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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope! Not a one and we don't plan to. If we came across any of them on here we'd probably send a wink but otherwise its something we enjoy just between ourselves. "
don't you worry about them seeing your profile pics?
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"Nope! Not a one and we don't plan to. If we came across any of them on here we'd probably send a wink but otherwise its something we enjoy just between ourselves. don't you worry about them seeing your profile pics?"
well as far as we know we haven't come across any of our friends yet on here (except the one guy I work with who we quickly blocked when he contacted us) but we'd assume that our friends would have profile pictures too. Or are you saying that our pictures are so awful we would be ashamed   |
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"... any of your non Fab friends that you're on Fab? I have nearly let it slip a few times over the years as I am not really sure what they would think of my extra curricular activities! "
I nearly let it slip at work the other day  |
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"Nope! Not a one and we don't plan to. If we came across any of them on here we'd probably send a wink but otherwise its something we enjoy just between ourselves. don't you worry about them seeing your profile pics?
well as far as we know we haven't come across any of our friends yet on here (except the one guy I work with who we quickly blocked when he contacted us) but we'd assume that our friends would have profile pictures too. Or are you saying that our pictures are so awful we would be ashamed "
Not at all there great, just saying if friends or family stumbled across your pics, would be awkward lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No.
The friends I could tell who wouldn't be judgmental in anyway are also the type of people who think it would be acceptable to talk about casually infront of people who would be less understanding.
Everyone needs their little secrets anyway. |
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By *livia_K OP Woman
over a year ago
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"No.
The friends I could tell who wouldn't be judgmental in anyway are also the type of people who think it would be acceptable to talk about casually infront of people who would be less understanding.
Everyone needs their little secrets anyway."
These are my thoughts exactly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone heard that song 'dirty little secret' by the all American rejects? That's sums it up for me lol xxx  "
Really? There's this advert that advises cheap getaways for the night. It's called "secret escapes". Every time that advert comes on I think of this site |
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Both our kids know and some of our closest friends know also...
But while we were still in the Army, it was a bit more difficult.. again some really close friends knew (or guessed), but we did have one time when on another site we were contacted with a "Hi, we know you as you are on out street"... we nearly died.. lol |
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"Nope! Not a one and we don't plan to. If we came across any of them on here we'd probably send a wink but otherwise its something we enjoy just between ourselves. don't you worry about them seeing your profile pics?
well as far as we know we haven't come across any of our friends yet on here (except the one guy I work with who we quickly blocked when he contacted us) but we'd assume that our friends would have profile pictures too. Or are you saying that our pictures are so awful we would be ashamed Not at all there great, just saying if friends or family stumbled across your pics, would be awkward lol"
Family is different that would be awkward, friends hmmm I suppose that latte in Costa could be interesting if they'd seen us naked in the woods lol |
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"Both our kids know and some of our closest friends know also...
But while we were still in the Army, it was a bit more difficult.. again some really close friends knew (or guessed), but we did have one time when on another site we were contacted with a "Hi, we know you as you are on out street"... we nearly died.. lol"
How old were youkids when you told them and what was their reaction? |
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"Nope! Not a one and we don't plan to. If we came across any of them on here we'd probably send a wink but otherwise its something we enjoy just between ourselves. don't you worry about them seeing your profile pics?
well as far as we know we haven't come across any of our friends yet on here (except the one guy I work with who we quickly blocked when he contacted us) but we'd assume that our friends would have profile pictures too. Or are you saying that our pictures are so awful we would be ashamed Not at all there great, just saying if friends or family stumbled across your pics, would be awkward lol
Family is different that would be awkward, friends hmmm I suppose that latte in Costa could be interesting if they'd seen us naked in the woods lol"
I met a women on here, who found out her brother had been looking at her page lol. |
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"Nope! Not a one and we don't plan to. If we came across any of them on here we'd probably send a wink but otherwise its something we enjoy just between ourselves. don't you worry about them seeing your profile pics?
well as far as we know we haven't come across any of our friends yet on here (except the one guy I work with who we quickly blocked when he contacted us) but we'd assume that our friends would have profile pictures too. Or are you saying that our pictures are so awful we would be ashamed Not at all there great, just saying if friends or family stumbled across your pics, would be awkward lol
Family is different that would be awkward, friends hmmm I suppose that latte in Costa could be interesting if they'd seen us naked in the woods lol I met a women on here, who found out her brother had been looking at her page lol."
Now that would be awkward. It was a bit of a shock when a colleague of mine contacted us and I can't look him in the eye now. |
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"Anyone heard that song 'dirty little secret' by the all American rejects? That's sums it up for me lol xxx
Really? There's this advert that advises cheap getaways for the night. It's called "secret escapes". Every time that advert comes on I think of this site "
i don't watch adverts, that's what ff is for  |
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By *livia_K OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Nope! Not a one and we don't plan to. If we came across any of them on here we'd probably send a wink but otherwise its something we enjoy just between ourselves. don't you worry about them seeing your profile pics?
well as far as we know we haven't come across any of our friends yet on here (except the one guy I work with who we quickly blocked when he contacted us) but we'd assume that our friends would have profile pictures too. Or are you saying that our pictures are so awful we would be ashamed Not at all there great, just saying if friends or family stumbled across your pics, would be awkward lol
Family is different that would be awkward, friends hmmm I suppose that latte in Costa could be interesting if they'd seen us naked in the woods lol I met a women on here, who found out her brother had been looking at her page lol."
OMG I would DIE! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone heard that song 'dirty little secret' by the all American rejects? That's sums it up for me lol xxx
Really? There's this advert that advises cheap getaways for the night. It's called "secret escapes". Every time that advert comes on I think of this site i don't watch adverts, that's what ff is for "
I agree. Beauty of sky plus . Bit difficult though when on the rare occasion someone else has the remote control  |
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"... any of your non Fab friends that you're on Fab? I have nearly let it slip a few times over the years as I am not really sure what they would think of my extra curricular activities! "
Nobody's business but mine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No way! This is my secret life and that's how I want it to stay. I don't send out my face pic until I'm confident that the person I'm talking to is extremely discreet. I think one of my closest friend guesses what I'm up to but has never asked me point blank and never would. She will ask about my sex life now and again and calls me the naughty sexy one lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most of my closest friends know as they often are my security back up and none of them judge if in fact some are a little envious but they're all happily married. "
ditto  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Quite a few of my friends know and some of silks to. I guess we're pretty open about our lifestyle choices. Most of our friends are very intrigued and it had also broadened there knowledge on a scene they thought would be very sleazy.
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I only told one friend I've known for a very long time as a girl I'd met from here wanted a mmf and I had an epiphany and thought of him, sensing it would work.. it being my first mmf, it took some edge off as I knew them both, and it was a lot of fun! We set up a MM profile to explore it further but then he moved away (unrelated! ) Other than him, I've told one or two girls that I know from other more 'normal' dating sites, whatever that means.. |
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Four of my friends know - one is an ordained member of the clergy!
One is my safety friend so always knows when I'm getting up to naughties with new people, and frequently delights in using me as an example that there's nowt so queer as horny straight (she being gay) so Ihave a fair old rep in the local lesbian community!
A third friend doesn't judge but does refer to fab as my pervert site and clubs as pervert site clubs. How am I so certain she doesn't judge? Because she's joining me on a pervert camping trip cos I've been ill and need a little extra help to be able to attend. She's also told her mum who thinks it's great that I can be so comfortable with my choices and that being part of the swinging community seems to make me happy.
I love my girlie mates and knowing that they know me and there is no lying is fab.  |
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"... any of your non Fab friends that you're on Fab? I have nearly let it slip a few times over the years as I am not really sure what they would think of my extra curricular activities! "
I've not told friends I'm on a website looking for property in France, or a site looking for plus size lingerie either.
I don't feel the need to share the minutiae of my *private* life with those around me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nope. I've talked about a few things from the forum with my best friend but I just say "I read it on the internet" "
I do that as well (Lynne). Andy never reads the forums anyway.
For singles I don't think it would be frowned upon so much if friends realised you were on here. But as a couple the first thing people would ask is what's wrong with your sex life to want to involve others, that's when it would probably get complicated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"... any of your non Fab friends that you're on Fab? I have nearly let it slip a few times over the years as I am not really sure what they would think of my extra curricular activities!
I've not told friends I'm on a website looking for property in France, or a site looking for plus size lingerie either.
I don't feel the need to share the minutiae of my *private* life with those around me."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Both our kids know and some of our closest friends know also...
But while we were still in the Army, it was a bit more difficult.. again some really close friends knew (or guessed), but we did have one time when on another site we were contacted with a "Hi, we know you as you are on out street"... we nearly died.. lol How old were youkids when you told them and what was their reaction?"
18 & 16 and they weren't bothered lol but even though they now know. we don't discuss swinging topics if they are around ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If my daughter found out what I was doing she would probably disown me! Everyone's entitled to a few secrets in life are they not! "
True, but isn't life simpler without them?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Quite a few of my friends know and some of silks to. I guess we're pretty open about our lifestyle choices. Most of our friends are very intrigued and it had also broadened there knowledge on a scene they thought would be very sleazy.
MissD"
we found that with a lot of out friends that we served with - dispelling the keys in a bowl myth was quite refreshing!! Lol |
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"If my daughter found out what I was doing she would probably disown me! Everyone's entitled to a few secrets in life are they not!
True, but isn't life simpler without them?? "
We don't think of it as a secret if a friend found out we would be open about it but as with all other aspects of our sex life we choose not to discuss it with people who aren't directly involved in it. It's the way we choose to conduct our life but we respect that other people like to be more open. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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None of my friends know, but one of my superiors at work knows, as he approached me and asked outright, privately, at a works night out. Although I didn't deny it, I didn't say anything to contradict him. He looked as if he'd won a watch when I said to him 'you know where I am if you need me'. |
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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago
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A few of my open minded friends know, I even took one to a club as she was curious lol! There are of course some friends I know that just wouldn't get it, so would never mention it. But I do. consider myself lucky to have some that know and I can always let them know If I am meeting someone new and they act as a get out clause too if I need it, which to be fair I have been very lucky so far and not needed it |
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"... any of your non Fab friends that you're on Fab? I have nearly let it slip a few times over the years as I am not really sure what they would think of my extra curricular activities! "
most of my friends and adult family know about my lifestyle. |
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