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Are blow jobs a big turn on/off for women??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Throating is when it gets really fun, but I've yet to meet someone that can fit it down there when fully erect. 
Doesn't stop her trying though.  "
you've not met me yet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Speaking as a Man and Bi one at that - In my experience, whilst most women are fantastic at giving BJ's, few are good at taking it all the way, and even less at swallowing afterwards.... as for messy ....these things happen when a man just cant hold t in and shots everywhere lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Speaking as a Man and Bi one at that - In my experience, whilst most women are fantastic at giving BJ's, few are good at taking it all the way, and even less at swallowing afterwards.... as for messy ....these things happen when a man just cant hold t in and shots everywhere lol "
Happy to swallow |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Speaking as a Man and Bi one at that - In my experience, whilst most women are fantastic at giving BJ's, few are good at taking it all the way, and even less at swallowing afterwards.... as for messy ....these things happen when a man just cant hold t in and shots everywhere lol "
I always swallow and can take it all the way, never been beaten yet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you've not met me yet "
lol Given the distance, not likely too either! :D
She can do it when not *totally* hard, but once it's rock hard it aint going anywhere. If you can thoat a 2" wide cock/dildo we'll be on the first train to wales we can get.
Theres just no give in it. I really aint the biggest guy around, but it has stumped all that tried so far.
Not too keen when peoples back teeth scratch it either. I like a little nibble every now and then, but I do wish people had flip-top heads sometimes.
One day eh? 
"Speaking as a Man and Bi one at that - In my experience, whilst most women are fantastic at giving BJ's, few are good at taking it all the way, and even less at swallowing afterwards.... "
She loves me cumming right down her throat, feeling my cock twitch and pump, and I love the feeling of it clenching tight around my cock.
The messy bit comes from her trying to repeatedly fit it down there in the first place! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmmmm phil is quite a large guy and i take him all the way and have taken bigger too and never had a complaint except when sucking guys dry :P
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you've not met me yet
lol Given the distance, not likely too either! :D
She can do it when not *totally* hard, but once it's rock hard it aint going anywhere. If you can thoat a 2" wide cock/dildo we'll be on the first train to wales we can get.
Theres just no give in it. I really aint the biggest guy around, but it has stumped all that tried so far.
Not too keen when peoples back teeth scratch it either. I like a little nibble every now and then, but I do wish people had flip-top heads sometimes.
One day eh?
Speaking as a Man and Bi one at that - In my experience, whilst most women are fantastic at giving BJ's, few are good at taking it all the way, and even less at swallowing afterwards....
She loves me cumming right down her throat, feeling my cock twitch and pump, and I love the feeling of it clenching tight around my cock.
The messy bit comes from her trying to repeatedly fit it down there in the first place! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely giving pleasure to you sexual partner has to be a turn on? giving a blow job give me no physical pleasure, I don't have a g spot in my mouth after all, but to watch and hear the reaction of a man who is enjoying what im doing to him is a huge turn on and very mentally stimulating
I never get people who don't like giving pleasure, ive met a few guys who don't give oral, to me giving pleasure is just as enjoyable as receiving it, in some cases I get more turned on giving than receiving |
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"Surely giving pleasure to you sexual partner has to be a turn on? giving a blow job give me no physical pleasure, I don't have a g spot in my mouth after all, but to watch and hear the reaction of a man who is enjoying what im doing to him is a huge turn on and very mentally stimulating
I never get people who don't like giving pleasure, ive met a few guys who don't give oral, to me giving pleasure is just as enjoyable as receiving it, in some cases I get more turned on giving than receiving "
I completely agree. I would almost sacrifice receiving any pleasure at all just to see the look on a woman's face when I am pleasuring her, especially during oral. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Speaking as a Man and Bi one at that - In my experience, whilst most women are fantastic at giving BJ's, few are good at taking it all the way, and even less at swallowing afterwards.... as for messy ....these things happen when a man just cant hold t in and shots everywhere lol
I always swallow and can take it all the way, never been beaten yet "
oh yes you can lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Speaking as a Man and Bi one at that - In my experience, whilst most women are fantastic at giving BJ's, few are good at taking it all the way, and even less at swallowing afterwards.... as for messy ....these things happen when a man just cant hold t in and shots everywhere lol
Happy to swallow "
 good on ya gal xx |
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"Speaking as a Man and Bi one at that - In my experience, whilst most women are fantastic at giving BJ's, few are good at taking it all the way, and even less at swallowing afterwards.... as for messy ....these things happen when a man just cant hold t in and shots everywhere lol
I always swallow and can take it all the way, never been beaten yet "
Is that a challenge? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As long as they are clean ! Hygiene is the most important factor in my enjoyment ! X"
Speaking from the Bi perspective - bodily hygiene is a 100% must in all sex play for me and love taking cock deep throat - last thing i want down there is a smelly willy lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love to do it.. with random guys I get more satisfaction from sucking their cocks than I would from them fucking me. "
 your a rare breed then and its sounds as if you can take men the whole way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Speaking as a Man and Bi one at that - In my experience, whilst most women are fantastic at giving BJ's, few are good at taking it all the way, and even less at swallowing afterwards.... as for messy ....these things happen when a man just cant hold t in and shots everywhere lol
I always swallow and can take it all the way, never been beaten yet
oh yes you can lol "
Largest guy i had was about 12" long and 21/2 -3" girth and i took him ALL the way to the root believe me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Speaking as a Man and Bi one at that - In my experience, whilst most women are fantastic at giving BJ's, few are good at taking it all the way, and even less at swallowing afterwards.... as for messy ....these things happen when a man just cant hold t in and shots everywhere lol
I always swallow and can take it all the way, never been beaten yet
Is that a challenge? "
Take it anyway you like it |
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"Speaking as a Man and Bi one at that - In my experience, whilst most women are fantastic at giving BJ's, few are good at taking it all the way, and even less at swallowing afterwards.... as for messy ....these things happen when a man just cant hold t in and shots everywhere lol
I always swallow and can take it all the way, never been beaten yet "
Ever tried the deep-throat challenge at Chams? Its there for the taking!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Speaking as a Man and Bi one at that - In my experience, whilst most women are fantastic at giving BJ's, few are good at taking it all the way, and even less at swallowing afterwards.... as for messy ....these things happen when a man just cant hold t in and shots everywhere lol "
Now that IS a turn on!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Speaking as a Man and Bi one at that - In my experience, whilst most women are fantastic at giving BJ's, few are good at taking it all the way, and even less at swallowing afterwards.... as for messy ....these things happen when a man just cant hold t in and shots everywhere lol
I always swallow and can take it all the way, never been beaten yet
Ever tried the deep-throat challenge at Chams? Its there for the taking!! "
Nope not tried that yet!!! PHILLLLL!!!!!!! we need to take a trip baby |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are blow jobs a big turn on/off for women?? Does it make you any more horny or is it just a weapon to please? Opinions?"
They are what they are sometimes they are huge turn on others just fun it all depends on the person really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to love giving them but since having lots of guys cum in my mouth without warning, walk off without thanking me, and using it as an excuse not to fuck me, I simply refuse to do it any more!"
Agreed!! Same here
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely giving pleasure to you sexual partner has to be a turn on? giving a blow job give me no physical pleasure, I don't have a g spot in my mouth after all, but to watch and hear the reaction of a man who is enjoying what im doing to him is a huge turn on and very mentally stimulating
I never get people who don't like giving pleasure, ive met a few guys who don't give oral, to me giving pleasure is just as enjoyable as receiving it, in some cases I get more turned on giving than receiving "
Same with guys (well, speaking for myself of course).
Any act of giving that gets a positive response is the key to happiness. It's how that giving is reciprocated, and not just in the bedroom, that feeds the sensations and mental stimulation that's key to enjoying our own selves.
Anyone that doesn't get *any* pleasure from giving has issues with intimacy and selfishness.
That does not mean that anyone whom doesnt like blowjobs is selfish, before anyone takes this out of context and jumps on me! The two arn't mutually exclusive, as on some level with other things they no doubt do get pleasure from giving.
If anyone doubts that, then maybe having their partner 'playing dead' is thier thing? Fun for certain roleplays maybe, if that's your thing, but I couldn't imagine what it must be like to be intimate with someone who demonstrably wasn't enjoying it. Sack'o'spuds, anyone?
As with many things in life, the giving is ultimately more satisfying than taking. Cooking a nice meal, a birthday gift, doing a friend a favour, helping with chores, giving cunnilingus... whatever. Seeing thier reaction and thier faces light up is a joy unto itself.
Can't have 'give and take' without the giving part, and you just know that ultimately you'll be rewarded by them for it. Well, you should be anyway...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My girlfriend hates them. Which is why I haven't had one for months. I remember them being amazing. I think!
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LOL!!
Ooops, sorry. Wasn't rubbing it in.
Sad face. Quick sad face.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely giving pleasure to you sexual partner has to be a turn on? giving a blow job give me no physical pleasure, I don't have a g spot in my mouth after all, but to watch and hear the reaction of a man who is enjoying what im doing to him is a huge turn on and very mentally stimulating
I never get people who don't like giving pleasure, ive met a few guys who don't give oral, to me giving pleasure is just as enjoyable as receiving it, in some cases I get more turned on giving than receiving "
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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago
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I do enjoy giving a bloke a BJ to completion as long as that isn't all there is to our encounter. I do like a bit of give and take, doesn't have to mean he HAS to go down on me, not many men can do it quite how I like, but I'm not there just so he can empty his sack down my throat.
Yes I do swallow
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm so glad I put this up.... After reading I am now a very hard man :D wouldn't mind having most women who have posted looking into my eyes so I could see the horny look in their face as they gag on it I'm a naughty man  hehe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most women I have met seem to really enjoy giving a blowjob as much as I enjoy giving them oral but I have yet to experience an absolute mind blowing BJ and can struggle to cum from one alone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gotta be a blowjob...me sucking my guy off seeing him enjoy!...priceless! !...
It is a shame you guys don't meet single guys haha "
Its a real shame mr smith!...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Gotta be a blowjob...me sucking my guy off seeing him enjoy!...priceless! !...
It is a shame you guys don't meet single guys haha
Its a real shame mr smith!...
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You could push boundaries a little hehe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"love them... i can get so into it that i start slavering (saliva) and guys love it trickling down onto their balls... mmmmm
My kinda lady"
thank you kind sir!! |
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"My girlfriend hates them. Which is why I haven't had one for months. I remember them being amazing. I think!
LOL!!
Ooops, sorry. Wasn't rubbing it in.
Sad face. Quick sad face.
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I have a sad face |
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I love sucking cock, it's awesome. The look on the guys face, like he's in heaven lol really turns me on giving so much pleasure.. Really need to learn how to deep throat tho. Anyone wanna teach me? lol |
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"I love sucking cock, it's awesome. The look on the guys face, like he's in heaven lol really turns me on giving so much pleasure.. Really need to learn how to deep throat tho. Anyone wanna teach me? lol "
Ditto. The ultimate turn on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Speaking as a Man and Bi one at that - In my experience, whilst most women are fantastic at giving BJ's, few are good at taking it all the way, and even less at swallowing afterwards.... as for messy ....these things happen when a man just cant hold t in and shots everywhere lol "
I must just have been lucky then cos most of the ladies who have given me blow jobs have swallowed and seemed rather good at it. |
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