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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you a swinger because you are bored with your partner, even though you love each other, of course."
I don't think I could ever get bored of sex with the Monkey...even now after all this time, we're still exploring and finding ways of giving each other pleasure and will continue to do so...I think if that wasn't the case, swinging won't cure that, the relationship would be over because we clearly didn't care enough to give each other mutual pleasure... |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Are you a swinger because you are bored with your partner, even though you love each other, of course."
"i think most people get bored with having sex with the same person quite quickly, though they just dont admit it."
These are pretty judgemental considering youre not displaying verifications.
To not display veris and yet judge those who meet as you have, despite being a single woman, on for over a year. I suspect you havent met many.
Why judge others when you dont meet yourself? Any reason for not enjoying yourself? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Are you a swinger because you are bored with your partner, even though you love each other, of course.
i think most people get bored with having sex with the same person quite quickly, though they just dont admit it.
These are pretty judgemental considering youre not displaying verifications.
To not display veris and yet judge those who meet as you have, despite being a single woman, on for over a year. I suspect you havent met many.
Why judge others when you dont meet yourself? Any reason for not enjoying yourself? "
not displaying my verifications doesnt mean i havnt met many people, have you not noticed my pictures. 
i didnt think i was being judgemental, i was just wondering and im sorry if iv upset some people. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Are you a swinger because you are bored with your partner, even though you love each other, of course.
i think most people get bored with having sex with the same person quite quickly, though they just dont admit it.
These are pretty judgemental considering youre not displaying verifications.
To not display veris and yet judge those who meet as you have, despite being a single woman, on for over a year. I suspect you havent met many.
Why judge others when you dont meet yourself? Any reason for not enjoying yourself?
not displaying my verifications doesnt mean i havnt met many people, have you not noticed my pictures.
i didnt think i was being judgemental, i was just wondering and im sorry if iv upset some people."
glad you caught the 'judgement' in my post .. no offence meant |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i think most people get bored with having sex with the same person quite quickly, though they just dont admit it."
I will have to say that my tolerance of sex with the same person is normally two or three times.. however I think if you click with someone that boredom just doesn't happen.
I can honestly say that I've never swung as a couple because we were bored. Because sex with him was always more exciting than sex with others.. it just added to it. I like gangbang and bukkake sex.. so bit hard to do alone.
so I think your wrong in your assumptions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"for one thing, my hubby used to want to have sex on saturday night, at one time, where as i would want to do it in the daytime quite often.
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that's just sexual incompatibility.. happens a lot. You have to work at relationships.. and just because you got bored, it's wrong to assume others are bored. |
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"for one thing, my hubby used to want to have sex on saturday night, at one time, where as i would want to do it in the daytime quite often.
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That's not boredom. As Cali says it's incompatibility which can sometimes be overcome by communication and compromise, boredom sets in when these two don't happen. |
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I'm far from bored with Mrs. I love having sex with her, whether it's full on fucking or more gentle love making. Adding an extra person is like having a very realistic sex toy and our fantasies are a big part of our sex life. |
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"We are just on the verge of having our first meet and can say that we are not in anyway bored with each other. In fact we are more turned on by each other now than ever.  "
Enjoy your meet!
Our sex life was amazing before we got in to this scene but is now even more heightened, sharing the build up, experience and then debrief together has brought is closer and has led to some very intense awesome fucks!
Hope your experience is great for you  |
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"We are just on the verge of having our first meet and can say that we are not in anyway bored with each other. In fact we are more turned on by each other now than ever.
Enjoy your meet!
Our sex life was amazing before we got in to this scene but is now even more heightened, sharing the build up, experience and then debrief together has brought is closer and has led to some very intense awesome fucks!
Hope your experience is great for you "
Ooooh we intend to Details of when and where still need to be finalised but we're thinking of taking our third to a club which will be another first! Nothing like jumping in at the deep end eh! Just hope we can swim lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I can't be everything to 2wheels and I love that we can enjoy things that we can't give each other. I don't see swinging as a way to spice up our love life but more a way to enrich it by adding variety. If I felt bored with our relationship and/or love life, I would stop swinging and concentrate on us. In my opinion, there has to be a strong relationship in a couple to allow them to explore in this way and for the both of them to truly enjoy it.
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"We are just on the verge of having our first meet and can say that we are not in anyway bored with each other. In fact we are more turned on by each other now than ever.
Enjoy your meet!
Our sex life was amazing before we got in to this scene but is now even more heightened, sharing the build up, experience and then debrief together has brought is closer and has led to some very intense awesome fucks!
Hope your experience is great for you
Ooooh we intend to Details of when and where still need to be finalised but we're thinking of taking our third to a club which will be another first! Nothing like jumping in at the deep end eh! Just hope we can swim lol "
Why not! You don't know till you try  |
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