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By *habs OP Man
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
So I was wondering, rather than a repeat of the same thread, but a twist on things.
Use of protection (or lack of) between bi/gay women when playing:
1) Does it happen? How often?
2) Has anyone seen it come into play (especially in club/meets)
3) Which are the best ones?
NB: Ladies, your input on this is most welcome (although guys are not exempt) however this is not a thread asking "who does/uses" or "who doesn't" (feel free to say so however if you're comfortable with that). |
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By *habs OP Man
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"use of protection between women when playing? cant you expand on this a bit more about what you mean?
ie use of dental dams, condoms on toys etc?"
I'm thinking along those lines, but leaving it open ended as I'm yet to see any form of protection used in any FF play |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"use of protection between women when playing? cant you expand on this a bit more about what you mean?
ie use of dental dams, condoms on toys etc?
I'm thinking along those lines, but leaving it open ended as I'm yet to see any form of protection used in any FF play"
Have used condoms on toys when playing with multiple women...
no have'nt used a dam...
I am quite fearful at times...of catching something "nasty".. from unprotected oral from men and women...but kinda feel that if I would be worried about the look or smell of anyones genitals...I would run away screaming...but hay..unprotected oral is a risky behaviour....but dont some peeps get off on risk taking and trill seeking behaviours ...the swinging lifestyle...provides opportunities to indulge in both...just my 2p..xx  |
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Have occasionally put codoms on strap-ons and double enders, when they've just been used on someone else.
Never used a dental dam and never seen anybody, female or male, use one either in many years of swinging.
Hate sucking cocks with condoms on as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"use of protection between women when playing? cant you expand on this a bit more about what you mean?
ie use of dental dams, condoms on toys etc?
I'm thinking along those lines, but leaving it open ended as I'm yet to see any form of protection used in any FF play"
most women i know use condoms for toys, i have seen a few ladies in clubs with strap ons etc with condoms on, at the end of the day if your going to be usings your toys on several ladies you ned to use protection on them, not not saying all women do but ive seen a few |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whats a dental dam? Is it a "cling film" sheet or something similar? Doesn't it deaden the sensitivity too?
Jack  "
its a laytex sheet that you put over the genital area before performing oral, never had one used on me so cant comment on how it feels but i would imagine its going to take away some of the feeling, bit like a condom for a bj lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t play with ladies, but what about fingers? Do the people who use condoms on their toys wear gloves? This is a genuine question by the way… "
probably not but then again do men who use condoms on the cocks wear gloves? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don’t play with ladies, but what about fingers? Do the people who use condoms on their toys wear gloves? This is a genuine question by the way…
probably not but then again do men who use condoms on the cocks wear gloves? "
Thats a bit different though, what i was getting at is why use a condom on a toy when the fingers are doing what the toy is doing. |
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"Don’t play with ladies, but what about fingers? Do the people who use condoms on their toys wear gloves? This is a genuine question by the way… "
No! Never considered it, but when people are fingering and licking more than one pussy I suppose it's possible to transmit something nasty.
But I just can't imagine putting on gloves to play with another woman, then using a dental dam to go down on her, then putting a condom on a clean toy; or a man using gloves or a dental dam on me.
You can't make life totally risk-free and there comes a point where pleasure ends and obsession with safety begins, sex is supposed to be fun!. |
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"Don’t play with ladies, but what about fingers? Do the people who use condoms on their toys wear gloves? This is a genuine question by the way…
No! Never considered it, but when people are fingering and licking more than one pussy I suppose it's possible to transmit something nasty.
But I just can't imagine putting on gloves to play with another woman, then using a dental dam to go down on her, then putting a condom on a clean toy; or a man using gloves or a dental dam on me.
You can't make life totally risk-free and there comes a point where pleasure ends and obsession with safety begins, sex is supposed to be fun!. "
See thats what i was getting at, if your using fingers freely doesn't the condoms on the toys seem pointless?
I might be wording it wrong but if your playing with 3 females using your fingers, then move on to using toys is condoms pointless as you've just done what your actually trying to prevent.
A condom on a cock will never be pointless!
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"Don’t play with ladies, but what about fingers? Do the people who use condoms on their toys wear gloves? This is a genuine question by the way…
No! Never considered it, but when people are fingering and licking more than one pussy I suppose it's possible to transmit something nasty.
But I just can't imagine putting on gloves to play with another woman, then using a dental dam to go down on her, then putting a condom on a clean toy; or a man using gloves or a dental dam on me.
You can't make life totally risk-free and there comes a point where pleasure ends and obsession with safety begins, sex is supposed to be fun!.
See thats what i was getting at, if your using fingers freely doesn't the condoms on the toys seem pointless?
I might be wording it wrong but if your playing with 3 females using your fingers, then move on to using toys is condoms pointless as you've just done what your actually trying to prevent.
A condom on a cock will never be pointless!
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The other poster meant that ir a guy is putting a condom on his cock - why not on his fingers? Agree with a lot of whats being said by the way - off to join a nunnery! Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh dear - I hope I haven't started a major fire here "
Anything but, if anything it further strengthens the fact that regardless of how one plays, getting regular health checks is paramount.
Because putting a condoms on a penis for penetrative sex and discarding everything else is not safe sex, it just make it safer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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now don't quote me on this, but i believe that sti's can only be transmitted via contact between 2 muccus membranes. Might be wrong, but i was told that by a doctor in the GUM clinic. But
I suppose that would mean you could transmit via kissing! Would need to look into it further! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"now don't quote me on this, but i believe that sti's can only be transmitted via contact between 2 muccus membranes. Might be wrong, but i was told that by a doctor in the GUM clinic. But
I suppose that would mean you could transmit via kissing! Would need to look into it further!
Oh HEll...mucus mem to mucus mem...yes...but fingers in a vagina infected with say "the Clap".....removed..and then inserted in an other vagina...guessing that would do the "trick"...omfg....food for thought...then you put your infected finger in your mouth to lube them up before inserting them into another vagina...I for one will be having nightmares tonight... "
Why
Surely if you pick the right people to play with it's not going to be an issue |
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By *habs OP Man
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"now don't quote me on this, but i believe that sti's can only be transmitted via contact between 2 muccus membranes. Might be wrong, but i was told that by a doctor in the GUM clinic. But
I suppose that would mean you could transmit via kissing! Would need to look into it further!
Oh HEll...mucus mem to mucus mem...yes...but fingers in a vagina infected with say "the Clap".....removed..and then inserted in an other vagina...guessing that would do the "trick"...omfg....food for thought...then you put your infected finger in your mouth to lube them up before inserting them into another vagina...I for one will be having nightmares tonight...
Why
Surely if you pick the right people to play with it's not going to be an issue"
That's a question - if you pick the right people to play with (Assuming all clean) then wouldn't need protection, as for pregnancy, can then rely on "withdrawal technique" 
Sorry - starting another fire, devil's advocate teehee! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"now don't quote me on this, but i believe that sti's can only be transmitted via contact between 2 muccus membranes. Might be wrong, but i was told that by a doctor in the GUM clinic. But
I suppose that would mean you could transmit via kissing! Would need to look into it further!
Oh HEll...mucus mem to mucus mem...yes...but fingers in a vagina infected with say "the Clap".....removed..and then inserted in an other vagina...guessing that would do the "trick"...omfg....food for thought...then you put your infected finger in your mouth to lube them up before inserting them into another vagina...I for one will be having nightmares tonight...
Why
Surely if you pick the right people to play with it's not going to be an issue
That's a question - if you pick the right people to play with (Assuming all clean) then wouldn't need protection, as for pregnancy, can then rely on "withdrawal technique"
Sorry - starting another fire, devil's advocate teehee!"
In another thread I said we use condoms specifically to avoid unwanted pregnancy and our common sense, good taste and sound judgement to avoid STI's etc |
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By *habs OP Man
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"now don't quote me on this, but i believe that sti's can only be transmitted via contact between 2 muccus membranes. Might be wrong, but i was told that by a doctor in the GUM clinic. But
I suppose that would mean you could transmit via kissing! Would need to look into it further!
Oh HEll...mucus mem to mucus mem...yes...but fingers in a vagina infected with say "the Clap".....removed..and then inserted in an other vagina...guessing that would do the "trick"...omfg....food for thought...then you put your infected finger in your mouth to lube them up before inserting them into another vagina...I for one will be having nightmares tonight...
Why
Surely if you pick the right people to play with it's not going to be an issue
That's a question - if you pick the right people to play with (Assuming all clean) then wouldn't need protection, as for pregnancy, can then rely on "withdrawal technique"
Sorry - starting another fire, devil's advocate teehee!
In another thread I said we use condoms specifically to avoid unwanted pregnancy and our common sense, good taste and sound judgement to avoid STI's etc "
Hence tongue in cheek |
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By *habs OP Man
over a year ago
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Just a thought on this probably more for the ladies (a few friends were talking today).. and pardon my complete ignorance (which will come across in the question itself):
Just how do gay girls work with the whole dental dams bit: is it really like licking cling film?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just a thought on this probably more for the ladies (a few friends were talking today).. and pardon my complete ignorance (which will come across in the question itself):
Just how do gay girls work with the whole dental dams bit: is it really like licking cling film?? "
Where the heck can you even buy them?!
I always use condoms on toys, rarely use toys though. Good thread, interesting question.  |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
I got some dental dams in the shag bag I won at Sheffield social - first time I've ever seen one! I never reqest covered BJs or oral and have never received that request either. I do use condoms on all my toys when playing with others though |
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"Don’t play with ladies, but what about fingers? Do the people who use condoms on their toys wear gloves? This is a genuine question by the way…
probably not but then again do men who use condoms on the cocks wear gloves? "
I always use gloves whenfisting for a couple of reasons it also looks sexy feels great helps insertion and stops the risk of finger nails cutting I often get adverse comments from watchers but rarely from the participants |
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