be oblivious to the male half of the couple. So try to strike up a friendship and things should progress from there. Good luck
Oooooh you again!
Haha, we'll have to stop meeting like this
Can I stalk you instead? "
Anytime! stalk away ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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