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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago
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I've taken my 'looking for' preferences off as I have decided I get better meets by actually browsing for who I want to meet. I assume then that whoever messages me gets the 'this person is not looking for men/women/couples etc' warning message. So why has a guy just messaged me asking why he got the warning message? Could it be that I am not bloody looking for anyone at the mo?
Some right geniuses on here.  |
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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago
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Why do people bother questioning someone else's preferences? I find it increbibly annoying and often quite rude.
Personally I turn my message filters on and off as I feel like it. Sometimes I'm in the mood to get messages from different people and other times I'm just happy to continue chatting to the people I am already chatting to without having to worry about getting a million cock pic messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haha its like when I say just wink,so I get a wink then a message asking if ive got the wink they sent.......you can't help some people
Bless them all they make me smile  |
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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
The only time I have ever ignored a warning message was when I was sending a marmalade recipe to a woman on here who wasn't looking for women. If I see the warning, I don't message! |
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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Nothing happened??
We've swapped messages so it won't happen for you.
So we have. And there was me thinking I was special "
Awww, everyone is special on here. In various ways.  |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
Retirement Village |
"Haha its like when I say just wink,so I get a wink then a message asking if ive got the wink they sent.......you can't help some people
Bless them all they make me smile "
;-)
Did you get it |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
Retirement Village |
"I've taken my 'looking for' preferences off as I have decided I get better meets by actually browsing for who I want to meet. I assume then that whoever messages me gets the 'this person is not looking for men/women/couples etc' warning message. So why has a guy just messaged me asking why he got the warning message? Could it be that I am not bloody looking for anyone at the mo?
Some right geniuses on here. "
Shame hear that but can i be sneaky and try to get a positive out of your rant??
I like the idea of removing what i'm looking for as then the onus is on me to look rather than wait for someone to find me. Sounds like a good way to actually get to know and meet the people you want to  |
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As well as this I wasn't aware until a while ago that if you messaged someone that you have messaged previously and not recieved a reply then you get a message telling you that they didn't reply before!!! And I've still had people message me 3 or 4 times. Gotta give em credit for perseverance!! Lol x |
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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"I've taken my 'looking for' preferences off as I have decided I get better meets by actually browsing for who I want to meet. I assume then that whoever messages me gets the 'this person is not looking for men/women/couples etc' warning message. So why has a guy just messaged me asking why he got the warning message? Could it be that I am not bloody looking for anyone at the mo?
Some right geniuses on here.
Shame hear that but can i be sneaky and try to get a positive out of your rant??
I like the idea of removing what i'm looking for as then the onus is on me to look rather than wait for someone to find me. Sounds like a good way to actually get to know and meet the people you want to "
Its working well for now. |
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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"As well as this I wasn't aware until a while ago that if you messaged someone that you have messaged previously and not recieved a reply then you get a message telling you that they didn't reply before!!! And I've still had people message me 3 or 4 times. Gotta give em credit for perseverance!! Lol x "
I mean, I would take the hint! But some don't. |
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"As well as this I wasn't aware until a while ago that if you messaged someone that you have messaged previously and not recieved a reply then you get a message telling you that they didn't reply before!!! And I've still had people message me 3 or 4 times. Gotta give em credit for perseverance!! Lol x
I mean, I would take the hint! But some don't."
So would I!! Haha. Thick skin! Lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haha its like when I say just wink,so I get a wink then a message asking if ive got the wink they sent.......you can't help some people
Bless them all they make me smile
;-)
Did you get it "
Was it this one ""?
If it was then yes thanks  |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
Retirement Village |
"Haha its like when I say just wink,so I get a wink then a message asking if ive got the wink they sent.......you can't help some people
Bless them all they make me smile
;-)
Did you get it
Was it this one ""?
If it was then yes thanks "
Woohoo!!! So when we meeting or do i have to message too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've taken my 'looking for' preferences off as I have decided I get better meets by actually browsing for who I want to meet. I assume then that whoever messages me gets the 'this person is not looking for men/women/couples etc' warning message. So why has a guy just messaged me asking why he got the warning message? Could it be that I am not bloody looking for anyone at the mo?
Some right geniuses on here. "
Yay! Welcome to the 'not looking for' club!
I didn't realise that people got a warning message. That's interesting, it means the ones that do bother mailing me are slightly deranged.
I do explain it on my profile why I have no 'looking for'.... But then I always thought people didn't read profiles anyway.  |
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