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By *ixma OP Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
I'm intrigued why so many women in a Caucasian relationship only play with black guys. Is it the forbidden fruit syndrome where it's nice to play with one but wouldn't ever date one?, lol |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"I'm intrigued why so many women in a Caucasian relationship only play with black guys. Is it the forbidden fruit syndrome where it's nice to play with one but wouldn't ever date one?, lol "
lol is this for Sydney University reaseach purposes or just your own amusement/angst  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm intrigued why so many women in a Caucasian relationship only play with black guys. Is it the forbidden fruit syndrome where it's nice to play with one but wouldn't ever date one?, lol "
I am in a Caucasian relationship. I have always liked black men and the taboo of black with white in relationships no longer exists.
If I were to start a new relationship, the colour of his skin would not be a determining factor.
I play with black men because I love your skin texture, colour and the gorgeous sheen it has, your dark eyes and full lips, your sensuality....
Not to say that white men don't hold their own attractions, but I prefer to get my 'extras' with black men  |
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By *ixma OP Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"I think he is just asking the question hyperthetically and wants people's views on why they play with black guys "
Correct Dee, I think some are missing the point. Forget they would never date one comment and just concentrate on having a Caucasian partner but only play strictly with black guys only |
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for hotwife, the answer is that black guys tend to be more gentle with bigger cocks than white guys are.
after a hyserectomy, her pussy don't seem to be so deep as it was, black guys understand this and are gentle, wheras every white guy she has been with has started gently and then got carried away and tries to thrust it all in as hard and fast as they can. this causes her damage and much pain so the meet ends there & then.
not had this problem at all with black guys so they are now HER preference.
disclaimer..... not saying all white guys are like this but no longer willing to take the chance  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With whom people play with is none of my concern (i couldnt care less), but the one thing that has always intrigued me about this certain thing is the generic statements that go flying everywhere. Black guys are more caring...more understanding..bigger lips...more gentle apprently...etc etc etc
Maybe its cos im a guy I dont understand, but im sure you can find similar qualities in any guy if you look lol  |
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"You never see men on here say black women only.
Is it thar men arn't as fussy? "
You do actually, but when they ask a question regarding black ladies somehow it gets turned into a ethnic issue and they get hammered. |
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"for hotwife, the answer is that black guys tend to be more gentle with bigger cocks than white guys are.
after a hyserectomy, her pussy don't seem to be so deep as it was, black guys understand this and are gentle, wheras every white guy she has been with has started gently and then got carried away and tries to thrust it all in as hard and fast as they can. this causes her damage and much pain so the meet ends there & then.
not had this problem at all with black guys so they are now HER preference.
disclaimer..... not saying all white guys are like this but no longer willing to take the chance "
Lol maybe the white guys are bigger hence y there hurting you lol, |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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"You never see men on here say black women only.
Is it thar men arn't as fussy?
You do actually, but when they ask a question regarding black ladies somehow it gets turned into a ethnic issue and they get hammered. "
The men get hammered for just about anything on here! |
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"You never see men on here say black women only.
Is it thar men arn't as fussy?
You do actually, but when they ask a question regarding black ladies somehow it gets turned into a ethnic issue and they get hammered.
The men get hammered for just about anything on here!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With whom people play with is none of my concern (i couldnt care less), but the one thing that has always intrigued me about this certain thing is the generic statements that go flying everywhere. Black guys are more caring...more understanding..bigger lips...more gentle apprently...etc etc etc
Maybe its cos im a guy I dont understand, but im sure you can find similar qualities in any guy if you look lol "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To consider your first question, I'd suggest that many white women are pretty emancipated nowadays, and are turned on by having black men only, for whatever reason, so they're not shy about specifying their preference for interracial sex. Whats interesting is that white men very rarely publicly express a preference for black women only. I think that this is because white men are implicitly more adventurous sexually .. and a partner's colour isn't such a problem for them, so there's no need for them to have to express a preference. I've had many interracial meets, and thoroughly enjoyed them all. So, for any guys who've never had a black women ... give it a go ... you'll enjoy it immensely. Black women go mad with white men ... its just that they just aren't as emancipated in acknowledging it publicly by expressing their prefences for white men, as white women are in expressing their preferences for black men. Have fun
"I'm intrigued why so many women in a Caucasian relationship only play with black guys. Is it the forbidden fruit syndrome where it's nice to play with one but wouldn't ever date one?, lol "
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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IF a woman has had 7 meets....
2 Black guys, 5 White guys...
The 2 black guys listened to her and what she liked.....Showed respect...
2 of the 5 white guys did the same BUT the other 3 didnt...
What do you think her preference would be for in future?
We base our meets on our previous experiences....and until someone ruins that....it stays... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"IF a woman has had 7 meets....
2 Black guys, 5 White guys...
The 2 black guys listened to her and what she liked.....Showed respect...
2 of the 5 white guys did the same BUT the other 3 didnt...
What do you think her preference would be for in future?
We base our meets on our previous experiences....and until someone ruins that....it stays..."
Those numbers dont really work out though since what you're saying is ou had good meetd with both 2 black and white guys, so its ewually the same. Obviously if you've met more men of 1 race, theres more chances you will get a bad meet |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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Those numbers dont really work out though since what you're saying is ou had good meetd with both 2 black and white guys, so its ewually the same. Obviously if you've met more men of 1 race, theres more chances you will get a bad meet "
Was just an example of how some peoples minds work...
I wouldnt be put off meeting anyone based on the acts of the select few...
But sadly some are... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not sure I am "qualified" to answer the OP's question as I am in an interracial relationship but my thoughts are:
Like all things sexual it comes down to preference. I have a preference for black guys and say so in my profile but it does not mean that I wont meet white guys, at the end of the day it comes down to attraction & chemistry and neither of those is based solely on skin colour.
I would also point out that for every caucasian woman who will only play with black guys there is a black guy who will only play with caucasian women. Likewise there are plenty of caucasian women who specifically state in their profiles that they will not play with black guys. |
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"for hotwife, the answer is that black guys tend to be more gentle with bigger cocks than white guys are.
after a hyserectomy, her pussy don't seem to be so deep as it was, black guys understand this and are gentle, wheras every white guy she has been with has started gently and then got carried away and tries to thrust it all in as hard and fast as they can. this causes her damage and much pain so the meet ends there & then.
not had this problem at all with black guys so they are now HER preference.
disclaimer..... not saying all white guys are like this but no longer willing to take the chance
Lol maybe the white guys are bigger hence y there hurting you lol, "
not at all ...one with an average size went so hard it hospitalized her, i had to pull him away and it nearly ended in a fight because he had not "finished" and he wondered if she could finish him off orally 
now that is disrespectful of our wishes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even though we hold
No preference I (male) would love to watch the mrs with a black guy because of how pale her skin is also is it that you will normally find with couples that go for black guys usually have a 'bull' type personer?
Best not bring the bull thread back up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm intrigued why so many women in a Caucasian relationship only play with black guys. Is it the forbidden fruit syndrome where it's nice to play with one but wouldn't ever date one?, lol "
Not forbidden fruit. More a case of I happen to find Black guys attractive. Simple as that. I am married to a white guy because that is who I fell in Love with and want to spend the rest of my life with. For a life partner I wouldn't favour one type of guy be he Black, white, blue, whatever. But having already found my life partner, I choose to have sex with black guys as I find them physically attractive. No other reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm intrigued why so many women in a Caucasian relationship only play with black guys. Is it the forbidden fruit syndrome where it's nice to play with one but wouldn't ever date one?, lol
Not forbidden fruit. More a case of I happen to find Black guys attractive. Simple as that. I am married to a white guy because that is who I fell in Love with and want to spend the rest of my life with. For a life partner I wouldn't favour one type of guy be he Black, white, blue, whatever. But having already found my life partner, I choose to have sex with black guys as I find them physically attractive. No other reason."
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"I'm intrigued why so many women in a Caucasian relationship only play with black guys. Is it the forbidden fruit syndrome where it's nice to play with one but wouldn't ever date one?, lol
Not forbidden fruit. More a case of I happen to find Black guys attractive. Simple as that. I am married to a white guy because that is who I fell in Love with and want to spend the rest of my life with. For a life partner I wouldn't favour one type of guy be he Black, white, blue, whatever. But having already found my life partner, I choose to have sex with black guys as I find them physically attractive. No other reason."
See that I dont get.....surely not ALL black men are attractive...or have smooth skin...or big cocks...or any other generic statement |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm intrigued why so many women in a Caucasian relationship only play with black guys. Is it the forbidden fruit syndrome where it's nice to play with one but wouldn't ever date one?, lol "
I find black men very attractive, looks and personality wise. I play with men all the colours of the rainbow though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm intrigued why so many women in a Caucasian relationship only play with black guys. Is it the forbidden fruit syndrome where it's nice to play with one but wouldn't ever date one?, lol
Not forbidden fruit. More a case of I happen to find Black guys attractive. Simple as that. I am married to a white guy because that is who I fell in Love with and want to spend the rest of my life with. For a life partner I wouldn't favour one type of guy be he Black, white, blue, whatever. But having already found my life partner, I choose to have sex with black guys as I find them physically attractive. No other reason.
See that I dont get.....surely not ALL black men are attractive...or have smooth skin...or big cocks...or any other generic statement"
No you're right.... Not all Black men are attractive. I don't think I said that they were. |
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"I'm intrigued why so many women in a Caucasian relationship only play with black guys. Is it the forbidden fruit syndrome where it's nice to play with one but wouldn't ever date one?, lol
Not forbidden fruit. More a case of I happen to find Black guys attractive. Simple as that. I am married to a white guy because that is who I fell in Love with and want to spend the rest of my life with. For a life partner I wouldn't favour one type of guy be he Black, white, blue, whatever. But having already found my life partner, I choose to have sex with black guys as I find them physically attractive. No other reason.
See that I dont get.....surely not ALL black men are attractive...or have smooth skin...or big cocks...or any other generic statement
No you're right.... Not all Black men are attractive. I don't think I said that they were."
You said you found black guys attractive.... not 'some' black guys....I misunderstood |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Even though we hold
No preference I (male) would love to watch the mrs with a black guy because of how pale her skin is also is it that you will normally find with couples that go for black guys usually have a 'bull' type personer?
Best not bring the bull thread back up "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm intrigued why so many women in a Caucasian relationship only play with black guys. Is it the forbidden fruit syndrome where it's nice to play with one but wouldn't ever date one?, lol
Not forbidden fruit. More a case of I happen to find Black guys attractive. Simple as that. I am married to a white guy because that is who I fell in Love with and want to spend the rest of my life with. For a life partner I wouldn't favour one type of guy be he Black, white, blue, whatever. But having already found my life partner, I choose to have sex with black guys as I find them physically attractive. No other reason."
That reason sounds good enough to me. I'll just grab my coat.
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"IF a woman has had 7 meets....
2 Black guys, 5 White guys...
The 2 black guys listened to her and what she liked.....Showed respect...
2 of the 5 white guys did the same BUT the other 3 didnt...
What do you think her preference would be for in future?
We base our meets on our previous experiences....and until someone ruins that....it stays..."
Honestly that is racist logic x a black man bombed this thus , a white man did this thus it is the skin colour that pre determines what all men of said colour do x rubbish x
Luckily not everyone is racist some just have a genuine non prejudiced preference x |
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I turn down more offers than I accept from black guys because they don't meet the other bit's that do it for me, being tall and stocky. For me the skin colour is only a third of the attraction. Even then I don't jump on every tall, stocky, black man because if the chemistry isn't there the juices just don't flow. I might be a swingle but that doesn't mean I can't be fussy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well put. An honest independent-minded lady. Its good to see a reasoned opinion on this topic.
"I'm intrigued why so many women in a Caucasian relationship only play with black guys. Is it the forbidden fruit syndrome where it's nice to play with one but wouldn't ever date one?, lol
Not forbidden fruit. More a case of I happen to find Black guys attractive. Simple as that. I am married to a white guy because that is who I fell in Love with and want to spend the rest of my life with. For a life partner I wouldn't favour one type of guy be he Black, white, blue, whatever. But having already found my life partner, I choose to have sex with black guys as I find them physically attractive. No other reason."
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By *ariad.Woman
over a year ago
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For me its a whole spectrum of reasons I only play with black guys. I love the contrast of our two skin colours together, the softness of their skin, the way they make me feel like a million dollars when we play. They are fantastic and considerate lovers and all bar one that I've met have shown me the greatest respect before during and after. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm intrigued why so many women in a Caucasian relationship only play with black guys. Is it the forbidden fruit syndrome where it's nice to play with one but wouldn't ever date one?, lol
Not forbidden fruit. More a case' of I happen to find Black guys attractive. Simple as that. I am married to a white guy because that is who I fell in Love with and want to spend the rest of my life with. For a life partner I wouldn't favour one type of guy be he Black, white, blue, whatever. But having already found my life partner, I choose to have sex with black guys as I find them physically attractive. No other reason.
That reason sounds good enough to me. I'll just grab my coat.
Silk "
Leaving so soon? Damn just when I thought we were getting somewhere! |
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"I'm intrigued why so many women in a Caucasian relationship only play with black guys. Is it the forbidden fruit syndrome where it's nice to play with one but wouldn't ever date one?, lol
Not forbidden fruit. More a case' of I happen to find Black guys attractive. Simple as that. I am married to a white guy because that is who I fell in Love with and want to spend the rest of my life with. For a life partner I wouldn't favour one type of guy be he Black, white, blue, whatever. But having already found my life partner, I choose to have sex with black guys as I find them physically attractive. No other reason.
That reason sounds good enough to me. I'll just grab my coat.
Silk
Leaving so soon? Damn just when I thought we were getting somewhere!"
I was hoping we'd leave the bar together but I'm ok with ordering more drinks.
Fancy a Cocktail Mi'Lady?  |
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The only objective reason anyone can give without the answer being a racist slur is that they prefer the skin colour or face shape beyond that all other comments are based upon a racial stereo type which is rightly frowned upon elsewhere in society
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"I'm intrigued why so many women in a Caucasian relationship only play with black guys. Is it the forbidden fruit syndrome where it's nice to play with one but wouldn't ever date one?, lol
Not forbidden fruit. More a case' of I happen to find Black guys attractive. Simple as that. I am married to a white guy because that is who I fell in Love with and want to spend the rest of my life with. For a life partner I wouldn't favour one type of guy be he Black, white, blue, whatever. But having already found my life partner, I choose to have sex with black guys as I find them physically attractive. No other reason.
That reason sounds good enough to me. I'll just grab my coat.
Silk
Leaving so soon? Damn just when! I thought we were getting somewhere!
I was hoping we'd leave the bar together but I'm ok with ordering more drinks.
Fancy a Cocktail Mi'Lady? "
Maybe Sex on the beach might be fitting? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm intrigued why so many women in a Caucasian relationship only play with black guys. Is it the forbidden fruit syndrome where it's nice to play with one but wouldn't ever date one?, lol
Not forbidden fruit. More a case' of I happen to find Black guys attractive. Simple as that. I am married to a white guy because that is who I fell in Love with and want to spend the rest of my life with. For a life partner I wouldn't favour one type of guy be he Black, white, blue, whatever. But having already found my life partner, I choose to have sex with black guys as I find them physically attractive. No other reason.
That reason sounds good enough to me. I'll just grab my coat.
Silk
Leaving so soon? Damn just when! I thought we were getting somewhere!
I was hoping we'd leave the bar together but I'm ok with ordering more drinks.
Fancy a Cocktail Mi'Lady?
Maybe Sex on the beach might be fitting? "
Good choice. Think I'll order a Passion Driver to go along with yours
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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago
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I have to admit I always find these types of conversations a bit odd. Is skin colour really still an issue for some people these days? I have never chosen partners/meets/FBs on the colour of their skin. I can find guys of any colour, type and creed attractive or unattractive. I judge a person on their character and attitude and that's what attracts me to them. Skin colour has never come into it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have to admit I always find these types of conversations a bit odd. Is skin colour really still an issue for some people these days? I have never chosen partners/meets/FBs on the colour of their skin. I can find guys of any colour, type and creed attractive or unattractive. I judge a person on their character and attitude and that's what attracts me to them. Skin colour has never come into it."
Not an issue, no. Just something I find attractive. I'm assuming that as well as having character and attitude you need to find someone attractive before you jump into bed with them? or do you not need to see what they look like? |
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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago
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"I have to admit I always find these types of conversations a bit odd. Is skin colour really still an issue for some people these days? I have never chosen partners/meets/FBs on the colour of their skin. I can find guys of any colour, type and creed attractive or unattractive. I judge a person on their character and attitude and that's what attracts me to them. Skin colour has never come into it.
Not an issue, no. Just something I find attractive. I'm assuming that as well as having character and attitude you need to find someone attractive before you jump into bed with them? or do you not need to see what they look like?"
Not questioning what people find attractive/unattractive. We're all different and like or prefer different things and of course I need to be attracted to someone before dropping my knickers. I was just stating more that if I were to list my preferences, skin colour wouldn't come into it for me. It's more the generalisations that get me - in my experience they have no true value. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm intrigued why so many women in a Caucasian relationship only play with black guys. Is it the forbidden fruit syndrome where it's nice to play with one but wouldn't ever date one?, lol I am in a Caucasian relationship. I have always liked black men and the taboo of black with white in relationships no longer exists.
If I were to start a new relationship, the colour of his skin would not be a determining factor.
I play with black men because I love your skin texture, colour and the gorgeous sheen it has, your dark eyes and full lips, your sensuality....
Not to say that white men don't hold their own attractions, but I prefer to get my 'extras' with black men "
Yes , black skin looks sooo sexy with oil on it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have to admit I always find these types of conversations a bit odd. Is skin colour really still an issue for some people these days? I have never chosen partners/meets/FBs on the colour of their skin. I can find guys of any colour, type and creed attractive or unattractive. I judge a person on their character and attitude and that's what attracts me to them. Skin colour has never come into it.
Not an issue, no. Just something I find attractive. I'm assuming that as well as having character and attitude you need to find someone attractive before you jump into bed with them? or do you not need to see what they look like?
Not questioning what people find attractive/unattractive. We're all different and like or prefer different things and of course I need to be attracted to someone before dropping my knickers. I was just stating more that if I were to list my preferences, skin colour wouldn't come into it for me. It's more the generalisations that get me - in my experience they have no true value."
Would agree totally about the generalisations - these are normally made by the ignorant. I expect that you have preferences that I don't understand. That is just what makes us unique. |
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By *BC TWOCouple (MM)
over a year ago
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"I have to admit I always find these types of conversations a bit odd. Is skin colour really still an issue for some people these days? I have never chosen partners/meets/FBs on the colour of their skin. I can find guys of any colour, type and creed attractive or unattractive. I judge a person on their character and attitude and that's what attracts me to them. Skin colour has never come into it."
Yes. So many people have on their profile no black or no asians or no whites. Apparently it's their "preference" to play with 1 race only |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not 'black only' but I had a conversation about this just last week.
It's not always just about skin colour, more attitudes, music preference, soh, and what not. More a combination maybe.
One of the big nilla clubs I go to is simply great, and my girlfriends and I were often the only white women in. I don't date period, so skin colour is irrelevant to me.
If I were to date, then soh, music choice and other factors would be what I based that decision on, not the skin colour.
That said, if someone finds black only do it for them sexually, then let them look for that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I (missD) have a preference for black men. I can't explain why I just always have. That's not to say I would have a relationship/sex with someone just because they are black. The first initial attraction is based on looks but beyond that its personality and compatibility the same as anyone else in a relationship. Who can really explain why they are attracted to certain attributes over others. it just is what it is, and not something I really waste time analysing if I'm honest.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me its a whole spectrum of reasons I only play with black guys. I love the contrast of our two skin colours together, the softness of their skin, the way they make me feel like a million dollars when we play. They are fantastic and considerate lovers and all bar one that I've met have shown me the greatest respect before during and after. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes its a bit  for me personally in London lol.
Everyone that i kind of like the look of; its either black men only or no asian. Thats me out of the game all over the place lol
But, its their preference and i respect that. It is sexy though..its almost as if its something taboo (although its not).
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a preference for black guys but I meet others as well. You will just have to have a bit more about you if you're not black.
That said, being black only means you have a head start. It is by no means a certainty and you still have to tick my boxes.
The only issue that bug me about this black men only thing is that it turns some into rude cocky sods and others into wusses.
Some think because they're in a black men only themed environment, they can take what they want. Others can only operate in these environments & can't hold their own if it is an open swinging environment.
For instance, until I put up a picture showing me playing with a black guy, I hardly ever got an email from black guys even though I see they've been viewing my profile in their hundreds. Since I put up the picture I've been inundated by emails from black guys.
Luckily, I am a girl that goes looking for what she wants so, I still get my fill of black guys that tick my boxes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I must admit that I prefer not to go to a night that is centred around being black as most men in there seem to think your easy game just for attending. I find that a complete turn-off.
I think if I was to change my preferences to sleeping with men I wouldn't advertise my preferred preference of black men on my profile like the poster above.
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"With whom people play with is none of my concern (i couldnt care less), but the one thing that has always intrigued me about this certain thing is the generic statements that go flying everywhere. Black guys are more caring...more understanding..bigger lips...more gentle apprently...etc etc etc
Maybe its cos im a guy I dont understand, but im sure you can find similar qualities in any guy if you look lol "
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"You never see men on here say black women only.
Is it thar men arn't as fussy?
You do actually, but when they ask a question regarding black ladies somehow it gets turned into a ethnic issue and they get hammered.
The men get hammered for just about anything on here!"
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"So, for any guys who've never had a black women ... give it a go ... you'll enjoy it immensely. Black women go mad with white men ... its just that they just aren't as emancipated in acknowledging it publicly by expressing their prefences for white men, as white women are in expressing their preferences for black men. "
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"I have to admit I always find these types of conversations a bit odd. Is skin colour really still an issue for some people these days? I have never chosen partners/meets/FBs on the colour of their skin. I can find guys of any colour, type and creed attractive or unattractive. I judge a person on their character and attitude and that's what attracts me to them. Skin colour has never come into it."
I specify skin colour, white, which is superfluous in reality, as I've never encountered a black sub! |
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"I'm intrigued why so many women in a Caucasian relationship only play with black guys. Is it the forbidden fruit syndrome where it's nice to play with one but wouldn't ever date one?, lol "
so many don't too my friend ....it cuts both ways lol
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"I'm intrigued why so many women in a Caucasian relationship only play with black guys. Is it the forbidden fruit syndrome where it's nice to play with one but wouldn't ever date one?, lol "
I tried. Started to fall in love with him. Black guys are addictive  |
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"I'm intrigued why so many women in a Caucasian relationship only play with black guys. Is it the forbidden fruit syndrome where it's nice to play with one but wouldn't ever date one?, lol
I tried. Started to fall in love with him. Black guys are addictive "
Absolutely... But so few want to admit they are no or gay as it frightens them to risk the chance with white real girls... So sad... |
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"I'm intrigued why so many women in a Caucasian relationship only play with black guys. Is it the forbidden fruit syndrome where it's nice to play with one but wouldn't ever date one?, lol
I tried. Started to fall in love with him. Black guys are addictive
Absolutely... But so few want to admit they are no or gay as it frightens them to risk the chance with white real girls... So sad..."
He didn't see me as anything else. |
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I think the taboo factor is left over from colonial times and slavery,when the rich white women snuck into the barn with the muscular black male servant for some proper sex. |
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From the conversations and interactions I've had around this. Particularly with oriental girls (my preference) it seems as though part of the taboo is the fact that there families wouldn't approve - I don't know how well that translates for white women, though it strikes up on that rebellious nerve which adds to the thrill and excitement.
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Hmmm, I am not sure all this overt fetishisation of a person sits well with me.
I guess in most cases, I wouldn't be aware that that's the case for whomever I am meeting. But if I do know that person is meeting me because I happen to be a certain colour that happens to offend the sensibilities of their narrow minded folk and not because I am a human being first and foremost with a personality, then it wouldn't be for me. |
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"Hmmm, I am not sure all this overt fetishisation of a person sits well with me.
I guess in most cases, I wouldn't be aware that that's the case for whomever I am meeting. But if I do know that person is meeting me because I happen to be a certain colour that happens to offend the sensibilities of their narrow minded folk and not because I am a human being first and foremost with a personality, then it wouldn't be for me."
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I think it just comes down to its something that they have wanted to do for a while but for what ever reason haven't done so..and now they have the chance that's all they want to experience.
Fact they only want to meet because of skin colour is nothing more than a preference. In my opinion |
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"Hmmm, I am not sure all this overt fetishisation of a person sits well with me.
I guess in most cases, I wouldn't be aware that that's the case for whomever I am meeting. But if I do know that person is meeting me because I happen to be a certain colour that happens to offend the sensibilities of their narrow minded folk and not because I am a human being first and foremost with a personality, then it wouldn't be for me."
I feel the same way about the BBW "fetish" (I appreciate it isn't the same but it's all I have to compare to).. Want to fuck me but wouldn't want to be seen in public with me.
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"From my experience its not only the white ladies that are interested in black guys alot of times their partners seem to be the ones with the fantasy . "
Definitely this. |
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"You never see men on here say black women only.
Is it thar men arn't as fussy?
You do actually, but when they ask a question regarding black ladies somehow it gets turned into a ethnic issue and they get hammered. "
I think it's because there aren't any black women on here or very few |
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"From my experience its not only the white ladies that are interested in black guys alot of times their partners seem to be the ones with the fantasy .
Definitely this.
Second that "
Some of us have black partners though .... living the dream! |
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"Frisky says she has a big white cock at home ...
So when she goes out she wants something different...
You wouldn't eat steak at home 7 nights a week then go out for a steak...
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Depends how much you really like steak I suppose? |
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"Frisky says she has a big white cock at home ...
So when she goes out she wants something different...
You wouldn't eat steak at home 7 nights a week then go out for a steak...
Depends how much you really like steak I suppose? "
and what if someones vegan? |
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"I think the taboo factor is left over from colonial times and slavery,when the rich white women snuck into the barn with the muscular black male servant for some proper sex. "
Don't rich white men from the colonial times know how perform in the bedroom  |
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"Frisky says she has a big white cock at home ...
So when she goes out she wants something different...
You wouldn't eat steak at home 7 nights a week then go out for a steak...
Depends how much you really like steak I suppose? and what if someones vegan?"
Then their fucked and not in a fab way haha  |
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"I really want my arse fucked by a black men im horny thinking about it x
It's a lot of fun. Trust me on this "
Iv had white cock and dildos up my arse but id really love a big black cock inside my arse x |
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"I really want my arse fucked by a black men im horny thinking about it x
It's a lot of fun. Trust me on this
Iv had white cock and dildos up my arse but id really love a big black cock inside my arse x"
I doubt they are all the same though? Actually, they aren't, speaking from experience |
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"I really want my arse fucked by a black men im horny thinking about it x
It's a lot of fun. Trust me on this
Iv had white cock and dildos up my arse but id really love a big black cock inside my arse x
I doubt they are all the same though? Actually, they aren't, speaking from experience "
White cocks were small/average cocks x |
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"I really want my arse fucked by a black men im horny thinking about it x
It's a lot of fun. Trust me on this
Iv had white cock and dildos up my arse but id really love a big black cock inside my arse x"
You can't feel what colour it is when it's inside. I'm told my pale skin contrasts beautifully against his as he watches it vanish deep into me |
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"It's not true what they say about black man ,ive seen more cocks than a prostuite working in the medical field for over 12 years ...."
Maybe but black men do it better x |
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"It's not true what they say about black man ,ive seen more cocks than a prostuite working in the medical field for over 12 years ...."
Do you get to see them hard?
I've seen more cocks than a prostitute and the biggest ones have all been black bar one. |
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Ha ha this thread is hilarious, at the end of the day what's wrong g with people indulging in something a little different than they have at home?
We were at BMFC at the weekend and we played with 3 black guys not one of them were bigger than me, we all still had fun and A's words were "but fuck me black guys have stamina" it's not even about size for us it's the colour contrast and like people said earlier in the thread it's "taboo" and a little bit naughty.......yes even in 2016.
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"Ha ha this thread is hilarious, at the end of the day what's wrong g with people indulging in something a little different than they have at home?
We were at BMFC at the weekend and we played with 3 black guys not one of them were bigger than me, we all still had fun and A's words were "but fuck me black guys have stamina" it's not even about size for us it's the colour contrast and like people said earlier in the thread it's "taboo" and a little bit naughty.......yes even in 2016.
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I believe its how you fuck and not always about size....so if u cant fuck....you're fucked. |
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"I'm intrigued why so many women in a Caucasian relationship only play with black guys. Is it the forbidden fruit syndrome where it's nice to play with one but wouldn't ever date one?, lol "
No that's not the case at all. I love black guys and prefer to play with them than Caucasian men. Ok I married a white guy. But have dated black guys before being married. How can you be forbidden....when your on here..playing??? |
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"It's not true what they say about black man ,ive seen more cocks than a prostuite working in the medical field for over 12 years ...."
Got to disagree there...only ever seen one black guy with a small cock.... |
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"Ha ha this thread is hilarious, at the end of the day what's wrong g with people indulging in something a little different than they have at home?
We were at BMFC at the weekend and we played with 3 black guys not one of them were bigger than me, we all still had fun and A's words were "but fuck me black guys have stamina" it's not even about size for us it's the colour contrast and like people said earlier in the thread it's "taboo" and a little bit naughty.......yes even in 2016.
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Definitely agree on the colour contrast. Something so sexy about it...watching a black guy with a white lady... |
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"Can we not just like them?"
No no no! Haven't you been taking note of the forum?....we have to be racist, be objectifying black guys, see them only as bbc, fancy something taboo or only want to Fuck a black guy because our husbands get off on it.....
I apologise if i missed any of the other complete tosh that gets bandied about in these threads.... |
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"Can we not just like them?
No no no! Haven't you been taking note of the forum?....we have to be racist, be objectifying black guys, see them only as bbc, fancy something taboo or only want to Fuck a black guy because our husbands get off on it.....
I apologise if i missed any of the other complete tosh that gets bandied about in these threads...."
Damn!
OK, I'll bear that in mind. |
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"Ha ha this thread is hilarious, at the end of the day what's wrong g with people indulging in something a little different than they have at home?
We were at BMFC at the weekend and we played with 3 black guys not one of them were bigger than me, we all still had fun and A's words were "but fuck me black guys have stamina" it's not even about size for us it's the colour contrast and like people said earlier in the thread it's "taboo" and a little bit naughty.......yes even in 2016.
Definitely agree on the colour contrast. Something so sexy about it...watching a black guy with a white lady... "
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"Can we not just like them?
No no no! Haven't you been taking note of the forum?....we have to be racist, be objectifying black guys, see them only as bbc, fancy something taboo or only want to Fuck a black guy because our husbands get off on it.....
I apologise if i missed any of the other complete tosh that gets bandied about in these threads...."
Have people actually said it's racist? Surely it's the best way to fight racism |
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"Can we not just like them?
No no no! Haven't you been taking note of the forum?....we have to be racist, be objectifying black guys, see them only as bbc, fancy something taboo or only want to Fuck a black guy because our husbands get off on it.....
I apologise if i missed any of the other complete tosh that gets bandied about in these threads.... Have people actually said it's racist? Surely it's the best way to fight racism "
Shagging to beat racism? Sign me up!! |
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"Can we not just like them?
No no no! Haven't you been taking note of the forum?....we have to be racist, be objectifying black guys, see them only as bbc, fancy something taboo or only want to Fuck a black guy because our husbands get off on it.....
I apologise if i missed any of the other complete tosh that gets bandied about in these threads.... Have people actually said it's racist? Surely it's the best way to fight racism "
Keep up....any preference based on skin colour is racist don't you know?? |
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"Can we not just like them?
No no no! Haven't you been taking note of the forum?....we have to be racist, be objectifying black guys, see them only as bbc, fancy something taboo or only want to Fuck a black guy because our husbands get off on it.....
I apologise if i missed any of the other complete tosh that gets bandied about in these threads.... Have people actually said it's racist? Surely it's the best way to fight racism
Keep up....any preference based on skin colour is racist don't you know?? "
just noticed im one of the few black guys on this thread I guess most black guys are simply not interested in such topics x nicely said Scarlet Seduction x |
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"It's not true what they say about black man ,ive seen more cocks than a prostuite working in the medical field for over 12 years ....
Maybe but black men do it better x"
x maybe they do |
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"Can we not just like them?
No no no! Haven't you been taking note of the forum?....we have to be racist, be objectifying black guys, see them only as bbc, fancy something taboo or only want to Fuck a black guy because our husbands get off on it.....
I apologise if i missed any of the other complete tosh that gets bandied about in these threads...."
But I like using men as sex objects for my pleasure |
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"Can we not just like them?
No no no! Haven't you been taking note of the forum?....we have to be racist, be objectifying black guys, see them only as bbc, fancy something taboo or only want to Fuck a black guy because our husbands get off on it.....
I apologise if i missed any of the other complete tosh that gets bandied about in these threads.... Have people actually said it's racist? Surely it's the best way to fight racism
Shagging to beat racism? Sign me up!! "
I'm doing my bit on Sunday,and possibly Monday. I'll put my heart and soul into it. All for the cause of course |
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"Can we not just like them?
No no no! Haven't you been taking note of the forum?....we have to be racist, be objectifying black guys, see them only as bbc, fancy something taboo or only want to Fuck a black guy because our husbands get off on it.....
I apologise if i missed any of the other complete tosh that gets bandied about in these threads.... Have people actually said it's racist? Surely it's the best way to fight racism
Shagging to beat racism? Sign me up!!
I'm doing my bit on Sunday,and possibly Monday. I'll put my heart and soul into it. All for the cause of course "
every bit helps |
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"Can we not just like them?
No no no! Haven't you been taking note of the forum?....we have to be racist, be objectifying black guys, see them only as bbc, fancy something taboo or only want to Fuck a black guy because our husbands get off on it.....
I apologise if i missed any of the other complete tosh that gets bandied about in these threads.... Have people actually said it's racist? Surely it's the best way to fight racism
Shagging to beat racism? Sign me up!!
I'm doing my bit on Sunday,and possibly Monday. I'll put my heart and soul into it. All for the cause of course every bit helps "
I'm so helpful |
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"No not racist!!! Oh dear here we go again.
My point completely went over your head. Never mind."
Sorry tongue in cheek.lol...usually get it the neck on posts like this. So came in first...so to speak,;) |
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"Can we not just like them?
No no no! Haven't you been taking note of the forum?....we have to be racist, be objectifying black guys, see them only as bbc, fancy something taboo or only want to Fuck a black guy because our husbands get off on it.....
I apologise if i missed any of the other complete tosh that gets bandied about in these threads...."
Haha. Are you in here wid dat ass causing trouble again? ..can't leave you alone for 5 minutes can i? |
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"Over a meet with a black guy,or white . Would pick a black guy first;) why? Because I like that's all. Simply sexy.;)
And that's the point of the op..just finding out why some do it "
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"Hmmm, I am not sure all this overt fetishisation of a person sits well with me.
I guess in most cases, I wouldn't be aware that that's the case for whomever I am meeting. But if I do know that person is meeting me because I happen to be a certain colour that happens to offend the sensibilities of their narrow minded folk and not because I am a human being first and foremost with a personality, then it wouldn't be for me.
I feel the same way about the BBW "fetish" (I appreciate it isn't the same but it's all I have to compare to).. Want to fuck me but wouldn't want to be seen in public with me.
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Yep, I did see that thread. See what you mean! |
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"I'm intrigued why so many women in a Caucasian relationship only play with black guys. Is it the forbidden fruit syndrome where it's nice to play with one but wouldn't ever date one?, lol "
I like all guys . Black guys are generally big in the cock department . I like huge Cock xx |
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Earlier I said..Because I like and simply sexy. and for me that's true. But have to say, having swung with several black guys. They make the event, all about the woman, verbally and physically.Something, I find, that the white guys I have swung with don't. Not saying this applies to every white guy . I'm sure it doesn't . It's just my personal experience ?? |
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