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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I'd say about 90%. I had a pretty good meet with a guy and his mate but neither of them dipped their heads. When I went on his profile to leave a veri I re-read it (something I should really do BEFORE a meet ) and it said how much he loved giving oral. Annoying but what can you do? I like sucking cock too much to withhold it too. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I'd say about 90%. I had a pretty good meet with a guy and his mate but neither of them dipped their heads. When I went on his profile to leave a veri I re-read it (something I should really do BEFORE a meet ) and it said how much he loved giving oral. Annoying but what can you do? I like sucking cock too much to withhold it too."
Having said that, I don't meet many guys who do it to my liking. |
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over a year ago
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"I'd say about 90%. I had a pretty good meet with a guy and his mate but neither of them dipped their heads. When I went on his profile to leave a veri I re-read it (something I should really do BEFORE a meet ) and it said how much he loved giving oral. Annoying but what can you do? I like sucking cock too much to withhold it too."
I'd say at least that amount.. but I'm like you lol.
although my standards and expectations have changed somewhat now.
oh and as to most men not doing it to your liking. I think most men could do with a school to teach them.. |
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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago
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If I had started giving oral, if there seemed to be none forthcoming when I had done "my bit" I would just lie back and say "your turn".
One guy once answered : I won't do that this time !
Guess what ? He didn't get a second chance.
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I'd say about 90%. I had a pretty good meet with a guy and his mate but neither of them dipped their heads. When I went on his profile to leave a veri I re-read it (something I should really do BEFORE a meet ) and it said how much he loved giving oral. Annoying but what can you do? I like sucking cock too much to withhold it too.
I'd say at least that amount.. but I'm like you lol.
although my standards and expectations have changed somewhat now.
oh and as to most men not doing it to your liking. I think most men could do with a school to teach them.. "
Nah, I get impatient. I like them to use the whole tongue and really get in there, but most the time they just tickle away and I lie there thinking 'wtf?' So I get up and suck their cock instead. |
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"Ladies how many guys you meet expect you to go down on them but then they won't return the favour and pleasure you ..tell us your thoughts xlee
None at all. just looked at your pics and can see why "
Thank you .
However part of the reason I've never been disappointed is that I don't like to receive oral and none of the men we've met have declined to give me pleasure in other ways, it's a two way thing after all and not a question of trading like for like. |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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"Ladies how many guys you meet expect you to go down on them but then they won't return the favour and pleasure you ..tell us your thoughts xlee "
i shouldn't be posting as im not a lass but personally i wouldn't say it was a 'favour' |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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"I'd say about 90%. I had a pretty good meet with a guy and his mate but neither of them dipped their heads. When I went on his profile to leave a veri I re-read it (something I should really do BEFORE a meet ) and it said how much he loved giving oral. Annoying but what can you do? I like sucking cock too much to withhold it too.
I'd say at least that amount.. but I'm like you lol.
although my standards and expectations have changed somewhat now.
oh and as to most men not doing it to your liking. I think most men could do with a school to teach them..
Nah, I get impatient. I like them to use the whole tongue and really get in there, but most the time they just tickle away and I lie there thinking 'wtf?' So I get up and suck their cock instead."
must remember this advice for the future |
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over a year ago
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"oh and as to most men not doing it to your liking. I think most men could do with a school to teach them.."
"Nah, I get impatient. I like them to use the whole tongue and really get in there, but most the time they just tickle away and I lie there thinking 'wtf?' So I get up and suck their cock instead."
To be fair, in my experience, you ladies vary VASTLY in how you like it done!
I guess its just being observant to the reactions until you find what they are looking for. |
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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago
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"oh and as to most men not doing it to your liking. I think most men could do with a school to teach them..
Nah, I get impatient. I like them to use the whole tongue and really get in there, but most the time they just tickle away and I lie there thinking 'wtf?' So I get up and suck their cock instead.
To be fair, in my experience, you ladies vary VASTLY in how you like it done!
I guess its just being observant to the reactions until you find what they are looking for."
I have no problem giving a man a little direction. Because yes, every woman is different and likes it done a little bit differently. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"oh and as to most men not doing it to your liking. I think most men could do with a school to teach them..
Nah, I get impatient. I like them to use the whole tongue and really get in there, but most the time they just tickle away and I lie there thinking 'wtf?' So I get up and suck their cock instead.
To be fair, in my experience, you ladies vary VASTLY in how you like it done!
I guess its just being observant to the reactions until you find what they are looking for.
I have no problem giving a man a little direction. Because yes, every woman is different and likes it done a little bit differently."
There are a lot of men who have been told that they are wonderful at giving oral yet do nothing for me. When I do attempt to give a little direction like 'ooh that's a bit tender' they can get quite upset. But at least they try. It's the ones that can't even be bothered that annoy me. |
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"Ladies how many guys you meet expect you to go down on them but then they won't return the favour and pleasure you ..tell us your thoughts xlee "
Its why I don't have a 'what do you like list'... every meet is different some go for it others don't... in my view you couldn't stop me if I wanted to.. so therefore it works the other way too... if they love it you will get some and it will be great |
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"Ladies how many guys you meet expect you to go down on them but then they won't return the favour and pleasure you ..tell us your thoughts xlee "
Non at all
I get to know them quite well first and prefrences are discussed pre meet |
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"Ladies how many guys you meet expect you to go down on them but then they won't return the favour and pleasure you ..tell us your thoughts xlee
Its why I don't have a 'what do you like list'... every meet is different some go for it others don't... in my view you
couldn't stop me if I wanted to.. so therefore it works the other way too... if they love it you will get some and it will be great "
Sat nav set for llanddrindod wells !
I've been there before , nice little place, good cafe by the bridge !! |
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"Ladies how many guys you meet expect you to go down on them but then they won't return the favour and pleasure you ..tell us your thoughts xlee
Its why I don't have a 'what do you like list'... every meet is different some go for it others don't... in my view you
couldn't stop me if I wanted to.. so therefore it works the other way too... if they love it you will get some and it will be great
Sat nav set for llanddrindod wells !
I've been there before , nice little place, good cafe by the bridge !! "
Yep great locals place full of the gossip and guys trying to get in the staffs knickers. .. lol..
But they do great food too. |
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There seem to be some guys who put the effort in on the first meet but then think they don't have to bother on the second.
They don't get a third chance!
I have even been told that it's cos my lingual skills are too good!!! |
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"I tell them beforehand to not even go there....
Does nothing for me "
Am glad it's not just me!
It wouldn't worry me if it never happened again. Although I'm never very comfortable with people who won't do it... how's that for contrary? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I tell them beforehand to not even go there....
Does nothing for me
Am glad it's not just me!
It wouldn't worry me if it never happened again. Although I'm never very comfortable with people who won't do it... how's that for contrary? "
Lol that's very honest but very odd!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"oh and as to most men not doing it to your liking. I think most men could do with a school to teach them..
Nah, I get impatient. I like them to use the whole tongue and really get in there, but most the time they just tickle away and I lie there thinking 'wtf?' So I get up and suck their cock instead.
To be fair, in my experience, you ladies vary VASTLY in how you like it done!
I guess its just being observant to the reactions until you find what they are looking for.
I have no problem giving a man a little direction. Because yes, every woman is different and likes it done a little bit differently.
There are a lot of men who have been told that they are wonderful at giving oral yet do nothing for me. When I do attempt to give a little direction like 'ooh that's a bit tender' they can get quite upset. But at least they try. It's the ones that can't even be bothered that annoy me."
this |
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"I tell them beforehand to not even go there....
Does nothing for me
Am glad it's not just me!
It wouldn't worry me if it never happened again. Although I'm never very comfortable with people who won't do it... how's that for contrary?
Lol that's very honest but very odd!!"
Haha! I like being odd.
Given the choice I'd rather give than receive any day of the week. But just because I don't really get a lot out of someone going down on me, doesn't mean they shouldn't be willing. I just prefer to hang with people who aren't uptight about the basics if that makes sense? I might feel like it at some point! |
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By *J45Man
over a year ago
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"Ladies how many guys you meet expect you to go down on them but then they won't return the favour and pleasure you ..tell us your thoughts xlee "
Tasting a turned on lady is amazing, I certainly wouldn't expect her to suck me afterwards. And being given direction if not doing it right appeals to my sub side . Watching her face while trying to find the right technique is a lot of fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy giving oral and will do so at every opportunity but I once had a meet off here where the lady was a little, er, fragrant.
Damn near snapped my neck as my head recoiled. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I enjoy giving oral and will do so at every opportunity but I once had a meet off here where the lady was a little, er, fragrant.
Damn near snapped my neck as my head recoiled. "
Oh lovely
You mean she hadn't showered |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I absolutely love giving head to ladies, it is such a pleasurable experience. I would not be a proper session without it. I cannot understand why any man on Fab would think he should not give head to the lady. |
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By *aisy2012Couple
over a year ago
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Couldn't understand any man who doesn't want the total intimacy of licking & sucking a woman. A little bit of direction is always helpful, but if you can't tell for yourself if you are doing it "right" - you're not!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I enjoy giving oral and will do so at every opportunity but I once had a meet off here where the lady was a little, er, fragrant.
Damn near snapped my neck as my head recoiled.
Oh lovely
You mean she hadn't showered "
No.
As the tabloids would say, "I made my excuses and left". It was a group situation but I found it a bit offputting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I absolutely love giving head to ladies, it is such a pleasurable experience. I would not be a proper session without it. I cannot understand why any man on Fab would think he should not give head to the lady. "
I'll vote for you |
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I have to that going down on a woman is integral to the whole thing for me. I just love it and work on the basis that the more pleasure i give, the more i will receive in return....win/win lol if you are doing 69 the lady has perfect opportunity to provide feedback! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to never let guys.. I still only do if I am feeling comfortable.. but find majority of men seem to think that sucking hard on a clit is what it's all about.. it really isn't. I feel like sayin okay well done, you found it.. now play with the rest of me..
I like it all over and a mix of hard and soft. but do need fingers too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd say about 90%. I had a pretty good meet with a guy and his mate but neither of them dipped their heads. When I went on his profile to leave a veri I re-read it (something I should really do BEFORE a meet ) and it said how much he loved giving oral. Annoying but what can you do? I like sucking cock too much to withhold it too.
Having said that, I don't meet many guys who do it to my liking."
I think its polite to give what you recieve and if you want it a certain way all you need do is ask i actually sometimes prefer pleasuring a woman first xx |
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Perhaps someone needs to arrange one of those educational weekends where chaps can learn the finer points of the art of cunnilingus..lol i think quite a few would learn much and hopefully it would be fun for all! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any man who wants a blow job has got to be prepared to go down on me but what I'm not prepared to do is have to show a guy where my clitoris is!
Shouldn't have to draw a map lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any man who wants a blow job has got to be prepared to go down on me but what I'm not prepared to do is have to show a guy where my clitoris is!
Shouldn't have to draw a map lol" isnt that in greece |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only once within a year of joining FAB.
The gent was not aware I was au naturale, and it was not his cup of tea, which was fair enough.
Since then I make sure the prospective gent is aware of this, which means sending him pussy pics in advance of the meet as part of my lengthy vetting process.
I do not like surprises and prefer not to leave anything to chance.
No further issues after that.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm confused by the question!
Is the assumption that its the woman's job to go first?
A highly bizarre scenario indeed!! " no obi I was asking the ladies if guys have expected oral but sent bothered about returning the favour as I have seen many times at clubs and parties |
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"I have to say I prefer to give than receive. Evie gives lush bjs. But I don't expect it returned if i go down on her or anyone. "
I'd be less likely to give oral after I have cum, but before hand, I really enjoy it. Probably more than I should. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've always found guys very willing to return the pleasure.
Some not that good thanks Kaz you said you loved it xxlol "
Your the best Lee you know that hun xx |
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"I'm confused by the question!
Is the assumption that its the woman's job to go first?
A highly bizarre scenario indeed!! "
I have noticed in clubs that men practically always get and women rarely do - and certainly not for any length of time. |
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"Only once within a year of joining FAB.
The gent was not aware I was au naturale, and it was not his cup of tea, which was fair enough.
Since then I make sure the prospective gent is aware of this, which means sending him pussy pics in advance ofthe meet as part of my lengthy vetting process.
I do not like surprises and prefer not to leave anything to chance
No further issues after that.
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If only you hadn't blocked me ! I love em natural.
Come to think of it, I've never messaged you !
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was once invited to meet a couple purely to give her oral. He didn't like the taste of pussy so wanted to find someone who did (me )
It was a wierd meet as well, he seemed to want everything doing but gave nothing in return, and was very reluctant to let her even give me a wank. He then stopped any contact as reading between the lines I got the impression she had realised how selfish he was and wanted a bit more! |
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"I'm confused by the question!
Is the assumption that its the woman's job to go first?
A highly bizarre scenario indeed!!
I have noticed in clubs that men practically always get and women rarely do - and certainly not for any length of time. "
*Shameless plug!!!
Cupids - 27th July - tongueathon challenge - happy to balance up the equation!! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm confused by the question!
Is the assumption that its the woman's job to go first?
A highly bizarre scenario indeed!!
I have noticed in clubs that men practically always get and women rarely do - and certainly not for any length of time.
*Shameless plug!!!
Cupids - 27th July - tongueathon challenge - happy to balance up the equation!! "
Is this a ticket event or have you already picked your victims...err...willing subjects? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm confused by the question!
Is the assumption that its the woman's job to go first?
A highly bizarre scenario indeed!!
I have noticed in clubs that men practically always get and women rarely do - and certainly not for any length of time.
*Shameless plug!!!
Cupids - 27th July - tongueathon challenge - happy to balance up the equation!!
Is this a ticket event or have you already picked your victims...err...willing subjects?"
Nope! I'm going to nick one of those deli counter ticket machines and stick it by the bar!!
And there won't be any of that pedalo style "come in number 6, your time is up" malarkey!! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"I'm confused by the question!
Is the assumption that its the woman's job to go first?
A highly bizarre scenario indeed!!
I have noticed in clubs that men practically always get and women rarely do - and certainly not for any length of time.
*Shameless plug!!!
Cupids - 27th July - tongueathon challenge - happy to balance up the equation!!
Is this a ticket event or have you already picked your victims...err...willing subjects?
Nope! I'm going to nick one of those deli counter ticket machines and stick it by the bar!!
And there won't be any of that pedalo style "come in number 6, your time is up" malarkey!! "
Sign me up. Would be good to meet a Fabber who enjoys doing it at last. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm confused by the question!
Is the assumption that its the woman's job to go first?
A highly bizarre scenario indeed!!
I have noticed in clubs that men practically always get and women rarely do - and certainly not for any length of time.
*Shameless plug!!!
Cupids - 27th July - tongueathon challenge - happy to balance up the equation!!
Is this a ticket event or have you already picked your victims...err...willing subjects?
Nope! I'm going to nick one of those deli counter ticket machines and stick it by the bar!!
And there won't be any of that pedalo style "come in number 6, your time is up" malarkey!!
Sign me up. Would be good to meet a Fabber who enjoys doing it at last."
Victi.......sorry, volunteer number 1 !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ladies how many guys you meet expect you to go down on them but then they won't return the favour and pleasure you ..tell us your thoughts xlee
None at all. just looked at your pics and can see why "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm confused by the question!
Is the assumption that its the woman's job to go first?
A highly bizarre scenario indeed!!
I have noticed in clubs that men practically always get and women rarely do - and certainly not for any length of time.
*Shameless plug!!!
Cupids - 27th July - tongueathon challenge - happy to balance up the equation!!
Is this a ticket event or have you already picked your victims...err...willing subjects?
Nope! I'm going to nick one of those deli counter ticket machines and stick it by the bar!!
And there won't be any of that pedalo style "come in number 6, your time is up" malarkey!!
Sign me up. Would be good to meet a Fabber who enjoys doing it at last.
Victi.......sorry, volunteer number 1 !! " I'm so looking forward to the tongueathon obi i.. I'm up to Vic .. Volunteer no 3 already and apparently the hosts vote is final but I think you have prior knowledge .. But I do like a challenge |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is this challenge open to the guys only.. or can us ladies have a go too? really funny Cali seeing as you are straight ..... Wak "
you forgot the with a kink bit lol x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Is this challenge open to the guys only.. or can us ladies have a go too? really funny Cali seeing as you are straight ..... Wak
you forgot the with a kink bit lol x" and what do you think wak is ???? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is this challenge open to the guys only.. or can us ladies have a go too? really funny Cali seeing as you are straight ..... Wak
you forgot the with a kink bit lol x and what do you think wak is ???? X "
thought it was a typo. Shall now Go sit in the corner |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If there's going to be a lickathon at the Beach Party it really is only fair that I'm blindfolded and have a blind test on the 2 participants! I think I shall have to bring the winner a present! Hehe
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is this challenge open to the guys only.. or can us ladies have a go too? "
I'll challenge you - I bet I give better oral than you on a woman the winner gets... |
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"I'm confused by the question!
Is the assumption that its the woman's job to go first?
A highly bizarre scenario indeed!! no obi I was asking the ladies if guys have expected oral but sent bothered about returning the favour as I have seen many times at clubs and parties "
On a private meet with a new guy I never go down first. that I have learnt through a couple of rookie mistakes.
A club or party may be slightly different.
Early on in the evening before any sex, yes! Oral is good, and most welcome. However, as the evening progresses and play occurs I can understand a guy not wanting to go down and taste another guys condom men can wash their cocks off...ladies can't really...
Also I'm aware that I wouldn't want transfer of vaginal fluid from another lady via a mouth to mine.
So slightly different feelings for me depending on the scenario. |
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I do find threads like these amusing. Who has the tightest pussy? Up they strut to claim the title. Do you expect men to go down on you? All the pussy lickers announce how they luuuurve licking pussy, how they luuuurve pleasing a woman, how they luuuuurve going down for hours!
Yeah right! As if any man with a chance of getting within snagging distance is going to come on here and say he doesn't fancy sticking his head between thighs to encounter a smell to rival Grimsby fish docks!
Not...going...to...happen! |
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"I'm confused by the question!
Is the assumption that its the woman's job to go first?
A highly bizarre scenario indeed!! no obi I was asking the ladies if guys have expected oral but sent bothered about returning the favour as I have seen many times at clubs and parties
On a private meet with a new guy I never go down first. that I have learnt through a couple of rookie mistakes.
A club or party may be slightly different.
Early on in the evening before any sex, yes! Oral is good, and most welcome. However, as the evening progresses and play occurs I can understand a guy not wanting to go down and taste another guys condom men can wash their cocks off...ladies can't really...
Also I'm aware that I wouldn't want transfer of vaginal fluid from another lady via a mouth to mine.
So slightly different feelings for me depending on the scenario. " come on curls you've got some femfresh |
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"I'm confused by the question!
Is the assumption that its the woman's job to go first?
A highly bizarre scenario indeed!! no obi I was asking the ladies if guys have expected oral but sent bothered about returning the favour as I have seen many times at clubs and parties
On a private meet with a new guy I never go down first. that I have learnt through a couple of rookie mistakes.
A club or party may be slightly different.
Early on in the evening before any sex, yes! Oral is good, and most welcome. However, as the evening progresses and play occurs I can understand a guy not wanting to go down and taste another guys condom men can wash their cocks off...ladies can't really...
Also I'm aware that I wouldn't want transfer of vaginal fluid from another lady via a mouth to mine.
So slightly different feelings for me depending on the scenario. come on curls you've got some femfresh "
As far as I'm aware - and correct me if I'm wrong _ but femfresh merely wipes/sprays the surface.
I thought you were talking about good oral, where the guys tongue may venture a little deeper, his fingers in and out stimulating more juice to flow.....Now without a little time to self-cleanse the taste of the last condom is bound to come with that flow, is it not?.....
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"I'm confused by the question!
Is the assumption that its the woman's job to go first?
A highly bizarre scenario indeed!! no obi I was asking the ladies if guys have expected oral but sent bothered about returning the favour as I have seen many times at clubs and parties
On a private meet with a new guy I never go down first. that I have learnt through a couple of rookie mistakes.
A club or party may be slightly different.
Early on in the evening before any sex, yes! Oral is good, and most welcome. However, as the evening progresses and play occurs I can understand a guy not wanting to go down and taste another guys condom men can wash their cocks off...ladies can't really...
Also I'm aware that I wouldn't want transfer of vaginal fluid from another lady via a mouth to mine.
So slightly different feelings for me depending on the scenario. come on curls you've got some femfresh
As far as I'm aware - and correct me if I'm wrong _ but femfresh merely wipes/sprays the surface.
I thought you were talking about good oral, where the guys tongue may venture a little deeper, his fingers in and out stimulating more juice to flow.....Now without a little time to self-cleanse the taste of the last condom is bound to come with that flow, is it not?.....
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Flavoured lube or condoms?
*just not that piña colada shit !! I think Jack Daniels should enter the market myself!! |
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"I'm confused by the question!
Is the assumption that its the woman's job to go first?
A highly bizarre scenario indeed!! no obi I was asking the ladies if guys have expected oral but sent bothered about returning the favour as I have seen many times at clubs and parties
On a private meet with a new guy I never go down first. that I have learnt through a couple of rookie mistakes.
A club or party may be slightly different.
Early on in the evening before any sex, yes! Oral is good, and most welcome. However, as the evening progresses and play occurs I can understand a guy not wanting to go down and taste another guys condom men can wash their cocks off...ladies can't really...
Also I'm aware that I wouldn't want transfer of vaginal fluid from another lady via a mouth to mine.
So slightly different feelings for me depending on the scenario. come on curls you've got some femfresh
As far as I'm aware - and correct me if I'm wrong _ but femfresh merely wipes/sprays the surface.
I thought you were talking about good oral, where the guys tongue may venture a little deeper, his fingers in and out stimulating more juice to flow.....Now without a little time to self-cleanse the taste of the last condom is bound to come with that flow, is it not?.....
Flavoured lube or condoms?
*just not that piña colada shit !! I think Jack Daniels should enter the market myself!! "
Yum!!!!! My fave x |
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"I'm confused by the question!
Is the assumption that its the woman's job to go first?
A highly bizarre scenario indeed!! no obi I was asking the ladies if guys have expected oral but sent bothered about returning the favour as I have seen many times at clubs and parties
On a private meet with a new guy I never go down first. that I have learnt through a couple of rookie mistakes.
A club or party may be slightly different.
Early on in the evening before any sex, yes! Oral is good, and most welcome. However, as the evening progresses and play occurs I can understand a guy not wanting to go down and taste another guys condom men can wash their cocks off...ladies can't really...
Also I'm aware that I wouldn't want transfer of vaginal fluid from another lady via a mouth to mine.
So slightly different feelings for me depending on the scenario. come on curls you've got some femfresh
As far as I'm aware - and correct me if I'm wrong _ but femfresh merely wipes/sprays the surface.
I thought you were talking about good oral, where the guys tongue may venture a little deeper, his fingers in and out stimulating more juice to flow.....Now without a little time to self-cleanse the taste of the last condom is bound to come with that flow, is it not?.....
Flavoured lube or condoms?
*just not that piña colada shit !! I think Jack Daniels should enter the market myself!!
Yum!!!!! My fave x "
Good job the Kent do us BYO!! |
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"I'm confused by the question!
Is the assumption that its the woman's job to go first?
A highly bizarre scenario indeed!! no obi I was asking the ladies if guys have expected oral but sent bothered about returning the favour as I have seen many times at clubs and parties
On a private meet with a new guy I never go down first. that I have learnt through a couple of rookie mistakes.
A club or party may be slightly different.
Early on in the evening before any sex, yes! Oral is good, and most welcome. However, as the evening progresses and play occurs I can understand a guy not wanting to go down and taste another guys condom men can wash their cocks off...ladies can't really...
Also I'm aware that I wouldn't want transfer of vaginal fluid from another lady via a mouth to mine.
So slightly different feelings for me depending on the scenario. come on curls you've got some femfresh
As far as I'm aware - and correct me if I'm wrong _ but femfresh merely wipes/sprays the surface.
I thought you were talking about good oral, where the guys tongue may venture a little deeper, his fingers in and out stimulating more juice to flow.....Now without a little time to self-cleanse the taste of the last condom is bound to come with that flow, is it not?.....
Flavoured lube or condoms?
*just not that piña colada shit !! I think Jack Daniels should enter the market myself!!
Yum!!!!! My fave x
Good job the Kent do us BYO!! "
Yes! Ill have to buy some the day before. It doesn't last 5 mins in my house! X |
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"Ladies how many guys you meet expect you to go down on them but then they won't return the favour and pleasure you ..tell us your thoughts xlee "
quite a lot to be honest, I find in swinging not many men want to go down on you, more so in clubs, infact very few guys I play with in clubs give oral, id say on private meets its half and half
I have to be honest if a meet or play with a guy who does not give oral I wont meet him or play with him in a club again |
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I've had a few friends say they aren't into it... Never understood why. Always loved eating pussy myself. Gets me turned on more than most other things. Do love a bit of 69 too, nothing beats giving and receiving simultaneously |
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In the past week I have tasted of chocolate, and banana (with strawberry sauce). A good friend was given a selection of flavoured condoms for free at the GUM clinic
In the past I've also had private meets where the guy has refused to give oral. Now I know this is not a hygeine issue on my part, and they state on their profile that they do enjoy even relish it. One admitted it was because of 'the number of men I meet' which does lead to one feeling annoyed/frustrated and has lead to the never going down first rule.....
We're clearly just not getting the objectors to contribute to the thread! but as was observed in the first post it does happen....
I also wonder if in a club/group situation men are more likely relax and have their cock sucked with viewers than women are to lay back, open their legs and accept oral sex. |
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I find most men...(not talking about op as he well knows) just can't do it well... They just don't listen. I don't like to tell a guy how to do it.. but I will let him know if it's good..
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"I have never met a selfish bloke yet but there is still time. I can be selfish myself and just lay there and get worked on. "
see I just couldn't do that. I would hate for anyone to call me selfish in bed. |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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I think the issue is what the title of the thread suggests "returning the favour".
You either like giving oral sex or you don't.
It should not be a favour but something you truly enjoy. Otherwise it is not enjoyable for both parties.
It is only one part of a sexual experience, personally I love it. But does every guy I meet perform it on me? No. This doesn't mean we don't enjoy ourselves though. As we both focus on what we enjoy doing to each other.
I never used to like giving a bj, because I thought I was rubbish at them. Now as I have built in confidence I love giving them!
It should not be a favour, but something you love to do. |
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