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A lack of black single women on " FAB " ?
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By *hocmanxMan
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"Often see them at bmfc Arousals  "
Sounds like a gap in the market Mysterioussexyeyes 
You should start your own event BFFC (Black Female Fan Club). Then you would have all the chocolate ladies your heart desires. Most of the ones I know are quite good dancers so they dancefloor will be a hell of a sight.
Actually the more I think about it the more it sounds like a good idea.
I wonder what the financial outcome would be if someone were to do this...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gotta love how people say "Would love to TRY...." when talking about another person.. "
Reminds me of my early start in swinging scene years back when you would read
WLTM
GSOH
VWE
ASL
and all those old short cuts lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A quick look at wiki says that Blacks form just 3.3% of the UK population - tie this in with how vastly outnumbered single woman are on here anyway, and you'll understand why black female swingers are doubly rare.
I've still managed to meet a couple though - its ladies of the Far East I seem to struggle to find. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure why Black ladies are so few on Fab either. I get the point about the percentage of black people in UK stats but am pretty sure if u do the maths the population on fab is not relative to the percentage in the wider population."
Well it may not be if you average it out it still makes sense, lets say you take 100 UK people of whatever ethnicity and only 3 of them are black, then suppose that only a third of those 100 actively participate in swinging then you'd probably be left with a single black person in the remaining 33. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am black, I am on fabs and I'm welsh!!!
Those three things are enough to get in the car and drive all the way to see you!"
and I lactate, see my pic, I bet I'm the only black, welsh, lactating woman on fabs, unique!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gotta love how people say "Would love to TRY...." when talking about another person..
I know what you mean! Like they're a dish on a menu!  "
Agreed, I wouldn't meet with someone because I ticked one of 'their boxes' 
I know of profiles where they simply do not state their skin colour and until you see the private pics you don't know what colour they are. Reason.... they are more than a skin colour  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am black, I am on fabs and I'm welsh!!!
Those three things are enough to get in the car and drive all the way to see you!and I lactate, see my pic, I bet I'm the only black, welsh, lactating woman on fabs, unique!!"
Yes you are very much one of a kind and have something for everybody lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am black, I am on fabs and I'm welsh!!!
Those three things are enough to get in the car and drive all the way to see you!and I lactate, see my pic, I bet I'm the only black, welsh, lactating woman on fabs, unique!!"
Whilst you doubtlessly possess multiple attractive qualities, sadly you also have one that you share with so many women on fabs - being miles away! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am black, I am on fabs and I'm welsh!!!
Now that must be rare!
There are loads of welsh people on here!! "
Just a thought, if shes Welsh, and claims to be a bit rare, does that means she's a Welsh Rarebit? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am black, I am on fabs and I'm welsh!!!
Now that must be rare!
There are loads of welsh people on here!! "
yes but are they black?? And do they lactate?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am black, I am on fabs and I'm welsh!!!
Now that must be rare!
There are loads of welsh people on here!! yes but are they black?? And do they lactate??"
It was a joke! |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
Retirement Village |
"Gotta love how people say "Would love to TRY...." when talking about another person..
I know what you mean! Like they're a dish on a menu!
Agreed, I wouldn't meet with someone because I ticked one of 'their boxes'
I know of profiles where they simply do not state their skin colour and until you see the private pics you don't know what colour they are. Reason.... they are more than a skin colour "
hmmmmmmm this thread seems familiar, wonder if it's been posted before 
Personally the quoted string of posts summarise my thoughts perfectly. There are black men & women on fabs as well as asians but before we get to their skin tone/ethnicity how about we look and see the person first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am black, I am on fabs and I'm welsh!!!
You are black? Sorry, I forgot my reading glasses "
not exactly black, two coffee one milk, but I'm definitely not white! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gotta love how people say "Would love to TRY...." when talking about another person..
I know what you mean! Like they're a dish on a menu!
Agreed, I wouldn't meet with someone because I ticked one of 'their boxes'
I know of profiles where they simply do not state their skin colour and until you see the private pics you don't know what colour they are. Reason.... they are more than a skin colour
hmmmmmmm this thread seems familiar, wonder if it's been posted before
Personally the quoted string of posts summarise my thoughts perfectly. There are black men & women on fabs as well as asians but before we get to their skin tone/ethnicity how about we look and see the person first "
Because it is first and foremost a sex site and not a dating site? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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has a man ever sucked milk out of your nipple & d*unk it ? Ive had this happen to me mmm very nice sensation / this was in my 20s after having both of my children & also it started when I was pregnant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It may be true - I dont know, and I guess it depends upon where you live too.
Sometimes if you stop looking then you find what you want when you least expect it. My one and only encounter with a black lady was in Berlin and she was an american. She was as beautiful and passionate as anyone else no better no worse, just sexy, horny and real. But what are the odds of that happening ?
Also I havent seen a thread that says why aren't there more disabled girls on here either - but I have had an amazing two years with a wheelchair user and the sex was amazing. Past history now unfortunately !.
What matters more is that the other person wants you as much as you want them, not that they fit a wish list.
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By *bbwlizWoman
over a year ago
oldham |
Here's one lol.
It's true, not many black girls around. I have come across about 3 on fab and seen 3 in clubs.
In my experience, black girls don't tend to be open as much about sex. Think it depends on culture..... west Indian and African people tend to be different, then say it was an american girl. |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
Retirement Village |
"Gotta love how people say "Would love to TRY...." when talking about another person..
I know what you mean! Like they're a dish on a menu!
Agreed, I wouldn't meet with someone because I ticked one of 'their boxes'
I know of profiles where they simply do not state their skin colour and until you see the private pics you don't know what colour they are. Reason.... they are more than a skin colour
hmmmmmmm this thread seems familiar, wonder if it's been posted before
Personally the quoted string of posts summarise my thoughts perfectly. There are black men & women on fabs as well as asians but before we get to their skin tone/ethnicity how about we look and see the person first
Because it is first and foremost a sex site and not a dating site?"
on that basis would you shag everyone on here and show them the door/walk off once you're done  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally the quoted string of posts summarise my thoughts perfectly. There are black men & women on fabs as well as asians but before we get to their skin tone/ethnicity how about we look and see the person first
Because it is first and foremost a sex site and not a dating site?
on that basis would you shag everyone on here and show them the door/walk off once you're done "
Nothing in her statement implied anything of the sort - people are allowed to meet those they find attractive and say no to those they don't. With regards to finding a persons personality attractive then yes that certainly is important, but swinging opposed to dating is a far faster paced scene more dependant on the immediate thrill of finding a suitable sexual partner rather than the slower build to a long term romantic relationship, and thusly that initial attraction is far more important, and if a person finds those of other ethnicities exciting for that reason then that's their choice. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
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Nothing in her statement implied anything of the sort - people are allowed to meet those they find attractive and say no to those they don't. With regards to finding a persons personality attractive then yes that certainly is important, but swinging opposed to dating is a far faster paced scene more dependant on the immediate thrill of finding a suitable sexual partner rather than the slower build to a long term romantic relationship, and thusly that initial attraction is far more important, and if a person finds those of other ethnicities exciting for that reason then that's their choice."
...............however for a lot of people I'd want to be seen as a human being as opposed to someone's niche....
some may play up the niches, but I guess a hell of a lot of people would run in the opposite direction...
not saying that people shouldn't have preferences, just the way said preference is expressed can be a huge turn off for some... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here's one lol.
It's true, not many black girls around. I have come across about 3 on fab and seen 3 in clubs.
In my experience, black girls don't tend to be open as much about sex. Think it depends on culture..... west Indian and African people tend to be different, then say it was an american girl. "
And another |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
Retirement Village |
"Personally the quoted string of posts summarise my thoughts perfectly. There are black men & women on fabs as well as asians but before we get to their skin tone/ethnicity how about we look and see the person first
Because it is first and foremost a sex site and not a dating site?
on that basis would you shag everyone on here and show them the door/walk off once you're done
Nothing in her statement implied anything of the sort - people are allowed to meet those they find attractive and say no to those they don't. With regards to finding a persons personality attractive then yes that certainly is important, but swinging opposed to dating is a far faster paced scene more dependant on the immediate thrill of finding a suitable sexual partner rather than the slower build to a long term romantic relationship, and thusly that initial attraction is far more important, and if a person finds those of other ethnicities exciting for that reason then that's their choice."
thanks for quoting my response in your post but you have missed off the initial bit and taken it out of context. If you do wish to quote something i've said at least quote all of it and not just a portion to make your argument stand.
I was going to respond in more detail but a post 2 or 3 above mine from an afro-carrabean guy sums up what i was trying to say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally the quoted string of posts summarise my thoughts perfectly. There are black men & women on fabs as well as asians but before we get to their skin tone/ethnicity how about we look and see the person first
Because it is first and foremost a sex site and not a dating site?
on that basis would you shag everyone on here and show them the door/walk off once you're done
Nothing in her statement implied anything of the sort - people are allowed to meet those they find attractive and say no to those they don't. With regards to finding a persons personality attractive then yes that certainly is important, but swinging opposed to dating is a far faster paced scene more dependant on the immediate thrill of finding a suitable sexual partner rather than the slower build to a long term romantic relationship, and thusly that initial attraction is far more important, and if a person finds those of other ethnicities exciting for that reason then that's their choice.
thanks for quoting my response in your post but you have missed off the initial bit and taken it out of context. If you do wish to quote something i've said at least quote all of it and not just a portion to make your argument stand."
Sorry, explain what it is I've 'taken out of context'? |
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so not too bad 
