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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well after the 3rd meet we knew we were hooked! Since then I would say we were friends with massive benefits, I think it's when u decide u click with a person on a level other than just sex! |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
How long? Is there a specific time frame?
Could be after one meet, a couple or several - but you'll most likely have talked about the idea, realised you enjoy the same kind of fun and think that approaching it together could be an addition to your life on site - rather than a replacement for your previous activities.
FB's leave themselves the option of both playing together but also continuing to enjoy their fun apart too. Otherwise - if you decide to only play together and abandon activity alone - then surely you become a couple?
A good FB is priceless - so long as you can stick to any agreements re 'rules', boundaries and expectancies. And if it ever becomes more complicated than originally planned, one party changes their views, needs or wants, or it stops being fun - then that's the time to move on!  |
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"Sorry didnt mean to offend anyone I'm meeting the same woman for the 3ed time tomorrow and was just thinking is she my fwb x  "
You need to have the conversation with her..We can't answer that one... |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Sorry didnt mean to offend anyone I'm meeting the same woman for the 3ed time tomorrow and was just thinking is she my fwb x
You need to have the conversation with her..We can't answer that one... "
If its only your 3rd - I wouldnt discuss it at all for fear shed run for the hills.
3 is not that many times at all to be fbs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Discuss it from the start we did and we have been together for over two yrs.
We started as fbs then after a year we were fwbs as we are became good friends with the benefits of fun sex........ mmmmmm
To make it work as fwbs u have to be honest from the start to gain trust to be more adventurous with sex. Lots of pleasurable sex too mmmmm! |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
We are FB's who meet a lot and always have
I (Fox) always referred to his lordship as my 'regular guy' and it was only recently - after approx 5 months - that I started calling him a FB
It depends on each 'couple' and their situations on when you would class yourselves any title - you just have to talk about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How long have you got to be fucking somebody before they become your fuck buddy? "
My FBs have always been FBs from our first meet, in that we were individuals looking for sexually like-minded partners, so that we could enjoy swinging as a "couple". As "singles", swinging is restricted, but as a FB couple ... there are so many more opportunities available. Whilst I've always enjoyed 121 sex with my FBs .. thats just normal sex. With my Fbs, we've retained our independence to swing singly, as well as swinging together. Just agree the "rules of engagement" with your FB ... and have fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I think .. some ( and I do mean some) of these ' couples' always have one half who want MORE than the other
Its easy to read and see sometimes
Be careful of raising expectations with the other party - I hate to see heartache |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have yet had the pleasure to find a 'friend with benefits' but still on the look out lol. Just take things as they come and maybe find someone who enjoys the same things as me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have yet had the pleasure to find a 'friend with benefits' but still on the look out lol. Just take things as they come and maybe find someone who enjoys the same things as me "
I'm sure I will like most of them hun |
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"I have yet had the pleasure to find a 'friend with benefits' but still on the look out lol. Just take things as they come and maybe find someone who enjoys the same things as me "
U will find an fwb just have patience. Took me cpl yrs before met gio. We have been fwbs for over 2yrs now. We chatted for while via msn about what we were wanting and fantasies. Realised that had a connection so arranged social meet. We have honesty n trust wont work otherwise as need to have that to let each other explore more.
We know exactly what buttons to press to make each other horny because we talk filth all time especially before meeting up. The anticipation of a meet gets us really horny.
U have to remember though with an fwb that its nsa fun only!
Love having fun with gio mmmm he knows exactly how to pleasure me !
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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago
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my bed buddy and I were buddies for 15months, he was in relationship so we had boundaries...but was really good fun...nothing serious, but we didn't sleep around with others...
im now in relationship and we called it a day...we're still friends though |
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"Personally I think .. some ( and I do mean some) of these ' couples' always have one half who want MORE than the other
Its easy to read and see sometimes
Be careful of raising expectations with the other party - I hate to see heartache"
Yes, it's obvious to see. I maybe cynical but it comes across in most cases as the woman wanting more and the man using the "couple" status to more pussy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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when Im going with a lady and we meet more than once and intend to meet up, that is when we call it fwb,,, but if Im meeting a guy who I intend to meet again and again, then he's a fuck buddy,,, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had one for 3 years and we both decided from the outset we would just be FBs...nothing has changed in all that time. We only meet for sex even though we are very good friends, he has a partner and we both have separate private lives. |
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