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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There seems to be a huge mismatch of men to women on here. I know that is great for the ladies, but is also frustrating for us guys.
It is just a fact of demographics but does anyone think anything could be done to even the odds a bit.......... |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"There seems to be a huge mismatch of men to women on here. I know that is great for the ladies, but is also frustrating for us guys.
It is just a fact of demographics but does anyone think anything could be done to even the odds a bit.........."
Noooo! I want lots of men to choose from!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is just a fact of demographics but does anyone think anything could be done to even the odds a bit.........."
The only way a single male can really 'even the odds' on here is by doing his best to stand out as a guy worth meeting. This means having a well written profile, interacting effectively on the forums, and having good pictures to get yourself noticed. The single male experience on a swingers site will always be a hard climb up a sheer wall, but just like a rock climber, your chances of success vastly improve through experience and effective equipment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is just a fact of demographics but does anyone think anything could be done to even the odds a bit..........
The only way a single male can really 'even the odds' on here is by doing his best to stand out as a guy worth meeting. This means having a well written profile, interacting effectively on the forums, and having good pictures to get yourself noticed. The single male experience on a swingers site will always be a hard climb up a sheer wall, but just like a rock climber, yeeqour chances of success vastly improve through experience and effective equipment."
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"If there was a way to detect the time wasting, fakes and fantasists single males would be great. Then they can all be removed leaving the 5% of genuine guys on here. X"
And then you'd detect the timewasting, fake and fantasist couples and females too.... so the ratios wouldnt change too much |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The single male experience on a swingers site will always be a hard climb up a sheer wall, but just like a rock climber, your chances of success vastly improve through experience and effective equipment."
 What a fantastic analogy. |
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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago
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Nothing wrong with that. In fact it is a bonus for men as women will want to try plenty of men or will change some lazy or useless men for those who can please them. That give plenty of opportunities to the men who know how to treat a woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I suppose they could limit the number of single men, like clubs do.... would you prefer that?"
Just make them pay extortionate amount of money to use the site.. cos they will pay it, and in turn think they are entitled.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think any scheme introduced would make little difference to be honest, I'm genuine - hang on I'll just check, pinch - ouch, yep, but I'd not pay a fee for example |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is just a fact of demographics but does anyone think anything could be done to even the odds a bit..........
The only way a single male can really 'even the odds' on here is by doing his best to stand out as a guy worth meeting. This means having a well written profile, interacting effectively on the forums, and having good pictures to get yourself noticed. The single male experience on a swingers site will always be a hard climb up a sheer wall, but just like a rock climber, your chances of success vastly improve through experience and effective equipment."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If there was a way to detect the time wasting, fakes and fantasists single males would be great. Then they can all be removed leaving the 5% of genuine guys on here. X"
I'm a time waster because after finding out how expensive hotels and trains were to Bristol, I cancelled 3 weeks in advance... so feel free to block or report moi |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont mind at all ..In fact i find that if you can get a meet has a single guy with the odds stacked against you . You know you are doing something right x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There seems to be a huge mismatch of men to women on here. I know that is great for the ladies, but is also frustrating for us guys.
It is just a fact of demographics but does anyone think anything could be done to even the odds a bit.........."
just turn gay  |
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"There seems to be a huge mismatch of men to women on here. I know that is great for the ladies, but is also frustrating for us guys.
It is just a fact of demographics but does anyone think anything could be done to even the odds a bit.........."
It does also cause us ladies issues. I doubt there are many ladies who ignore the preferences on someone's profile or gets downright rude when that person declines their offer. There are pro's and con's for everyone on this site, just different one's for females, males and couples.
One of the problems faced by people is that this site is the only medium they use to make this sort of contact. That in itself is limiting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There seems to be a huge mismatch of men to women on here. I know that is great for the ladies, but is also frustrating for us guys.
It is just a fact of demographics but does anyone think anything could be done to even the odds a bit..........
Noooo! I want lots of men to choose from! "
Me to!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There seems to be a huge mismatch of men to women on here. I know that is great for the ladies, but is also frustrating for us guys.
It is just a fact of demographics but does anyone think anything could be done to even the odds a bit..........
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just turn gay "
If that was the only option, then l think l would rather pay....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There seems to be a huge mismatch of men to women on here. I know that is great for the ladies, but is also frustrating for us guys.
It is just a fact of demographics but does anyone think anything could be done to even the odds a bit..........
just turn gay
If that was the only option, then l think l would rather pay.... "
close your eyes whats the difference  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If there was a way to detect the time wasting, fakes and fantasists single males would be great. Then they can all be removed leaving the 5% of genuine guys on here. X
I'm a time waster because after finding out how expensive hotels and trains were to Bristol, I cancelled 3 weeks in advance... so feel free to block or report moi "
The Wirral is a lot cheaper lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There seems to be a huge mismatch of men to women on here. I know that is great for the ladies, but is also frustrating for us guys.
It is just a fact of demographics but does anyone think anything could be done to even the odds a bit..........
just turn gay
If that was the only option, then l think l would rather pay....
close your eyes whats the difference "
If you are only into anal then nothing - otherwise, the basics like tits, fanny and my favourite a clit..... |
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"There seems to be a huge mismatch of men to women on here. I know that is great for the ladies, but is also frustrating for us guys.
It is just a fact of demographics but does anyone think anything could be done to even the odds a bit..........
just turn gay
If that was the only option, then l think l would rather pay....
close your eyes whats the difference
If you are only into anal then nothing - otherwise, the basics like tits, fanny and my favourite a clit..... "
Theres not a lot else that can be argued against that counter-argument  Oh well ...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There seems to be a huge mismatch of men to women on here. I know that is great for the ladies, but is also frustrating for us guys.
It is just a fact of demographics but does anyone think anything could be done to even the odds a bit..........
just turn gay
If that was the only option, then l think l would rather pay....
close your eyes whats the difference
If you are only into anal then nothing - otherwise, the basics like tits, fanny and my favourite a clit.....
Theres not a lot else that can be argued against that counter-argument Oh well ... "
Really, ive heard some men have huge clits and ive even seen some on here with boobs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The ratio may well be swayed well in a womans favour but if a single man wants to get a meet.they can,its not difficult.I did it the first day I tried."
Ditto, but its not just about getting a meet, its about getting the exact kind of meets you want, and to use my rock climbing analogy again, the more single guys join the site, further and further into the higher precipices those meets are pushed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The ratio may be greater , i often read of women on here saying they get hundreds of messages , i am not inundated with men as i think my profile is a bit scary and puts a lot off lol... i just like to test their mettle |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There seems to be a huge mismatch of men to women on here. I know that is great for the ladies, but is also frustrating for us guys.
It is just a fact of demographics but does anyone think anything could be done to even the odds a bit..........
just turn gay
If that was the only option, then l think l would rather pay....
close your eyes whats the difference
If you are only into anal then nothing - otherwise, the basics like tits, fanny and my favourite a clit.....
Theres not a lot else that can be argued against that counter-argument Oh well ...
Really, ive heard some men have huge clits and ive even seen some on here with boobs "
Very good....lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for all the advice.
I have had meets on here and while it hasn't been easy to get them, they have been great and memorabke to say the least. I choose not to post verifications as l am looking for discretion and so this may be something l will start doing in order to be more tactile...lol
Oh yeah, equipment works well, as does the computer driving it - think the marketing dept. could do with a revamp though.
Thanks. |
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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago
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I don't think there is any way to limit the number of time wasters on here to be honest. I mean what are you going to do, get them to sign a legal declaration?
Luckily I haven't been stung too badly by timewasters in the past and I think we all just have to accept this as part of the whole game and move on.
If I have to through 100 messages to find that one great genuine guy then so be it. Whatever limititions you put on the site will also out those great ones from the get go, as we all know how intimidating this site can be as a newbie. And we most definitely don't want to scare off those newbies who are indeed fabulous and genuine.
If we all just keep our wits about us and continue to use our own experience to filter out the timewasters we should be fine. |
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