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hey obv for all the guys that take the effort to do they'r profile with care this isn't a dig but I found it bizzar that so many people put the same thing on theyr profiles or very simuler
fun guy looking for nsa
now cumon all you guys does any girl go for profiles like that or is it just me that thinks its just lazy
had 11 mailes in the last 2 hours from people with a simuler variation to it lol
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"What else are they meant to write?? We are all here for pretty much the same reasons!  "
Exactly so why just out that? Something about what a person likes other than the list of preferences would be good.
If I read profiles saying 'looking for nsa' I think 'no shit, Sherlock' and move on to the next one. |
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"What else are they meant to write?? We are all here for pretty much the same reasons!
Exactly so why just out that? Something about what a person likes other than the list of preferences would be good.
If I read profiles saying 'looking for nsa' I think 'no shit, Sherlock' and
move on to the next one."
that's wot I mean its not the ones that say that and then go on to say more on the profile its the ones that only have that that and wonder why (most) women arnt interested lmao |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hmm, gotta be a troll having a laugh. :D
Anyone that can spell 'originality' correctly, and then type the rest as if they were 'txtn sm bff on fb' has gotta be having a laugh, surely. :D |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I think my profile is a bit different but only others can decide that.
Now that is a splendid profile! I like your style  "
Ditto 
If all the guys took time to write profiles like that, we'd be in trouble!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wittered on too long !!!! Sorry 
I began reading it three days ago and kept falling asleep !!! However if you were to cut it down a little !! You could have some room for when you get some veris but do keep the humour
Ok your turn both barrels |
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"OP - Your profile isn't exactly original either!
There's not even two lines!  "
lmao good point except actually my profile is short for 2 reasons
1 im not actually looking to attract more men more like discourage im getting a stupid amount of emails now so i let my veri's speak for how good i am
2 I carefully wrote my profile with great care and attention twice where it was very accurate and exact going into great detail about what I wanted and didn't want however as I clearly said my preferences it was removed as my preference was non white and it was considered offensive so am no longer publicly stating my preferences in the profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok I am guessing it was directed towards my profile, so as the gauntlett has been thrown down I shall pick it up n slap it across your face.
Firstly I fully respect your opinion so that I will acknowledge your cander.
However my reasoning behind my profile is thus. If you choose any profile at random they all seem to have pretty much the same thing in it, ie Looking for fun, Up for anything, got a big cock blah, blah, blah normally with pics backing up of some guy either having a play with himself or caressing his member normally squeezing the shit out of it to make it look thick n wholesome that some lovely girl is obviously missing out on.
I on the other hand wanted to show people who may happen across my profile that I actually am genuine by showing that indeed somebody knows me and has met me and that I don't need to brag about how many meets I have had. I am discreet so why would I want to shout from the rooftops of who I have had fun with. In my humble opinion if I have a meet with other people then as long as I give my all and give them the time of their lives and not brag about it then to me that is more respectful of them and myself.
Now as for my wittering on my profile is different and it comes down to choice. I have taken my time to construct it and believe me is far shorter that a lot on this site, so hopefully any reader will see that I have actually put effort into my attempt to entice them into looking at me n hopefully meeting with them safe in the knowledge that I am a genuine nice normal fella with a sense of humour. Boom  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I think my profile is a bit different but only others can decide that. "
I read your profile 3 times, some bits are funny but perhaps you could check your spelling? Sorry its a big bugbear of mine. The last paragraph did raise a smile though  |
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"Well I think my profile is a bit different but only others can decide that.
Now that is a splendid profile! I like your style
Ditto
If all the guys took time to write profiles like that, we'd be in trouble!!"
Couldn't agree more!! Ace profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Originality tends to do a disappearing act at the first whiff of fanny
It can usually be found in the back office sharing a crafty fag with honesty, tact and patience. |
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"Ok I am guessing it was directed towards my profile, so as the gauntlett has been thrown down I shall pick it up n slap it across your face.
Firstly I fully respect your opinion so that I will acknowledge your cander.
However my reasoning behind my profile is thus. If you choose any profile at random they all seem to have pretty much the same thing in it, ie Looking for fun, Up for anything, got a big cock blah, blah, blah normally with pics backing up of some guy either having a play with himself or caressing his member normally squeezing the shit out of it to make it look thick n wholesome that some lovely girl is obviously missing out on.
I on the other hand wanted to show people who may happen across my profile that I actually am genuine by showing that indeed somebody knows me and has met me and that I don't need to brag about how many meets I have had. I am discreet so why would I want to shout from the rooftops of who I have had fun with. In my humble opinion if I have a meet with other people then as long as I give my all and give them the time of their lives and not brag about it then to me that is more respectful of them and myself.
Now as for my wittering on my profile is different and it comes down to choice. I have taken my time to construct it and believe me is far shorter that a lot on this site, so hopefully any reader will see that I have actually put effort into my attempt to entice them into looking at me n hopefully meeting with them safe in the knowledge that I am a genuine nice normal fella with a sense of humour. Boom "
now u kind of prove the original point i was making hun iv looked at ur profile and as i find it its whitty without being cocky got a load of info without being to long or boaring as a woman if i receved 2 messages from local guys 1 with the little 1 liner and one like urs your profile would get my attention as well written x |
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over a year ago
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women dont have to have much on their profiles really...having a fanny can mean absolutely fuck all on the profile
sometimes the same with couples to an extent |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Originality tends to do a disappearing act at the first whiff of fanny
It can usually be found in the back office sharing a crafty fag with honesty, tact and patience."
:D :D :D |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I appreciate your opening post and me too feel that in the sea of shark infested water of single males on this site you need to make an effort of being different, stand out but not be vulgar. If vulgarity gets you lots of meets then fair play to you but for me being respectful at all times is a quality that I strive for myself n if that means I get no meets then so be it. I would much rather treat any prospective friends with dignity n respect, I mean I am the fortunate one being invited into the lives of some lovely people so surely showing utmost respect is a really good thing. First impressions n all that jazz. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP - Your profile isn't exactly original either!
There's not even two lines! lmao good point except actually my profile is short for 2 reasons
1 im not actually looking to attract more men more like discourage im getting a stupid amount of emails now so i let my veri's speak for how good i am
2 I carefully wrote my profile with great care and attention twice where it was very accurate and exact going into great detail about what I wanted and didn't want however as I clearly said my preferences it was removed as my preference was non white and it was considered offensive so am no longer publicly stating my preferences in the profile"
It's not you !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hey obv for all the guys that take the effort to do they'r profile with care this isn't a dig but I found it bizzar that so many people put the same thing on theyr profiles or very simuler
fun guy looking for nsa
now cumon all you guys does any girl go for profiles like that or is it just me that thinks its just lazy
had 11 mailes in the last 2 hours from people with a simuler variation to it lol
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Yours is not exactly war and peace either!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well alrighty then you are forgiven my son, but next time you may just put yer plump gonads onto a chopping block n all of the fabster will sit in judgement of you. So go say 5 hail Mary's nd repent, you are forgiven.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My profile is really not great at all but then if people decide to chat to me they find out who I am. "
exactly meeting and chatting and being around someone is how you get to know them. |
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"my profile is totally unique. Never seen one written like mine, ever. and if anyone copies it, i'll hunt them down and kill them"
I had to block all men from looking at my profile because of the copiers |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Well, I have re-written my profile recently, and within hours it was copied and pasted to another female lol
Whilst I found it flattering, it totally pissed me off as well, as my personality should be really just represent me |
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"My profile is really not great at all but then if people decide to chat to me they find out who I am. exactly meeting and chatting and being around someone is how you get to know them. "
lol as a woman sorry I would disagree hun I have turned down a stunning fire-fighter and a guy who playas for Bridgend rugby team both on the strength of their messages and profiles
its just about the face for some but for many its about the effort a individual makes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well to me by making an effort in the first place ie - profile then this will show any prospective meets that you are what they are looking for. Yes we are all here to have fun with others but a bit of effort shows that you are a person worth getting to know, well it is for me anyways. |
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over a year ago
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"my profile is totally unique. Never seen one written like mine, ever. and if anyone copies it, i'll hunt them down and kill them
I had to block all men from looking at my profile because of the copiers "
You can't Steve!!!
We can still see you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine is original..i just need someone to remind me to shut up lol
It might be you !!!
Ok - own up!
Are you Ant or Dec?  "
Haha lol nobody knows which ones which anyway !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My profile is really not great at all but then if people decide to chat to me they find out who I am. exactly meeting and chatting and being around someone is how you get to know them.
lol as a woman sorry I would disagree hun I have turned down a stunning fire-fighter and a guy who playas for Bridgend rugby team both on the strength of their messages and profiles
its just about the face for some but for many its about the effort a individual makes"
I am shocked and a bit relieved by that post as firstly I expect all women to go for at least one of those people or even both. It's nice to see that the "average" guy may get a look in too |
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Thing is the men that lack imagination come on the forums seeking profile help. The world and his bitch then give their £0.02 worth, ergo: all the profiles become generic.
Use it as another filter, generic, unimaginative = ignore! |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"My profile is really not great at all but then if people decide to chat to me they find out who I am. exactly meeting and chatting and being around someone is how you get to know them.
lol as a woman sorry I would disagree hun I have turned down a stunning fire-fighter and a guy who playas for Bridgend rugby team both on the strength of their messages and profiles
its just about the face for some but for many its about the effort a individual makes"
oh but it absolutely goes both ways.... I think "some" women think that because they are in the minority they can say less and attract more,
partly true...
they attract some, but then they complain about the quality they are attracting...
my profile is this long for a reason, it give people a flavour, so to speak, of whom I am.... and whether I would be suitable for them, but that is still a two way street...
the popular guys will still be popular, I am not tempted by someone who doesn't seem to make an attempt... after all, anyone can string a sentence or two together, I want a feel for person behind computer....
originality tends to go as far as one person seeing if something works for another... then it all becomes generic and buzz words which people think say all the right things, but instead tell the reader nothing......
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"My profile is really not great at all but then if people decide to chat to me they find out who I am. exactly meeting and chatting and being around someone is how you get to know them.
lol as a woman sorry I would disagree hun I have turned down a stunning fire-fighter and a guy who playas for Bridgend rugby team both on the strength of their messages and profiles
its just about the face for some but for many its about the effort a individual makes
oh but it absolutely goes both ways.... I think "some" women think that because they are in the minority they can say less and attract more,
partly true...
they attract some, but then they complain about the quality they are attracting...
my profile is this long for a reason, it give people a flavour, so to speak, of whom I am.... and whether I would be suitable for them, but that is still a two way street...
the popular guys will still be popular, I am not tempted by someone who doesn't seem to make an attempt... after all, anyone can string a sentence or two together, I want a feel for person behind computer....
originality tends to go as far as one person seeing if something works for another... then it all becomes generic and buzz words which people think say all the right things, but instead tell the reader nothing......
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Your turn to do all the typing! |
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"My profile is really not great at all but then if people decide to chat to me they find out who I am. exactly meeting and chatting and being around someone is how you get to know them.
lol as a woman sorry I would disagree hun I have turned down a stunning fire-fighter and a guy who playas for Bridgend rugby team both on the strength of their messages and profiles
its just about the face for some but for many its about the effort a individual makes
I am shocked and a bit relieved by that post as firstly I expect all women to go for at least one of those people or even both. It's nice to see that the "average" guy may get a look in too "
iv met so far quite a few through this site be it dogging or gb's and only 4 I would say are the male model type rest are average normal guys oh im no modle myself lmao but im happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Okay I've added some content to my profile I'd appreciate someone to have a read and say if they like the update. "
God that was a quick turnaround.
Well done you!! I won't comment on your profile cause if you like it then that is all that matters n if you find that nobody writes ya then perhaps you outta think about why. |
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"My profile is really not great at all but then if people decide to chat to me they find out who I am. exactly meeting and chatting and being around someone is how you get to know them.
lol as a woman sorry I would disagree hun I have turned down a stunning fire-fighter and a guy who playas for Bridgend rugby team both on the strength of their messages and profiles
its just about the face for some but for many its about the effort a individual makes
I am shocked and a bit relieved by that post as firstly I expect all women to go for at least one of those people or even both. It's nice to see that the "average" guy may get a look in too
iv met so far quite a few through this site be it dogging or gb's and only 4 I would say are the male model type rest are average normal guys oh im no modle myself lmao but im happy "
You notice a difference when with them like attraction was quicker or the "fitter" ones had more energy when needed?
I believe if you're happy and getting what you need. Does it matter how you look as if you are happy and getting what you want. Then you obviously have something so why change that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The guy with the hair in the bath...
Can anyone see my profile? I thought I'd blocked all men "
Anyone can see it,they just can't message you
I think you'd need to manually block all men if you did'nt want them to see your profile |
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"The guy with the hair in the bath...
Can anyone see my profile? I thought I'd blocked all men
Anyone can see it,they just can't message you
I think you'd need to manually block all men if you did'nt want them to see your profile "
And hope they don't have big telescopes!!!!
Bwahahahahahahahahahahaha! |
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"The guy with the hair in the bath...
Can anyone see my profile? I thought I'd blocked all men
Anyone can see it,they just can't message you
I think you'd need to manually block all
men if you did'nt want them to see your
profile "
FFS! No men have appeared on my viewed me list. They always used to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd rather a telescope ( hugely extendable ) than a microscope....Obi wankinobi, can you really see my profile? "
Yes Steve, I can!
So can all the other stealth perverts without you knowing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hey obv for all the guys that take the effort to do they'r profile with care this isn't a dig but I found it bizzar that so many people put the same thing on theyr profiles or very simuler
fun guy looking for nsa
now cumon all you guys does any girl go for profiles like that or is it just me that thinks its just lazy
had 11 mailes in the last 2 hours from people with a simuler variation to it lol
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Might change mine to say that, maybe that's where I'm going wrong |
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"I'd rather a telescope ( hugely extendable ) than a microscope....Obi wankinobi, can you really see my profile?
Yes Steve, I can!
So can all the other stealth perverts without you knowing! "
All the men can't be on stealth surely?
Mysteriousguy: can you read my profile? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's one way to get some views! lol
Clever fucker!
I may have to start a thread saying "I think my profiles broken - can you all please check if you can see it!" pmsl!! |
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"That's one way to get some views! lol
Clever fucker!
I may have to start a thread saying "I think my profiles broken - can you all please check if you can see it!" pmsl!!"
Yes it is. It wasn't the reason I posted though. |
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"I'd rather a telescope ( hugely extendable ) than a microscope....Obi wankinobi, can you really see my profile?
Yes Steve, I can!
So can all the other stealth perverts without you knowing!
All the men can't be on stealth surely?
Mysteriousguy: can you read my profile? "
Snore !!! Snore. !!!! Snore !!!!!
Yep |
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"Whats my 'read my profile' password then? 
"Armageddon!!" "
Don't say it in public! You're supposed to send a message with it in the title!!! Ha ha! Which proves you never read it! So who told you my password and the code to get it? I'm not so obvious to put it in as 'use this as the password'..... |
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"Whats my 'read my profile' password then?
Would really like to meet a bi lady to meet couples for totally bi meets
Ring a bell !!!!! "
Ding! Dong! It even sounds good read here! I'm tempted to message myself. At least I'd get a nice reply.
Looks like the block button is gonna be in use a lot. |
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"Whats my 'read my profile' password then?
Would really like to meet a bi lady to meet couples for totally bi meets
Ring a bell !!!!!
Ding! Dong! It even sounds good read here! I'm tempted to message myself. At least I'd get a nice reply.
Looks like the block button is gonna be in use a lot. "
I did pick the best bit for you as it was difficult trying to stay awake lol |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"hey obv for all the guys that take the effort to do they'r profile with care this isn't a dig but I found it bizzar that so many people put the same thing on theyr profiles or very simuler
fun guy looking for nsa
now cumon all you guys does any girl go for profiles like that or is it just me that thinks its just lazy
had 11 mailes in the last 2 hours from people with a simuler variation to it lol
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but you are complaining about the same thing you have on your own profile...
just because you happen to be a woman, it doesn't make it any less lazy then if it were a man...
to be honest.... if your profile is one line long, then you are in no position to complain if the replies back are one line long...
you want to attract better... make an effort!!! simple as.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My profile is really not great at all but then if people decide to chat to me they find out who I am. exactly meeting and chatting and being around someone is how you get to know them.
lol as a woman sorry I would disagree hun I have turned down a stunning fire-fighter and a guy who playas for Bridgend rugby team both on the strength of their messages and profiles
its just about the face for some but for many its about the effort a individual makes"
Pot. Kettle. Black. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What else are they meant to write?? We are all here for pretty much the same reasons! "
That's a common mistake to make, we're NOT all here for the same reason...not even close, but its easy enough to avoid the people who choose to have boring shitty profiles! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're really surprised that a lot of profiles are similar - I'm not. Regularly we get people, mostly men, asking how to improve their profile. They are always told the same thing. Same with pics, men are told to put body or bottom pictures on, or pics with suits seems to be the newest advice Consequently many profiles end up very similar and certainly not original.
I can't understand why people ask for advice. A standard profile will not guarantee you a meet.
If people can't think of a few lines to write about themselves then it's a pretty poor show |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine is really different. ...bad different all the same but I think my expectations out of the site are slightly different to that when I first joined... (is now looking forward to the abuse....) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mine is really different. ...bad different all the same but I think my expectations out of the site are slightly different to that when I first joined... (is now looking forward to the abuse....) "
No abuse necessary I dont think. We are all here for different reasons and you're honest abiut your reasons |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Thank you ...getting back on topic, people get out of the site what they put in (In my situation I don't put a lot in so would not expect anything back!!!), if the originality has been lost it is because people are trying to detail what they THINK that there target audience want to hear.
In all honesty I do think that you need to have some detail that sets you apart (especially the males), but in my time here this seems to be more around body image, penis sizes even skin colour (apologises as I don't want offend anyone) etc...unfortunately I am not winning any competitions in some of these departments!!!!! |
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"What else are they meant to write?? We are all here for pretty much the same reasons!
Exactly so why just out that? Something about what a person likes other than the list of preferences would be good.
If I read profiles saying 'looking for nsa' I think 'no shit, Sherlock' and move on to the next one."
WHY DO folk put NSA in their profile when this is a swinging site???? EVERYBODY is INITIALLY looking for NSA surely??
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"What else are they meant to write?? We are all here for pretty much the same reasons!
Exactly so why just out that? Something about what a person likes other than the list of preferences would be good.
If I read profiles saying 'looking for nsa' I think 'no shit, Sherlock' and move on to the next one.
WHY DO folk put NSA in their profile when this is a swinging site???? EVERYBODY is INITIALLY looking for NSA
surely??
Not the people looking to tie people up
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What else are they meant to write?? We are all here for pretty much the same reasons!
Exactly so why just out that? Something about what a person likes other than the list of preferences would be good.
If I read profiles saying 'looking for nsa' I think 'no shit, Sherlock' and move on to the next one.
WHY DO folk put NSA in their profile when this is a swinging site???? EVERYBODY is INITIALLY looking for NSA surely??
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No there was a thread the other day, someone was looking for "the one" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"hey obv for all the guys that take the effort to do they'r profile with care this isn't a dig but I found it bizzar that so many people put the same thing on theyr profiles or very simuler
fun guy looking for nsa
now cumon all you guys does any girl go for profiles like that or is it just me that thinks its just lazy
had 11 mailes in the last 2 hours from people with a simuler variation to it lol
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i do take all effort reading profile,
even mention about her currant status section, has now block me since then |
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Also people dont always asume what your profile looks like is what others are looking for.
If I came accross a profile that had 2 lines but a clear photo ( that I liked) then that would get my attention, if they then sent a message saying "hi" and again I could see what they looked like then it would also get a reply. If someone sends me a long winded message I scroll to the photos before even reading it. We are all different so dont stress too much about how well writen your profile is as sometimes if the attraction isnt there then your going to get nowhere. If someone chose to not meet us over spelling mistakes then they probably arnt the type of people we would like to meet! |
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over a year ago
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"What else are they meant to write?? We are all here for pretty much the same reasons!
Exactly so why just out that? Something about what a person likes other than the list of preferences would be good.
If I read profiles saying 'looking for nsa' I think 'no shit, Sherlock' and move on to the next one.
WHY DO folk put NSA in their profile when this is a swinging site???? EVERYBODY is INITIALLY looking for NSA surely??
No there was a thread the other day, someone was looking for "the one""
The one WHAT? Lol |
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My profile pretty much just says what it needs to. I dint show my veris cos I don't kiss n tell and dont like being seen as a male whore/slut.
Used to get called that alot at uni.  |
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