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over a year ago
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"Where art thou ?
I really want to have a meet with a very dominate female who will use me in whatever way she please , no boundaries . Very hot x"
no boundaries is rubbish. Everyone has them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Where art thou ?
I really want to have a meet with a very dominate female who will use me in whatever way she please , no boundaries . Very hot x
no boundaries is rubbish. Everyone has them. "
I honestly believe it's the situation your in , if someone can get into your mind and make you completley submit to them then I don't think there are boundaries . Much more than just physical I think in domme play |
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As a sub currently and a mentor to others and someone that has lived as a slave previously I can tell you the first sign of a novice is when they say no boundaries.
So if your domme told you to go cut off your cock.. you would?... Of course you wouldn't.. that's a boundarie.
It's about learning what your boundaries are and pushing them in a journey of body and mind..
But no one has no boundaries.. everyone has limits.. but finding them can be great. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As a sub currently and a mentor to others and someone that has lived as a slave previously I can tell you the first sign of a novice is when they say no boundaries.
So if your domme told you to go cut off your cock.. you would?... Of course you wouldn't.. that's a boundarie.
It's about learning what your boundaries are and pushing them in a journey of body and mind..
But no one has no boundaries.. everyone has limits.. but finding them can be great. "
Ok fair enough I wouldn't cut my cock off I mean In a sex situation etc |
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over a year ago
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"Only if I'm on a cricket pitch 
Boom boom
I have a hankering for needle play, CBT and sounding  "
Mmm absolutely love that I need to be tightly restrained though lol x |
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Ok fair enough I wouldn't cut my cock off I mean In a sex situation etc"
A butt plug wrapped in barb wire?
A sounding rod?
Your new Domme's name tattoo'd on your forehead?
Caned until blood is drawn?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Ok fair enough I wouldn't cut my cock off I mean In a sex situation etc
A butt plug wrapped in barb wire?
A sounding rod?
Your new Domme's name tattoo'd on your forehead?
Caned until blood is drawn?
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Yeah all that absoutley fine , I love forced asbestos inhaling too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Only if I'm on a cricket pitch
Boom boom
I have a hankering for needle play, CBT and sounding
Mmm absolutely love that I need to be tightly restrained though lol x"
The only thing more scary than a sub that can't define their limits is a Dominant for whom that isn't a concern.
If you are serious about subbing, I would suggest attending events which specially cater for submissive men and Dominant Women. Pedestal in London gets fantastic reviews and is full of Dominant Women.
Get involved in the local kink scene-get to know people and learn more about safety. I would not recommend submitting to just anyone as the kind of play I mentioned can cause permanent damage. You need to know who you're submitting to knows what they're doing.
Good luck and keep safe |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Only if I'm on a cricket pitch
Boom boom
I have a hankering for needle play, CBT and sounding
Mmm absolutely love that I need to be tightly restrained though lol x
The only thing more scary than a sub that can't define their limits is a Dominant for whom that isn't a concern.
If you are serious about subbing, I would suggest attending events which specially cater for submissive men and Dominant Women. Pedestal in London gets fantastic reviews and is full of Dominant Women.
Get involved in the local kink scene-get to know people and learn more about safety. I would not recommend submitting to just anyone as the kind of play I mentioned can cause permanent damage. You need to know who you're submitting to knows what they're doing.
Good luck and keep safe"
Yeah I suppose that's very True . Ok I take back the no boundaries bit , just extended boundaries lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Only if I'm on a cricket pitch
Boom boom
I have a hankering for needle play, CBT and sounding
Can I come play??? "
Heehee, you're welcome anytime
Not sure how 2wheels would feel about the CBT though! Actually, or the sounding... Come to think of it, he probably won't like the needles either! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only if I'm on a cricket pitch
Boom boom
I have a hankering for needle play, CBT and sounding
Mmm absolutely love that I need to be tightly restrained though lol x
The only thing more scary than a sub that can't define their limits is a Dominant for whom that isn't a concern.
Good luck and keep safe"
this is good advice..
the reason I harp on about everyone has limits is because it should make you think about things.
Some things that you may get up to could go very wrong if you give yourself to the wrong person...
The right person and it's amazing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only if I'm on a cricket pitch
Boom boom
I have a hankering for needle play, CBT and sounding
Mmm absolutely love that I need to be tightly restrained though lol x
The only thing more scary than a sub that can't define their limits is a Dominant for whom that isn't a concern.
If you are serious about subbing, I would suggest attending events which specially cater for submissive men and Dominant Women. Pedestal in London gets fantastic reviews and is full of Dominant Women.
Get involved in the local kink scene-get to know people and learn more about safety. I would not recommend submitting to just anyone as the kind of play I mentioned can cause permanent damage. You need to know who you're submitting to knows what they're doing.
Good luck and keep safe
Yeah I suppose that's very True . Ok I take back the no boundaries bit , just extended boundaries lol "
Look up RACK and SSC - you need to understand your boundaries otherwise how do you know what you can offer a potential Domme/Mistress? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Only if I'm on a cricket pitch
Boom boom
I have a hankering for needle play, CBT and sounding
Mmm absolutely love that I need to be tightly restrained though lol x
The only thing more scary than a sub that can't define their limits is a Dominant for whom that isn't a concern.
If you are serious about subbing, I would suggest attending events which specially cater for submissive men and Dominant Women. Pedestal in London gets fantastic reviews and is full of Dominant Women.
Get involved in the local kink scene-get to know people and learn more about safety. I would not recommend submitting to just anyone as the kind of play I mentioned can cause permanent damage. You need to know who you're submitting to knows what they're doing.
Good luck and keep safe
Yeah I suppose that's very True . Ok I take back the no boundaries bit , just extended boundaries lol
Look up RACK and SSC - you need to understand your boundaries otherwise how do you know what you can offer a potential Domme/Mistress?"
Yeah your right completley I will defo look up these , thanks for the advice , I feel a wee bit foolish now lol x |
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See you think it's a big joke so no serious domme will take you seriously. If you're lucky you'll find a fluffy girl to play at dominating you, who will tie your wrists to the bed, spank your arse and tell you what a naughty boy you are. But I reckon that's about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See you think it's a big joke so no serious domme will take you seriously. If you're lucky you'll find a fluffy girl to play at dominating you, who will tie your wrists to the bed, spank your arse and tell you what a naughty boy you are. But I reckon that's about it."
oh he may find what he thinks he wants and quickly realise it's too much and find himself way out of his depth.. I council plenty of male and female subs that did this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See you think it's a big joke so no serious domme will take you seriously. If you're lucky you'll find a fluffy girl to play at dominating you, who will tie your wrists to the bed, spank your arse and tell you what a naughty boy you are. But I reckon that's about it.
oh he may find what he thinks he wants and quickly realise it's too much and find himself way out of his depth.. I council plenty of male and female subs that did this. "
See, he had no idea who I was or my experience yet was probably willing for me to shove bits of metal through his dick.
I feel for people who are damaged due to manipulative and abusive Doms but I have less sympathy for those hurt through stupidity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where art thou ?
I really want to have a meet with a very dominate female who will use me in whatever way she please , no boundaries . Very hot x
no boundaries is rubbish. Everyone has them. "
I'm a Dom fem and you have to have boundaries or you happy to eat my shit  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See you think it's a big joke so no serious domme will take you seriously. If you're lucky you'll find a fluffy girl to play at dominating you, who will tie your wrists to the bed, spank your arse and tell you what a naughty boy you are. But I reckon that's about it.
oh he may find what he thinks he wants and quickly realise it's too much and find himself way out of his depth.. I council plenty of male and female subs that did this.
See, he had no idea who I was or my experience yet was probably willing for me to shove bits of metal through his dick.
I feel for people who are damaged due to manipulative and abusive Doms but I have less
sympathy for those hurt through stupidity. "
What a piss take! I wouldn't touch you with my cane as your not being serious at all. I'm not into pain or humiliation being dominate doesn't always involve that! |
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"Only if I'm on a cricket pitch
Boom boom
I have a hankering for needle play, CBT and sounding
Mmm absolutely love that I need to be tightly restrained though lol x
The only thing more scary than a sub that can't define their limits is a Dominant for whom that isn't a concern.
If you are serious about subbing, I would suggest attending events which specially cater for submissive men and Dominant Women. Pedestal in London gets fantastic reviews and is full of Dominant Women.
Get involved in the local kink scene-get to know people and learn more about safety. I would not recommend submitting to just anyone as the kind of play I mentioned can cause permanent damage. You need to know who you're submitting to knows what they're doing.
Good luck and keep safe"
Agreed! I have a new sub who has a "shy" testicle as his inexperienced Domme squeezed his halls so hard it's moved up into his body!
I do not acknowledge any sub that wants to meet now and states they have no boundaries: ridiculous thing to say.
As has been said knowing your boundaries and pushing them is the fun part.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Guys it's all gone a bit mad , ok I'm not an experienced sub atall I want to be so that statement was pretty stupid . I appreciate all the advice given to me . I wasn't expecting a bit back lash I never claimed to be experienced
It's all about love and peace man x |
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oh he may find what he thinks he wants and quickly realise it's too much and find himself way out of his depth.. I council plenty of male and female subs that did this. "
That was what I meant by being lucky, if he does find a hardcore domme to take him without any boundaries he'd definitely wish he hadn't. |
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"See you think it's a big joke so no serious domme will take you seriously. If you're lucky you'll find a fluffy girl to play at dominating you, who will tie your wrists to the bed, spank your arse and tell you what a naughty boy you are. But I reckon that's about it."
Sadly, a lot of men confuse "tie and tease" with D/s...they soon realise the error of their ways when they contact me! |
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"See you think it's a big joke so no serious domme will take you seriously. If you're lucky you'll find a fluffy girl to play at dominating you, who will tie your wrists to the bed, spank your arse and tell you what a naughty boy you are. But I reckon that's about it.
Sadly, a lot of men confuse "tie and tease" with D/s...they soon realise the error of their ways when they contact me! "
I blame a certain popular erotic fiction trilogy ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys it's all gone a bit mad , ok I'm not an experienced sub atall I want to be so that statement was pretty stupid . I appreciate all the advice given to me . I wasn't expecting a bit back lash I never claimed to be experienced
It's all about love and peace man x"
we are giving you advise. By all means explore.. but there are many out there that may have wished they got the advise your getting.
Even us experienced subs can get it wrong.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys it's all gone a bit mad , ok I'm not an experienced sub atall I want to be so that statement was pretty stupid . I appreciate all the advice given to me . I wasn't expecting a bit back lash I never claimed to be experienced
It's all about love and peace man x
we are giving you advise. By all means explore.. but there are many out there that may have wished they got the advise your getting.
Even us experienced subs can get it wrong.. "
Visit a website that specialises in this and visit a few clubs that do this too nothing more I can say than good luck |
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"See you think it's a big joke so no serious domme will take you seriously. If you're lucky you'll find a fluffy girl to play at dominating you, who will tie your wrists to the bed, spank your arse and tell you what a naughty boy you are. But I reckon that's about it.
Sadly, a lot of men confuse "tie and tease" with D/s...they soon realise the error of their ways when they contact me!
I blame a certain popular erotic fiction trilogy ..."
That's just exacerbated it: way before the book supposedly sub men have been confused!  |
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"Guys it's all gone a bit mad , ok I'm not an experienced sub atall I want to be so that statement was pretty stupid . I appreciate all the advice given to me . I wasn't expecting a bit back lash I never claimed to be experienced
It's all about love and peace man x
we are giving you advise. By all means explore.. but there are many out there that may have wished they got the advise your getting.
Even us experienced subs can get it wrong..
Visit a website that specialises in this and visit a few clubs that do this too nothing more I can say than good luck "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys it's all gone a bit mad , ok I'm not an experienced sub atall I want to be so that statement was pretty stupid . I appreciate all the advice given to me . I wasn't expecting a bit back lash I never claimed to be experienced
It's all about love and peace man x"
The reason you have got a back lash on this thread is the immature, uninformed and frankly disrespectful attitude you have shown in your posts. I mean when you said that you enjoyed the forced inhalation of asbestos dust what exactly did you expect in response?
There are plenty of threads on here where people inexperienced in the world of BDSM have recieved some excellebt advice and/or being pointed in the right direcion for a better source of information. To be honest though your posts on here are so flippant that it almost comes across as trolling. You say that you appreciate the advice given but that doesn't come across in any of your posts.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"quick green/newbie question.
whats the attraction/idea behind "sounding"?
p.s mite be best to PM me as i dont wanta distract from, or hijack thread
thanks peoples "
It's like a form of edge play-doing something with a huge amount of risk can be a huge turn on for people. Others simply like the feel of having a urethral sound inserted. Or the medical play aspect.
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"Where art thou ?
I really want to have a meet with a very dominate female who will use me in whatever way she please , no boundaries . Very hot x"
I know what you were saying. Just be careful how you phrase your request. But I think you learnt that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Where art thou ?
I really want to have a meet with a very dominate female who will use me in whatever way she please , no boundaries . Very hot x
I know what you were saying. Just be careful how you phrase your request. But I think you learnt that. "
Haha yeah I've learnt that defo lol x |
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"He got his arse handed to him by a number of dominant females. Perhaps he's happy now lol
I'm sub  but definitely dominant personality wise
crystal"
me too..although with most people I am dominant. |
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"He got his arse handed to him by a number of dominant females. Perhaps he's happy now lol
I'm sub but definitely dominant personality wise
crystal
me too..although with most people I am dominant. "
People regularly mistake me as 2wheel's Domme  |
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People regularly mistake me as 2wheel's Domme
I'm often told I'm too mouthy to be a sub. X"
I've been told the same! Can't make it too easy for our Doms can we?! x |
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"Where art thou ?
I really want to have a meet with a very dominate female who will use me in whatever way she please , no boundaries . Very hot x"
"No boundaries? Lovely, so I can stuff my largest sound down your urethra and wire you up to my estim. Oh, at the same time nail your balls to a plank. Reached a boundary yet? |
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it's usual for a new sub not to know where their limits are. a genuine and skilled domme or dom will start at the begining with a sub who is new to them and then increase their level of dommination until they find those limits. a genuine domme/dom will know that asking where a subs exact limits are is an unanswerable question. the sub can only tell them what they think they may be likely to enjoy and where their limits may be. for instance, a domm/dom who goes charging in with a 15mm sound or a 16" strapon straight away is either inexperienced, a psychopath or a beginner. a genuine domme/dom will know when to stop, especially when asked to do so with a safe word. |
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"it's usual for a new sub not to know where their limits are. a genuine and skilled domme or dom will start at the begining with a sub who is new to them and then increase their level of dommination until they find those limits. a genuine domme/dom will know that asking where a subs exact limits are is an unanswerable question. the sub can only tell them what they think they may be likely to enjoy and where their limits may be. for instance, a domm/dom who goes charging in with a 15mm sound or a 16" strapon straight away is either inexperienced, a psychopath or a beginner. a genuine domme/dom will know when to stop, especially when asked to do so with a safe word."
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